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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are we mutually using each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6.5 years, living together for the last 2 years. We've been arguing/discussing about separating for the last 1.5 months. I don't understand why he wants to stay in the relationship - like what's in it for him? He does most of the ... (188 words)

I'm in a relationship that isn't actually a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! My problem is, I am in a relationship which isn't actually a relationship. It started off when the guy told me that he wants us to be together now, but he won't be able to offer me any future. (Nowadays we are in different continents) He is a nice guy and I like him, but ... (183 words)

My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, but when he's getting off to a... (603 words)

Should I talk to my FWB about a possible title on our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been seeing this guy for about 9 months now. we started off as friends with benefits, but its more then that. we hang out constantly, and we dont see other people. we always have fun. and at first, he used to always kiss me when dropping me off at work, now he wont kiss ... (115 words)

My friend is in love with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I recently found out that one of my closest friends is in love with me. I've known for a while that she'd liked me, but I had no idea that her feelings were as strong as she explained to me. She went on and on, telling me that she doesn't want to be with ... (192 words)

Why would anyone think this is okay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would anyone think that it is okay to start off a marriage with a huge lie regarding past betrayal??? I've been reading people's responses to questions regarding cheating, and am specifically perplexed that anyone would think that it is OK for someone to lie to their ... (83 words)

Alcoholic dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok right, im 14 now when i was 2years old my mam walked out on me my dad and my older brother (who was 4 at the time) she left for another man,, my nanny and grandad rared me and my bro because dad was always working. in 2008 my nan died.. my dad went mad on drink and was ... (275 words)

Opinions on what true love is?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - what is true love?... (4 words)

Do guys go to clubs with the intention of pulling girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok thanks to everyone who responds, i really appreciate it. I know this will probably seem so obvious to people and also possibly stupid but I would love some input. ok well i went out last night and was with my flatmates at a student bar/club and there was this guy that I h... (290 words)

How to be happy for and support my boyfriend in college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sooo my boyfriend of over a year just moved to college a couple weeks ago, and he's really excited about his college life, as he should be. He's been attending fish camp and all kinds of introductory fun activities to his school before it starts. Naturally, he's been busy ... (288 words)

How do we tackle the disagreements before we marry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am due to get married in 3 months time and am getting anxious that me and my finace have different expectations about what marriage will mean to us. We have recently bought a house together, but I feel he is constantly testing the boundaries at the moment, and my f... (161 words)

Could he be cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend been together for a year and 4 months. im am living with him! and our relation ship is great. we never fight about whos cheating on who. his very romantic he always brings flowers to me. and soo on.okay so i founf a misssing condom. and i ask him ... (162 words)

What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said he lived in our town andshe ... (240 words)

Is she going through another abusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age - He is in his early 50s she in her late 40s and married to each other. His ex cheated on him with several men, her ex was very abusive! They both work in manufacturing, different shifts and not for the same company. He has a medical condition and tells her he won't be around ... (395 words)

Is it possible to get over retroactive jealousy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello. im 20 yrs old and so is my girlfriend, we have been together for ages, its been like 2 years, we are pretty fine together . she is so understanding and loving and everything . she lost her virginity with me , i just love her so much, but the thing is about her past whi... (348 words)

My ex is always on my mind and I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 15 months i always used to finish him because i was scared of getting hurt because of my past relationships, he used to run back everytime an we would be fine the next day.. He used to say he would never let me go i mean to much to him. He started ... (251 words)

Should I drop it and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl at a law function (we are both in law school) and we talked most of the night, then went to an 80's party together. I got her number, and asked her to dinner (she smiled and agreed). We went out and had a great time, we went back to her place and made out ... (234 words)

Ways to move on from an ex and be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My name is Andrea I am 20 yrs old and currently feeling deppressed. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for almost 2yrs (On October) And recently broke up 3 weeks ago this is my story. We have been on and off. He is in Canada because of work, I'm in the U.S because of school. I ... (303 words)

