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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm self conscious about myself and when he looks at other girls it upsets me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My eating disorder is ruining my relationship. I have been with my boyf for two years now and we have some problems, but it all comes down to my insecurity. I'm 20 and he is 23. He has known about my issues with eating for around a year. I was recovered but due to stress i ... (320 words)

Were two different people! how can I steal his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, this may sound different, and please dont think im being offensive...i really like this emo boy, but im sort of a prep. i love wearing fashionable clothes and a nice hairstyle, and im always smiling. im always thinking of him though...how can i steal his heart?? ... (53 words)

Stepchild Dilema

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age - My 20 year old son from a prior marriage asked to live with my husband and I for a short time as he unexpectedly landed a job near our house and the commute from his home was too long. My son had 2 days notice before starting so the notice to me was short but I asked my ... (338 words)

I'm not confident on putting myself out there when I make a friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

- People say that I should make new friends however I always fear that if I try and invite myself to things where I don't know people that well or go round to people's house just for a drink, they'll turn me down or reject me so I never just turn up at peoples houses or ask if i ... (123 words)

I want my family's support when he asks me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are talking about taking are relationship to the next level we have been dating for 7years but still live with our parents. He is 21 and i will be 21 in october i know he plans on proposing around my 21st birthday which i am ecstatic about the only problem is ... (93 words)

No One Likes My Husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age - Help! My husband and I have separated after 10 years of marriage due to the way he treated/rejected my adult child. We are working on our relationship, however, I have just been made aware that no one in my family likes him at all and has only tolerated him because of me. My ... (148 words)

Am I just insecure, or is he hiding something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well I've been involved with this guy for like a year and a half but have known him for almost 3 years.. ive wanted him since before we were together and i love him very much but im not sure if he loves me like he says he does.. it has been such a crazy journey trying to be ... (265 words)

Once a Mummys' Boy, Always a Mummys' Boy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years, we're both serious about each other, and we've talked about having a serious future together. However, in a recent argument he text me saying "well guess what my mother is far more important than you", it was uncalled for and ... (100 words)

Symptoms of ED?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age - My husband might have ED What are the symtoms?... (9 words)

I thought he might be controlling, but I'm having trouble letting go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with my boyfriend for 6 years, we recently broke up. When we first started I was in the process of a divorse. He used to be really mean to me, called me names, accused me of sleeping with my ex or anyone else for that matter. We had a mutual friend and I had helped him ... (623 words)

How to gain confidence and weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey readers, So I'm 14 and I'm not to happy with how my body ! Everyone says they wish they were me but I believe they say this just to say it . I'm skinny but I'm not super skinny. Lets just say I'm thin. My matabilism is very slow so its hard for me to gain weight ! is... (100 words)

Are most men lazy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for a second opinion due to the lack of male influence growing up in my life. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2years. We are living together and discussing marriage. I am starting to question some issues regarding housework etc. My parents were divorced ... (356 words)

I'm fine with him watching porn but he lies about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so its my first time writing on anything like this, but I've talked (complained...whatever) to what seems like a hundred people and I feel like I need some sort of advice as to what on earth to do! Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, but he goes t... (885 words)

Does the 600 calorie diet work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, was just wnddering whether i would lose weight if i went on a 600 cal diet? I mean eat 1000, burn 400? then once a week eat 2000 for a break? how much weight would i lose and how fast? i want to lose around 3 and a half stone overall, tyxx... (53 words)

Should I let him approach me? what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im on my friend's account, and im 14.....i just started my freshman year of high school two days ago, and i think i found someone who is showing signs of liking me, but im not sure. He's definitely older, and i see him at lunch because he sits at the table next to us. i ... (141 words)

How do guys feel about clevage enhancing bra's?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from guys out there, about cleavage-enhacing bras. I normally wear a padded, water-filled bra when I go out, which makes my breasts look one cup size bigger than they are...so I've been doing this whilst dating a guy, and now I'm freaking ... (111 words)

Why do guys want threesomes? and whats the chances of a break up afterwards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys like three somes so much? Cant one girl make them happy, all girls have the same parts so theres really no difference. My bf told me he wanted one and i was upset that he would even want to sleep with another girl besides me cause i only want to be with him. I told ... (159 words)

Please help.I'm not sure what to do with me and him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really want to know what to do... me and my boyfiend met on the internet on begginging of 2008 and met on 14th of august, and were still together, we have soo many memories and so much more i know will become, we do so many different stuff, like different stuff as things ... (257 words)

