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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help with snogging and relationships...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 14 nearly 15 and i remain loveless, iv been in one relationship and all we got to was just kissing on the lips no snogging ect no ones really wants me andi dont know why i spose im not bad looking im not fat im fairly thin and athletic tall i dont know how to snogg im afraid ... (81 words)

What did he mean? Did he want to hold hands with me? What do I do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya everyone, a bit of a dilemma, im still mates with my ex bf and talk to him all the time, anyway monday i spent most of the evening with him, his mate and mine, anyway when i bought him a drink he came over and said to me im going to mount you and he said better believe it, ... (254 words)

He wants to watch dogging or go to a swingers club and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well, im 16 and my boyfriend is 19, basically we've been sleeping together for 4 months of our 7 month relationship and its been good. But lately he has come up to me and asked if he can go to watch dogging or go to a swinggers club. its hard for me as i feel used and not good ... (92 words)

Texting his co-worker 30-40 times a day but says nothing is going on

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age - My husband has been texting a female co-worker at work. Sometimes a multiple of 30 times a day.She is a lot younger than he is. I found out. He swears nothing is going on. Do I believe him, or am I being stupid to think that nothing is going on?? HELP!!!!... (54 words)

I am a lost soul and need some guidance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is kind of long and complicated, but I am a lost soul and need some guidance. My last relationship was not a good one. There were a lot of ups and downs, but mainly downs. We broke up quite often and got back together every time because we just couldn't stay aw... (489 words)

Do you think I'm being too full on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i really like this guy, i've told him and his friends, im very forward about it as i dont see the point of not being honest about your feelings. he know's my ex whom i have children with. i have told him me and the ex are over but he said he doesn't want to step on my ex's ... (85 words)

How can I become friends again with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my guy friend who I've known for almost a year doesn't like me any more. How can I tell that he doesn't? Or how can I tell that hes moved on? He hasn't been talking to me lately and when I try to talk to him he ignores me but what I hate the most is that he sometimes ... (115 words)

What have I done wrong? I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared my boyfriend of 8 months will leave me. I'm 16 he's 19. When me and him first got together he was all lovey dovey with me talked 2 me all the time texted me a lot, told me he loves me a lot and he cudnt bear not to be with me. But now eight months on he's changed a ... (212 words)

Calling all men!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Calling all men! Men i need your advice! I wanna know what you guys like to hear in a brand new "getting to know each other" friendship/potential something. What kinds of things turn you on in a woman? I think Im pretty chill, but I wana know what you appreciate in a ... (220 words)

We've been hanging out but now he tells me he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in febuary. But we've been still hanging out. yesturday he tells me that he has a new girfreind. what should i do. I feel so down and depressed and dont know where to go from here... (43 words)

We're having problems right now, how can we make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend were perfect together but now because of things i said over a year ago she says she feels different about me. she said she's sure she still loves me and doesnt want to break up but we dont know what to do. we decided not to talk this week and see if that ... (87 words)

I just feel everything has been left to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married nearly 25 years. We met when I was very young and I loved him from the first time I saw him. We've had some really bad times. We have a disabled son, we've lost a daughter and a grand-daughter, who my daughter had when she was 16. He hasn't coped well with ... (168 words)

Both mentally & physically attracted and just be friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you guys think? If a man is extremely attracted to a woman, physically and mentally, can he ever be just friends with her? Whether your answer is a yes or a no, I'd appreciate an explanation as to why you think either way.... (45 words)

What can I say to him in order to get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i like this guy.... Well i think i do !! Any ways im really defenantly attracted to him but he makes me really nervous and it kind of feels that sometimes he almost ignores me he kind of looks at me sometimes and like fixes his hair and then looks away.... We dont really ... (161 words)

Suspicious texts on his phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this is more of a gut suspicion than anything. My boyfriend and I welcomed our son into the world 8 days ago. I had a rough labor that ended up with a c section . I came home from the hospital last Friday and our son came on Sunday. This morning I was out in the living ... (153 words)

Six cans of red bull a day? This can't be good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres a guy i know who i am worried about, he drinks at least 6 cans of red bull per day, surely this cant be normal? What health problems can occur from consuming too much caffeine? ... (36 words)

What happened? We never got together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here goes, I met this guy on a music download site and we hit it off right away. We exchanged numbers and our picture were up on the site so we knew what the other one looked like With into weeks he was telling me that he had strong feelings for me and how he thought about... (692 words)