Can an adoptive mother breast feed an infant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've got a question for the aunts, can an adoptive mother still breast feed an infant? If so how?... (20 words)

How do I know if he really notices me the same way I notice him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that is new to our school. I just met him and I find him really nice and cute. He makes me smile all the time. We're just getting to know each other and we talk a lot about random things. He said I'm a sweet nice girl. I tell him that hes really cute. I ... (180 words)

Do you think I can get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We dated for 3 months and were together everyday i slept at his house almost everynight and anyone would have thought we were together for 3 years because we got along so well we also had plans to move off together sometime in the year. I started picking fights with him about 2 ... (602 words)

Are these normal symptoms of being pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal to be very tired after a day of work and school like more than usual while pregnant? is it normal to throw up after eating something not everything just sertain things while pregnant? ... (36 words)

How to tell my boyfriend I'm a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i need help, i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time now i reguarly see him and kiss and stuff and our parents and everyone are ok with that. we were talking once about safe sex and stuff so a few weeks later we gave it a go it wasnt any of our f... (379 words)

Am I making the right decision in this on/off relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with this boy on and off for about a year. when i say on and off, i mean it. he dumped me about 4 times (i dumped him once because i thought he had been cheating on me, big mistake, he hadnt been). but then every time he would come back to me saying he was ... (183 words)

Why was I dumped out of the blue?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me last week, to me it seemed so out of the blue, he said his reason for doing so is that we didnt seem to talk anymore and that he was also going through some tough tings at the moment. he also came to see me to talk through it the next day, he ... (188 words)

I love my ex madly so how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex said that he didnt like me not talking to him, so I told him a big secret and he got mad that i didnt tell him before hand, then went on about me not trying to befriend his mates, then ended by saying he felt pressured. So now I have left him to cool down after he could ... (131 words)

Will my feelings ruin the friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, female and am in love with my best friend who is a 27 year old guy. I'm totally unsure what to do about it, I am worried if I tell him how I feel it will make things awkward and/or ruin the friendship. We have known each other for seven years but nothing has ever ... (110 words)

Questions on dying hair.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Naturally my hair is a dark brown A year about I had about half of my hair died blonde, I have gone back to the hairdressers to get my roots re-died every time they needed it. I need to die my hair again soon, but I don't have the spare money to spend on a hairdres... (114 words)

In love with my online friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 20 years old and have been talkin to a guy for the past 1year. the problem is we know each other through chat and we talk. recently i feel very possesive over him. i hate it when he has convos with other girls,i feel extremely jealous. we are very close thou, we speak ... (147 words)

Lonely in LDR. Should I stay in it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in an LDR for a year and a half and am very lonely right now. I don't really know what I should do. I have a nice job, has benefits, etc., but have thought about moving to England to find work and be closer to him. I love him with all my heart, can't picture my life ... (208 words)

Best friend doesn't want us to be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'm 14 and my bestfriends brother was flirting with me and we went to the beach together with my bestfriend we was sitting down and he kissed me and said he wants to be with me, But I don't think my bestfriend wants us to be together, I love him and he always tells me ... (68 words)

Stabbed in the heart by her comment...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So this morning was the biggest heart break I could ever handle. I found out my girlfriend... my best friend... my everything cheated on me a month ago. She told me this intoxicated and also took an e pill saying some guy performed oral on her, but she didn't have sex with him ... (538 words)

Can you get sick from oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello almal. Well, i like to think myself as the crazyest guy my girl could find, the reson for that is, i love making love with my girl, its like im addicted, my sex drive is very high seence i found her, we do al crazy stuf including oral sex, we both go down on each oth... (111 words)

Honey boobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, For a very long time my hubby has had a wish that he wants to put honey on boobs and nipples so that he can lick my boobs and suck my nipples. Please advise... is it safe and okay?... (42 words)

