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writes:Hi my names dave 22 and i am a sensitive guy. I met a girl jenny 19 on a drunkern night out 4 months ago, wasnt really looking for anything but ended up in bed with her that night. we carried on meeting at hers watching dvd's and having intercourse, going out for drinks. She's at uni and went to spain for a month as part of her course, we talked most nights on skype and i feel have some great fun together.., as soon as she got back from spain i went on holiday to kavos and she magaluff the week afta. So we havent seen much of each other in person in recent months. Last week i met her in London and we went to a hotel, personally it was a magical few days one where i decided i'd fallen in love with her. However part of me doesnt trust her shes blonde and pretty..., its the pictures and things ive seen on facebook, flirting wive other men on facebook, pictures from her holiday, i feel she makes a point of when we are together to tell me about guys who have tried hitting on her and all her premiscious, it sounds so casual. I dont know how to react so i just change the conversation, because my feelings are growing her comments are making me feel even more insecure, i also have a habit of sending drunk texts that she just ignores.And i apologies, althou shes also sent me a few, Shes on holiday again with the family at the moment for 2 weeks, i feel soo lovesick its affecting my job cos my moods so low, is this natural?..., should i take the plunge and tell her how i feel? i am at the point where i really want her to feel the same and assure me not to worry about trust..., but if she just wants to keep it casual then i think i'd end it and break my contact wive her in the fear of falling deeper and the possibility of seeing her wive someone else and getting hurt, is this wise?.., being the sensitive type i have to be picky and select the type of girl i can 100% trust.
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reader, SueZ  +, writes (23 August 2010):
Hi Sensitive guy. You know, some times beautiful girls want to make sure you know they are desirable to other men. They WANT to make you a little jealous.
Do you tell her how beautiful you think she is, that you know men desire her? That's what she probably wants to hear.
I think you have nothing to lose by telling her how you really feel. BUT of course it could go two ways- it could be that she wants the same and has been teasing you hoping you would commit... or it could be she is still young and out to have a good time, keeping it casual and not up for commitment. If that's the case then isn't it better to know?
Good luck sensitive guy... trust is very important - it is also a CHOICE you make.
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