I think my "soft" approach has backfired and she's gone back to her ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - well i have been "dating" this amazing lady since March - we are both in out late 30s. Everything has been perfect. Our emails and texts have been out of this world and we both agreed that we can't get over how much we click. Recently we started getting physical (though just ... (403 words)

Why isn't he having sex if thats what he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with a guy for a few months but we were never official because he had issues with labels and just wanted to "be with each other" I said that was fine unless he asked me for sex, which he did, he kept asking when we were going to do it and wanted a blowjob. He knows that I ... (217 words)

How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i have a massive issue. Let's start by saying I love a guy that likes someone else. I was dating this guy but he broke up with me for her. But we made out a few nights ago. I didn't mean for it to happen, he put his arm around me and we were walking around. I thought he ... (168 words)

She dumped me but still wants to hang out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My now ex GF dumped me almost two months, now she's coming back into the picture. we chat online sometimes and whenever I tell her I'm going clubbing ,to the movies, to a friends BBQ, or for a ride in my motorcycle she asks me if I want to take her. This is very awkward for me, ... (85 words)

16 and erectile dysfunction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for eight months now, and for five of those months we've been sleeping together. I love him more than anything and he loves me too. I know he does. He never fails to show it and he does so many things for me. We are both sixteen, and were both legal ... (433 words)

Dating a guy but thinking of a girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a bit confused at the moment.I'm a girl Ive been dating this guy for over 2 years now. We have never had sex, since I'm not quite ready yet. I really love him. But lately I've been having sexual thoughts about a girl. I cant get her out of my mind! Could this mean that ... (76 words)

Useless husband doesn't show any appreciation to me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, I do everything for my husband. I get up before him to make him breakfast, I make sure the house is tidy I fold his laundry, I run him baths, I shave him sometimes as he finds it tedious. As well as household duties I also write him letters, e-mails, never f... (441 words)

On line fantasy may become a reality.... But I am married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for five years and we have a child. I recently "ran into" my first love (middle school/highschool) on the internet. We started swapping messages and then we started texting. It started as casual chit chat, then a little flirty, and then it got a little ... (161 words)

Am I being too forward and annoying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this boy, i dont want 2 date him. i met him on myspace. He send me a friend quest, i was very excited cause he was sexy, so of course approved it. but i send him message like everyday, i told him that i wouldnt send him so many messages anymore, cause i thought i was ... (98 words)

How can I help my sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a quick question. My sister ask me some advice but I have no idea what to say to her b'cus I have never been in that position. She's having an affair with a married man and he says he wants to leave his wife. Aparently he told his wife he wants to leave, but he is... (196 words)

Is it okay too have sex with a girl you don't really like, when you like someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is it okay too have sex with a girl you dont really like when you like someone else ?... (19 words)

I gave my professor roses and now she calls me pumpkin, does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have given this lady professors some roses...dont get it wrong im a female myself and that makes me not straight...let me just get to the point she knows i like and want her to be my girl...she also accepted the roses...told me i should have spoken to her from before...but im ... (81 words)

I befriended him to get closer to him. Do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old male and I'm having trouble coping with being intensely in love with someone from my year, the only problem is that it's a guy. It's been going on for a year and a half, he is all I ever think about anymore and I'm slowly going crazy. In the early days, I ... (463 words)

We argue and I may lose my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with this guy, we went out for a long time, then he finshed with me, we're going out again now and he tells me he loves me, but the other day he told me we should stop it for now because we always argue. i toldhim we would try not to argue, so we didnt stop it. i just feel ... (85 words)

I like this girl, but she ignores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - well there is this girl i like a lot and she acts like im not in front her or i am usally shy. i thinks she likes me but shes probally hiding her emotions what should i do... (38 words)

I don't want to ask her out and make things awkward with my tutor... but I really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I don't know exactly where to start. First thing you may need to know is that I'm French, even though I live in England, and have always been attracted to foreign girls. I needed to brush up on my rusty German because I had a job interview coming where it would be test... (951 words)

Does it really matter what a relationship is called as long as you're both happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a bit of a general question for everyone here! When you are little and in high school, going out with someone is a simple case of saying "will you go out with me"? The person either says yes or no, and then you 100% know where you stand with them. Simples. But as... (235 words)

My boyfriend had one previous relationship with a man, and I can't accept it...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, so i have a bf which really loves me and i feel great with him, but my boyfriend in the past had one relationship with a man and i really cant accept this thing. if it was you would you stay with him? however he confessed that it was his only relationship, as all the othe... (73 words)