Attracted to his personality but not his appearance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in hard situation I've been best friends with this guy for a long while now and he's made attempts in the past to ask me out but I denied him. But I've developed feeling for him. So I told him this in march. He makes me feel happy. He's the best guy I know. I've known him ... (147 words)

Should I stay with him even though he's put me through so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - k where do i begin... i will make this short with as much descritption as possible... about 5 months ago my boyfriend of 41/2 years admitted that when he was between the ages of 16-19 he let another man give him oral. before this he was an jerk treated me poorly never wanted ... (304 words)

Totally in love with my same sex best friend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. i think im totally in love with my best friend. The problem is that my best frient is a girl. I'm totally attracted to guys, that i know for sure, but at this moment im so turned on by my friend. And i know that should anything happen she won't freak out ... (95 words)

Tummy creases and pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - you know when you sit down and your tummy creases over...well im not fat but my tummy does crease over when i sit down..but my question is does your tummy still do this in the early stages of pregnancy i mean like if your one month pregnant would you still have the tummy crease ... (105 words)

At 22, my parents tell me not to worry about having a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Are my parents right about not worrying about finding a girlfriend at 22? I keep saying why don't i have a girlfriend but my parents say I shouldn'worry about it, that I should make most of being single now because I won't get that chance when I'm older as well as being ab... (97 words)

Why is my wife suddenly masturbating all the time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age - hi andrew my question may sound strange but my wife is going through the menopause and she doesnt have much interest in sex but she will spend all night , everynight masturbating which she thinks i dont know about and then complains how tired she feels she never used to ma... (78 words)

I'm afraid of coming out because of the conservative society

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear readers I’m a 26 years old male professional and successful and I’m virgin. I want to live my life as many people do, find a girl, get married and have kids. I love girls and they are sexy and attractive but when I think about sex I feel that I’m going to fail because ... (162 words)

Sleeping with Married People

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am lucky: I have it all. I am tall, rich, good looking, athletic, well-educated. I, however, have a problem: I am attracted to married women. I am only really turned-on by being with a friend's (or co-worker's) wife. I love conquering the challenge, and doing something ... (217 words)

I want out but can't seem to be able to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been a sheltered girl. My parents made sure i was highly protected, and would never let me do certain things when i was growing up. Because of this, i started to become anxious whenver going out or doing new things. My brothers also suffered from a similar fate ... (764 words)

Total Babe in One-sided Open Marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am an average looking/height guy, though I make a good salary. I have been married about ten years. My wife is a beauty -- very attractive/sexy. She gets a lot of attention almost everywhere we go, even if she's only wearing sweats and a t-shirt. Thing is, that prior to ... (201 words)

Separated from wife, she wants to tell me about her sexual escapes and I don't want to hear about them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I are separated and going to a therapist. I want to stay married but thought the best way to deal with the anguish my wife caused me (she cheated, among other things) was to move out. Since then, things have improved somewhat in some areas. We still see each other ... (218 words)

I feel left behind and that a guy will never fancy me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I will soon be turning 16 and I have never been kissed. I feel embarrassed about this because most girls I know have been going out with guys for ages. I feel as if I'm being left behind and that a guy will never fancy me. I'm losing all my confidence and getting quite ... (81 words)

Is it wrong to hurt an ex who has hurt you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to want to hurt an ex who once hurt you? Or is it really petty? I bumped into an ex of mine after 4 years and he seemed to be really glad to see me...however;i greeted him really matter-of-factly and he seemed to be a little hurt when i had to leave after ten ... (78 words)

After 5 years together shouldn't he know if he wants to marry me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my current boyfriend for 5 years. We are still relatively young (23), but I feel like it should be okay for us to talk about getting married some day. I don't mean getting married next year or even the next. I just want to talk about it, but whenever I do ... (139 words)

Is he just here for a place to live and sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for probley 18 yrs. an have been married for 5 of those years and have 2 kids a 15 yr. old and a 13 yr.old. during this time he has had 2 affairs that i know of an 1 of the 2 has resulted in a child being born he lives for his getting on the computer ... (194 words)

