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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Opinions needed please... Would this be considered rape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my question is if a 14 or 15 year old has sex with a man willingly between the ages of 16 or 17. would that be considered rape even though they were 100% willing? Thanks much appreciated. Curious,... (41 words)

He thinks I slept with someone else at the party but I didn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright so my friend had a party on sunday. the kid that i really like was going to go but didn't end up. he got mad at me for something and wouldn't text me back or pick up my phone calls and i didn't know what i did. so today he texts me and says i know you fucked someone ... (185 words)

He won't tell me if something's bothering him, how can I know for sure that something is bothering him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I like is almost 16 in september and i'm 17. Do you think that he would act differnetly towards a girl he liked because hes younger? He likes me but he doesn't talk to me anymore and I don't know why he would be playing mood games with me. he's been acting like an ... (105 words)

I have fallen head over heals for a straight man who is 26 years old and with eyes that can melt butter.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age - I have fallen head over heals for a straight man who is 26 years old and with eyes that can melt butter. We were to go out for lunch sometime, swimming on a day and date he picked but he backed out. I mean this man is gorgeous and I really want him, but he got ticked off with ... (110 words)

I'm starting to wonder about my boyfriend after his "jokey" ways.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i just found out im pregnant, im 19 and not in the best economic position. ive not been with my boyfriend for long but its grown into a great relationship and feels like we've been together a very long time. We've really been getting along and already confessed that we ... (427 words)

I love her very much and don't want to lose her... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for just under 8 months. everything was perfect up until last friday. before we started going out i thought she hated me because we had gone out before and broken up. i said some things i shudnt have and i really didnt mean them but at ... (118 words)

Why is he acting like I don't exist...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend still isn't talking to me! I haven't been texting him in a week and I saw him today at school. He walked by my classroom but he doesn't do it often. i'm sad that we had to be apart. He talks to me a little when were on the bus but every once in a while I see the ... (192 words)

He SEEMED like a genuine, caring guy, but I'm starting to feel that his words don't match his actions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel a little lost. My (ex-)boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me several months ago. During our relationship he cheated on me and disrespected me in many ways. I have been very down, but I have been going out with friends and trying very hard to get over what's ... (781 words)

Bringing that spark back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) age - How can I bring back the spark in my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been dating for a little bit over 9 months and the feelings are kinda getting dull. We're always open for fun/new ideas and would do just about anything together.... (43 words)

Married to the Mob

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was married to a man whom I felt I no longer loved, so I divorced him and a couple years later, I met whom I felt was my dream lover. He swept me off my feet for 3 years we dated then finally I agreed to marry him, well almost immediately he changed and I am still in love ... (187 words)

What can I do to break the ice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to go farther with my boyfriend, but I dont know how to discuss or bring it up with him. He always tells me he wnats to but never does anything like we always make-out but i want a little more like feeling up or just like touching each other. How do i bring it up ... (60 words)

Heart broken in two...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help I cant decide between two guys. I was dating this guy that I was totally in love with but we had to break up because he was going to rehab we had been going out for a year and i really thought he was the one my family wasnt too fond of him though they liked him b... (189 words)

We've grown apart, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating this guy that i like alot we have been on an off for the past five months now an i think that has really put a toll on me it has drove me crazy. When we first started dating we did everything went to the movies played pool hung out at his sisters an went four ... (120 words)

I don't like who I have become, how can I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my morals have slippped and i don't know who i am any more. :( I used to have really high morals and was too sensible. I got A's in all my gcses but i felt like i was missing out on my youth. I felt a bit trapped, too. so i tried to be as rebelious as possible, i started t... (257 words)

I'm irrationally scared of one of my family members going missing or dying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok, here's my problem: I'm irrationally scared of one of my family members going missing or dying. It's gotten to the point where I can't relax at all if my mum or brother leaves the house. I'm not sure why I feel like this... I can't pinpoint the moment in my life where it ... (634 words)

I need support from someone. Should I call my ex or let him go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago after being together for two years. The reason was because he felt we needed space. Basically the whole 2 years was all about each other...we were each others lives.He even talked about marriage a lot.. and always said he could see ... (530 words)

