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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I find proof of his cheating IF he is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age - Dear cupid, how can I know if my man is cheating on me or has just grown cold?... (18 words)

How do I convince my friend she is being so stupid to go out with a much older man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my friend met this guy on myspace who wants to "take her out." usually i wouldnt care so much only my friend is 13 and he is 27. she says "i dont care i need affection blah blah blah". I'm trying to convince her that she is being stupid but i dont know how please help?... (58 words)

Terrible University experience...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a terrible university experience! All the people i know that go to university are having a great time and love it. I find myself very lonely and sometimes not enjoying what im taking either. I'm a music student and though i love music, always debate whether what im ... (79 words)

Married too young, regret it but am frightened to end it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i got married 6 months ago, amazing wedding it was truly a fairy tale, long story short, : myself: extremely creative is fond of making things, clothes, bows, drawing - artistic, painting, animal fond, rock/metal music also girly music and films i like a drink... ... (610 words)

He says he wants me but it certainly does not feel like it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it my boyfriend says "dunno" to everything, i say to him "what we doing tomorrow" his reply "dunno" But yet he complains we never do anything, i am forever suggesting things, like bobbing uptown for something to do, then he makes excuses up saying that he never goes up ... (250 words)

Should I keep talking to her even although there's an age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - On a recent holiday I saw this girl who I thought looked nice, she soon then spoke to me shortly after I saw her. We got on really well and I arranged to meet her the following day. My initial thoughts of her age lead me to believe she was about 17 years old (I'm 18), although ... (224 words)

Flirting with intent or just a player???

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I hope someone can help me with this confusion. There is a guy who I really do have a thing for. I think he likes me too and finds me at least physically attractive if not more. The problem is he does flirt around other women, you know the kind of thing,tickling, ... (341 words)

Depressed after night of drunken sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to a party and got drunk. I ended up having sex with a girl I just met. I was a virgin and this is the biggest mistake of my life. I feel depressed and don't know what to do.... (41 words)

Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old girl. i married a 37 african french man. he is so nice guy. in our culture, we do a court marriage first for a couple of months before we can have a complete sex and do the wedding party. in the first two months we played so much together.. kissing.. huging ... (298 words)

Unsatisfying sex life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. I cheatedd three months ago because i wasnt fully satsified in what he was bringing home meaning sex. But how do i tell him - the only way i can cum is by him givinq head to me. When we have sex i think about other things. ... (65 words)

I am atrracted to my fiance's brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My fiance an I have been together for 4 years and we have planned to get married after I finish school, He's a wonderful guy and I do love him but he has completely cut romance out of the relationship. He blames work, tiredness, not being in a mood, and the regular excuses I ... (295 words)

Not that into me or just busy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - confused; Is he really busy or he's just not really that into me? I met this guy from where i'm currently working. It was his first time to be here in this country. He came here for business trip. So, basically it's just a quick trip ( 1 week). We met in one of the hotel ... (494 words)

How can we reconnect and rebuild the trust?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I will give you a bit of a background regarding the situation I am finding myself in. I warn you now, there is going to be a lot of eye rolling on your part and probably an strong urge to slap me! In my defense, my interaction with men did not start until my 20's and the ... (870 words)

An all time low in my relationship! Please help me!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for just over a year now, we had a rocky start to our relationship of me running to my ex and him doing the same, the only difference was I always confessed to what I did. He on the other hand did not; I had to catch him in a lie and so on. T... (668 words)

Sex Responsibly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really want to have sex. I'm not dating anyone at the time, but if i do and she agrees, I want it to be special, and I don't want to get her pregnant. Questions: Will it hurt me? Will it hurt her? Are condoms 100% effective? Are there different kinds? ... (71 words)

Is it ok to be the other woman in this circumstance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

- I have had an Internet friend for 3 years because he thought for a while, that he wanted a girlfriend as his wife had been having an affair. In the last year he developed, and was treated for prostate cancer and still his wife lives publicly as his wife, but privately ignores ... (252 words)