I don't enjoy sex very much and my husband calls me asexual

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband thinks that i dont enjoy sex and thinks that he shouldnt do it. The problem is i know its something important to him. He calls me asexual. The thing is i think i made a mistake in telling him that i dont like it very much. Now he has a high and mighty attitude like ... (133 words)

Is he cheating on me or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello fellows, i would appreciate your sincere advices. so i met a guy 6 months back , we dated for a couple of months then he moved to another country and started acting funny , vanishing sometimes reappearing a week later and so on, i decided to put an end to it , but a month ... (327 words)

I've changed for the better and I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy for a couple of months and things were great, but I started to display clingy tendencies, I basically lost the self confident woman he fell for in the first place and I deeply regret it. He broke up with me because he wanted space and time to work on himse... (96 words)

I'm scared of losing him because we never do anything physical

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi ! I have had a boyfriend for the past 6 months and still counting... I have had a few problems before with him! it is basically that whenever we wanted to do something physical it has never happened... and both of us regret it.. I am very scared that i will lose him! i ... (118 words)

She says I'm not strong enough to satisfy her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I cant go more than 1 round with my girlfriend when we are having sex, and she said am not strong enough to satistify her. What can i do for to able to go more 3 or 4 round,so that she wil enjoy it. Please help me out. Thank in advance... (53 words)

B/f wants to snog but I don't think I can bring myself to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now and he really wants to snog me, but i have never snogged before, i don't know what to do. people say put your hand down their pants onto their arse, open you mouths link tounges and go from there but i just don't think i ... (67 words)

How to make your husband getting to his mood ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How to get your husband turn on.I got my hubby and Is been 2 years we are married and he is never in the mood of having sex.we have sex like once a month.Is crazy I know.What can I do to turn him on ?make him go crazy ?... (50 words)

How to deal when he seperates after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am hoping some of you out there could help me because I have spent days, nights, and hours in my confusion and help would be greatly appreciated. It’s long but please read it and let me know your honest thoughts. I am so hurt and I cry so much over it… I met a man who ap... (1639 words)

Double life boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy about 6 months ago. From the start he was everything i had ever wanted - treated me like a princess. Only downside is that I live in Kent and he lived in Derby, so quite a distance. After first having my doubts and the distance and whether or not he was telling ... (464 words)

I think he wants to be more than friends but he's so distant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a guy at work about two years ago, I left the job but we remained in touch via facebook and telephone. We started dating about 9 months ago, things started of well, but then he started going cold on me (distant). He then said he wanted us to be good friends but not ... (263 words)

I've been off the market for awhile and I'm kind of out of the dating scene

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

- I dated up until I was 20 and then some personal issues occurred with my last girlfriend which resulted in low self esteem kicking in. I built up my confidence after some help from parents and mentor and I am now more confident in all forms of life (except dating) than before ... (112 words)

Married and falling in love online

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a happily married 40+ man and few weeks ago i met a woman online also happily married. we are falling madly in love to each other both knowing this is a dead end story. my question is should we end this straight away or keep chatting and enjoy it for what it is. i know ... (108 words)

Dumped her and now I want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I dumped my girlfriend six month ago and now she's moved on but i want her back.What should i do?... (20 words)

Why do people keep photos of their ex?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything of my ex in my house, photos... (64 words)

Life falling apart and feeling confused and helpless

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i need abit of advice please my boy friend is a few years older than me and had at least 2 serious reltionships the last one he ended up marrying her well they were together 8 years when they got married 3 years after they got married she left we met soon aft... (743 words)

My boyfriend isn't interested in my breasts, should I get implants?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1968 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend never really touches or looks at my breasts. They are small, about a 34B or so, and I have a bit of insecurity about them because I'd prefer to be bigger. Not porn-big, just... big enough to turn a few heads even when I'm not wearing a pushup bra. I notice that he ... (496 words)