I have never loved my husband, and although he tries really hard, I never will. Should I divorce him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. i'm 30 years old. I've been with my husband since I was 20. When I met him I was fresh out of a relationship and wasn't really looking to get into anything new. However I met him and he was different than anyone I had ever dated..sweet, respectful, same values, and I felt ... (444 words)

Mum's threatening to chuck me out if I don't pass my exams!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for my mother to threaten to throw me out of the house and make me repeat 3rd year if I fail anything or if I do pass in the subjects I want... (35 words)

She's harming herself after the breakup of her relationship! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine's boyfriend just broke up with her. She's been very depressed since. I've been trying to help her(talking to her, trying to make her laugh), but nothing seems to be working. She's started to cut herself and I feel it's my fault because I used to and I think she ... (67 words)

He's sweet and lovely and caring... and cheating on his girlfriend with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

- I'm in a bit of a mess... I met a man through one of my male friends. He has a girlfriend of 2months. He has text me day and night for the past week and a half and even when she is there with him he does it, he seems so caring and nice espcially in these texts and i don'... (379 words)

Possible miscarriage? Brown slimey stuff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! i finished my period last week. A couple days later i started to discharge dark brown slimy stuff. I dont know what it is. I just keeps coming out and i dont know if it is a possible miscarriage or what?? someone please help MOD NOTE: USER ALSO POSTED THIS QUESTION... (68 words)

Got pregant through cheating - how do I tell my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend now i got pregnant for a next man how can i tel mt friend that ... (19 words)

Hurt, my husband has left. Was it the porn or his family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so hurt because my husband stopped loving me. And what hurts the most is that we have children together. I told him it was his porn or us meaning his family. And I want to know was I wrong to make him decide porn or us?he is using me and I feel hurt. He won't answer my ... (67 words)

Can I be pregnant.... I gave him a hand job and he fingered me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ... i gave a guy a hand job and he cummed on my hands .. so i wiped then off .. and he put his penis back in his pants . he could have got a lil on his hands.. but they were dry and so he fingered me he didnt stick his finger in me .. he just played around the clit and ... (71 words)

Is our marriage over? How do I know when to call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age - Shoud I trust my intuition,or I shouldn't? My intuition says, my marriage is over,and i I let myself get even lower in my depression what the situation causes, I will not even going to be able, to get on wit my life. It is very scarry for me, after such a long time together, w... (191 words)

Was she controlling, acting like my mum, or just a bit of a bully?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I dated for 4 months. She ended things, and now I am wondering if she was a control freak ? And if I am better off without her? The relationship started off all good and fun, but by the end of the second month when I was taking her out for supper she looked ... (218 words)

He's far away and on dating websites as single... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to a great guy for two years. He is in the military and is overseas right now.I have a trust issue, and I am very concerned about several things;He is addicted to pornsites,has posted on singles sites as available,has sexual dreams about other women, and ... (62 words)

Ex and new boyfriend - are they plotting against me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles: I need your help, yet again. I broke up with my ex boyfriend(Tom) about one month ago, we had a bad breakup so we didnt talk about anything but our kid. 2 weeks after we broke up, a friend(Jeremy) that i havent talk to in a long time sent me a mess... (498 words)

Why doesn't he take pictures of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age - Does anyone have a spouse or lover who will not photograph them? My husband has never took my picture unless I mention it to him. I know he took pictures of girlfriends he had before me because I've seen them. He still has them. Yet, unless I mention it, he never thinks of ... (163 words)

We want to be together but he doesn't want marriage, do I compromise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now - I am 34 and he is 39. Not long by most people's standards but long enough for me to be sure of how much I love him. I recently asked him what he wanted from the future, and he told me that he would like to... (185 words)

Was I molested or raped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was a little kid around 7 or so my brother (around 10) would force me and my younger cousin to engage in sexual activity with him. i knew it was wrong but i was young and didnt know what to do. so i would tell him no and after a while he would quit messing with me, but ... (268 words)

Feelings are fading... how can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, its really wierd. I love my boyfriend I do. But thinsg lately have been so...normal. so causal. I dont feel excited or passionate when I'm with him anymore.. it is like things are cooling down and I dont want that to happen. Feelings are changing and I want to stop that ... (66 words)