Boyfriend left me, will he come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend of 4 years. It has been a difficult 4 years. But the times have not been all bad, or else it wouldn't have made it this far. He is younger than I am and I have 2 children from a previous relationship. The past 2 months have been terrible, and 2 weeks ago he ... (215 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, but he still wants to be with me, do I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship for 2 years and i cheated on my boyfriend.I slept with someone else and i did it thrice.He is an angel and he has accepted me.I confessed my mistake to him and now i want to be very nice and want to love him from all my heart. The thing that was wrong in... (351 words)

How do I make him see that I want to be free and happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Help. I have been in a relationship for a year nearly, it has been very good, but we have our ups and downs. Due to personal problems my BF closed off for a while. I went away for a week and I was able to think about us. I decided I couldn't go on not feeling loved, a... (121 words)

I seriously have the hots for my sister in law!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an issue that has been driving me crazy for a couple years now. I am married, and her brother is married. I am seriously having the hots for his wife. She used to be VERY 'freaky' if you will, and still has a slight taste of that in her. She does not work. I mean, ... (156 words)

Boyfriend says I'm a controlling person, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with my boyfriend we've been dating for 3 years and he says that i'm a controlling person and he states that becuase i told him to stop talking to one of his girl friends because she hurted me so many times and we broke off because of her once , now he says ... (248 words)

I feel used and stepped on by my partner of 6 years. Am I a sap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - someone please help i feel so down ive been with my current partner for 6 years for the past 4 hes been very cold to me emotionally ive tried everything i can to help. ive put myself in terrible financial hardship to help him but when i get stressed over it h... (169 words)

Does anyone know the trick to a "flawless lady garden"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like to be completely hair free down below. However, no matter what hair removing method I try, I still get red irritation and spots. Does anyone know the trick to a flawless lady garden? ... (35 words)

How can I get rid of those last extra pounds??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 5ft 4inches and I'm almost 10 stone. I don't think I am fat, but I would like to be at my target weight of 9stone. Compared to others, I don't really have alot to lose, however because I'm not drastically overweight I am finding the extra pounds very hard to shift. Does ... (69 words)

What every day objects can we use to get sexy in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had really good sex the other day, with the help of a feather. We used it as a way to build up and stuff and in the end it was amazing. We were just wondering, what other objects would we be able to use which are everyday objects. Any tips or stories would... (68 words)

My girlfriend has told me she just doesn't want or need sex anymore...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so this has been going on for a few months now. My gf and i have been together for about a year and we've lived together since august of last summer. We used to have sex without discussion and anywhere from 3-6 times a week. The first night we actually hung out we had sex. ... (342 words)

I'm so skinny, when will I start to fill out and look normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am reaaaaaally slim. i'm definitely NOT anorexic, thats just a terrible thought. all my friends are like 'oh how skinny are you' and its really annoying because it makes me feel upset. that i'm not normal like everyone else. everyone is like 'oh i wish i was you' and i'm like ... (207 words)

Ex bf says he will change his behaviour, is it possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex whom I was with for 2.5yrs is begging me for 1 more chance. He was emotional abusive but was always saying things as "jokes" n I told him this is unacceptable but he says he didnt realize it made me this upset til now. He's 26 but is very immature still and needs to ... (611 words)

How to get over a teacher crush?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a commonly asked question, I know. I'm pretty much in love with a teacher. He's amazing, but I won't go into details. The only thing I want to know is how do I stop loving him? I know it's a stupid, pointless crush, but I can't stop thinking about him. What can I d... (100 words)

Overwhelming sexual chemistry...should I do something about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it strange to get in contact with someone you met at work a few months ago and found out they were interested in you but couldn't reciprocate because i was in a relationship at the time? A girl was doing some surveying at my company a couple to few months ago and she kept... (611 words)

My husband doesn't want sex anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) age - How can I get my husband sexual attention? He never wants sex. Should I keep trying to turn him on,or it just wasted time? What is the best thing to do,just dropp it,or keep innitiating? I feel,it is very strange, he wanted it before. What is going on with a man ,who does not... (66 words)

Grilfriend physically cannot give head. Move on, wait, or accept it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I have posted this question before but didn't explain enough so the advice I received wasn't particularly relevant. The problem I seem to have is that I am in a 5 month ongoing relationship- we are both 21 and I have never received head to completion. I have once for 2 ... (366 words)

Major trust issues from the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have a boyfriend of 7 months, I love him and one day want to marry him. However, he has some seriously deep trust issues from his dad leaving him and being cheated on by all his ex girlfriends. So from this he believes that im going to do the same and hurt him. His way of ... (111 words)