My husband cheated on me, should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my husband for 11 years, and we dated for 7 years before that. We have two children together and they are 7 and 5 years old. I've been a stay home mom for seven years. Three weeks ago, he confessed that he cheated on me with a hostess who works at a g... (355 words)

He says I'm cute but does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a new guy at my school. I find him immensely cute. The thing is I just met him but I feel so comfortable around him. He makes me smile every time I see him. I don't know if he even feels the same way or I mean if he sees me as that way. I feel like guys like him don't ... (154 words)

When he does things for me I don't get excited anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What's wrong with me?? Ive been with my bf for 5 years and although we've been having small issues recently were still very much in love. However whenever he does something nice for me i dont get excited like i used to. We went out to an expensive dinner and then he surprised ... (122 words)

I told my friend's girlfriend about us and now he won't speak to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious problem... Me and a guy from 10 years ago found each other on facebook.. We reconneted... talk, I ask him if he had a girlfriend he said "NO" talked all kinds of craped about his ex.. Well we went out and hung out all weekend, had sex.. Did everything u can ... (243 words)

Should I trust my best friends, when coming to my relationships with my sweet lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i need a advise on this satuation, what do i do when my friend likes my girlfriend, i mean the liking that gives him wetdreams at night. i have bein friend with this guy for 3years and he never stoped liking the girls i was with, currently know im commited to this young sweet ... (211 words)

Why did he hug me so long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend went on our first date yesterday. at the end, he hugged me for ages, i mean like really ages. afterwards, i suddenly became shy, he was going to kiss me, but i turned my head away. i havent heard from him since. what i really want to know is why did he hold ... (68 words)

I don't think he'll ever be able to do enough to win me over

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *Sigh* Where to start? For a couple months, it seems like my relationship has been hanging on by a thread. I know we love eachother but we always seem to rub eachother the wrong way. In the past, I've been hurt so many times, that I have put a wall up and it took four months... (492 words)

Are his reasons for breaking up with me ridiculous?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf broke up with me and the main reasons were that I get insecure because I've been cheated on in the past, I understand its not good and fair to treat him that way because of my ex bfs' doing and I was trying to work on that.. But now he says he can't take it anymore ... (299 words)

If we were close why don't I remember them?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know my story sounds stupid but here it is I like my childhood friend who I haven't seen in 9 years and I don't remember him at all or anything that we did together and his mom and my mom say were close but but if we were so close why can't I remember? Also I just resently ... (159 words)

Worried my boyfriend's wife will hurt me or my child

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i really need some help and would just like supportive replys please, i have been with my daughters father for almost 3 years, at frist he war mr right but since has turned in to who i have to be with. after a month or so i got pregnant and then all the drama started, ... (763 words)

When is a guy interested in you, and when is he just being friendly?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when a guy likes you and is interested in you, and when he is just being friendly and nothing more? And when can you assume that the guy is interested and tell him straight away that you aren't interested in him that way without looking conceited? Or... (96 words)

Why is he distant now that I'm pregnant?

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21 August 2010 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend treats me like a princess and we get along very good but ever since I've been pregnant he spends every spare minute out in the garage distant from me. He is 38 and I am 36 this is both our 1st child and both wanted this child. I am just feeling like he would rather ... (74 words)

How can I get her to see he's not Mr. Perfect? I get bad vibes.

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21 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - SO, My best friend has a new boyfriend, I don't know him too well and... neither does she. They knew eachother for a day then decided they like eachother. I don't like this guy. He has been known to hurt girls in the past and be a total jerk, he's a d-bag to ME (and she is ... (111 words)

How do I make things okay with my ex?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I miss my ex.Our relationship was good - he always called, we hung out alot and never flaked but at the end he flaked and never even apologized for flaking, why he did it and didnt return my calls after a handful of calls/emails from me including an email where i poured out ... (376 words)

Is she wrong and why?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Two guys who r kool like the same chick! They all hang out and become good friends! The chick likes guyA and has a casual relationship with guyA but guy B won't give up!Guy B tells the chick all of guy A's bizz one night while having drinks and she's cryn on his shoulder abt ... (151 words)

