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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get out of this marriage? I'm sooooo bored now that the kids are up and away.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age - i've been married for 28 years and now that the children are grown and gone i found myself to be living a sedentary and bored life with my wife. i'm tired of the monotony and routine and i want to get out of it because i no longer desire to continue down this path, i don't know ... (337 words)

I need to know... does he REALLY like me or are we just friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and about to start my last year of school, a boy I like has just left he went to the same school as me bu obviously in the year above. I started talking to him a few months back when he came to the cinema with me and my friend and his friend, we never realy talked but... (753 words)

If you guys know of any secret methods of talking to each other without getting caught, please let me know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk to her mother. She doesnt care ... (488 words)

Confused but still want to give things a go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, im so confused at the moment. ive been with my bf for 6 months now but were both really busy so dont get to spend much time together. he is busier than me generally so often when we make plans sometimes they never happen. I end up getting quite upset and feel like hes ... (178 words)

Help needed! How can I get things back to the way they were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we recently broke up 2 days ago. We both agreed we bickered too much and it was starting to take a strain on our love. So the only thing we didnt agree on was that I want to work things out and TRY to make it better but he ... (369 words)

My boyfriend thinks I am acting like a girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I stop acting like a wussy around my boyfriend? I met up with him last weekend and it was 3 weeks, since we've been intimate with each other. However besides the lovin', I spent most of the time nagging him. About him not remembering the things I had talked about be... (375 words)

Internet teen chat sites...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay... i told him i like him but he didn't feel the same way. the thing is, i more than just like him and i showed him it didnt bother me that much like i've showed everyone else. i'm breaking up inside, it hurts so much. i go out with my friends every day and try to keep bus... (169 words)

I'm on the pill and I haven't had my period for 8 months. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I've been on a combination contraceptive pill for about 2 years now and my periods stopped 8 months ago. I am sexually active and I tested a number of times and I know I'm not pregnant. I'm not complaining , periods are a pain in the ass, but is this normal? should I go see a ... (57 words)

Help!!! How do I get to know him better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have so much feelings for a boy who doesnt know I exist, we're in the same maths, art and computing classes. I want to be more friendly with this boy. please help x... (37 words)

She broke up with me because I don't have a job or a car

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have recently broke up with my girlfriend of 4 months, we were getting along so great untill this week. she seemed really distant from me and really moody in everything i did, then she broke it off with 2 days ago, saying that she cant do this anymore, i asked her the reasons ... (184 words)

Is she scared of a new relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi i need some advice, i have been seperated from my wife for over 2 years now and never wanted a girlfriend...... until now! i got talking to someone over e mail through work and we are both the same age similar interests and both in the same situation. The trouble is within a ... (139 words)

My father's porn addiction is tearing my family apart :( How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm finding it very difficult to cope with my family atmosphere at home at the moment. I live with my parents and a teenage sibling, and a few times in the past I have stumbled across my father's pornographic materials, like books, videos and magazines hidden around the house. ... (716 words)

Growing suspicions about my friend's wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age - Am i wrong in being suspicious about a friend's wife in our social? circle or would most women find it ok if when they came to join us she gave myself a kiss on the cheek and kissed him on the lips, also, could it be mind games going on trying to make eye contact when she's had ... (85 words)

Will football get more girls to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright well I can get a girlfriend if I wanted one but I am not really looking to date anyone right now just wanna have fun. I am not the worst looking guy in the world cause I can get girls in college to hang out and party with me... I am a good time haha. anyway I am ... (351 words)

Does it offend you when guys do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 17 year old girl in college. When i usto go to school iv'e had a few guys/friends who were attracted to me come up to me and touch my bottom and private areas. I HATE IT! it really offends me. This has happend to some of my friends aswell but when it happens to them they ... (111 words)

Help needed! How do I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been on and off with my partner for 8 years at first when we met I thought it was just a fling, he was in the country for 6 months, but we were in separable. I later found out before he left he was married with a daughter and had other affair with some others. We ... (297 words)