Why did she treat her scumbag ex better than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, New to these forums, but I guess my answer is straight up is; Why did she treat him better than me? What's he got better than me? So, rewind, The story goes like this... (try to make this short as I can) Ive been with this girl about 6 months, love her lots, think she... (427 words)

Attraction to my daughter's teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really fancy my daughters teacher I can't stop thinking about her. I am a women so that makes things so difficult, there is chemistry between us most definitely what do I do? ... (38 words)

He says he loves me but I'm not sure if he is just trying to get me into bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me, he's gone all the way with girls before, but i havent gone that far yet, he keeps tryin to push me into having sex and i dont know what to do. should i have sex with him? or keep sayin no? but what if i keep sayin no and he ... (85 words)

I want to make this a night to remember!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy. well i havent seen my boyfriend in a while (examss. great things that they are!) and hes coming over to spend the evening with me tonight, just the two of us and no-one else will be home. So i thought i would ask for some idea's on how to spice our sex up, as were... (151 words)

My life is in ruins, how could another human being do this to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i had been happily married for 12 years to a beautiful woman who i loved dearly, something i always thought was mutual. we had about 5 years together before we both decided to start a family, and were overjoyed when our first child was born in 2000, perfect in everyway we ... (910 words)

New lover doesn't use deodorant....any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age - I have new lover who i seriously want to keep. i am terrified of offending him. He is smartly dressed and clean in appearance, however, i noticed that he does not use a deodrant and has a tendency to sweat a lot. How can i possibly tell him, without upsetting him, i think h... (77 words)

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I met this guy a month and a half ago!!!! The weird part is I met him at church with mutual family and friends sitting all together after mass. I noticed he liked me b/c he said hi to me twice!!!!! After a week or so he kept on calling my mom's friend so she could set... (372 words)

How will our sex life ever get better if he wont stop masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age - My question is would you stay married to a man who lies and sneaks around behind your back. We have been married for 31 years, and 2 years ago I discovered he was watching porn and masturbating, we had no sex life, no wonder, anyway he promised to stop, we went to see a ... (315 words)

Am I old before my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 25 years old, i dont drink much, i keep fit and im happily settled with my long term bf. Everything initially sounds rosy however since ive become happy and settled none of my friends want to know, i constantly try to organise days and nights out with them which doesnt ... (169 words)

Irresistable urge to contact my first love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - ok--16 years ago and counting, i still think about the first boy i was ever in love with. i was 13. i think we would have dated, but i wasn't allowed to go to his house when he invited me over, so at school we held hands and put our arms around each other and flirted between ... (167 words)

I cant let go of my younger lover

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age - How do I let go of my lover? I am in an unhappy marriage. I have asked my husband to leave so many times but he refuses to because according to him, he wants our family to be complete. We have one son.We talk only when absolutely necessary, mostly about business, and i ha... (241 words)

Pains in my stomach after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The first time i had sex a few weeks ago it was fine during sex, however a couple of hours after i got a sharp pain through my stomach area every time i stood up/straightened my back. I didn't know what caused it or if it was to do with the sex, but i went to bed and in the ... (127 words)

Kissing and HIV

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want ask that if may i kiss my hiv positve friend now will i become hiv positvie or not?... (20 words)

He is withdrawing from me and I am worried it is because of my weight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. However, lately he has not been talking much with my. I feel like he is withdrawimg from me. He is going through a lot of stress, due to his mom being sick. SO i dont press the fact that he isnt talking. BUT, I dont feel sexy ... (127 words)

How do I hug/kiss my boyfriend on our second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've been going out with my bf for 2 weeks exactly and we are going to the park with my friend and her bf and i want 2 kiss him and give him a nice warm hug but we are both kinda shy... we havent even held hands coz when we went 2 the cinema I just layed on his shoulder... (73 words)

Afraid to tell him that I'm into him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really getting upset about this. I really really dig this guy. Were pretty decent friends. Ice liked him for about 7 months, but only this much for 3 months at the begining and 2 months now. In between we weren't really talking a lot so it faded. At the begining about a ... (192 words)

I don't trust my own judgement anymore.....should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

27 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Don't know what to do, I have been married for 17 yrs. 4 yrs ago my son nearly passed away with head injury he had lots of surgery has recovered thankfully.That same year my husband started a new job and started acting wierd not being a very good husband.I had a gut feelin... (638 words)

How can I help my boyfriend with his OCD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend suffers from OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.)i love him so much but sometimes it gets really difficult between us. Take two nights ago, for example, he called me saying that he doesn't deserve me, that he's a loser and that the world would be better off without ... (136 words)

Is it wrong for me to be texting other guys when my ex is still in the picture?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex want me back but until he proves to me he changed im not sure. Deep down he prob wont and i kind of no this. Anyway do u think it wrong 4 me to be texting and possible other men that could possibly give me what i want. I dont know why i feel guilty should i. Me and me ex ... (89 words)

I get turned on too easily!