I feel awful that I know he's having an affair. Do I tell his wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been struggling with a large amount of guilt for many years. I was very aware that one of my mutual friend's husband "Dan" was having an affair while their children were quite young and I never had the nerve to tell her. The longer it went on, the more difficult it ... (410 words)

How long does it take for a vasectomy to kick in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Does anyone know how long after a vasectomy is a man truly infertile?... (13 words)

Should I change for my old fashioned husband or dare to push for a job of my own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband believes that the women should raise children. We were both unemployed and I was expected to do all the housework and make dinner and never talk back to him. He would not bathe our daughter or change any of her diapers or feed her or spend time with her. He would ... (259 words)

Orgasm Trouble. The sequal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've posted before about my inability to orgasm and FINALLY "tada" I had one, and then some more later on... BUT they only last like half a second... was I expecting too much? Is this normal? My sex life is a gong show, any adivice could help at this point ha ha. Than... (55 words)

Pregnant but not sure marriage is the answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy soon after my divorce and we just hit it off. Neither of us ever expected much when we first me but we have really connected. In fact I can say that we have really fallen for each other. We are in our mid thirties and both came out of failed marraiges. He was ... (182 words)

It's been 2 days and no text! What do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met a guy, had an amazing first date, ended with a kiss and a promise to see each other again. Before I'd even got home, had a message saying how the enjoyed themselves etc etc. Had a text every morning and throughout the day for the next few days. Had second date, which ... (169 words)

Does a towel work as a contraceptive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy hooked up wich was a total mistake, but i was wondering if you can get pregnant if he pulls out and cums and then after uses a towel continue having sex.... (35 words)

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible to fall in love with someone u have never met but just spoken on the phone constantly probably a year ... (25 words)

15 & 23, too big an age gap or too big a risk?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and have feelings for a girl I meet at a wedding 2 weeks ago. She is beautiful. I couldn't keep my eyes off her all night. Then the bomb dropped, I found out she is only 15! I felt so ashamed even though I didn't act on my feelings, there was no phsyical/sexual contact ... (359 words)

Am I wrong to want closure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really need some advice. I posted on here before. My partner left me about 3 months ago, just suddenly ignored me then got nasty when I asked him why. I am still really upset because we were so close for the 6 yrs we were together, albeit we had ... (371 words)

How do I boost my self-esteem and rebuild the trust with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I'd appreciate some advice, and male opinions would be interesting - basically, I'd like to know how to work on boosting my self-esteem and my trust in my bf. To cut a long story short, we were together (living together) for 8 years, until we broke up (and he moved out) 12 ... (372 words)

My boyfriend has left me for another girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend who has been overseas the last four months broke up with me today..he said he fell in love with another girl and got together with her a week ago. I sent him a "lovey care" package two days ago. He'll get homemade cookies baked by me, naughty videos of me and a le... (74 words)

My alcoholic husband is not the same man I married and I'm not sure if I love him anymore

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 2 1/2 years to an alcoholic. He has tried to get sober in the past and always goes back to drinking. I have even given him the altimatum and left for 3 weeks until he stopped drinking, but he only stopped until I came home. All of our problems come ... (221 words)

Lost and confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i found out my girl of 11 months had went out with her old boyfriend from a 1.5 years ago.they went to dinner and she doesnt drink but she had a glass of dinner wine and was intoxicated,so she ask to be brought over to her girl friends.well she didnt make it she ended up in a ... (153 words)

Addicted to porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month ago my boyfriend and I talked about how much his watching porn bothered me, he said he would stop because of how much it bothered me. After several weeks of assuring me he had not watched any porn, yesterday I found out he was lying. I find lying particular... (197 words)

She wont stop lying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im just so messed up right now. i just don't know how someone can do this or its just me... a girl i was seeing typical was great to start. Then just too many wierd things and hearing things that she had done or lied to me about. could never get her to admit anything.. ... (151 words)

I think about him day and night!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i have a crush on a boy who is the same age as me apart from his 15 already and am 14 and half. i cant stop thinking of him day and night, he has diabetes and i sometimes care about him. so can you give advise, please.... (49 words)

Am I suffering from Anorexia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16, weigh 7st 10 and im 5ft 5 (female) in 2007 alot was happening in my life and i started suffering with anorexia. i went from 9st - 6st no one realised but i think my mum did as she started making me come in for tea but she never took me to the doctors. ... (283 words)

