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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do real men really exist? I am waiting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please tell me if there are still any real men that want to date real women. Maybe I should clarify not everyone shares the same idea of a real man. A man who is tough but would never hurt a women. A man that knows how to carry his weight in the household rather it be cle... (192 words)

Why do men sexually abuse girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all. ive asked this question before, but got no answers so here it is again... why do men sexually abuse girls? what makes them do it? i have been molested from the age 6-9 and then again at 12-16 by a different man. why was i abused? i blame myself.. why would men want to ... (62 words)

She always wants sex, I don't! Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend constantly wants sex, but i dont, what should i do?... (12 words)

Why do men stop trying after the relationship no longer brand new???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello all, I'm 21 years old and i have been with been with my boyfriend for almost three years and we have two little girls together. we fell so deeply in love with each other but now, our relationship is without romance or fun. at this point, i think he has the idea that he ... (433 words)

Getting married soon and have proof that he slept with an ex while on business!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I'm getting married in September. My fiance has been on a business trip and i have firm evidence that he slept with his ex girlfriend. I really dont know what to do and how to react. Shall i confront him? Shall i even cancel my forthcoming wedding? I'm rea... (82 words)

He denies that he's cheating. But I have proof!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I asked a question yesterday about my LDR relationship. I'm afraid that my LDR boyfriend is cheating, quite openly too! He has tons of friends that are girls, I will admit that I was jealous at first, but I got over it. It never really bothered me that all the girls would ... (457 words)

Boyfriend hit me last night!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend and I were leaving a friends house and we got into an argument. After I got out of his truck he followed me and wanted to keep talking but I told him I was tired. He grabbed my arm, yanked me towards him and pushed my face to the side. Then he pushed me ... (153 words)

I try to give the best advice I can, so why can't I help myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have been replying to peoples questions since I joined and find it comes fairly naturally to give people advice (to the best of my ability) I just can't seem to help myself! My husband and I are strong together, it's just I find it hard not to get agitated... (208 words)

If a woman introduces you as her "special friend", what is she saying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a female friend who always introduces me as her "Special Friend"... what is she saying? Is she interested in a relationship with me.. or is it a subtle way of saying "hands off" to other women? I'm confused as she tends to blow hot and cold with me. ... (57 words)

Don't know how to hide the fact that I'm gay and not straight.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Agony aunts and uncles, I am a gay teenager and I am having problems hiding it from everyone I know that I shouldn't have to hide myself but it's just too big news for now and I keep seeing hot guys and I stare from the corner of my eye and I do it quite obliviously and when my ... (91 words)

Her old Ex has worked himself into our lives

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend (kelly) has an ex-boyfriend (josh) from several years ago that now dates her roomate (amber) who i am also friends with but never had anything but a platonic relationship with. She (kelly) ended it with him and remained friends with him throughout the years. N... (270 words)

My ex asked me if I was dating a girl, so I told her the truth... Was this wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend has asked me if I'm dating somebody. I broke up with her almost two months ago after an eight month relationship. I was her first love. Just recently I started seeing a girl (lets call her Sarah). I've only been out with Sarah three times, so we're only datin... (254 words)

My parents are worried about me taking on my boyfriend's problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone heres the thing my partner and i been going out for 3years well in that 3 years we had problems he has two seriouse illnesses on epilepsy n other mental illness hes takin tablets n since we been together ive seen him have a episode og the mental illness. Im 30 snd ... (120 words)

I'm addicted to other men's wives.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am addicted to other men's wives. I love sex, but honestly, only when it is with a married woman. There is just something so taboo about it. I have no boundaries, I've slept with co-worker's wives, , the neighbor's wife, two of my three brother's wives have affairs ong... (142 words)

In between a rock and a hard place! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am presently in a bit of a quandary. I have a boyfriend, we've been together for almost three years. Before I met him though, I had a crush on my classmate but never told him. We have remained friends over the years and recently, he told me that he would like to be with me. I ... (101 words)

Trying to remain friends with flirty ex-boyfriend

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Four months ago, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want to be in a relationship. However, he still texts me. He wants to remain friends with me, which I have tried. However, a majority of the time we're texting eachother, he turns the conversation into a sexual ... (161 words)