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27 May 2009 (M) age 30-35 - My problem is I get turned on too fast and easily. When with my girlfriend and we start kissing I get an erection almost straight away and before I know it I feel like I'm going to ejaculate. It completely blows my chance for sex and it's really getting me down. What ... (66 words)

Is it unreasonable for me to have such a serious expectation from a relationship?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I realli need advice. Ive been with my gf for 4 months now and we are very busy with final year of schooling, so we get like once or twice a week where we talk on the phone, and once to be together on the weekend. I find Im puttin all the effort into the relationship. Sh... (391 words)

Pregnancy tests keep coming back negative...will only a blood test work for me?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i missed a period three weeks ago and a week i went to a clinic for a urine test, it came back negative. A few days later i took a HPT, negative again and a week later i took another HPT negative again. I went into hospital today and they took a urine sample down to the l... (152 words)

I was just about to tell him how I felt but he went and got a new girlfriend!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem. I really like this guy called Will. he is 15 and i am 14. I have liked him for a year-ish and at first he knew because my friends told him but we didnt really talk too much so nothing developed and i think he sort of got creeped out cos i can be very obcessiv... (123 words)

Feeling guilty about our relationship

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's note: some content removed that was innapropriate for publication] hello I joined my school in year 7 (like most kids) and i live in the next town and get the train in the mornings and afternoons. I am pretty mucked up - my asbergic brother abused and tried to ... (585 words)

We were so good together but he cant cut off ties with his ex!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought we could make this into a great relationship but hes turned around and said he doesnt know if he can cut ties off with his ex who he has kids with, saying i might get hurt in the long run as hes not sure how he feels about her, im so upset and dont know what to ... (64 words)

I'm sure we are both straight but everyone tells us we act like a couple!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been best friends since high school and now we are in our last year at 6th form, getting ready to leave for uni. All our friends say we flirt with each other way too much and act like we are a couple. Even though we or so i think are both straight, she also has a ... (774 words)

Sister rivalry!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the younger sister (19) and I am finding it really hard to live/get alone with my sister at the moment. There seems to be a tense horrible rivalry and jealousy between us. She has admitted that she has always between jealous of me, ever since I was born she has felt I h... (146 words)

I wasn't ready! Why did I have sex?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel awafull, I am almost 30, and a single mum, have met a man on a dating site, he is 34, we just met once, that went ok, chatted a little online, and send a 1 or 2 text messages, and than, yesterday he invited me over for dinner. I went, but I drunk too much, we both did, ... (309 words)

I don't like being on top, its grosses me out!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have sex on a regular basis but the problem isn't him...it's me! I'm ok with the having sex part but I hate going on top and I don't like giving blow jobs or hand jobs either...the thought of it just grosses me out. He knows I ... (137 words)

He says I'm a cheat and I will cheat on him

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 22 and Ive been seeing this guy for a month now, even though i have a boyfriend, even though we both know its wrong, im willing to end it with my boyfriend for him, i know this has to be done as its not fair on him, then the new bloke went weird and said his friend said he ... (134 words)

Should I take another pill after having unprotected sex?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hellpp! last night i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend..however, im on the pill, and tuesday (yesterday) i took my last pill. so today i stopped for the 7 day break (if your familiar with how the pill works.) should take an extra pill today? from a new packet to be n t... (72 words)

Stuck in a room, doing absolutely nothing!

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I apologize for the long post, but I have a few relationship problems that I am seeking some help with. First of all, I love my girlfriend very much and moved out of my home state to be with her. She is very sweet and compassionate, but she seems obsessive over me. We are ... (751 words)

I told him the truth did he want me to lie?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Good Morning all. well here it goes last night i met up with a guy we'd been texting and talking to eachother alot recently and i ended up really liking him and he did me. so we met up last night and went for a drive the thing was i am quite shy when it comes to these... (628 words)

Should I forgive him, do I even have the right to be mad at him?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so my bf and I were together for 4 years, and he was always a great bf. We were in long distance relationship and eventually things became difficult and over the last year have been on and off. We stayed in touch, and when he came back to my city for awhile we hooked ... (172 words)

