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writes:Do some guys just not like calling? My boyfriend seems to only like texting and we only talk on the phone every few days. If I call him then he does answer or call me back but i just find it a bit strange.Has anyone else been in a similar situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Ever thought he doesn't want to pay the crazy prices we have here in the UK? Most companies have unlimited free texting now a days.
If you're both on free calls, then no... you need to talk to him about it. And say, you'd like to hear his voice. Either that, he just doesn't know what to talk about, to keep you interested, and that worries him.
It's not always down to the guy is cheating. Not all guys cheat, and not all even think about doing it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): well, it is a bit of a red flag. I play that game with guys I'm stringing along, if I really like a guy, there is nothing I desire more at the end of the day than to hear the sound of his sexy voice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncommunication when together is ok, hes not brilliant an expressing his feelings but then im not great at it either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): Seeing someone else is my guess. Mine did this, but I found out he was doing it not to hide any other women but to hide the men in his life. Next time you are with him, check his cell phone, specifically text messages, when he is out of the room for an extended time, you'll find out everything you want to know. Sorry to suggest being nosey but sometimes the truth needs to be known.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 I've been told by numerous guys they can't stand to talk on the phone and they don't have much to say. Texting is the new phone call anyway so I would't worry about it. Phone calls are more for chicks anyway because we love to chat and have a lot to say.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 August 2010):
The world has changed. Texting is now something that is more wildly used. Personally, I can't stand it. I'd rather talk to my girlfriend. I think you should talk to him and just say that you'd like to talk more rather than just text. See what his response is to that.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 August 2010):
 I hate talking on the phone. My first instinct when I get on the phone is to get off of it as soon as possible. That's just how I am. He may be the same way. As long as he's returning your calls, I wouldn't be too concerned.
How is his communication when you are together?
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