Even if he doesn't want to be friends.. I just want to say sorry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Um ok so i really need help, and i'm very greatful for advice. I've had a very hard summer, i've had a couple of family memebers in hospitals,which requires a lot of traveling. To add to that stress my mom moved out to help her sister. To add to evrything else me and my best ... (285 words)

Beauty tips please on how to get this guy to like me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a very topical question, but I will appreciate all answers! Well basically I want a guy to notice me. I want him to see me and think "wow shes hot!" Do you have any fashion and/or beauty tips that will make me seem more attractive to him? AND, I would like tips and how ... (75 words)

Should I leave him to sort things out with his ex? or do I stay with him and try to show him how better I am than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - a guy i like recently split up with his gf, me and him got close quickly but nothing has "happened" between us. this week his ex has been txting him loads trying to get back together with him. he's told her that he wants to be single at the moment but has kind of given her a ... (195 words)

My rape fantasy disturbed him , are my fantasys normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a problem with my sexual fantasys so to speak. I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and our sex life has always been good, but my sexual fantasys disturb him. He's briefly talked about his fantasys, and I've tried to fullfill them, but he told me there's ... (253 words)

I want to have a baby in a LDR

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently got involved in a LDR, and have fallen in love with my man. I met him while on vacation in the US Virgin Islands, and Im from the states. I am 25 and I am ready to start a family, and he wants to as well. Unfortunately he is on probation for about another year ... (190 words)

Is this normal after anal sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have been sexually active together for over 15 years. We enjoy it, and have sex 6-8 times a week. We're not porn addicts or sex addicts or anything, we just love sex. We have been having anal sex a lot more over the past few years. I am comfortable with it and ... (215 words)

What can I do to stop feeling so low?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so ever since i can remember i've the been shy and quiet girl and i've always had the dream of being a social butterfly.i guess i'm kinda awkward and introverted but idk how to get out of that.my mom thinks its like a phase but i cant stop myself from feeling intimidated by ... (216 words)

Another guy is telling my girlfriend he loves her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a very-LDR, and in recent months I've become really concerned with the amount of interest another guy has been showing my girlfriend. He's in the same country as me. He writes on her Facebook page that he loves her, and he sends her expensive gifts. She won't tell h... (527 words)

What could this dream mean?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I really like this guy, and hes just ssplit with his gf, he doesnt no how i feel about him, Anyway my question is for the past 4 days ive had dreams about him annd will wake up when it seems so real My dreams are we are.... We are going out And sometim... (157 words)

He was found with an STD,I was not. I don't know how this happened?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know it this has been discussed before but if anyone can help. I am on vacation right now with my family and recently, my boyfriend revealed to me that he has been tested and found out with gonorrhea. I was very furious, I had been just out of his sight for 15 day... (343 words)

Threesome with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boyfriend of 1 year told me his fantasy would be to sleep with 2 girls at the same time. i would like to fulfill his fantasy, but at the same time, i dont want to watch him have sex with another girl. and i know i will probably get jealous if this girl has a more attractive ... (87 words)

My husband is making bad decisions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my husband very much and i dont want to loose him.but he is very concern about his family.he spend his every penny for them.he dont want kids now.i am a housewife.he wants to finance his brother's MBA,which cost will be $150000.i am scared.please suggest me ... (48 words)

Why is he Apologizing and then being mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I stopped talking to him because he made me feel bad. But then he called me to apologize about something that happened in the past but now he's being an *** to me again and saying stuff like I don't care what u think. I told him if he doesn't want to talk to me i'm fine with ... (80 words)

Can someone marry you without your consent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age - Hi, I met a very nice guy on line and now he says he has his pastor sending me a marriage certificate and he is comeing to get me to take me home next month, can he do that without my consent? I am a little worried here!... (49 words)

What should I wear on my first date in 6 years!!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some style advice on what to wear on a first date (my first one in 6 years!). We're going out for lunch, just to a cafe...I'm thinking tshirt and jeans? But what do you think? Thanks :)... (42 words)

I don't want my crushes besfriend to think I'm into her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - so my crush's best friend stared at me and i just looked away ..did i do anything wrong? so my crush's best friend saw me and i saw her ,even though i didn't recognize her at first,i just looked away immediately by avoiding her as i was on fone.. and my crush didn't show... (112 words)