She knows something that has to do with me but she's hiding it!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I babysat this girl when she was a toddler, I'm in my mid 20s and she's 18, we're going to the same college and she doesn't like the idea that guys around her age are interested in me...so there's this guy that I like and she kinda knows him, I think he met her so that he could ... (208 words)

Is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy she likes him or to ask him out?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy named Pedro and I think he likes me also..The problem is that he is shy I noticed that when he talks to me he gets nervous. I know he won't make the first move because he is shy..So I'm thinking about asking him out.OR just telling him that I Like him..My ... (82 words)

I scared and there's something not "normal" in my room

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this is very akward for me to ask help on. So lately i've been feeling weird things.(i do not have any disorders nor am i on drugs) it only happens when im in my room. I feel like im being watched i feel eyes on me..I get scared like i feel like im in danger. I ... (252 words)

13 years old and pregnant. Unsure of what to do?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This will be quite long so lease bear with me. I came from a good loving family and has good reputation. My mom, my aunts, all the ladies in my family were married first before sex. Except for one, my aunt who was left by the man who didn't know they had a child together.B... (333 words)

Telling my ex that I still love her

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i posted a question earlier this month about "does my ex want to be a family agin" we had a long talk about a relationship i had that was broken off. wierd i know. but she actually cared. this changes my perspective on everything. what i want to know is how do i tell her or ... (88 words)

Why did the guy I stood by do this?

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27 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - well there was this boy who i've know since the 3rd grade and now im in the 7th grade (in other words from year 4 to year 8) and well we wern't good friends in the 3rd 4th and 5th grade because not many of the girls liked him and some of the boys becuase he was kinda annoying ... (384 words)

Was this all because of male competition?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back I met these two guys who live together. We partied once and I kissed one of them. He wanted to have sex but I didn't let him. I found out that he is a big manwhore so I probably hurt his ego. I stayed friends with him but started talking to his roomate, who is a ... (227 words)

She'll never return my feelings

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and attending college close to home. last year when i was a senior in high school i fell in love with a girl berely entering high school. we easily befriended and since we were both in the girls soccer team we became really close. ive always been a tomboy and ... (336 words)

Problems when my g/f is on top...

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27 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, well I'm kind of worried because whenever my girlfriend is on top, sometimes my penis cracks, like if you were to crack your nuckles...the very first time it happened it hurt a little bit, now I just got used to it...is it bad that this is happening???... (48 words)

Why can't I leave my ex - even though he cheated and robbed me??

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I WAS DATING A GUY FOR THREE YEARS. He was so nice and he surprised me with gifts and he was the best at first. WE LOVED EACH OTHER ALOT, WELL atleast i know i did. I found out later in the relationship that i had an std...called herpes. I passed it to him unknowingly. Well, at ... (579 words)

Am I wrong for not liking my friend's boyfriend?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I wrong for not likeing my friend new boyfriend? We are "were" great friends, until she got this bf. I understand things change once we get bf or gf, but I don't like him. I don't know him or never talked to him but there is something I don't like about him. She gets mad at ... (114 words)

I am leading on all the guys I am dating, just so I can break their hearts!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have issues... I am a love at first sight type of person. I have only really like two people and both of which are love at sight. I barely knew them yet I really liked them. Anyhow, none of those really developed into anything, I was just too shy. I really liked the... (322 words)

He's totally changed, I can't even talk to him about a problem without fearing he will get mad at me!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together, exclusively, for a little over years steady. Up until this past year, things have been wonderful, but it's suddenly all starting to fall apart and I don't know why. We've been great friends before we started seeing each other. I am also ... (977 words)

I feel inferior all the time!!

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27 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I feel inferior all the time. I don't know why. I mean, I've always had some issues with my self esteem, but usually I did pretty good and was fairly happy with myself. Of course in high school this was normal, as I wasn't pretty or popular, so I had my share of rejections and ... (582 words)

Fell out of love with my wife, want to move on with a new love

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been married for 6 years with a 3 year old. I feel that Im not in love with my wife anymore, although she is a great mother and wife. Shes a stay at home mom. We just went in different directions. Life goals, humor, hobbies, etc. Im a workaholic which probably ... (287 words)

I said things I regret, she won't see me

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend, who I think of practically as my GF, and I got in to an arguement two months back. In the heat of the moment I said some things I shouldn't have and regretted it almost immediately. Afterwards I lost faith and didn't think she'd ever talk to me again. Thankfully ... (335 words)

He seems genuine, but my friends think he is just after sex! Tell me what you think.