Ideas on how to pass the time during school holidays???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone! My dilemma isn't necessarily about a relationship, but i'm really confused. My summer has been very, very long... it's been 106 days since i got out of school, and i've been bored. My mom and dad are a little lazy; they think that just because i go somewhere with ... (110 words)

I know he's just using me for sex but I can't break things off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I like a guy but i know he's just using me for sex. I know the longer this goes on the worse it's going to be but i don't know how to stop seeing him. I've told him that i couldn't be "friends" anymore but everytime he makes me feel guilty and i give in. I just don't know how ... (126 words)

Is it normal to have sexual urges/ fantasies about my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old boy and I have an obsession over my older female cousin who is 19 and really hot. We've both live together for many years, and when we're at home, she would wear only her underwear (bra/panties and sometimes a shirt) around the house. This makes me want to ... (176 words)

My brother admitted to me he thought of me in a sexual way

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

16 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I am a single mother of 1 daughter. I am 20 and was living with my bf but we broke up. Since then about 2 months ago I've moved back home with my parents. I have a younger brother who is 18 and a sister who is 14. We were all having dinner last weekend and we all spent the ... (635 words)

PARANOID of being cheated on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so worried all the time about everything. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We love each other a lot. However, I worry a lot about his past. The girl he dated before me is beyond beautiful and they dated for a little over a year. They fought a lot, and had ... (204 words)

Intimacy gone after only a year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year now. He's 3 years older than i am, and we are in the 20's. I've been told that in the beginning of the relationship, sex is always great. Well i've read somewhere. But lately i feel that i'm going crazy. I have not made love ... (290 words)

How can I tell if my guy friend likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i would gladly appreciate if anyone helps me with my problem. thanks, i have this friend who is a guy i've always liked him and hes known that too since day one we met. but seems like i wasnt his type. so 4 years passed and now we both are single. he now wants to spend ti... (283 words)

Financial support after the break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has just left me after a 10 year marriage. he's being really nasty and won't give me a penny towards our 3 children. I don't know what to do now because the last 5 years I've been claiming Income Support. As far as the government is concerned my husband and I have ... (176 words)

Am I sending the wrong signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi- In the past year of dating I've run into a number of men, who seem to be far more sexually aggressive than men I've dated in the past (lean over and kiss me without any warning in a bar; try to have sex on the second date despite my being clear that I just want to kiss, ju... (207 words)

My g/f doesn't know what turns her on ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend doesent know what turns her on...whats some things i can try to help her get started?... (18 words)

Is 3 years later too late to report being raped?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well, heres the thing when i was 14 i lost my virginity to rape. i kissed him first and willingly chose to be alone with him so i feel like i lead him on partially and am not entirely blameless in the situation. but then he did it to my friend. she wasn't my friend at the time ... (275 words)

How long after stopping the pill will my periods be back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on the pill for about 2years now and have just come off it because i wanted to have a break and have my normal periods back for a few months but will my periods return a month after coming off the pill or will it take longer? THANKS!... (50 words)

How do I help my friend without getting her into trouble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i felt it would be better to post this here, because i'm worried that if i ask any adults i know that they'll tell the cops or parents or whatever. Anyway, my really good friend is in a bit of trouble, i think. She used to be a really good girl, she's a virgin and the furt... (221 words)

I thought he respected my insecurity but I found out he was joking about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically my boyfriend met up with his ex for without telling me. I was already insecure before this, so obviously this added to the insecurities. We are still dating and I have fogiven him, but I really cannot forget at the moment. It has been about 9 months since this ... (152 words)

When will it be fully grown?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm just curious but when age in puberty is your penis fully grown?... (13 words)

Sudden weight loss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship question but i've tried google and they don't understand what i'm typing. Basically I'm worried about the fact that I've recently lost 11 pounds rather quick and I don't do any exercise or even leave my house for that matter. There is no ... (171 words)