How can I start a conversation with this one boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hii xxx how do i start a conversation with this boy hes really quiet in class cause none of his friends are about , but i want to try and least talk to him help how do i start conversations without leaving an awkard ending :( /3 please help 3x ... (62 words)

Anyone ever used "smooth leg" hair removal product?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi mates, has anyone used ' my smooth leg' ? This is a hair remove product for men and ladies ( you guys can check out this product by doing a google search). Hair grow on my leg and my thigh. Should i get rid off it? I dont like the hair cause it is kinda thick and black. The ... (118 words)

What do I do about this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey readers , So I'm a 14year old girl who thinks I'm inlove with a 14year old boy . During my 8th grade year I've experienced alot with this boy . Lets call him "EJ" EJ and I met 3years ago in 6th grade and things haven't became serious between us until 8th grade . Long... (311 words)

I'm not masculine and am afraid I will be cheated on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got introduced into the "world of sex" and I feel really uncomfortable about my body. I am a virgin so I don't have experience but I feel like I am too small. I am only at most 6 inches length with at best 5.o inches around. I think I am not masculine and am going to ... (80 words)

Bad acne! What can work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i need help. i have bad acne, we've tried everything. i dont know what to do anymore, mum doesnt have the money for proactive and a friend of ours said it made her face swell and she was allergic to it, and because i have sensitive screen she wont get it for me. does ... (86 words)

HELP I want to sleep with my dads best friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am in a bit of a pickle my dad is 42 and his best fried is 38 i was introduced to him when i was 12 but now i am 18 i am a adult and my feelings to him have got stronger he is single. i think he likes me too he comes over to our house all the time and my dad treats h... (305 words)

Are me and my boyfreind too young to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, Im 16 and in a relationship with a guy my age only six months older. we have been together for 10 months...it wil be a year in october. before we stared datin we were like best friends. my parents can tell we really like each other and dont want us to be around ... (95 words)

Not on the pill, no condom! Pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15, i lose my V 3 days ago to a 16 year old. im not on the pill, and he wasnt wearing a condom. we didnt stop for about 30mins. ist possiable for me to be pregnant?x... (38 words)

How can I stop myself from getting lonely, missing him then contacting him? I keep getting weak.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I ;ve just sadly come out of a 3 month relationship that was not making me happy- basically the guy had emotional issues, and stared acting withdrawn, both physically, and emotionally, and was playing games with my feelngs E;G - not taking my calls unless I IM'd him, ... (290 words)

I'm getting violent w/ my BF... but I want to stop!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice, I've never been a violent person. But recently i've started getting violent toward my boyfriend. Not really violent, but it's bad anyway. It scares me so I don't know what it's doing to him He tends to make me feel as though everything is my... (159 words)

In a wonderful, new relationship, but I still can't get over my ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am turning to you because I am really struggling to figure this out. Basically I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful man, S. We have been together for one year and he is caring, funny, handsome, and thinks the world of me. I could not ask to be wi... (537 words)

He locks up his PORN!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My lover lives abroad but we see each other as often as possible. However there is something that bothers me about him, he keeps his porn actually locked in a drawer and wont let me see it (although he did once ask if I wanted to watch a porn film together with him, I ... (197 words)

Stop the dropped calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend always drop his call on me when ever we are talking on phone, how do i nicely tell him to stop that stupid act of his... (28 words)

How do I to get friends wives to go topless too?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I asked my wife to try to go topless in our hot tub in front of two other couples - and she did! It was our plan for me to say something as a joke, like, "house rules, everyone has to go topless". And then my wife was to say OK, and hopefully the other women would follow. ... (326 words)

I want to either cut it off or commit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupid. My question is a little long but I hope manageable. Recently my boyfriend of several months returned to America after a year abroad, when we met. We have set no limit date on the distance and the relationship is more or less officially over but we talk on skype for at ... (128 words)

I was really offended. Am I being silly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He is really great and we get on so well. Just the other night we where lying in bed as usual watching tele and he said to me “if you gave me a blow job for everytime I've watched porn you have a lot to catch up on“ I was ... (67 words)

He broke up with me and I really want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have a really complicated situation.. a month ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because i got 'too close' to another guy who just happens to be one of my good friends. I tried to explain to him that nothing happened but he said he can never trust me again. ... (270 words)

Is my wife using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have split from my wife a couple of months ago, we where together for 18 years. the last two weeks we have got on great and i stayed over in the family home a few times. she has told me that she wants to get back together in a few months. now she says i cant call down to the ... (137 words)

He won't kiss me!!