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Let me apologize in advance for the long posting. I met a guy through some mutual friends about a year ago. We were paired up in their wedding. That was the first time we had met in person. He seemed like a nice guy. We talked for a while at the reception. While we were ... (939 words)

Whats going on with my best friend?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 months into our friendship i got a ... (1680 words)

Do I walk away from this jerk??

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old woman that has been dating a 37 year old cop for the last 3 1/2 months. He does work alot and his schedule is limited to Sun and Mon when he is off for us to see eachother. We have been seeing eachother on most of the days he is off. We generally go to ... (410 words)

How do I prove I won't break her heart again?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do u prove to a grl that u wont break her heart again? i have explain to her how i feel and how much i care but idk....... (29 words)

How can I pull off this surprise?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriends birthday is coming up at the end of june, we are madly in love with each other, and i really wanted to do something special for him, since it is his 18th birthday.. i bought us tickets to go to mayhem tour, which is about 2 weeks after his birthday, im going to ... (179 words)

Can LDR work if you barely see each other?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im a 20 year old female and im currently dating ah 21 year old female. we have only seen each other once since we've been together. we have been dating for 3 months now, and i can honestly say i love her. she's there for me when others are not. sometimes i feel as if its ... (139 words)

Would he tell me he likes me if we were alone?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy he works at pick n save and he is seventeen or eighten and i am fourteen, i like him a lot and he is always looking at me and we both look at each other, idk its weird its like we cant stop looking at each other, anyways i go to pick n save with my dad nd my ... (122 words)

I want her back, she said no. Is it NO?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, so here is the deal. Im 20, shes 21. We were both truely in love and have a child together. I became a BAD alcoholic, and treater her horribly for a long time. A little over a year ago we split. I stopped drinking, and we went 6 months without so much as a word.. then we ... (297 words)

Looking for anal sex tips

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been talking about trying anal sex, and im all for it but i want it to be good. Does it always hurt? or does it feel better after doing it a few times, and also kinda embarrasing but is there a way to get rid of feces in there even though i do... (66 words)

Having an affair with a married man, and he asks if I love him

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27 May 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I am having an affair with a married man. But its sort of odd. He never calls me, except to book the appointment for our meet. It's been going on for a while, and lately he wants to know if I love him. We share nothing but sex for about two hours each time. I am just so ... (137 words)

Tradition rips apart mutual love - How to forget this love??

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friend and he loves me unconditionally but I am forbidden to marry outside my own culture/religion (we're both young adults now). He gave up finally after 3years right when I realized I was actually in love. He still cares for me but it's forbidden. ... (67 words)

First time ideas?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfreind and we both are still virgin. For some time we are thinking of doing sex ,so please let me know some tips for first time sex and the best position to break her hymen for less pain... (41 words)

Affair where we're both married to others -- can it be love?

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27 May 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Well I know that I am going to get alot of slack for this one, but here it is. I am a married woman and having an affair with a married man. We both never talk about leaving our spouses. I know its wrong, and so does he. Obviously we stuck I guess. Lately he's been asking ... (80 words)

Love of my live, and memories

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK well we were together when I was 14 and he was 17 (yes I know very young love) but I can’t seem to stop thinking about him. He was and still is the love of my life I think, I am now 28 and there is not a day that goes by when I don't think about him. I remember the littlest ... (1121 words)

I like him, but I'm afraid my friend will tell him I like him

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K i put 2 questions in one so ya plz answer!! K well there's this guy i really like and i have no idea if he likes me...... He is a friend of my brothers and a friend of the family..... So me and my friends are going to a dance on the 26 th and my one friend is gonna tell him ... (238 words)

Is there a relationship here?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about six almost seven years now. My problem is he has a job that requires him to be out of town for weeks at a time and then only gets 3 or 4 days home before he has to leave again. My problem is I don't know if I want to be in a relationship ... (166 words)

Does she really care more about him than me?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, my girlfriend of nearly eight months has been talking to this guy over the internet for about four years. She says they used to be, sort of together, long distance but then she broke with him (she says). Thing is, she always wants to speak to him. Even after we woke ... (362 words)

My mother doesn't approve, but he loves me! What should I do?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16. my boyfriend is 18. he knows how i feel about sex and he is able to wait until im ready. im still a virgin. we've been together 3months. just recently him and my mom got into a huge arguement.. about how she is overprotective. she got pissed and told him to get the f**k ... (109 words)

Am I that bad at this or is he that difficult to please?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months now. We've been doing oral and recently sex. I have a few questions regarding ejaculation? When I first started giving him blowjobs, before, it took like, 15 minutes, but now i can't get him to ejaculate anymore ... (248 words)

Is he getting ready to leave me?