Do most marriages becomes sexless when people are in their 50's?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) age - Do most marriages becomes sexless, when people are in their 50 es,due to boredom ,or biological changes? I really need to know that. Mine is like that , and my husband is off sex. And the doctor doesn't know why,but he says dont worry, it is very general. Most man will get ... (98 words)

Sexual addiction??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Sexual Addiction? Anyone out there have a sexual addiction that has caused a lot of pain and distrust between you and your partner? Did you get help? Can a person in this situation change? Can a partner trust again? Did therapy help? Love to hear input from anyone w... (72 words)

Help in attracting a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I want to know why I can't get or how to get a bf my age or at least close to my age? I'm 16 in my third year of high school and i've only had one bf in school at least! I have dated one 22yr old one 24yr old and a 14yr old! There has been guys my age at my school but they ... (122 words)

Pregnancy or hormones?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend and I have regular sex, of course we never have unprotected sex, at my boyfriends house he has a drawer where he keeps condoms but he also throws our old condoms in there so his mom won't find them. I came in contact with a condom that had "come" on it ... (127 words)

My friend's being drawn to a player

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a friend's issue (seriously) and I don't know what to tell her. Her guy treats her fine but won't commit, is sort of a selfish lover. This guy she met a while ago wants to make her dinner and has been flirting non-stop via txt, I really think hes after sex but she ... (133 words)

Should I break it off with my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I break up with my LDR? He's stopped communicating with me cause he's been really depressed and mad about something and he won't tell me. We've been dating for three weeks and other than this it is perfect. Though he even told me his problem was not about me, I think it... (96 words)

Anxiety over ED is becomming self-fulfilling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all. I would like your perspective on an issue that's troubling me very much these days. Female perspectives are much appreciated. I know it's long, but I need help, desperately. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for seven months now. We are in love... (510 words)

Need another perspective on this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, I've been in a relationship with a girl from another country for the past 4 years. We met in college, but sadly most of the relationship has been long distance. Last year I tried working in her country but it didn't work out, she still lived an hour from where I was ... (296 words)

OCD in a relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Is there anyone out there in a relationship with someone who has an OCD. I have just started a new relationship and she has told me about hers. I have read a bit about them but don’t fully understand the implications yet. I will read more over the next week. Hers is with kee... (166 words)

A question about precum?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This is probably a rhetorical question but is there any way to control precum? I seem to be getting it even just when kissing with my girlfriend, it can get to a point where it can be a bit embarrassing.... (43 words)

My gay friend... or IS he gay???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, so confused! Okay so my absolute best friend in the whole world is gay, and i should make it clear that i love him to pieces so this is serious for me. We share everything together, always go out together and we're so close, everyone thinks we're a couple. But... (337 words)

Why do I always go for the older man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel troubled. I can't seem to get attracted to men my own age or near it. I actually feel repulsed sometimes when they try and flirt with me. I try and feel something, anything but no go. I'd never go for someone twice my age or anything, but for some reason, I have to have ... (146 words)

In love with my stepdaughter...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently slept with my step daughter, she's 20 i'm 40 and now have these deep, deep feelings of love for her and everything I try to I can't get her out of my heart, she has mentioned to other family members that she has feelings for me as well. Her mother and me have ... (163 words)

Is this grief or just a bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have a question. About almost 2 years ago, my husband died tragically from an on the job accident at 33 years old. I was in a deep depression for a long time, and I to this day, am still grieving. I have three children that I have to take care of, so that takes my mind ... (438 words)

The proposal!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello people, last week i went to my boyfriend's country to meet his parents which was in portugal, and they were a lovely family especially his mum. we've been together for 1 year and 5 months now and we normally talk about marriage and kids, however his mum has hinted it th... (91 words)