Meeting up with my boyfriend's ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my boyfriends ex wants to meet up with us both. she was an absolute cow to him and cheated on him which lead to their break up. its been over two years since that happened and she's asked that her and her boyfriend and a few friends meet up. ive never met her an... (150 words)

How do we find a girl for our threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i want to have a threesome. but neither one of us has ever done anything like that. so we arent sure where to start. or how to find another girl to do this with us. where would be a good place to find another girl?... (48 words)

I don't have the guts to do it... (Ask him if he likes me...)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone at cupid Ive a very big question i would like some help on. I've had my eye on this guy for some time i slept with him twice before he got a gf, anyway we never really stopped talking and he often sends me rude messeges over fb and phone text this is when he was w... (229 words)

Recent break up from long distance relationship...

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hav ebeen with my boyfriend for three years, i recently got obssessive over him when i found out he had second thought of being with me because he felt he doesnt know bc of my behavior. (me being overly loving)...he told me after 2 months of apparently "giving me a chance" ... (284 words)

Pandora's Box

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im not sure wether this is fair to my loved girlfriend or not; Yet we recently discussed her sexual past for she brought it up. In the process she explained that she has had a number of sexual partners she didn't want to give me the number but she exclaimed lower than 24. As ... (318 words)

Strong feelings for my first love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 13 years , have 4 kids. I recently got in touch with my very first love. We had dated 3 years, when he broke up with me. This was 19 years ago. It took a long time to move on. Now, being in touch with him, I can not stop thinking about him. I ... (129 words)

I want to leave my cheating, abusive, alcoholic husband but its not that easy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm after some reassurance that I am making the right decision. I have been married for 14 years and have 2 children. My husband has always been a drinker but for the first few years of our marriage this was limited to weekends. For the past 4 years, he has been binge ... (477 words)

Want to get married but scared of breaking it to my parents please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma...i want to get married to my soulmate the girl i truly love... but i/m scared of the whole process the growing up, breaking it to my parents. im pakistani so i cant just go and marry her and then say mum dad i got married. i have to tell them and... (187 words)

What steps should I take to open up more to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very hard time opening up about my feelings to my boyfriend about everything and I try really hard to but I can never bring myself to saying how I really feel about him because I don't want to sound like a cliche or seem to clingy or needy and I'm afraid of how he will ... (74 words)

My own happiness or Everyone else's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my husband about 2 years ago. There's no spark, no romance, and no heart pounding...but there is attraction. Very soon we started "dating", he moved in to my place and we lived like married couple, cooking together everyday and go to bed together. Seems like we have ... (342 words)

Is it wrong for a 24 year old to go out with a girl under the age of 18?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - On holdays we argued alot. Is it wrong for a 24 year old to go out with a girl under the age of 18. Because at 18 you are classed as an adult. Im just wondering because my cousin is a bit of a perve he hasnt had a girlfriend and i think hes desprate. everytime he drives p... (160 words)

Should I stay in a hotel or get an apartment while visiting friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am traveling from England to California to see some high school friends I have not seen in a long time. I am traveling single, would it be best if I stayed in a hotel or motel while there, or find an apartment? I don't want to intrude, and yet I don't want to be impolite. ... (60 words)

Should I be brutally honest with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i recently got back in touch with one of my ex's, who i broke up with 2 years ago, which was the last time i talked to her as well. I only intended to be friends, and well its been 2 years, i figured she would have moved on by now.. Her friend wanted to hang out, and so... (251 words)

He's got sex on the brain and I'm wanting a more respectful kind of relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've started seeing someone I care hugely for. We have become almost best friends as well as lovers. The problem is he has sex on the brain. I'm not sure if I was equally sex obsessed at the beginning but have now changed into wanting more respectful boundaries because I ... (147 words)

We just got married and a child he thinks might be his is coming to live with us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was traditionally married 3months ago,we are now staying with his 6year old son that he had told me he doesnt believe its his son before i told him there is a chance he might be yours and you need to take responsibility, after a month of marriage he tells me he wants to take ... (101 words)

How do I know that he is the right guy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just graduated from high school and i just got hooked up with this guy. he says he likes me and i like him to but how do i know that he is the right guy for me?... (42 words)

Writing a goodbye letter to the one that you love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I are splitting up in a few weeks. I want to write him a heartfelt letter saying goodbye. we still love eachother but our situations have changed. we're both moving onto new phases in our lives. ive never been good with words and so this is why i want to write ... (94 words)

