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Does she really like me or is she just trying not to be attracted to me?

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Question - (23 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2010)
A male India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

so me and this girl like each other but don't show it up easily though she is much younger than me i am just waiting for her to give me a hint that she is willing to talk to me ,as i get close to her she kinda get nervous n looks down or pretend i m not there and she never smiles wen i am arnd,but her frnds giggle wen they look at me

one day wen she was alone walking down the road ...she looks at me staring at her unexpectedly and just adjusts her clothes which r messy n wrinkled

and then again looks at me if i was watching her and i was watching her

and she sometimes does the same thing i do,if i pretend i am not looking at her,she does that too,if i play with my mobile she does that too

and stares back at at me only few times after passing me most of the time its her frnd who does that

and she make eye contact only wen we bump in to each other unexpectedly just for few secs otherwise she just looks down or sideways wen i am staring at her

she doesn't come out alone she has atleast 1 frnd to be wit her

so does she really like me or just trying not to be attracted to me ?

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A female reader, OhGetReal United States +, writes (24 August 2010):

OhGetReal agony auntPersonally, dude, I think you are frightening her, she is trying to ignore your stares, and she adjusts her clothes because she doesn't feel safe around you, she actually may think you are a pervert. After all, you're less than 26 years of age and she is MUCH younger than you are? She is probably a child and you should leave her alone to be with her friends. She's clearly not interested in you and is afraid of you, she isn't trying not to be attracted to you, people don't do that, they look away, refuse to smile and keep walking around UNWANTED attention. She is too young an inexperienced to know another way to handle you.

I would back off if I were you.

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A female reader, SueZ Australia +, writes (23 August 2010):

Yes, she likes you. She is shy. That's all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010):

If she copies things that you do, that shows that she's interested. I would say that she does like you, and is waiting for you to make the first move. Try asking her to hang out sometime. Good luck!

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