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30-35,
anonymous
writes:(MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted together)1)-I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years.We get along great , told each other things ect...But , the thing is when he goes shopping he mentions it's with a girl then when he's got homework from uni he does it with a girl so , I asked why he always hangs around with girls and he goes because , he only has a few guy friends and most guys don't wanna be friends with him ( they act like girls when they see a new girl like say rude things ect ) he's not gay , he's not a guy that wouldnt fight , he dresses in expensive things from what I know and he seems really funny.Now I don't know if I feel like i'm worried about him always hanging with girls he asked if I mind and I said no but , i'm not sure we don't see each other and I don't know what he could be getting up to.He doesn't act perfect which I know means he isnt cheating ( from what I know )because , most guys which act perfect with a girl 99.9% of the time are cheating.Now , I don't know where I stand on this if I mind or not so , I would appreciate other peoples thoughts because , I am only one person and I cant seem to calculate any bad things or good things.Another thing , he's meant to be coming next year and it's gonna be kind of awkward anyone have any tips on what to wear , to say , to do? thanks to everyone in advance.Any advice will be appreciated good or bad. 2)-I have been in a long distance relationship and we haven't yet met.He's the type of guy that would want to take me to restaurants ect.I'm a fussy eater and I don't have a massive appetite so , I don't want to go on those kind of dates.I don't like the idea of dates they make me feel uneasy I know it's to get to know the person but , i'm more of a person that would like to sit at home and talk maybe watch a movie joke and mess about that kind of stuff.I don't know how to tell him and I know I should be honest but , I want to put it in such a way.thats one problem.I haven't seen him before and I aint sure if we'll get along in real life any ideas on topics to speak about anything that will help.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Two years in a LDR and you haven't met? Wow. That's a lot of hanging out with girls..I've noticed that guys who have lots of girlfriends are very flirty with them. He's more of a ladies man than a man's man. Those guys I don't trust, but that's just me. You don't know if he's cheating you have no evidence, but if you go on to suspect it even when you meet him then I say go with that female instinct, it's there for a reason. You're a little too young to be in a LDR, I'd go for someone in your in own area.
What to wear, I change my outfit at least 5 times before I find what I'm going to wear. Wear something your comfortable in yet flirty. I suggest a cute dress, or a skirt. As far as topics for conversation go I would take the time to get to know him, and for him to know you more.
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