Why does he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this lad- he's 17 I'm 15. He keeps telling he loves me and that he'd do anything to be with me! So I get my hopes up and then he goes and gets a girlfriend and ignores me. Then he'll come back to me a few weeks later and be like I'm sorry babe shouldn't of done what I ... (83 words)

My Gf is friends with her ex behind my back am I too jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My Gf still have feelings for her ex. we where fighting at some point and she cheated with her ex and then went back with me without telling me she had cheated then went back to the ex and broke up with me asking me to hold on and wait for her..I moved on and she ran after me ... (673 words)

I want him to feel good too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my best guy friend are very close. we are bf and gf material. he already touched me and he said that he likes to see me embarrassed and stuff. he said that he doesnt like me but always act like it. how can i get him to say that he likes me? also, how can i get him to ... (83 words)

Guys: Would you rather a girl was honest about her sexual past?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would guys prefer a girl who is honest about her past sexual life or is that a bad idea?... (19 words)

I want my bullying nasty sister out of my life forever!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi to everyone,i have problems with my younger sister,infact the WHOLE FAMILY has problems with her.shes always been trouble ever since we were kids and has a very nasty streak,she bullied my younger brother and sister as children.she is now in her 40s her life is a mess.she ... (411 words)

Are my feelings for my ex unfair to my current boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my current partner now for 2 years. I love him dearly and couldn't imagine life without him. But I can't help but wonder if (and please don't think this the wrong way) he isn't "The One" that everyone says he should be. The reason being is that I'm still in... (204 words)

Does this text mean anything special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys! A little advise would help! A guy friend of mine sent me a text saying "I'm leaving England... Bye XxX" can any one tell me what that would mean? Especially after the fact that he hasn't told anyone else.... (42 words)

Impossible Love and Missing Her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age - I am married to a good person. We actually get along well and try to take care of each other on a day to day basis. In many ways I feel as if I am married to my sister or to a favorite aunt who also happens to be a workaholic and who has virtually no interest in sex. There is ... (401 words)

Should I remove myself from this situation with the girl from my dorm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and a girl on my dorm floor have fallen into this weird pattern of one-sided oral, and I don't know what to think first off, she is HOT beau prettier than any one I have been with. Here it goes. We make out, she let's me feel her up, and ultimately she pushes my head d... (235 words)

Why am I finding myself constantly comparing myself to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently I went on vacation with my boyfriend, when he starting talking about a girl that he works with...he complains about her a good deal, but he also usually mentions that she tries to use her beauty as a weapon, other girls hate her, etc. When I met her, I recognized that... (363 words)

I'm nervous about messing this up on the second date, any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok so there’s a woman I met via on line dating, we had our first date last week, we met up for drinks and I paid for a meal, then went for more drinks afterwards. We seemed to click, were not short of conversation and I do like her (a lot). She’s been texting every day and mu... (244 words)

She says she feels like I'm her soulmate, but that I'm too young for her, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I met this amazing lady about 2 months ago.....we met on the dating site.....and it was a fluke as she doesn't go there often and she was about to log off....I instant messaged her and she replied and we hit it off from the start....normally she will not chat to guy ... (253 words)

How can I truly rid myself of this married man?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My only true love pops in and out of my life. He's my first and only "everything". He's "popped in" right now. He's married and claims he doesn't love his wife, they married due to her pregnancy and they just cohabitate. He tells me I should be his wife and mother of his ... (195 words)

Help! I need help with my marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please, please could someone help me? I have been in a relationship with my husband for 11 years and married for 5. He has always had difficulties - he doesn't like watching me eat or drink, he doesn't want to sleep in the same room as me because of my breathing (not sno... (1610 words)

He didn't tell me he cheated on me! Is he just selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it fair to say that a guy that has been keeping secrets from his fiancee (including that he cheated on her 4 years into their relationship) is being extremely selfish? Is someone who believes that it is "OK" to keep secrets from the person he is marrying-- including secrets ... (323 words)

Should I keep sleeping with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have been broken up for 2 years, have 2 kids together. Because we notlive in the same town the kids and I spend about a week there every month. Recently we slept together! When him and I first met it was a matter of us liking each other, sleeping together that th... (139 words)