Gaming Obsession

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question.. I love my boyfriend very much, so much that we're looking into getting a flat together, however i have 1 slight issue.. How do i deal with his gaming obsession, there is this one game he plays that, basically, i actually get jealous of. It's an online g... (176 words)

Did I Rush It?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. So the first day I hung out with a guy we had sex. We've been hooking up every so often for a little over a month and I'm starting to like him. We discussed dating and he said "He'd like to stay single for the summer cause he never does well in a relationship. And for ... (107 words)

Unreqited love - best friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what should i do? so.. a few months ago i posted another question, cause i had a problem.. i started having feelings for my best friend (female best friend) and we were almost like brothers we were best friend, i wanted to tell her what i feel but at the same time i didnt be... (278 words)

Is being pregnant a turn-off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, some advice from a man would really be helpful. I am 7 months pregnant, and my bf hasn't touched me in a long time. Is being pregnant a turn off for a man, is it because I am getting fat. We rarely make love anymore and when we do, he only worries about ... (105 words)

I think my boyfriend is lying and cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid i thank my boyfriend is cheating on me because when i frist meeet him he was all normal acting. Then all of the sudden a few more months went bye an he starting to change a lil bye lil he's blamming me on cheating when im not and having quick sex with me a few times ... (193 words)

Heart broken and can't get over what happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello every one I am a 28 year old male and this is my questions and story. Two years ago I was getting read to deploy to Iraq in February 2009 and I met a girl in November 2008 at an old college party and the connection was instant. We spent as much time as we could togethe... (909 words)

His porn addiction is making me insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i feel for all the women who have gone though this. why cant men understand it makes you question yourself has a person. I am not against porn but it hurts more then ever knowing he relieves himself to other women. he says its not the person its what they are doing i do try ... (436 words)

Oral sex & Catholic church equals sin??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is oral sex between a married couple considered a sin in the Catholic Church?... (14 words)

Personal compatibility offsets the so-so looks? Should I go see him again to see ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I am struggling with something similar at the moment. I just got back to the states after 20 days in Mexico where I met this amazing guy. He is perfect in every way - personality wise and we are very compatible with similar interests, values, etc. Thing is I am not ... (262 words)

Can we be friends or do I have to choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been best friends with 2 girls, who are also best friends with each other( girl a and b)for a few years. I got intimate with girl A, long story short it didn't work out, i feel like we left off on a good note and are still ok friends even though we dont hang out anymore. (I ... (297 words)

I think my girlfriend shaved 4 years off her age, should I confront her about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has always been very private. I don't know her address, or have met anyone in her family, or friends, nothing. It just the two of us. She has met my friends after hesitation but only two time. We have been together for 4 months or so. We recently got in a fight ... (474 words)

Friend's crush has got out of hand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've got a situation that is getting a bit out of hand. A guy in my class at college has a crush on me. While of course this should be flattering, his fixation has got out of control. When I first met him, he was this painfully shy guy who was pretty isolated. I've a... (773 words)

Did my husband touch my sister inappropriately?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - my younger sister age 13 stayed at my flat the other night wiv my 4yr old daughter. Our pc is in my daughters room so wen my hubby came home from he went on the pc after i went 2 bed. The next morning my sister went to her study class as usaul while i was asleep but didnt come ... (154 words)

Partner said they wanted sex and then changed mind with no reason. Fair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age - My partner and I have sex on occasion. We were with friends and my partner discussed in front of our friends "gettin some tonight" I had plans to go for a walk with my daughter later in that night. I was given a choice between the walk and "getting some" I told my daughter I ... (185 words)

Finding a casual sexual partner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it so difficult to find a casual sex partner? This guy I just slept with a few weeks ago, in the beginning we had an understanding that I wasn't looking for a relationship, just some fun. But since we had sex he has become clingy and needy and jealous. I told him to b... (189 words)

Am I a virgin man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Once, my colleagues asked me " r u a virgin"? And i did not know how to answer them. I am wondering how '" virgin" is defined? Lets say if i have never had sex with a girl, but i have done masturbation. Then am I a virgin man? ... (49 words)

