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*ocoapuffs
writes:Hey everyone, im very confused and depressed, i have fallen in love with my 24 year old english teacher who also teaches math coaches football and baseball this happened when i was in grade 10 i just cant get over him, ive never been in love before im 19 years old and its making me depressed, i know he has a thing for me he looks at me all the time, talks and flirts with me when i walk down the hall we always catch each others eyes.Now im in grade 12 and i really want to confess i just cant stand it, if i cant tell him how i feel its gonna hang over my head for the rest of my life, i tried to find somebody my age but its impossible nobody can replace the way i feel about him. What should i do, im a noobie in love, He doesnt say HI to me anymore like he used to i feel like im dead to him now and it just really sucks, help :((
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 August 2010):
Your response is so out of order it's unbelievable. You sit there and say 'thanks for nothing'.
Are you not listening!?
YOU CAN RUIN HIS LIFE!
What is it with teenage girls and teachers! You would rather him have his life ruined than listen to fact! Shocking.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Oh, so you want someone to agree with you and tell you that your teacher is in love with you...sigh... search for "I love my teacher", we get probably over 10 stories a day, just like yours. But of course, your story is probably different, your probably the one girl in a million who will end up married to her teacher forever...Good luck, hope they don't throw you out of school if you make the mistake of thinking this guy is boyfriend material.
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reader, Cocoapuffs +, writes (27 August 2010):
Cocoapuffs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnot really what i was looking for, someone who is in a similar situation would help, cause i would be more understood, thanks for nothing guys really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Honey, do you know how much of these we get? Of girls thinking their teachers are "flirting" and "Catching their eyes" and "Treating them special"?
CaringGuy knows whats up. You're reading into him because you want something to be there, and a teacher is easy. He always has to be nice to you. He looks at everyone, it's his job to watch the students. It's his job to be as friendly and kind and as helpful as possible. We have been right on every occasion so far.. Not sure why you think you're so special.
But even if he does fancy you, it's off grounds. You shouldn't go there. Once you're out of school, chat him up. Until then, you could ruin his entire life. He could go to jail. He will never work as a teacher again. Even if you are of legal age, a teacher can never be with a student. It is ILLEGAL. So wait, and then you will get your answer.
But trust me, I have been friends with many male teachers and they look on all of their students (even the 18+ ones) as little kids and love them dearly almost like their own kids. None of them ever see them as even possible items. Even the younger teachers.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 August 2010):
Uh-huh. I had a friend like you. She thought the teacher liked her. Turned out he did. He then got jailed. She ruined her life. You have no right to ruin his life. I don't care what you say about 'atmosphere'. You came her asking for advice. I'm telling you straight, nothing can happen. And, not to put a fine point to it, but I'm a male and I know how males think. He doesn't' even say hi to you. What does that say? You can't ask for advice then throw it back in someone's face. If you care for him that much, have respect for the fact he could get fired, and back away until you left school. After that, say something. But until then, if you think that highly of him, then you need to understand if anything happens, you get expelled, he gets fired, you ruin his life. Stop being a schoolgirl, start being an intelligent girl, which you are. You don't want to ruin his life.
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reader, Cocoapuffs +, writes (23 August 2010):
Cocoapuffs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry but im the one whos there you arent, you cant read the atmosphere
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 August 2010):
You read too much into his actions. There isn't anything there at all. He's just a teacher. He will catch the eyes of everyone in the hall, he will talk to everyone, he will smile to everyone because that's what he's paid to you. He knows as well as anyone else that it would be illegal for him to have anything to do with you, because you are a student. I'm afraid you can't tell him, because he could get into trouble, and you could end up ruining any chance of further education. You have got to see this for what it is. He's a teacher, you're a student. That's as far as it will ever go. You must let him go, or you'll wind up being the 40 year old crazy cat lady or something. Other guys will come along. But you're reading too much into this. He doesn't' fancy you at all. He's just a teacher.
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