How do I break it off with the father of my child?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, could someone pls tell me how to break my relationship with the father of my almost 2 year old child? I love this man but I think he is the most selfish being I have ever met. Let me start from the begining.....I met this man 6yrs ago poor and "dirty" well I saw potentia... (537 words)

Should I let go of any hope when it comes to him?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I talked to this guy for a little while though we were not together together we had a horrible break up with a lot of unsettled emotions on my side of things and he started treating me really bad and we stopped talking to each other mutually. After a couple months I moved o... (276 words)

My boyfriend wants us to have sex in front of other people...

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We've dated almost a year and a half now and lived together most of that time. A couple months ago we had a long discussion regarding his fantasies. To be exact, the moment arrised as I lay in full glory after having had 30 consecutive gushing orgasms (the most I've ever ... (482 words)

I've been waiting 3 years for her already!

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have waited for this girl for 3 years already. She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. She tells me her relationship isn't healthy because she went through a lot of break ups in this relationship but then patched back and she also went through a lot of emotional ... (156 words)

Will an abuser ex bf violate first restraining order?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i been abused verbally, emotionally and physically what made me get a restraint order for the first time against my ex bf with knowledge he been warned by parnet never to contact me yet he did after few weeks so will he contact again cuase im scared ?... (49 words)

How to forget about the one you love?

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there let me fill you in on everything. so me and my ex gf split up about 3 weeks ago because of many reasons see she has giving me trust issues with her and pretty much everyone. she had repeatedly lie and cheated on me for a period of about 7 months i was told about her ... (472 words)

How do I not make her feel uncomfortable?

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have question about dating. I just got my confidence not a long time ago and built up my self esteem really good i am happy now , i love to go to school because i have alot of friends and a lot of girls flirt with me and i can confidently flirt back and talk to them, bu... (175 words)

Does he just need time to process things?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story, but here it goes... I have been friends with this guy for about 5 years now, and I consider him to be one of my best, most dependent guy friends that I have. About a week ago, he had texted out of the blue and we had got to talking about us. Somehow in the m... (251 words)

I don't want my friend hurt over this girl!

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Like my guy friend E has been dating this girl C for two months....I got the guts to tell him HE'S obsessed! He only hangs with her and no one else! He even stops texting when theyre hanging and he only talks about her! But everyone knows he will get hurt cause C lied about ... (107 words)

I'm afraid to let my guard down with him!

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Boyfriend goes through extreme lengths to chase me then avoids me. Let me start by saying, I am currently in school full time and will be graduating in June with my Bachelor's degree. I also have a full time job and am interning with a 2 local businesses in my local area. ... (612 words)

I like my friends boyfriend, what do I do?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i fell in love with my friends boyfriend. and well at first i didnt even know i liked him like that but something made me realise i like him as more then a friend. (btw all my freinds and family and even HIM knew i liked him before I EVEN knew) and i think i REALLY screwed up ... (267 words)

Curious about penis size

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've read a lot here about average penis size being about 5-7 inches. I have not been with many men, but they have all been at least 6 or so. About the same for my girlfriends, except for one, whos been with a guy who was huge. I'm just curious...if the average starts at 5, ... (186 words)

Should I wait things out or remove myself from our friendship?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a woman in love with my male best friend. Which shouldn't be a bad thing. Because I know he loves me too. Our relationship was trite in college. He pusued me, I fell. He was still playing the field, so I moved on. We remained close friends for the subsequent past five ... (363 words)

Younger woman messing with my head!

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21 August 2010 (M) age - Ok here is the deal. I am older than this lady, yet I don't feel that way at all on the inside (and people tell me that I look younger than I am, and when I work out alot, I can easily pass for someone in their 20s). Ok, well, we have been friends, and that is cool. Yet I get ... (163 words)

I love her, but I hate her bestfriend!