I dreamt about my boyfriends brother last night. And this isn't the first time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a dream about my boyfriends brother last night and he is the one that I kind of like!! I broke up with my boyfriend just last night because I feel guilty and I want to get over this feeling for his brother or find out what there is between us before I get back together ... (443 words)

Do they ever come back when they don't know what they want?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - me and partner have just split up im devasted he told me 4 months ago it was over but he still lived with me hes become very depressed he lost his dad last year and it has changed him he lived there now we have a little girl togehter weve been togehter 4 yrs he said been ... (92 words)

I get no pleasure from sex at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had sex with my boyfriend a number of times and no matter how long we have sex for i feel no peasure what so ever, at first it just hurts for about 5 minutes then after the pain goes i dont feel anything? if i try use anything else to pleasure me it doesnt work. he ... (75 words)

I do love her but I hate her past, her attitude towards dating, her tendency to rebound alot.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Im dating a girl for over a year. Thinks are pretty good, she's ambitious, has a great job and things were going good. She moved into my apartment and it seems our relationship was pretty good. I'm in my early thirties and shes in mid twenties. No woman is pefect and here ... (534 words)

Back with the ex but not ready for sex. Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - DearCupid, I got back with my ex (whom was my first time) few weeks ago. We live in different cities and we decided to give it a go again, seeing that by the middle of next year I will be moving to his city because of a work transfer. The only problem is that I dont know... (151 words)

He's always got excuses not to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been going with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and things seem to be going really bad, we argue alot about anything and everything and i feel like there is a serious loss of communication on his part. I know he loves me alot, he spends all his time with me, will do ... (213 words)

I just want to know how a guy is able to get over someone so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I just want to know how a guy is able to get over someone so quickly. A year ago he was telling me he loved me even though I told him we had to keep the relationship as "sex only". He knew he couldn't have more because I was separated and still trying to work through my own ... (252 words)

Every time he goes out he lies about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My b/f and I have been dating for almost a year now. We live together and have been for the past 8 months. Aside from our differences and quarrals things are great! Of course we need time apart; and I've told him he can go out, but every single time he does he lies about ... (115 words)

I am repulsed by my feelings for my teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what would you do if you were in my situation? After a few years of non-stop studying, I am terrify to find out I possess some sort of feeling toward a teacher in my school.(and yes, I am a highschool student with hormones running strong) I didn't know when I suddenly sta... (286 words)

Was it wrong that I had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem now that im starting 11th grade boys are very tempting about sex. my boyfriend and i of 3 years had sex and now i feel all weird at first we didnt say that much 2 each other and now we talk alot.. for me loseing my virginity at 16 felt so weird and nast to me. ... (84 words)

He caught my eye but my family says keep away from him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I need help I met this lad a few weeks ago while he was at work he kept winking at we blowing me kissed saying he loves me and asking me for my number.I`ve been going to the place were he works for years now and never notice him before but then he caught my eye.I want to ... (111 words)

Should I let him have a choice between his girlfriend and me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, what do i do now? I have known and been close friends with a guy for a year. We speak every day by text / phone and I see him a few times a week. We get on really well but there has always been the impression amongst people that we have feelings for each other. ... (377 words)

He chews, and he lied about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been lying to me for 6 months. We've been together for 9 months. He was a constant chewer before he met me. In the beginning of our relationship I asked him periodically to quit because i find that habit repulsive. He just laughed it off and kept doing it. This ... (364 words)

15, pregnant and don't know how to tell my parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and i have just found out i am pregnant, im not sure what i want to do yet. When i think about getting an abortion it makes me sick to the stomach but im not sure keeping it is the best option. my main worry is my parents, i dont know how to tell them or how they are... (71 words)

Messed up cycle! Whats that all about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, i met him when i went to his town to stay with a girl mate of mine who introduced us to each other last october for a week, me a him got on so well i ended up cheating on him with my now ex(bad i know, no lectures please) it was ... (259 words)