He's blackmailing me since I broke up with him...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months and he he will not accept that it is over. He keeps threatening to come and house and tell my parents all my secrets and if i don't reply to his texts he rings the house phone which means i have to quickly cut it off before my ... (153 words)

I am mad at him because he isn't telling me things.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets angry at me all the time and can't handle it if i get angry at him. He always tries to make it out like i have no reason to be angry and that i "have problems" I am mad at him because he isn't telling me things. First about adding a girl on facebook, he lie... (236 words)

I get sick from the birth control pills!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) i'm currently taking the pill (Microgynon 30) and it makes me feel so nauseus for a few hours each day and I hate it! I started it about 2 months ago and took it for a month, it made me ill but I continued taking it. Then I had the week's break but I just didnt resume ... (179 words)

Why is this boy sending me mixed signals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a boy recently, very randomly who asked me for my number while I was browsing the CD section at the library. That same boy proceeded to ask me out on a date to which i cautiously accepted as I had not been in the dating game for a year after being in a long term relati... (141 words)

How can I avoid mother-in-law conflicts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to marry me and and wants us to live with his parents, all together. His parents like me, but I have a prejudge concerning the "mother-in-law/son's wife" wars, I'm afraid she might start to hate me. I have concrete examples in my family, and honestly, I don't ... (444 words)

I don't want to walk away from him but he's given me no reason to stay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I need some help making a big decision in my life. Has anyone ever seen that movie Made of Honor? Well, that's kind of the situation I'm in with my boyfriend of the last decade. We're the best of friends and do everything together, but no matter how well we ... (717 words)

I like one of my best friend's ex girlfriends. Do I act on it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like one of my best friends ex's. I don't know how to cope with this, I've known her longer than I've known him but am closer to him as a friend. The problem is I want to try a relationship with her but not to lose my friend, at the moment neither of them know I have ... (142 words)

If I started a relationship with her would it compromise our jobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really like this girl at work, shes a few years younger than me but one of the most beautiful and kind girls I know, I don't really know her that well though, and I would like to eventually have a relationship with her, but the problem is I'm worried she may not be ... (103 words)

I found out my wife was gangbanged by 4 guys and it turns me on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I found out my wife was gangbanged by 4 guys. This was before we met. I am very turned on by this and would love to hear full details. My wife however, says she was drunk and ashamed Afterwards and won't open up about it. She did admit to having multiple orgasams so I know she... (83 words)

Define "harmless flirting" from married mans point of view

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so there's a guy at work who is very friendly with me, I was instantly attracted to him and there was chemistry however as soon as I found out he's married I completely backed off, I didn't realise because he doesn't wear a ring. That hasn't stopped him flirting with me and ... (142 words)

Is it worth trying to see if we will get back together? Or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need advice, my ex split up with me in april and we werent talking for a bit, but in late may we started meeting up and spending time together, this was ok but we started spending everyday together just as friends and she would constantly tell me we werent going to ever ... (246 words)

What should I do about my moody boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his mother financially who is very ... (383 words)

I still think about him, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I been dating this guy, we had a 6 month relationship and during the relationship, I broke up with him about 2 or 3 times because I didn't know what I was doing, and our relationship was long-distant, and I didn't want him to grow tired of me, so I was trying to push him to ... (349 words)

Why do I need to lie just to get my ex to talk to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i did talked to my ex- bf for a couple of days after a month of not communicating with him. But i hope god can forgive me for what i have done just for him to talked to me again// and change his mind set( i hope)...i told him a Drama excuse just for him to talk to me,, and he ... (132 words)

Is it wrong to love my brothers best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm 15 and my brother is 17 his best mate is 18. 3 year differance. My brother and him have always been best mates and I have always got along with him, we always mess about and joke on. I have felt that I have realy liked him for over a year now but everytime I get ... (268 words)

When he says he loves me it doesn't feel the same, why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a weird problem, i dont know whats wrong please help. i have a boyfriend his awesome his the best he makes me smile so much and i just love him so much, but since yesterday whenever he says he loves me it doesnt quite feel the same i dont know whats wrong. cou... (130 words)