He wants to leave if I don't do what he wants....please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - we got married 7 months ago.we meet every 3 months,its long distance marriage,cos im waiting for spouse visa. any how,before i meet him i was in relationship and he did read the emails i had with my ex which i sent and received before i met with my husband,he knew i sent him... (384 words)

Does one mistake mean the end of everything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just found out my husband of six years cheated on me with his cousin a year into our marriage.How I found this out we were at a wedding and his cousin [3rd]down the line was there .She told me in her drunken state that my husband had a fling with her.I tackled my ... (220 words)

My wife is having an affair with her boss!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I just found out my wife is having an affair with her boss - I have the evidence. She does not know that I know, how can I stop it? He is married with kids, my wife and I have 3 children help?... (47 words)

She wants to be single! I want her to realize she wants me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with this girl for 7 months and we had been discussing marriage. All of the sudden she changes and blows me off for about a week. Next thing I know she says she likes another guy she has hung out with like 3 times but never done anything with. Then after showing her a ... (195 words)

Strong enough to break it off but how do I continue to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically theres a guy ive broke contact with, ive liked him for like 6 months and its been too much effort trying to see him, he never makes an effort. We meet up from time to time and he came to my party, we also slept together (i know big mistake, we werent even seeing each... (213 words)

I'm never able to say what I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

- Hiya, Okay a lot of my relationships or soon to become relationships end up failing because I never let them know just how I feel about them. I've never been one to show my feelings as I see it as making myself vulnerable to getting hurt. I do not believe in happily ever ... (175 words)

Trip of a lifetime planned with ex but don't know if I should go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently split from my partner of 2 years because i felt he did not treat me right and i gave him multiple chances to change. When we split, i wasnt sure if it were for good or to see if he'd actually change because i had left him. However, i asked him how many times he had ... (231 words)

Candlelite dinner in park a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is a candelit dinner in a local park at night sound good or is this too shit? My gf sed she doesnt reali care about how intricate it is so yea. The local park is a big one and its even got its own little lake :) or perhaps i should go to a beach or mountain, cept these ar... (79 words)

Having a very difficult time disconnecting from him emotionally!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some support and advice. I have been in love with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have split up before mainly due to the way he has treated me and his emotional cheating with other women-cannot verify that he physically cheated. He got very ill and although we were ... (690 words)

Date will be without alcohol this time and I'm nervous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a date tonight with a man ive seen 3 times but each time we was drunk and was out partying...tonight have to meet him from work with no alcohol....im so scared he will take one look at me and be like yuck....im so nervous to the point my stomach aches and my confidence ... (93 words)

Going through a divorce and his wife is a "princess"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone! I wanted to ask for a mans view on this one..... I've met and am living with the most wonderful man, thought they didn't make them like him anymore but poof here he is. Anyhow, he is going through a divorce at the moment and I have an issue with him "helping" ... (254 words)

Dating more than one person at a time? Bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like some opinions from you guys on how you feel about dating more than one person at the same time... I know there may be cultural differences here - I think in the US it is pretty normal for people to date a few people until one becomes more serious and then they be... (206 words)

My mum thinks my boyfriend is abusive but I want to move closer to him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my family LOVED my boyfriend up until we had a massive argument and I told my mum everything that he's done (he's not done anything abusive, but he does small things like reads my texts, hacks my email, reads my msn history, doesn't let me talk to guys etc) and my mum has ... (160 words)

18 year old girl sending me provocative texts...should I take her up on her offers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently 25yo but i've got an 18yo girl proposing all sorts of dirty things to me via text message. I've never even met her but she got my number after i allowed a friend who had no phone cred to use my phone to text her. Would it be wrong of me to take her up on her ... (60 words)

Should I wait a while and hope things change or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im really in a confusing situation. Ive been seeing this man for a while now.he says he loves me and i love him. We do have a special bond and i just cant c myself with anyone else.prob is hes been a bad lad in his life. Had lots of women and hes always been honest bout this. ... (282 words)

