A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:when your masturbating how do you know you've had an orgasm? and how can you have an orgasm? what do you do to get a really good one. i need help. ive had sex heaps and ive never had an orgasm and ive masterbated but im not sure if at the end i really orgasmed or it was something else. help anyone?
View related questions:
orgasm Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (23 August 2010):
Hi there. You would know if you had an orgasm almost certainly.
It's a tingling beginning starting at about your tailbone through the core of your being but centres around the genital area and lower abdomen mainly.
At first the genitals will be dry, then as stimulation continues moisture will rise out of the vagina, use that moisture to stimulation the clitoris so it doesn't get sore.
Stimulation of the clitoris which is at the front of your pubic bone (about where the male penis is located), will bring about tingly feelings, which if continued over a few minutes will develop into a very intense tingling of that area all over the nerves of the genitals. This intensity is known as an orgasm.
Orgasms can vary from mild to intense and everything in between. Different on every occasion. Nothing is normal or abnormal, just different.
Just enjoy the experience and don't rush or get anxious. Masturbation is a very good way to discover what pleases you and what doesn't. It will also help you later, when you get into a relationship with guys, as you will know what you like and don't like.
Hope this helps you. Best wishes.
A
male
reader, ant666  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 my GF finds it hard to orgasam but there is one product on the market that helps her its a lube from durex its called play o
this is the product
http://www.durex.com/en-gb/playo/Pages/default.aspx
...............................
|