Suspicious that my girlfriend may be seeing another guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - To start off, me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 4 years. The last year was long distance since she had moved to a different state over a year ago. This lasted until she broke up with me several months ago. Well since that time we have kept in contact and have ... (353 words)

Is my partner's behaviour regarding my sexual past normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - is it normal for my partner of eight years to need to know every gory detail of past sexual relationships when asked a question and given an answer ,they may repeat the question months or years later if the answer is not exactly the same as before i am accused of being a liar ... (57 words)

I am worried the 13 year old I had sex with is pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 i had unprotected sex with a girl my age but now i have a weird feeling that she's pregnant,and i need some advice... (26 words)

Should I go ahead and see my friend or let him go and sort my life out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been lying to friends that i have a job, and that am doing well , when actually i dont have anything am doing...i am a graduate and however much i have tried to get a job, i seem to fail on every trial....however all my friends are working. this has been going on for ... (179 words)

When is it the right time to stop hiding our new relationship? And is it too soon to talk to my new boyfriend about moving away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok - i am writing cause i am unsure how to handle my thoughts about this situation. I had a boyfriend of 7 years - the last 2 were relatively dead and we broke up about 4 months ago now. Amoungst many reasons we broke up - one of the main ones was that i developed really... (274 words)

Need advice on enhancing my bustline.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fifteen years old, and I am still in my 34 A's in bra size. This may not be a major problem, or something to worry about, but I just don't want my breasts to be this small, especially not at my age. Maybe I'm going through the road when everyone my age worries about looks, ... (209 words)

My teacher would not let go of my hand in class today! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well when i was in drama today i was sitting down and we had to play a game. This game involved holding hands also. Anyway and my teacher came up to me and and put his hand out. i'm like ok this won't take long. so we walked around the room for abput 5 minures holding hands. I ... (99 words)

I can only climax when I masturbate, would this take a long time for my boyfriend to learn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a good sex life. We do it at least twice a week. But recently, with curiosity, I started masturbating. All this time I've never really masturbated to a point where I would climax. It makes me realize that my boyfriend has never made me climax. It has ... (143 words)

Is 20 too young to have a baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im thinking about having a baby at twenty...too early in life?... (11 words)

Torn between two women, please help.

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am really in a bind. Let me give a brief history of my situation. . . I work in an office setting and have been there a year and a half. When I started, I noticed someone there and never had the courage to talk to her. We will call her Jessie. Last summer I met my current... (698 words)

Should I date my ex's best friend?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i really like this guy..problem is he is my ex's bestfriend and i dont no if i should try and make it work with me but its hard coz he flirts with me and stuff??????????????... (36 words)

Any advice for a man wanting to get involved with a single mum with 2 young kids?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Simply put, I'm in love with a 27yr old woman with a 1.5yr old and 5yr old. She and the ex were never married and were on and off a few times over the 6 years(i think). She rents a unit, is a great mum and works long hours in retail to try and stay afloat, the other ex wi... (241 words)

I'm 19 and a virgin!

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19, a virgin, and deeply ashamed to be one. what's worse, is that I have absolutely no experience, not only when it comes to sex, but with anything concerning affection (kissing, ect). recently i've been talking to this guy and I think something might happen, but he is so ... (103 words)

Is she wrong to give her ex a present like this?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've been seeing this girl. I really like her a lot. Yesterday she tells me she is going to her ex-boyfriends birthday party, which I am fine with as they are still friends. Then I find out her birthday present to him is that her and a couple of her big breasted friends ... (175 words)

Should I wait while he gets over his ex?