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27 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Is there any signs, when your husband is thinking of leaving you? I have a feeling ,that something is going on in my husband head, but he wouldn't tell me what it is. He would be doing it in secret ,just leave a note, as he is not the kind of guy, who can handle the truth... (143 words)

Do I have subconcious feelings for him? Why do I feel used?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I've started living with a guy friend from school. We've been really good friends for a long time, and although we used to be attracted to one another romantically, we've been platonic for the past two years. In the evenings we usually like to study together... (256 words)

I love him but he loves her!...I cant win!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love him so much.He loves her. She loves him. Everybody wins but me. I just can't get over him. He's my best friend and I'm happy for him, on the outside, but on the inside, I'm dealing with the pure agony of it all. I want him so badly but I know it's not lust because I ... (99 words)

Rumors! But am I the father or is he?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Here's the deal. My wife is pregnant. We've been together for a year, and for the most part, it's been a good year. Like most people, she has her share of history, and I have mine. While this may sound like some of that, it's really not, at least I don't think so. She works... (573 words)

I don't see a future with him. What should I do?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im with this guy and ive been with him for 8 months and i have alot of feelings for him but i just dont see the relationship going to far or i dont see a future with him in it...what does it mean? and what am i suppose to do... (50 words)

He's beat down with addiction, but I love him. What do I do?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - have spent 7 years raising child alone .casually dated over years never introducing child to any dates. lived next door to man a year in a half ago.hated one another.he was a single dad raising two teenagers on his own.daughter started watching my child while i worked we ... (573 words)

I feel used and abused emotionally...

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This started a week back. I had asked a guy who worked at my school if her drop me off at my bf house because i wanted to see him. When i was aking my bf how do i get to where he live, he asked me who was bringing me and i said a friend. He then asked me if it was a boy, or ... (1138 words)

Opinions please. Am I doing the right thing?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age - I am in love with a girl who was once divorced. I am single..i love her so much that i can't stay without her. I hid this fact from my family that she had an ex. I am planning to get married to her. But i feel sometimes that she gets sad when she looks at other couples. She ... (149 words)

Is there a way I can induce lactation (without pregnancy)?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. I dont know if this sounds silly or not but is there a way to induce lactation without pregnancy? BACK STORY Im 18 years old with my boyfriend of 1 year 5 months. My boyfriend loves to suck my boobs and fantasizes about me being pregnant. When we are in bed and ti... (292 words)

How can I deal with these overwhelming feelings?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i need a bit of advice. When i fall for guys (there's only ever been 3) I fall really hard, and it is so frustrating because i'm not going out with them. One of them was shy and at the time, so was I; we barely knew each other yet sat next to each other in le... (379 words)

Should I send him a letter?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Its our 4th month anniversary, I was thinking about writing a letter, and in it saying how i cry for joy knowing im with one of God's own archetypes. Weve already exchanged letters before, so its not like its new. what you think?... (45 words)

Going for the burn!!!

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Masturbating for 30 minutes and having sex for 30 minutes continuously. How many calories would burn in each process for a male weighing 200lbs (90kgs)??... (26 words)

Why does she mean so much to me?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i have a girlfriend who i care about very much and i think i love her. i know im young but i just know it. okay well we got into a fight yesterday. she blew things way outta proportion. but i still took the blame. i always do. i apologized at least 40 times. she never ... (196 words)

How do I win back my boyfriend?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. after over a year of dating and talks of marriage, my boyfriend breaks up with me. We had had a huge argument that we never seemed to get over and things fell apart from there. Well, in the first few weeks I tried to win him back but he was firm. Then I backed off and h... (221 words)

I feel as if he was "the one". How can I get him back?

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27 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I am a little lost. My ex boyfriend and I, who were together for 5 years. 3 months ago we broke up. I need advice on what to do. He tells me constantly that he doesn't want me back at all. That he is not interested in being back with me. But he wants a sexual relationship ... (123 words)

He never seems to "finish"!!!!! Help!

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any condition or anything that makes it really hard for a guy to - finish- , i'm asking cause i just cant get my bf to finish, i would give him a hand job and he would pre cum and then a little fluid but doesnt finish, stays hard, we dont have sex, just what people ... (117 words)

Help with better self esteem without therapy!?!?

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27 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please do NOT judge me. Okay, so I know I have an eating disorder- not like anorexia- but I won't eat in front of anyone (including my parents) except my sister. I mainly eat infront of her because she was anorexic and I'll do anything to keep her eating. I know I'm fat- no... (286 words)