Any advice on how I can start to talk to a guy I met on Myspace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey :) i know this is a bit of a long shot but anyways i have myspace like most people, and just then i cam across this nice lad - so i added him. he accepted. and i really want to like start to talk to him or something but i don't know how to go about the situation. he is one ... (104 words)

Bad reaction from my family about our relationship, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old.I am in love with my GF who is 34 years old.She is divorced and not having any child. Her husband was impotant hence she didnt have sex before.She loves me lot and she is very much caring for me too.I am from middle class brahmin family and she is also bra... (86 words)

I found condoms in my husband's pockets and he says they were for a friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I Found 6 condoms in my husbands pockets and he said his friend asked him to bring it. I didn't believe him, and he was crying. could he be telling the truth?... (32 words)

Does he actually care about me if he is ok with me having other boyfriends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I don't live in the same city. He says he is completely in love with me, but he doesn't do anything about us moving together to share a relationship. He is actually in the position to do that, to create a circumstance for me moving over or for him to move with ... (229 words)

I don't know what he is playing at!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - about 7 months ago i lost the love of my life he was my everything i loved himm so much ... since he broke up with me we slept together on a few occasions ..im still madly in love with him but cant seem to move on other guys dont appeal to me cos i felt a connection with my ex ... (671 words)

Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid One of my relative told me that my hubby was riding a lady with him, after knowing this i asked him but first he lied but after making cross question he said yes, but that was only coincident, she is just a friend. After going through detail I knew that my hub... (152 words)

Handsome boyfriend and lustfull female colleagues!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys, this happened at the weekend and I just want your thoughts. My bf and I went to his works do at the weekend and there were five women there that he works with. One of the lady managers had gotten quite drunk and every time she talked with my bf, her hands gripped his ... (296 words)

I'm in love with my close girl friend

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we are on the same dormitory but diiferent rooms. we started hanging out until one day she wants to sleep beside me every night. i was used to it that she always sleeps besides me but then as months past by she told me that she don't want to anymore. well, i have some feeling ... (235 words)

How do I get over my boyfriend, he is all I've ever known

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of 1 year. To put it simply, im devastated. In hindsight, the relationship was going downhill since christmas. I think maybe we got two comfortable with eachother, the spark was gone, we were more or less doing the same thing every ... (411 words)

I need help to get this man out of my life!

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26 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi all, i posted a question on the 13th sex while i sleep. it is a long story and there is much more to it than that, but i tried again to end the relationship i was focused and 100% sure i was doing the right thing, but he asked me for sex one last time so he had a good memory ... (254 words)

He's only interested atfer I stopped making the effort with him....should I forgive him?

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26 May 2009 (F)

- Ok so I was/am dating this guy, who for the last month went all weird saying he was too busy to see me etc. It took me by surprise because just prior to that he was saying how much he liked me and how he'd miss me when I went home and how he couldnt wait to see me again!! ... (330 words)

Party, boys and fear! Help!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! So, I have liked this boy for over a year and half. About 6th months ago I admitted it... and now we have become closer and relli good friends. My friend said that he has changed around me recently. So we were all on the bus... and i asked him if he fancied th... (212 words)

Violent boyfriend has left his things at my house but I don't want to be near him right now!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. i am 20 and he is turning 23 next month.he suffers from depression and anxity. today he out of the blue got really mad and broke his computer. he smashed it and ran out of my house. later texts me saying this time it ... (251 words)

Do opposites really attract?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - right i'm 19 years old i'm meeting this girl today after she finishes work. i'm a bit nervous like we are totally different but i am really attracted to her and stuff. she's 20 and really shy she's also nervous about meeting today she's never properly been kissed by a ... (225 words)

What do you think about a letter for our 4 month anniversary?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I write a letter for our 4th month anniversary? I personally have been feeling a lot of strain, but apparently thats just me and my over reading of everything.. which I admit, I can get very, very insecure at times.. Besides, Ive realised for a relationship to work is ... (259 words)

Cramping during sex

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have been having sex for about 4 months now. Everytime he pushes in hard like. I cramp just when he goes in like that and just for that second. I don't hurt afterwords or during. Can someone explain this to me.... (43 words)