My boyfriend wants me to meet his ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend likes to talk about his past sexual relationships, and he has also remained friends with several of his ex-girlfriends. now he wants me to meet one of them because of his friendship with her. i must admit that this really makes me feel kinda strange. does this mean ... (69 words)

How did she/I get herpes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend has what appears to be genital herpes. She has small, blister-like sores above her clit that she says feel like ingrown hairs. They have been getting worse over the past 2 weeks. A similar sore just turned up on my penis. She went to the doctor yesterday and ... (338 words)

Withheld Unknown number keeps calling my cell!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a problem that has bothering me for the couple of days...i have a new number on my cell and someone has been calling me for the couple of days with the withheld number and unknown number....please i need to know the number of the person who is calling me.... i need ... (55 words)

He loved me but now he loves someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone i have posted a question in this site before and i have seen that the advices in here are very helpful so i've decided to post another question and ask you if this is normal what im feeling.So 2 years ago a guy liked me we can say he was in love with me he liked my ... (167 words)

Did he like me? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts, I'll try and be as brief as possible (unfortunately this will be very longwinded), but I am looking for some advice and I really didn't know where to turn to, so here I am. Well I am a gay male, and a few months ago I was not scouting around for some romance,... (643 words)

He says there are girls out there, but there's none on his phone! Is he a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is a message for both guys and girls. Guys: I have been going out with a good guy recently and he's told me he knows many women that are available. I went through his phone but in his phonebook there was barely anyone there. He didnt even have any txts from wo... (178 words)

22 and Romantically Challenged

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod Note: OP's Title] Hi. I'm a 22-year-old woman in Canada and I've never had a boyfriend. Ever! Not even close! In addition, I'm more than a little overweight (I've been fighting it literally ALL my life) and I have a really hard time dealing with guys my own age. I find the... (284 words)

How do I accept my partner's kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - help agony aunts how does one stop jealousy towards partner's kids coz u dont understand the love? how do u make urself accept them and embrace them so that u can all live together in peace and harmony? anyone on here mananged to overcome this and go on to have a success... (64 words)

I moved in with a male friend and think I made a mistake!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age - My male friend asked me to move in with him. He says he loves me and has feelings for me now. I think I made a mistake in moving in with him. I still have a great guy calling and I still have feelings for this other guy. I'm now regretting that did move in with friend. I think ... (81 words)

Worried about my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Bit strange, so bear with me! The woman I was seeing, broke up with me just over a month ago. She'd previously been in an abusive relationship but we were very happy together. We were talking about moving in together and having kids, the whole deal. After she split up w... (352 words)

Guy threatening to give my boyfriend proof that I cheated!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an affair with A, a guy from work. And I called it off after 2 weeks, no more texts, phone calls, email, facebook. I felt really bad and guilty towards to my bf, because deep inside me i know it is not his fault that he has to work long hours, and have no time with me.... (369 words)

He's betrayed again and again! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - All, Hope I can get some ideas through posting my concern on this website. I have something needs to be consulted immediately because I can't keep it any longer. It's almost 1 and half year now that I have been in love relationship with my boyfriend. It's not our first lo... (715 words)

He initiated the relationship, and now he's telling me he updated his dating profile. wtf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I signed up for eHarmony just over a month ago and about two weeks in, went on my first date. It went well, and we've been seeing each other ever since. It seemed to me like he was moving really, really, really fast but I figured "to hell with so-called rules" and went along ... (280 words)

Is sadomasochism wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have come here for advice many times thank you DC for all the wonderful help. Please don't be rude I have seem some mean things. Thank you. I have lately been experimenting in "kinky" sex. I really do enjoy it. I am into masochism and my partner is a Sadi... (222 words)

Dreams of my first love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I keeping having dreams about my first love. I don't think about her nearly as much as I used to, but a part of her still clings on to me which I hate because all it does is cause upset and hurt. This dream was brought on because I have some details to send off to her hometown ... (280 words)

Sex while on her period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - izit okay to have sex with my gf while shes on her periods? most of my friends do, and im not sure i would do that couse i think she might get hurt or something. izit okay and what bad thing could happen if we did? thanx ... (47 words)

She's 15, I'm 21, I know its wrong but I like her!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey im 21 im a guy...im not a retard i dont do crap that isnt wrong...i work im just a good guy but the problem is that i really like a girl and the thing is she is 15 we click so well and i know its illegal and to me its wrong but the fact that i like her over comes that...her ... (113 words)