Will she mind that I'm less experienced than her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've got a partner at the minute who I am and have decided that I'm going to have sex with. She has the coil, and I will wear a condom so I know it will be safe sex from STI's and pregnancy. But she's had a sexual relationship with her previous boyfriend of two years from ... (91 words)

Why is sex sacred to women after marriage when they were so promiscuous before.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't understand this. Before she met me, my wife couldn't care less about who she slept with. She was a party girl and gave it up to pretty much anyone. Now that we are married its supposed to be this sacred bond that only she and I share? I don't get it. How do you have ... (229 words)

My insecurities could push him away from me and closer to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi :) I have some worries at the moment about my boyfriend of 1 year and a friend that's a girl he has made on the Internet. They were friends before I met him, although not that close and they have never actually met in person because she lives far away. Over the past... (406 words)

Porn after sex

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but everytime I put my two cents in... (283 words)

Pre-owned jewelry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs now and I wanna be different and propose. I found the perfect ring for him on Zales but its pre-owned. It was returned before the 100th day of its purchase. That's the only ring I really like but I don't think anyone would ... (64 words)

I don't want my friends to drop me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Two years ago I started secondary school knowing a few people including my "best friend" Laura. Anyway I became quite popular so much so that lots of boys started paying me attention this was alright with everyone except Laura who had a gigantic crush on one of them. So she ... (163 words)

My friend is always late and it drives all of us crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Frustrating! The only word to describe my friend! Everytime we organise to do something she runs LATE!! And what's even more annoying is she never has any real excuse as to why!! Now I can understand people being 10, 15 minutes late etc.. But with her it's always half ho... (229 words)

I'm confused if I should break it off with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i instantly fell for him... i walked into a bar and within 5 minutes our eyes met and were fixed on each other.. 5 mins later we were talking and the rest is history! The first 2 months were great we were totally into each other an... (259 words)

Will sex be awkward for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, and have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. We are very close, he knows everything about me, and we even talk about things that I'd usually talk to my girlfriends about. Sometimes we have our moments where we talk about...sex... And not that I don't feel I'm ... (345 words)

Why would she choose to display such photos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I recently met an ex and we got on very well. She is still the same great person from back then. I suspected she was not very happy with her partner/kids..from the way she described them. When we were a couple she was very pretty (BTW not the reason that I dated... (130 words)

Gf not talking to me on an emotional level anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf says she has trouble talking to me because i'm doom and gloom, she wont say it to my face and i think its a bs excuse not to talk to me over msn. she pours her heart out and makes more of an effort to talk to him, he relays goings on to me. iv been getting increasi... (245 words)

Why do friends of a guy make noise when you pass by them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - he used to make lot of eye contact and smiles at you whenever you look at him.if he is standing with his group of friends he used to move out so that you notice him.does that mean he likes you? but you stop looking at him as he never approached.then he tries to make yo... (121 words)

I'm a kink. He's not. Will this eventually cause problems for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Quite honestly, I'm still young (18) and am still learning what I like. Nevertheless, based on my friends' experiences and tales (for whatever those are worth lol) I'd consider myself to be fairly kinky, as I'm into bondage and domination. The first guy I was with and I w... (264 words)

Confused and worried about relationship and also interested in friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. I have 2 problems. First problem is that even though I love him very much, I am afraid of what's going to happen with us. In my 3 past relationships, they have not lasted longer than a year and a couple months. Is ... (313 words)

I miss my ex physically. Should I ask him to be FWB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I miss my ex.... physically? Alright, I don't understand it. I truly do not want to be with my ex boyfriend ever again. He's a complete tool and neither of us wants a relationship. But I miss the stuff we used to do together. I miss having someone to kiss and hug and say cute ... (109 words)

I don't want my best friend dating this guy because I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Issues with the best friend. So, recently me and my friend J(that's what we'll call her lol) have been hanging out with this group of guys. M, A, and S. S is one of my best guy friends on the planet, so I have absolutely no feelings for him other than friendship. M is older ... (220 words)