He has never lied to me before but I'm finding it hard to believe these text mesages are just a misunderstanding!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my strange story that i really need help with.... Okay, my boyfriend and i where out on saturday, we went to one of the local car and bike show, he parked rather far from the pits, he asked me to go and get a few things out the car after breakfast which i did although ... (389 words)

Why do men want sex from their girlfriend?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why men in love want to have sex with their woman? My boyfriend keeps telling that he really wants to make love to me. And that he misses me when we are not together...Its not that he pressures me to have sex with me but he keeps mentioning about his desire to have sex with me. ... (63 words)

Is there any hope for this marriage?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age - Dear all i need your advice please 15 months have past since i found out about what my h/b had been up to in the 21 years of marriage(cheating,lying,)he has told me some details of the things he has done and i cant get over it.Things are ok for a week then we have a row and ... (212 words)

What is an STD?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What is mean STD? yaar, Is it releted to pregnency or unsafe sex? pls tell me yaar what is meaning of STD and how it happends? ... (30 words)

Is he going to break up with me?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I have a theory that after the 5 or 6th month of a relationship, it either finishes or it blossoms. I'm in between the 5th and 6th month of a relationship with my current boyfriend. We haven't said "I love you" in a serious or formal way, but I do love him, and I do ... (367 words)

Emotionally unavailable

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have told to the man i was dating last year that it's better to stay friends, since we meet each other for very little time and he usually doesn't have time for me. Sometimes suddelny he wants to be together and i try to avoid him although i like him and i want to be with ... (223 words)

I know I completely broke his heart, how do I put it back together?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I were together for 12 years, an have been apart for almost two. I miss him terribly, and sometimes wonder why. Sometimes I think he still has feelings for me, by things he does. In the last year of our relationship I was on a waiting list for a public aid lawyer ... (248 words)

Clueless when it comes to girls!

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. this is a question about my friend when i was 16. she always liked talking to me, we always talked almost everyday, she got jealous when i talked to her cousin and we played this game where we love the other person than stuff we really like. i met her through my ... (105 words)

I don't want to fall for her!

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend. She comes around at times and when she leaves, I feel sad longing for her. When she's next to me, I have this cute love like feelings. The thing is I don't want to fall for her. She has been in relationships in and out and I wouldn't feel comfortable with that. ... (93 words)

I wanna have sex with my boyfriend's best friend

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been with my bf for 3 years now. But i have struggled the past few months...because i am a little curious about being with other people. We started dating when i was barely 15..he was only my 3rd bf..and the others only lasted a few weeks to 2 months, and we only ... (319 words)

Husband drunk and made out in the hot tub with mother of my daughter's friend!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - OK, I have been married for over 10 yrs now and we have been very happy. We have 2 kids - the oldest is 12. Kast weekend we had a party and my husband drank a lot of beer that night. My daughter had been at a friends house, and the mother "Ann" brought her home. When A... (1004 words)

Do you like it when a guy kisses you all over?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls and ladies only! Do you like it when a guy kisses you all over? And where? ie. cheeks, lips, neck, ear, part of chest. I do it all over, so is this creepy or just passionate coz i alter the pace from very soft to all over :P please tell me what you girls think of this.... (60 words)

What should I do the next time I see this girl?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i was at a party the other day with my mom side of the family. I was in the living room watchin tv with this girl who i know for a few years now but havent seen her for a while. She is my 2nd cousins cousin i think. im 100% sure im not realted to her. she is pretty. We start ... (103 words)

Is this what you would call FWB?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just met a guy about three months ago. We've been hanging out and having fun with maybe a little flirting here and there. We went to a party once, I got very drunk, he didn't but he decided to make out with me. The next evening when we were alone in his apartment, we took it ... (177 words)

I need closure from him!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really need some advice. My partner left me about 3 months ago, just suddenly ignored me then got nasty when I asked him why. I am still really upset because we were so close for the 6 yrs we were together, albeit we had ups and downs and we nev... (389 words)

Want a meaningful relationship, how do I get noticed by guys?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well this has been troubling me for a while and I was hoping someone could give me a little insight as to what I should do. I'm 20 years old and I have the hardest time getting noticed by guys it's as if I'm invisible to the opposite sex. They rarely if ever look at me let ... (131 words)

Still a virgin after 11 months of marriage, how do I overcome the pain of intercourse?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for 11 months and been with husband for 6 yrs. still a virgin what can i do to overcome pain... (23 words)