What am I supposed to make out of what she said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What does this mean. "I love you, I'm in love with you, but I don't love you as much as a wife should love you?" I kind of understand it, but she's really upset with me right now. Shouldn't this be expected? A marriage counselor that we saw says that she feels that peo... (87 words)

I'm not even sure what I need to fix?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I wonder if someone could help me I don't know what happened/ is happening with this guy, could someone please help? Until saturday he was just a friend,we talked everyday but we hadn't met up since the day we met two months prior at a party. My parents were away. Some ... (365 words)

Deeply in love with my cousin, don't know how she feels and it's making me depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, This is probably the most awkward and most frustrating problem i probably have had to deal with my whole life. I Will start it off by reciting the story. I moved to the US at age 2 and i was born in South India ( Kerala). I usually go to India every 4 years and stay for... (1042 words)

Alcoholic cheating husband. what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi. im a 35 yr old mom with two kids. 6 and 4. a girl and a boy. married for ten yrs. my husband is a social alcoholic or thats what he says. got a dui driving his girlfriend home at 4am and isnever home to help with children. he keeps saying its work and he isbusy. ... (135 words)

No one likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well....i cant believe i am writing this post....i am 25.. just felt to vent out so i am here...i dont know where my life is taking me...i feel miserable and worse all the time and want to just roll over in bed and cry although i know it wont help...there are hardly any times ... (945 words)

Have a friend who might be too much in need. What can I do?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm single and don't have much friends because I've changed colleges and/or churches and/or most people my age I know are married. I'm not perfect but I like to think positive to deal with my health issues and finacial burdens. I've been frustrated and depressed before ... (768 words)

Scared I might be pregnant though I had my periods after a dry-humping session.

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A little over a month ago, my boyfriend and I dry humped. He was naked and I had on panties. Three days later my period came on the day it was supposed to, but it was on and off. The next month my period came three earlier and it was on and off. From the time I dry humped to ... (210 words)

How do we get our relationship back on track?

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13 August 2010 (F) age 41-50 - we've been 9 yrs already and we're planning to get married nxt year. however something is wrong. We argue and fight most of the time on small things. he actually asking for time and space and I was feeling bad, thinking what to do.. I texted him for a talk and he never give me ... (84 words)

Is he distant because of his tour of duty, or because he doesn't love me?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I know this is rather lengthy so I apologize. But please read it, I need the insight. thanks. I've been in a LDR with a guy for about 4 months now. For the first couple months we talked practically everyday. We're long distance because we met online and he lives in anot... (647 words)

Is it wrong to be a virgin at 28?

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13 August 2010 (M) age 41-50 - I'm a virgin at 28, is this wrong? I've 'technically' never had a girlfriend, but I did have a fairly decent amount of girls flirting with me back in college. I've also dated a few but we never officially had a relationship, although the discussion about sex was there. Po... (132 words)

We have a dysfunctional relationship but I don't want to leave him! Help!

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 2 years younger then I am....and before our relationship was serious and we decided that we were going to be monogomous, he told me about his past here and there and made it clear he has a very long list of women he has been with. I was okay with that because I ... (784 words)

Still in love with my ex but now he's dating someone else! Any advice?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. A week after he broke up with me he started to date this girl. And my head is getting mix messages cause he's getting his friends to talk to me and ask questions about this guy I'm kinda interested in and about this ... (369 words)

My daughter's friend never invites her over! Tried talking to the Mom, but no luck! Advice?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I helped someone out with her daughter a lot in the past, and we became friends. We invited her daughter over a lot. She never, ever reciprocated. But she didn't invite other girls either. Recently they have been inviting other girls, especially one girl in their class. ... (420 words)

He wants to bail on me and not come to an important event with me! Help!

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I think I'm in slight hate with my bf...heres the story: I ask him to come with me (and my family) this HUGE, important event and he could make it he's off that day but nooo. I mean, I'm getting a really good award...but I'm guessing he won't come cause he'd have to ... (168 words)

Is he playing me or what?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been hanging out with this guy for a couple of weeks and everything has been good. The last time we hung out was cute we layed on his bed and wrestled with each other and he would tease me. When I texted him the next day he told me he liked me a bit but he didn't ... (131 words)

I'm ready to throw in the towel. Should I leave?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm ready to throw in the towel. Should I leave? Our house is in foreclosure for the 2nd time. Our Gas (hot water) was disconnected for the 3rd time. Not to mention the other times that our water, trash, electric, phone and cable services have been disconnected. Here's the deal... (310 words)

Do white guys like to date black girls?