I'm not sure if I'm gay or straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 13 year old boy and i find guys attractive. but i dont want to. i want to be straight. though i cant figure out whether im gay or straight because one day i feel like im gay. then another i feel straight and then like im thinking am i bi? ): this bothers me alot i really ... (147 words)

No affection! Has my husband stopped loving me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone,am 24yrs n i av bin married for an year now,my husband is a wonderful guy n i love him alot.the thing is lately he has bin very distant from me.hes less sensitive 2 ma needs i.e no cuddling unles when we r in bed and he wants 2 hav sex,he is somewhat embarassed or ... (127 words)

Is it wrong for me to be missing my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok..so i have only been in two relationships that matter to me in my life. I was with this guy...we'll call him brandon, for 2 years and he was my first everything. (love, kiss, and i lost my virginity to him). He broke up with me and i was devastated so i got with another ... (167 words)

My ex acts like she still wants to be friends but others say she doesn't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick one. My ex and i were on good terms for about 3 months after we broke up, then my ex called me one day to tell me she was in a new relationship. Well, then her best friend (who didnt like me since i broke up with her) started kinda getting into it with me, whic... (293 words)

He's in the military and I don't know how to tell him I'm pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20years old and at the moment I'm a military girlfriend I just recently found out that I was pregnant and I don't know how I can tell him in a matter of his 8months in training and also can someone give me some parenting tips for a healthy pregnancy? Thank you. *jaylee*... (53 words)

His stupid text message has made me lose all trust in him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey There Iv been with my boyfriend for only 4 months. In this time iv had problems with him being over protective of me and not trusting me even tho iv never done and never would do anything wrong. Im pretty laid back and i know he texts and catches up with his best friend ... (346 words)

What if he wants me just for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if he just wants me for sex? Its a guy I met about 2 weeks ago. I really like him. But it has crossed my mind b4 that he may just want me for that purpose. ... (40 words)

She wants me to help with her bills but she knows I'm unemployed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i have a girlfriend who i stay with at night's.. i do her yard work dishes and laundry..alway;s helping her out fixing things at her place. i dont live ther tho..right know im unemployed and she want's me to help pay her bill's.even tho she went out and bought a new car, which ... (97 words)

I don't know what to wear for the 1st day of school!

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well schools coming up!! and and idk wht to wear for the first dayy :(. im a normal teenage girl.. but ima fashion diva, party girl, model, cheerleader, crazyy women.. and this is the first year idk wht to wear!! this is aweful :(( Plz HELP ME!! give me hair ideas,... (167 words)

What do guys think about piercings?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - do guys like girls with there belly and and lip pieaced...??... (14 words)

I am a virgin but my girl is not.

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7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl, whom I'm absolutely in love with, for about 8 months. We've had a few rough roads, but most recently, she told me that she was being stupid and had sex with her ex boyfriend and six days later he dumped her. I don't know why, but this was the most ... (102 words)

Confused by my guy's behavior

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I met a guy about 2 months ago. The very first week, we got really close. We talked about being together long term, we said I love you, (he was the one who said it first) and he was very sweet and always saying how much he liked me. I will admit that it all happened very ... (205 words)

Who do I believe? Him? or Her?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago now probaly about 2 months ago my boyfriend went out with his mates to a pub. When he got home he called me and told me that this girl hit on him and he told her to f*** off. The next day i signed ontop facebook with my boyfriend and sent her a message saying ... (215 words)

My boyfriend left me after my abortion..

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i got pregnant, and had to do an abortion because of medical problems and also my boyfriend didn't wanted to be a father. He told me he wasn't prepared. But having so much problems because of my health and a father that didn't wanted the baby, we took the hard decision of ... (450 words)

She won't let go of her cruel boyfriend what can I do?

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7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl who is studying in the same school as me for almost 2 and half years. She's in a very rocky relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. She knows the nature of her relationship. Her bf is a very possessive guy. She has feelings for me ... (166 words)

She's broke up with me, but says she'll date me later??!!!!??