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi..the problem starts way early wid my ex....we were so great together....were no one was in our life....but suddenly her frnd comes and butts in...his actions and words show that he likes her...but she says he doesnt....we have had constant fights about him ..that she must ... (219 words)

I'm nervous about what to say when I talk to him!

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21 August 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1619 words)

Should I ask if she wants to try to have sex?

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Due to a variety of circumstances my wife and I haven't been intimate more than a handful of times since the birth of our second child in Jan 08. For the past year she has been battling what the dr's say may be a hypersensitivity to yeast, may be a bacterial infection (that's ... (267 words)

Considering leaving my husband after 23 years!

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21 August 2010 (F)

age - I am considering leaving my husband after 23 years. I often wondered wether I should have married him in the first place, but at the time I was craving stability. We had kids pretty soon after that, and then the problems continued. I have never felt emotionally supp... (395 words)

How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Past is past. I love him then ... (152 words)

How can I get over the nervousness and embarresment?

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i've watched friends and just general people my age start relationships, to be totally honest this hasn't bothered me until recently. I've thought about it and i'm geniunly upset about the fact I don't feel I have the ability to get a girlfriend, i'm not good looking, ... (134 words)

Confused student- Teacher Relationship?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm new to this. First post. Before I start I guess I should give some background on my situation. For the last 8 years of my life I've lived with my mother, who has untreated mental problem, we think it's bipolar personality disorder/depression. I can't begin to explain ... (1254 words)

Is he just saying all this stuff of does he actually love me?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, the boy I like is 16 He was drunk(I think ) and he held my hand And said he loves me and that, But any other time he doesn't even when we're in the park It was just that night he was saying all this stuff I love him but I'm not sure if he actually loves me or not ... (72 words)

Should I tell my friend about info I have on her boyfriend? or do I keep it to myself

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right. I don't usually talk about this kind of thing or ask... but this is a dilemma that is really bothering me. I have a friend, who we shall call Katie. Katie has suffered from depression for a good portion of her life, and was recently diagnosed with borderline personal... (926 words)

Why do we keep breaking up and then getting back together?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my bf have been together for years. We have separated and even dated other ppl but we always end up back together! Why can't we either get it right or let go and move on?... (37 words)

I can't get an erection , is it nervousness or medical?

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfiend and I are planning on having sex for the first time, as i'm a virgin i'm quite nervous but seeing as she isn't i'm also worried she'll compare. I'm not the biggest guy down there but that doesn't really concern me, what concerns me is that recently I haven't been ... (103 words)

I don't want to sound like a prude by telling her I want more

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21 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Need both guy/girls views… Ok so my deal in a nutshell. I was with my girl the other day and we hadn’t seen each other in a couple of months. Things started to heat up pretty quick and we ended up on the bed. It was around 15-25 min’s when she had her hand around my lower st... (334 words)

I don't feel like I have much of a future!

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21 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Im only 13, but I dont see much of a future for myself. I have never had any "real" friends [ ones that I can really talk to about serious things ]. I dont hang out or talk to anyone at all. At school most people talk about me behind my back saying that im weird and i dont ... (331 words)

How do I get him to tell me how he feels?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My "friend" Ian , doesn't know I like him. He starts a conversation over text .we will have a few sentences and then he ends it by not replying. He calls me all kinds of names like sweetie and Hun. He won't tell me if he likes me , but I already kinda got the idea he does. His ... (103 words)

How do guys handle break ups? what do they think about?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf broke up 6 days ago and we were together for 2 years!. Im heartbroken to say the least. we didnt talk until I texted him yesterday just saying hi. He immediately got defensive and thought i was trying to get back together when all i said was hey how are you. it ... (190 words)

Getting myself a purity ring, how do I explain this to my parents?

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21 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old, and I want to get myself a purity ring, but I'm not sure how to talk about it with my parents. I have never really talked to my mom about sex, and my dad is not exactly aproachable about the subject. I tried to tell my mom before that I found a promise ring ... (191 words)