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13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i have a question. im a beautiful black 16 year old girl. and ive always been attracted to older white guys, well... white guys period. im very sweet and i luv to smile. do u think a white guy would ever date me Because i heard white men dont like black women? I'm afraid ... (68 words)

I don't want to date him anymore. Help!

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this boy for about 3 months now. And he hardly ever texts, because he never got signal. He never tells me he cares or anything sweet so I thought about breaking up with him when my friend told me he might leave me, because I haven't put out yet. I made up ... (161 words)

Huusband cheated on me with 2 women from a dating site..should I tell his parents?

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A year ago I discovered my husband of 10 years had been joining internet dating sites and has in fact had sex with at least 2 of the women he met on these sites. I have been to marriage counselling and on anti-depressants and trying my best to get past what he has done. My... (420 words)

I am ready for a relationship and I'm a caring person..how come I can't fnd someone?

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13 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and have a full time job at a supermarket. I have two very different personalities (work and home). I am a serious person at work and very laid back in my spare time. I am single and always have been. Quite a lot of people say I'm very good looking. The thin... (345 words)

Help! I don't want to repeat the 8th grade!

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I went this summer school thing were if we didn't pass we go back to 8th grade but I went and missed 5 days and were only allowed 4 but when I returned they said it was ok and I spent 2 hours with the principle making up for the extra day I missed.. and he said I'm going to 9th ... (168 words)

The wife and I have hit tough times...can I save my marriage?

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13 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A quick and to the point question. Can I save my marriage? My wife and I are hitting some hard times. She tells me that she loves me. That shes IN love with me, but, she feels not as much as a wife should love her husband. Over the past year or so, I haven't acted... (175 words)

Finally committed, but nervous because he is leaving

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for about four months now. I know that I love him. I am old enough and mature enough to understand what that means. He has become one of the people in the world I am closest to. He knows more about me than most people in ... (417 words)

How do I tell him I am falling in love with him!

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13 August 2010 (F)

age - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now and the physical chemistry between us is now very strong. I did not notice his attraction towards me for some time. He has been doing loads of things to help me. My question is that we seem to be stuck in a limbo. He does ... (161 words)

No love in sight!

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mom, and was in a horrible relationship with my child's father. To the extent that he is still talking his talk 4 yrs after he has moved out. This bothers me so much that I don't even bother to put myself out there to find someone. Who would want to be part of ... (226 words)

14 and want to help my family financially

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and my family is (financially) in a tight spot . I want to start selling some of my stuff on Ebay to help them out . Am I too young ? How will I get the money ? How do I send it out ? ... (58 words)

Bad divorce is really affecting me

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and my parents are getting a divorce. It is really bad. My dad tried to rape my mom two times and he got arrested. Then my uncle bailed him out and my mom got a restraining order against him and if he has to come home, he has to be escorted by police. My dad ... (165 words)

I want to be just friends..rather than dating him. What can I do?

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13 August 2010 (F)

He's not overly excited about my body

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my boyfriend for a year and a half now, we were originally best friends but it turned into a relationship, and it's great, but he never seems to be overly excited about my body. I never felt that i had a bad body either, girls sometimes tell me they're jealous. I've ... (180 words)

His stubborn streak

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We do not live together. Just last week, he did something that would potentially irritate my neighbors. I like being considerate to my neighbors so I asked him to stop what he was doing and he got upset. He said I was making a ... (172 words)

I like him but my friends don't accept him. How do I approach him

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13 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm confused. There is a guy in my French class i really like. We talk quite a bit and whenever i see him in the hallway at school he nods at me and smiles, then says 'Hi!'. If I don't notice he's there at first, lets I'm talking about something with my friends, he will... (366 words)

We should eventually be together...right?

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13 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello folks, please hear my situation out. I really deeply have feelings for a coworker but we are not together. She is a few years younger. I have never told her that I like her but I've tried to do thoughtful things for her to show how much I care. I do not want to totally ... (740 words)