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7 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was dating a 20 yr old for over a year and I'm 31 yrs old. We recently broke up but still talk. My question is she says she loves me as a person and says she would date me at a later time when I was ready. What does that mean? Also she says she is keeping an open ear for me ... (72 words)

Why would he keep pics of me?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I know he still has pictures of me but told me he got rid of them all. Why would a guy randomly just tell you that he got rid of all of your pics and then only later to find out he at least still had one left?... (48 words)

Broken hearted and lonely seeks much needed advice.

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod Note....OP's own title. Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old single girl who has been in several long term relationships in the past few years. Recently however, I've had no luck whatsoever on the dating front, and find myself wondering if I will ever feel love from a man agai... (176 words)

He wont sleep with me, I don't know why

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod Note, Your chosen title has already been used before, so i've had to give you a different one. So when my daughter was born not 2 long ago she was extremely sick it took a month just 2 bring her home but when she got home we realized that she doesn't sleep at all so my fi... (143 words)

Help!! I had a party today and i'm:

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OP's ownm title: help!! i'm drunk i went to this party and i did a pole dance in front of mans my boyfriend was waiting for me like 2 hours. i haven't told him yet. what to do??... (42 words)

Who is lying? my girlfriend or my best friend.

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7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i need advice. I have had a close mate for about 6 years now and from what i knew of him he was a extremely genuine guy, all my group of friends seem to think so. I got a new girlfriend recently and her and this friend of mine used to be close friends for about a year a while ... (503 words)

I am blinded by this douche bags good looks, but he's no good!!

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so recently I've had this very strong urge in wanting to have sex with this guy who I have thought has been soo good looking/hot. but the thing is, he's a total douche bag! And I am no way into his douche bag ways, but he has a good personality and beyondddd good ... (190 words)

I've been dumped by my friend, and I don't know how to move on

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7 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I used to be friends with a girl I’ve known from high school, I'll call her "Anna". Anna seemed to be a very different but very sweet girl. We had some things in common and both needed a friend. (We were the only two single gals in our group.) Eventually we became best ... (306 words)

What exactly does being a virgin mean?

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7 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How is a virgin man? Does it mean that the man has not have sex with any girl? What about if he does masturbation then is he still a virgin?... (30 words)

Has he used me for sex?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave this lad from work my number and we've slept together once. He rang me a week later n asked if I wanted to come out but I was at work, I havnt heard from him since. Did he use me... (42 words)

How do I make things easier to have sex?

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7 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is a virgin, and im not. i have fingerd her and she has tossed me off.. she says shes ready but shes really awkward to like start ''things'' with. what can i do to make this tention go away? or start things easier? thanks.... (46 words)

Will he know I'm not a virgin?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a virgin, but my boyfriend isnt. Will he know that i am if we have sex?... (18 words)

How can My best friend and I get back on track?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well.. me and my best friend have been friends for about 6 months, we liked each other alot but never said anythin to each other but we became really good friends, i can tell him anything and he can tell me anything, but lately we havent been getting on, his other friend ... (121 words)

My friends new b/f, is in an open relationship with another woman, should I tell?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - here is a dilemma, a friend of mine is in a brand new relationship. The guy she's dating, unbeknownst to her, but I happened to find out, has been in an "open" relationship with another woman for over 10 years. He made a decision to keep up his sexual relationship with this ... (90 words)

Should I take him back after the baby is born?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody,i really appreciate that succesful team;and i thank you guys for your advices.i 'm pregnant and my boyfriend runs away during all that period.he has never told me if we broke up or not.i just lost his word,attention for all the 9 months of my pregnancy.do ... (75 words)

what do guys mean by take care?

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7 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Mode Note OP's own title: I have a close guy friend,we've agreed we have feelings for each other but he isnt single and Im not prepared to take things further in this situation. We crossed the friendship boundary once but have gone back to friends. We are in regular cont... (229 words)