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16 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - [Mod note - OP's own title] Hello... So, there's this guy... We have dated before about two months ago, it only lasted a couple weeks. We decided to break up because he was still in love with his ex... We stayed good friends. His ex is in a relationship, so he knows nothin... (269 words)

When should I contact him?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago, I was seeing someone who decided to no longer pursue our relationship any further. We ended things over the phone and it was quite sudden. I didn't really ask for many answers. At the time, I just accepted it and didn't want to come off as the clingy ex. ... (372 words)

Desperately need an opinion, things seem to be getting out of hand

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] I have been with my second boyfriend for a year and 8 months, we have never had the perfect relationship but i have found a level of comfort in him that makes me feel like it could be worth while. He was the first person i ever had sex with and let ... (617 words)

Love this girl but she sends conflicting signals. Is it something I'm doing wrong?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so I met this girl in 2009 at my job we talked a couple times and ended it a couple months later. About 4 months later he hits me up out of nowhere in October and eversince then we've been talking EVERYDAY. This was around the time me and my baby mother was almost done ... (376 words)

Does having sex while on my period pose a health risk?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear folks. Is sex during periods(w/out a condom)a health risk?... (10 words)

I love him, but I'm not as sexually attracted to him as I used to be. Is this normal?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it normal to love someone but not really feel as sexually attracted to him after 4 years of dating? I feel like even with the sex aside that i'm not as excited to see him like i used to be but i know that i still love him very much...am i just crazy here?... (55 words)

How should I bring this up?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am physically unable to have sex. How and when do I bring that up to a potential partner?... (19 words)

We broke up, but now he wants me back!

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a little while ago and he has asked me out a couple of times since but I don't want to go through all the mess all over again. We broke up becuz we argued all the time. My friends don't really like him and say I can do much better but I kinda don't care ... (108 words)

He thinks I'm too young, should I give up?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I play baseball on a co-head team and I'v started getting close with one of the guys on the team. Needless to say we've had sex a few times now. Wouldn't be so bad if I wouldn't start having feelings for him. Biggest problem here is that i'm 17 and he's 23. He straight up told ... (179 words)

The mysterious clitoris?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - whats the best way to stimulate the clitorus?... (8 words)

Why would he suddenly stop responding?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a few weeks ago i was on facebook, talking to my guy friend (who i really like) and trying to get him to visit me before i left town for the rest of the year. i really wanted to see him because i hadnt seen him for like a month and he had been asking me when we were going to ... (319 words)

How can I attract a decent guy?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am 18 and really frustrated with how to attract boys, i am a virgin and i feel like that is my defect, i get hit on alot but not by the guys i like :( is there anyway i can stop being single without the mind games that come along with "hooking up"? i just want a ... (62 words)

I procrastinate and don't put much effort towards anything, how can I change?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an extremely generous and caring person. I love to make people laugh and feel happy in general. My biggest problem is that although I know in the back of my mind that I am attractive and tons of people love me, I just can't seem to fucking love myself. I am lazy, I am a ... (204 words)

Is she interested in meeting?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, So I recently graduated and I decided to facebook friend a girl I liked from my drawing class during my last semester at college. We spoke a few times in class. She is now currently a sophomore. So what follows is a facebook message exchange betwee... (363 words)

Amazing guy, second date. Do it or make him wait?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Well I need a little bt of advice so here goes. On Thursday, after a night out with the girls, I came home a little tipsy, wide awake, nothing on TV, and I decided to phone a chatline. (sad I know, but we've all been there?) Anyway, I got chatting to a fe... (599 words)

Dating my cousin. How judgemental will society be?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a male and I'm dating my cousin. She is not blood related to me, but do you think that people will still judge and criticize us? I love her very much and I want to be with her. I just hope people won't judge us.... (48 words)

Annoyed by BF not talking to me but he has his reasons. Am I being unreasonable?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong for me to feel annoyed at my boyfriend for not being able to talk to me? Our work schedules conflict so we can't always see each other in person. He doesn't have a cellphone, doesn't have internet, or any other way of contacting me. He lives about an hour away, so ... (105 words)

Seem to have lost the spark after 2 years of dating. Is this normal?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, So here's the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years now and I guess that the "spark" is kinda gone but we still love each other. Is this normal after a couple years? Please let me know ya'lls opinions. Thanks... (47 words)

Really like this girl but she says the long distance is too much against us. What can I do?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is very long but I'd REALLY appreciate it if you helped me out. Thanks! (we're both 16 years old, both play trumpet, go to diff schools, parents know each other, live 25 mins away) So me and this girl met at a Lions Band tryout last Nov. and we talked alot while... (1060 words)

Worried my partner is cheating on me due to his erratic behavior.

