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He used the line "it's not you it's me" what do I do?

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Question - (23 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ueen14 writes:

I broke up with my bf about two months ago I meet someone else took the risk we dated and everything was so weird he would never call me all we did was txt in the begging he would always wanna hang out with me come to my house and stuff but yet no sex,ok then things started getting weird he didn't talk to me at all n he said I demanded to much attention he plays sports n was ok with that as long as I hot my place as his gf which I felt like I wasn't,He broke up with me the day before yesterday over txt n I got the famous line ITS NOT YOU ITS ME..... I feel so played n I feel so stupid because I wanted to try and working it out,what should I do to stop feeling like this.. Plz help!!

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A female reader, queen14 United States +, writes (23 August 2010):

queen14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

queen14 agony auntIts funny cuz deep down I no he's not worth it n thanx 4 ur advice... It really did help me 2 grow out of feeling stupid,N ill b ok I just must let go :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2010):

I think you had a great escape here. This guy sounds like a loose cannon who didn't know what he wanted from you or anything else. He was in no way ready for commitment, and seemingly had little respect for you at the end of it. Count your blessings and find a better guy.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (23 August 2010):

dirtball agony auntUsually when you get that line, it really is you, but in this case, he sounds like a bit of a nut bag. If I read that right, you didn't have sex. That's very good. It honestly sounds like he didn't want a relationship, he wanted a FWB. Since you didn't give him that, he moved on. Be glad he's out of your life. He wasn't worth the time.

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