She was my girl first, I dumped her, now has a boyfriend, there is sexual tension between us, what should I do to find out if this could work?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I usually don't have to ask for help but this is a grinder. I dated this girl last summer, REALLY hit it off, I dumped her when I went to college (she was upset about it). Anyhow she got a BF, lost 'it' to him, convinced she will marry him. During this time I was seeing other... (260 words)

I have questions about my girlfriend's boyfriend, am I being too cynical?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't trust my friend's boyfriend at all. I always had this odd feeling about him and there have been a couple of red flags. They have been dating two months and she's NEVER been to his house. He says it's too messy. She offered him a cleaning from her company but he p... (192 words)

Broke up, back together, he is distant and non-responsive, did he stop caring for me?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We broke up. I asked for him back because i still loved him. Then we got back together. But he never calls me. Only I call him. He never tells me that he misses me anymore. What does this mean? i don't wanna be annoying so I would let a week go by without asking him how come he ... (131 words)

Met a guy over World of Warcraft while yet in another relationship, things got confusing, what is your opinion of the state of affairs?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy over World of Warcraft....he was amazing. He became my best friend and in no time we fell for each other. Well at the point in time, he was in a three year relationship, where I was in a one year. We still continued to flirt, until neither could take it anymore and ... (422 words)

Any suggestions on how to have a great male, anal sex experience, which color lingerie is sexier?

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26 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am a male and take on the role of the woman in my relationships with other men. I am a crossdresser and dress like a woman and love wearing lingerie. I give blowjobs and want to recieve anal. I have not yet but my bf wants to do me anally . Any advice on what to do to make it ... (86 words)

Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some love(miss you) songs and pict... (137 words)

Several guy questions, what is your opinion?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Especially shy guys, but guys in general. Do they feel pressure to ask the girl out that they like? If they do does that help give them the courage to go ahead and do it? Are they likely to wait a long time like until the last possible moment before they ask her out? Also if ... (68 words)

I like this girl, but don't know whether I should continue being friends, what do you think?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is my story: I love my friend, and I promised I will always be here for her. (Am I gay? no, bi? Maybe) and I am, I try my best. Anyways, we are in 2 different states, so there isn't much I can do but talk on the phone. She's always going out and has her own life, ... (190 words)

Long distance friends, would like to have a more romantic relationship, how do I accomplish this?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have been stuck in the friend category for way too long. I have known this guy for almost three years now and we have continued to treat each other with respect and care. I actually met him in a very casual manner but we did not exchange any information with each oth... (365 words)

A reconnection but I'm not sure if its worth it!

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a male friend in 2000 at school we hit it off big but never dated. We stayed friends for about a year and a half until I moved away. We eventually stopped talking...years later in 2008 he finds me on facebook and allthese feelings he said he had then came out as well as ... (151 words)

Best male friend has a girlfriend but I love him

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a girl and my best friend is a guy. I recently found out that he has a girlfriend, and ever since then I've been feeling really agitated and sick. I did have a crush on him at one point, but I never told him and it faded quite quickly, and it was before we were b... (455 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me anymore

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old boy who is totally head over heels about my girlfriend who I have been with for around 5 months now but over the last 3 weeks things have become incredibly hard work. We used to enjoy having sex at every opportunity available; she would dress up in clothing ... (307 words)

Would our ages leave us in an awkward situation?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Sooo... Im kind of stuck. Im a teen, who is pretty um... well, my heart wants some pretty impossible things... Theres a guy. Hes 31. I know for sure that this is love. Obsessive love. I built a shrine for him and burned a flower as an offering. Obsessive is an under... (185 words)

Hit it and then quit it?

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26 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when a guy calls a girl beautiful like when he comments pics on facebook, or texts her what does it mean does it mean he really likes her? or he wants her to think he like her so he can "hit it and quit it"?? or hes a good friend and just wants to make her feel good about... (73 words)

Like me? Or just toying with me?

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26 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok these this girl i met on face book and we started to txt each other and about 2 weeks of talking everyday i told her that i really like her and she said that she really likes me to and about a day or two later she said she was dreaming of me and we were ment to b together ... (130 words)