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16 August 2010 (F) age - my partner has cheated before and i took him back. i have caught him out with other lies again. even lying to me about why he has stripppers ph numbers. i question him about things and he yells at me and says he is sick of being question and accused. I feel there might be ... (129 words)

Want to break up with BF but not sure I can face the dating scene. Please help

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no choice but to leave my current boyfriend...I love him but I feel like we have no future. We want different things. Me: marriage, a kid or two, loyalty. Him: no kids, "labels," or marriage. So, I'm cutting ties before I fall in love. But, I'm a bit nervous. I've only ... (103 words)

Pictures of his ex on his comp. How worried should I be?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and for some reason I feel like he will never get over his ex. We have been living together for 5 months now, and he's always been very secretive of his computer, which I share everything with him because I have nothing ... (210 words)

Would these be signs that I am pregnant??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 i think i might be pregnant but not shore i had a normal period buy i have cramps my lover right back hurts i feel bloated my breast feel a lil sore wen i stand up i feel dizzy im always hot i get annoyed easily i sleep more then usual and my stomach feels like i have gas ... (65 words)

Long-distance and her mother hates me. Suggestions on how we can stay in touch?

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16 August 2010 (M)

Need advice on sexual positions, I am short 5' 1/2" he is tall 6' 7"??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So the guy i am talking to is a whole 6'7'' and i am only 5'1/2'' so we tried to have sex and it was completely awkward. i need help on how to not make it so awkward and let him enjoy it! Please Help me! ... (46 words)

No sex until marriage, is there a future in this relationship??

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16 August 2010 (M)

age - I am a male dating a 41 year old woman for 2 years who wants to wait until she is married to have intercourse. I do understand and lover her very much enough to wait if we get married. We have had forms of sex in the past in our relationship as it has been up and down, it was ... (240 words)

How do I stop caring for him too much, it scares me a little??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend brought up moving in together and I don't think I handled it well. I was driving through a hectic carpark at the time so I was half concentrating on not hitting anything and half listening to what he was saying. He started out saying it would make sense for us ... (306 words)

Watching porn and mastrubating since break-up, is this normal?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex-boyfreind is in a fade lower than me n I'm 14 n he btmroke up with me over a text, I don't know how to get over him what should I do... Oh n since we broke up I've been masterbating alot n watching porn 2 is this odd ... (51 words)

Do I trust him or is he a player??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there really anyway to tell the diffrence between being too untrusting/paranoid. Verse intuetion? If so how do you tell? Seriously, I'm very quick to catch on, see what's the truth or lies, and I've been threw and seen it all. I thought I can't figure anything out with this ... (58 words)

The guy I liked started dating my best friend, what do I do now??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My problem is terrible because i love my best friend, we are like sisters and i would never do anything to hurt her. Ok, so my best guy friend who i've known my whole life and kno like the back of my hand started going out with my best girl friend. And i'm extremely jealou... (205 words)

How do I decide between the two of them??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i really like my ex boyfriends best friend but my ex still likes me because when i broke up with him i tryed to make it easy by saying "we rushed into things and i think we should get to know each other better and then go back out if it all works out" and that was a really ... (114 words)

How should I tell my best friend I'm moving to another school?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so for 2yrs now i've been going to a school really far away from my house i've been having to get up at 3:00am (my mom has go to work early and i cant drive yet) go to my grams sleep an hr or so then get on the bus. it is really stressful and im always super sleepy going to ... (124 words)

Should I still want her?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Okay, so this is a bit of a long one. I had a summer romance. She was my first love. Right now I am having an internal struggle. She broke up with me a couple of weeks before she left to her UC. She didn't want that kind of comminment. She only wanted to be c... (497 words)

Bigger and better than ever.