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a guy friend that i really like and we are together sexually but he wont kiss me at all. does that mean he only wants sex from me and nothing else. i am confused because he is so passionate during.... (43 words)

Relationship dillemma - I'm ready to move in, my mum's fed up with us both, but he's not ready

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for four years, we both live at home, I live with my mum, he lives with his mum and dad. I’m 21 and he’s 26. He shares a room with his younger brother, so there is no privacy for us to spend time together. I live with my mum; my brother has left ... (326 words)

How do I choose between two men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i choose between two men? I have strong feelings for both of them and one of them is my ex that i lived with. they both say they love me and i dont want to hurt nay of them. help!... (44 words)

Is the way he is acting making me like him less?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okay so i don't really know where to start.. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and a few months. he can be a really jealous guy but he can't help it. recently my friend was kicked out and he had nowhere to stay so my family said he can live with us. he's ... (414 words)

Dealing with drama because of my ex.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After my ex left me for his female friend he claimed ! He told Me not to call no more so i say what ever! i havent call him , now he callin me cause she wants to speak me woman to woman that some body been prank callin her and i told him look nobody is prank callin her she has ... (101 words)

How can I make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an intense relationship for 5 months. We met the day he was released from prison after 2 years. Before he was my bf he seemed a little standoffish but I thought it was just b/c of everything he had been thru. Now however, since we moved in together a month ago ... (177 words)

Does familiarity kill desire?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do all men lose desire for their partner when they've been together for a while? Does familiarity kill desire? It is my dream to have a relationship with someone, that lasts, with someone who I can connect intellectually and emotionally with, share my dreams with, have a l... (575 words)

Jealousy issues due to my girlfriend's ex.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have jealousy issues over my GF's ex that I need help on. First, some background...I have been with her for about a year. When we met, she claims to have broken up with her ex, but she still saw him once or twice for sex in a 4 month span. This relationship with her ex was ... (323 words)

Boyfriends lack of contact is getting on my nerves.. what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my bf have been together for over 6 months things are going ok but he is rubbish at keeping in contact when he is away, its always been the same since we first met. He was away at the weekend at a festival, came back on Monday and text me saying how much of a great ... (175 words)

I trusted him and he cheated on me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well my boyfriend and i have now been going out for two months and the other night i trusted him to go to a party while i was at a dance class, he tells me two days later that he cheated on me and now i don't know what to do, so i guess my question is should i stay with him or ... (67 words)

I'm becoming desperate for sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im starting to become desperate for sex....is that possible after having sex alot with your ex...after not having sex can you begin to need to have sex.....i haven't had sex for only 3 months nearly and basically everything i read about a guy being married upset about ... (87 words)

Being in love with her has been torture.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with this girl for three years now. She is beautiful, charming, witty... I fell in love at first sight - when we met I felt as if I'd known her all my life, and I truly love her with all my heart. The thing is, I just can't work out what's going on with her... (623 words)

Why is my ex ignoring me? Does he hate me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We had a good relationship.he seemed super into me practically in love with me (calling 2x daily/wanting to see me daily).We ended on a sour note because he flaked on plans + didnt return my calls/msgs.after i wrote a lengthy email pouring my heart out calling him ... (380 words)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Myself and my girlfriend are in our thirties and have been together happily for 3 years, living together for the last two. About a year ago she made a new male friend through a mutual friend. At first I didn't mind, but he lives in a different city, and she has now been to ... (146 words)

I've started thinking of my partner more as a relative than a mate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for over 19 years. At the moment I am very confused. Our dog passed away unexpectedly a month ago which has had a massive impact on me. I truly belive he represented a child to us and help the relationship together.Currently I am off work with acute ... (269 words)

I want to be with my male cousin again but he said he doesn't want to do it again, how can I make him more comfortable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I am 17 yo old and Bi-curious. A while ago my cousin and I masturbated together and this included doing it for each other. I thought it was great and at the time he enjoyed himself too. However, it has been some time since we did this and he doesnt want to do it an... (90 words)

Will it ruin things if I tell my ex that I still love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I tell my Ex who is my 2 month old son's father that I still love him? Or should I even tell him at all? When I was pregnant he was not supportaive at all but now he is very happy with our son and things are very civilized between us. I'm affraid telling him that I l... (67 words)