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] ima light skinned african american. i have chinese shaped eyes, 40 C boobs, and i kinda big butt. I need tips on how to look prettier before summer ends and i start middle school in about 3 weeks. also im a little chubby but im shapely. i need tips on how ... (61 words)

Sex was two minutes. He asked me to call the next day but no reply, is he avoiding me cause hes overly ashamed?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] Ive posted this pretty much before but there was more to it and needed an opinion. I went on a date w/ this guy.We had ALOT of sexual tension - just super attracted to each other and enjoyed each others company and it seems hard to hang w/ him w/ out w... (510 words)

Am I gay or what?!

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old male, and I am in high school. I think I am straight but I don't know. I have sexual attractions to males, and I think some males are hot. I look at it this way I would rather date a girl because I like the way a girl thinks, but Idk if I would want a male ... (113 words)

We want to have anal sex, advice?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Peoples ! , Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and we've decided to have anal sex so there wont be a risk of me getting pregnant , will he still have to wear a condom though? and is anal sex good? Thanks , :) ... (56 words)

Why do I push them away?

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] Ok....here I go. About two years ago I got my heart torn apart. It took sometime but im finaly tring to put it all behind me. I've started talking and seeing other women. But everytime I meet someone and things progress, I find things that bug me and I try... (188 words)

One guy has really fallen for me, and he just won't leave me alone!

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend...but um, this guy "Drew" has fallen hard for me. Driving down to just see me as much as possible when he's broke and forced to sleep in his car, I've never asked him to, he claims hes here to see my city but then beeegs to hang out. He's sweet, funny. Before ... (139 words)

She's done a lot of confusing things, but wants to win me back, what should I do??

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16 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl for about 11 months now. We met a month before that while she was dating another guy. Though she said things like she wanted to kiss me, I flat out refused while she said she was still in a relationship with the other guy. She had said things with ... (1331 words)

Summer romances, which do I choose?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently gone on vacation and met this amazing guy. We started out as friends but, by the end we started to really like one another and we even shared a goodbye kiss. Sadly, we live hours away from each other but, we still keep in touch now and talk to each other almost ... (245 words)

He's really annoying me and I don't know why. but I still care about him

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i'm 18 and i've been talking to this boy for three months nbow.. and he's really nice and sweet but might be a little bit clingy because he's not really been in a real relationship. he's going off to colege in two days and he's been trying to see but i dont want to see ... (164 words)

I love my b/f, but wonder if I might be a lesbian?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, I don’t really know what to say but, I'm 17 years old. I have my first proper boyfriend and I really love him, he’s the only person who has ever made me cum. But the thing is, I get slightly turned on by the thought of doing things with girls. I’m completely straight, at ... (138 words)

Am I attracted to my own twin sister??

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im having an overwhelming problem. i have a twin sister, who is the love of my life, literally. i have been attracted to her for a few months now, i would normally think, why dont you ask her out? but this is my SISTER! i am bi, and as a matter of fact so is she, but i am... (210 words)

How do I get rid of this insecurity?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of two years hurt me just under a year ago by seeing his ex without telling me even after saying he wouldn't. I lost a lot of trust for him then. But wanted to give it one last go. So we've been working hard together ever since. Problem is now I have trust issues. I don't ... (120 words)

How do I bring up the topic of marriage and kids without sounding wierd?

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16 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've been with my bf almost a year. He is amazing in every aspect and is everything I've ever wanted. He is the shy type so I was surprised when a few months ago he would start randomly bringing up marriage discussions ie. "I was telling my friend that if we get ... (318 words)