I can make him orgasm every time but I've never had one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my Fiancee for 16 months. We have been sexually active for a year now and he was my 1st. I can make him orgasm every time, but Ive never had one. He is amazing and when he touches me it feels amazing and my legs jump. I get the sensation that I need to urinate, ... (89 words)

My boyfriend and his sister cut my hair, but they wont own up to messing it up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid , a year ago i let my partner and his sister cut the ends off my hair , something was going on as i could tell from the way thay where giggling his sister kept goin over to the bin an putting things in , i told my friend about what had happened an she said my hair ... (136 words)

Why cant I get past the pain of my first relationship?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and I have been single for 3 and a half years now after a 6 year, very intense, and emotionally unstable relationship. Since then i have been in only one other brief relationship, and then a "friends w/ benefits" situation where i actually fell really hard for ... (189 words)

I had an affair with my sister in law's husband. Why won't she forgive me?

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25 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My Sister in Law and I used to be best friends. I knew about her maritual problems (she had an affair, she talked about divorcing him many times), and she knew mine (my husband always was away 'with other girls hunting', while overprotected over me and not sup... (313 words)

How do I see through all his mixed signals?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy i really like but theres too many mixed signals and i cant read him please help i like this guy in one of my classes i dont know what attracted me to him his cute and nice and confident. at the first two days of school i noticed whenever i look at him h... (308 words)

My girlfriend thinks she doesn't deserve me, when its supposed to be vice-versa

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (I'm sorry this is a really long story, please just bear with me; I felt like I was writing an essay) First time using an advice column, please help. Still young, starting junior year (yeah a lot of school stress) Well...beginning: Two years ago, I asked a girl out. We we... (725 words)

I had a dream of my boyfriend getting married to another woman. Should I read into it?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't usually read into dreams, I've had a lot of nice dreams, but also unpleasant ones, like any other person. Thing is, last night I dreamed that my boyfriend was getting married, IN MY HOUSE, with another woman (she was brunette, but then she was blond). They were dre... (179 words)

What could these strange dreams mean?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a bit confused.. I dont normal dream nor remember then, but for the last 3 days I have been having strange dreams.. The first night I dreamt my work place, people and building where located in a space ship.. We landed at this place where one could buy things like a ... (280 words)

Am I asking for too much from my mum?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im 23 Married and I have 2 kids. I dont drive and my husband works all sorts of shifts hes very helpful with our kids, ive currently got my learners permit and recently got myself a car. But today the weather is horrible, its raining with very strong winds. So i thought ... (194 words)

It bothers me he was attracted to his last girlfriend. Am I over reacting?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a relationship with a guy who claims to have been in love with me since school. Im 25 yrs old now, and we started dating a year back. I wasn't in touch with him all these yrs, and although I knew he existed, we never spoke or anything. Just a few days back he told me ... (157 words)

Should I let my taken colleague know of my feelings?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Em, this colleague of mine at work is cute but she has a guy. We lyk each other and i av a feeling 4 her.We stare at each other shyly and spend hours talking on the phone.Should i let it known to her what i feel?... (46 words)

Help with future love..hopefully.

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well today i was talking to this guy Nick and my boyfriend on Facebook. Nick is one of my best guy friends best friend. Well my boyfriend was being really boring. You see i like the bad boy, perverted, but sweet kind of guy. And my boyfriend is just....sweet. I i.m. him ... (303 words)

She doesn't want her mom to know about us!

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend wants us to separate cus she doesnt want her mum to know about us. I luv her and am scared i will lose her. What should i do?... (30 words)

On birth control Seasonique, could I be pregnant? Took it 4 hours late!

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Plz help could i be pregnant? 5 weeks ago my bf and i had sex. it was unprotected for the first 30 sec to a minute then we realized to put a condom on. im also on the birth control called seasonique which allows me to have only have 4 periods a year. the night before the sex ... (127 words)

I don't want to say those 3 little words yet!

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for exactly nine days, and we've only known each other for a little bit over three weeks (24 days to be exact). I like him a lot,and I actually told him today that I spoke to my ex. When I spoke to my ex I felt good. I finally let go of him ... (287 words)

Do Asians have smaller penises?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but the european prefer to get rid ... (58 words)

My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me!

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship and have been together for 5 years. We care about eachother alot but he doesn't do special things for me, i.e. send me flowers, gifts or even a card on my bday or ... (102 words)

In a loving relationship but girlfriend's parents don't want her in an interracial relationship.

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone They say life is a repeat, and I know that what I need advice on is a very common topic.Im in an interacial relationship with a woman that i am in love with. The good news is, she's in love with me too. The hard part is, her parents don't want her dating a man... (185 words)

Why did this happen to me? Why did my husband cheat on me?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why me???? when i was young and great looking i meet the boy of my dreams. my husband. we dated for 5 year got married, no first had a baby then got married.he wroked i work we had a pretty good life. in tell his family came out. i had a great brother-in-law that was nice an... (406 words)

What age should I get my 1st boyfriend?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13, At what age should i get my firts boyfriend?... (11 words)

What can I do about my ex drinking all the time?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this ex, we dated for a year and then broke up. He hooked up with some girl and now we are best friends. We wanna get back together but just not yet, right now he moved back into his mom's because he wants to get his life straight due to the fact that he drank to ... (91 words)

LDR: what's the point?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to know something, as it's always seemed highly absurd to me, and nonsense, what is the point of being in a Long distance relationship??? I mean, you cant touch the person, right? which means you cant hold them, kiss them, fuck them, there are no friday night ... (147 words)

Can't stop thinking of hair bulge in girlfriends pants, turn off for me, help!

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25 August 2010 (M) age 30-35 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] Hi, Kicker: I'm a virgin. Kidding. So anyway, so's my girlfriend. We've been dating since december or last year. We're still sort of getting toward haveing sex but we're not really sure where that is, just know that we're happy spending tim... (365 words)

Is she trying to see how much control she has over me?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - about a week and a half ago, my girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me saying she wasnt happy and that she need some time to think about what she wants. she said that there were things that needed to change with us and me. nothing big or anything about me changing myself. ... (248 words)

How do I help a friend in an abusive relationship?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She's is in a unhealthy relationship for 5 years already. She's 19 and her bf is 22. She tells me, she has broke up but patched many times with him, being emotionally hurt a lot of times in this relationship, he is very possessive and controls her, and if she never picks up his ... (152 words)

Should I settle for someone who likes me or wait for someone who I really like?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm 21, a virgin, and have never had a proper boyfriend I do get asked out quite a bit, and have been on a couple of dates, but I usualy say no because I haven't been interested in or attracted to any of the guys who have asked me out. It's not like I have a particul... (173 words)

In love with my older cousin. Should I tell her? How?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm 15 and for almost a year i have like my cousin, she makes me feel very turned on. she is about 21 and looks amazing . I want to tell her how feel about her but idk if she'll understand or mabye ill just make it worse My question is how do i tell my cousin that i like ... (77 words)

Should I tell him I love him too and risk him getting clingy?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my boyfriend. Absolutely. I know it's love because he does things that with my ex's was completely uncomfortable and irritating but with him... everything he says makes me feel good. Here is the issue, he has already said it to me, to which I told him that it ... (132 words)

Were we just hanging out or was this a date?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I reconnect with a friend from high school online…we went out for like month (purely innocent) during my first yr of high school. So I broke up with him, I don’t remember why, but we remained friends. We lost contact and recently exchange numbers, I said that we should catch ... (386 words)

Am I attractive?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i would just like to know if i am attractive. I am about to turn 16. Im 5 4 and 96 ibs. light blonde with bright green blue eyes and a 34B. people say im pretty but i just want to know other's opinion thanks. any questons about me ill answer.... (51 words)

He's still in love with his ex. What can I do?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were doing great.. we had been together 4 months and I couldn't have been happier. Then he dropped abit of a bombshell, he could never really feel anything for me because he was still in love with his ex gf... we went through a ruff week of emotion and at ... (172 words)

My friend's first boyfriend ever is a womaniser. Should I tell her?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is currently going out with a guy(her first boyfriend ever) who is a complete womaniser, but she has absolutely no idea. I was told about his reputation by another friend, he uses the exact same 'romantic' dating plan, gets what he wants, and then leaves the girl aft... (144 words)

Love my ex but we decided to end it to pursue a new relationship. Think I did the right thing - what do you think?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know on this site we're suppose to seek help,and complain about our problems but today I felt like I just lifted a big weight off my shoulders. The thing is I just feel like things are just too good to be true for now. I have a boyfriend now, and we just started dating. ... (323 words)

Am I over reacting? or should I be worried?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has pictures of herself with another guy on facebook and its really pissin me off! There are about five pics of them and they all seem really flirty to me. He has his arm around her in most of them. They talk on the phone and skype every once in a while..she ... (125 words)

Two years age difference..not bad at all right?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay soooo.. i have been talking to this guy since the summer before i was going into eighth grade it's the summer before tenth grade now, and my mom still wont let me date him.. i'm fifteen and he's seventeen.. its TWO YEARS! why wont she just lighten upppp!?!... (106 words)

Jealous of my boyfriends sister and ashamed of it!

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's sister is years younger than him and they have a very close-knit relationship. I feel pathetic because I'm jealous of their relationship and how much time they get to spend together, whereas I'm lucky to see him once a week. It's completely irrational and I... (348 words)

Do girls like nice guys or bad guys? I'm confused!

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and ive never had a girlfriend. i have plenty of friends that are girls but have never had a serious relationship. ive never even been kissed. im not a bad looking guy. i have girls tell me im good looking and some actually check me out. but every time i get to ... (151 words)

Is he joking or does he actually love me?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just moved from a mixed school to an all girls school, I used to have a crush on this guy who sat next to me, he said no after I asked him out, twice. So I gave up and moved on. About a week ago he asked me out, I didn't know if it was a joke, 'cause I'm shy and all the ... (240 words)

He is messing with my head! how do I get over him?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago i told this male acquaintance that i liked him. He was nice and said, he could only see us as good friends. Fine, ok i moved on and focused on work and other friends and meeting other guys. Meantime my crush and i are spending time together, hanging out ... (212 words)

Why is my period taking so long to come?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i started my period in december of 2008 and most of the time i'll have my period every 1-2 months. but i haven't had my period for about4 months. i know that about 2 months is normal but its never been so long. so what my question is why is it takeing so long? please help me.... (58 words)

My family is doing everything for one daughter at the expense of another

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old female in her last year of university. Recently my family found out my little sister (15 years old) cuts herself and was hanging out with a strange crowd. To curb this, they have given her everything that makes her happy and have decided to relocate her to ... (409 words)

I want his personality and him,but not his looks. What do I do?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this wonderful man long distance for two years.it got to the point i wanted to marry this man!but then..he came to visit me.and when i saw him,my heart fell. I knew he was overweight but i didn't expect this! Sometimes i have difficulty just holding his hand... (300 words)

Does she care for me or is she after something?

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend has been together for a while, i asked her to marry me 3 months ago she said yes we was very happy together or at least i thought, about 3 weeks ago she finished the relationship with me and we only just got back together and i don't feel the exact ... (276 words)

Opinions on "friends with benefits" relationships?

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago, and I've since picked up a friendship with an ex of mine who I've always been on good terms with. The other night, while we were sitting at his house talking, and one thing led to another and we just began shamelessly making ... (172 words)

Confused by her up's and downsand don't know what I should be doing

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my gf were going out for 8 months. We had so many great times together and were always having fun and going out. Then we went on vacation and had an even more amazing time and things were seeming pretty great. We came back and things slowed down. We stopped going out ... (1269 words)

Was the connection b.c we were drunk

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've used this site once before and got some great advice.Now; I need some more. Two nights ago, I met a guy at a club who I really liked. We got on really well and had loads of fun. The only thing is....he lives in Wales and I live in Scotland! We met up again last night, ... (209 words)

I can't do anything right by him

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, I don't know what to do. My husband and I are constantly arguing. It seems as if 99.9% of the time is my fault either because i did something wrong or failed to do something. I'm trying my best to keep him happy but it seems it just never enough and when i ... (377 words)

I hate my boyfriend, I'm lonely and sad..

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a lot of help with something. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we have lived together for most of that time. 2 months into the relationship he started calling me curse names and yelling at me constantly. When he got mad for any little thing ... (388 words)

My girlfriend is risking her life just to loose weight!

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25 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is risking her life daily by refusing to take her diabetic medication, so that she loses weight. She's been diabetic for 4 years and has always mistreated her condition. In the past few months, she discovered not taking her medication meant that she would lo... (80 words)

Misunderstood lovers

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25 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are currently in a long distance relationship and have been for a month. We are 15 years old and live 700 miles apart. We talk everyday, and in no means are growing apart. We grow closer everyday. We have known each other for 2 years and started out as very ... (310 words)