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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does liking anal masturbation make me gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does liking anal masturbation make me gay? does thinking of men when i touch myself make me gay? does asking these questions make me gay Help!... (29 words)

Can't cum quickly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have the opposite problem to premature exjaculation, in that I take ages to cum. I can get close on a number of occasions, (have pre-cum), but I can last for ages. Most of the time this isnt a problem, but sometimes it is nice to have a quickie, or cum before my partner ... (82 words)

Is it wrong to fantasise about a girl I personally know while in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and the girl I'm seeing are talking about getting more serious but the thing is.. I can't help fantasising about another girl who's just my friend whom casually flirts with me. Does this mean I may become unfaithful in a relationship? I mean, I'm a guy and guys normally ca... (88 words)

I'm seeing my teacher secretly...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've left school. I'm currently on study leave and are going back for exams on certain days this week and the next few weeks. me and a male teacher (24 years old) were always reallly really close, it might sound wrong but we kinda started seeing eachother secretly... (104 words)

Help!!! Confused about my sexuality...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been getting erections when i see pics of men naked and when i see girls naked, i took a gay test and it came out that i might be bi-curious, then i was surfing the net and come upon this gay club in my town, i looked all over the website and had a massive erection, and i ... (155 words)

Advice needed... Should we get back together or just remain friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me and its probably been a month or so and well she didn't break up with me we just kinda broke up with each other anyway we broke up cause she liked someone other guy (my cousin), she smoked pot, she drank to much, and cause she was ... (172 words)

Every girl I like doesn't like me... why???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i cant seem to get a girl. I'm not ugly, I constantly get told I'm cute, fun to talk to ect but every girl I like doesn't like me. Why? can anyone help?... (36 words)

I don't want to be in control at all, I want him to control me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm definitely a girl with a rather large submissive streak, I can understand the reason he wants me to be more 'in-control' dure in sex....because, obviously it adds variety and spice to the relationship and it's a fantasy most men seem to have. But I just don't want to th... (266 words)

Help!!! I think I'm in love with my step brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heres the thing my parents are divorced and my dad got remarried and i love his wife and her family like my own ..she has three sons and i never met the oldest one...but hte two i did meet are really cool..so recently i went on a trip to brazil with my dad and her to meet the ... (186 words)

I need some advice about the age of consent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old female. My boyfriend is 15 years old. He is a freshman in High school, I am a junior. I will turn 18 two months before he is 16. We live in Massachusetts and his parents are completely ok with us dating. Am I still legally allowed to date him after I turn... (63 words)

I need someone to talk to

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... Is there anyone I can talk to about stuff? I'm a teenager, don't have many issues, but I do really need someone to talk to, because my family doesn't really care how I feel as long as I do well.. Thanks :)... (49 words)

I'm good firends with my mate's girlfriend, we slept together and like each other, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known my mate for around 5 years and we have lived together for 2 years. I haven’t seen him for a few months because he is currently abroad. He has been with his girlfriend on and off for around 6 years. They have been back on for at least a year. I have known her f... (271 words)

One night with him and now I have feelings for him. How can I move on?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One year ago i started work at my new job and met a star of a person who i'm sure i will be good friends with for a long time. We spoke about everything and naturally her sons came up as we are fairly close in age. I then randomly met one of them as he plays football for my ... (426 words)

Is it illegal for a guy to meet a 16 year old on the internet for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Right I have been debating if I should ask this or not but its been doing my head in. I'm 26 and been talking to this woman on msn for about 3 months. We agreed since i was just out of a relationship that it would just be a bit of fun. Anyway long story short we met and had ... (246 words)

How do I warn this woman off my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend has a lady that is trying to get with him and he was honest enough to tell me. Now, how do I help him stop this woman from coming on to him. ... (37 words)

Amazing sex but now she's pregnant help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had amazing sex with this girl the other week she is my best mates girlfriend and i dont have any regrets there just one problem she's pregnant what should i do? ... (39 words)

Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car? Ok, so my boyfriend purchased a 'classic' car. It needs tons of repair work. That will take a bit of time to get that baby in good shape again. Anyways, he had said 'first a house then the car of my dreams.... (131 words)

What can I do to diffuse this situation before it turns really bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months, we spend every Saturday night at his dad's house with his dad and twin siblings (boy + girl) aged 15. Recently his brother has been paying more attention to me, cuddling up to me, playing with my hair, just being re... (101 words)

Should I tell him I slept with someone else when we broke up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. He as always had a jealousy problem as well as a bad temper. HE has called me every name in the book. He is very spoiled but he also has a lot of issues with his family. I know that he loves me, he does a lot of things for ... (202 words)

Does the amount of lovers you've had in the past matter?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

19 May 2009 (?) - Hi, I'm 24 and just broken up with my boyfriend. He made me feel pretty bad a lot of the time and one of the things he said which upset me was that I've slept with loads of people and I'm a slag. He used to count on his fingers the people he knew of. The number is about ... (133 words)

Why can I not let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i have been in a relationship for almost two years with someone who has cheated on me once, and planned on meeting another from the internet. I have been told by friends that I more of less gave him the green card to cheat because I did not leave him. My feelings ... (290 words)

If he thinks I'm that nice why can't we try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I'm confused I wrote a few weeks back about my ex breaking up with me, because I dated someone for 4 months. For those who may not have read my earlier writing... You see when I met my ex he was married and living with his wife and told me they were getting a divorce because ... (336 words)

Should I forgive and move on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is so long...complicated situation! My b/f and I have been dating for 10 months. I have major trust issues from a past relationship, and in March, I went through his phone and saw that he lied about going out to a bar with a co-worker (his boss' boss) one Saturd... (780 words)

He doesn't believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am engaged and he took my virginity. i didnt bleed so now he thinks i wasnt a virgin and is getting upset. i think i tore it while stretchin one time and now what should i say/do? please? ... (40 words)

As a bloke who has decided to be chaste I find myself increasingly frustrated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, as a bloke who has decided to be chaste I find myself increasingly frustrated. I want to respect myself by staying chaste but my sexual drive is driving me mad. I find my self control wearing when I am cuddling and kissing my partner. I see myself proposing at early 20's ... (82 words)

Male tendency

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My bf and I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and we are very possesive but he recently admitted that on screen that is tv or on net if there's a nude women he may be tempted to see that as it's a male tendency to see nude women... so I want to know that if on ... (108 words)

Took a test, negative, could I still be pregnant if I haven't gotten my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on Birth Control for 2 years, went off of it, didnt get my period for 2 months. Then I had unprotected sex, missed my period (i figured it was probably going to be the same 2 month delay). Still havent gotten my period (3 weeks late). Had unprotected sex again, took a ... (71 words)

Is it silly of me to be with this older guy, does age really matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to try and keep this short, but its not likely.. I'm 16 (17 in November) and I met this guy through my friend, she introduced us on MSN and we were jus speaking and getting to know each other as friends. We spoke on the phone, and so on. After a month of talking ... (678 words)

Is it normal to want to really hurt your partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal to wana really hurt your partner? i have no idea what to do i keep thinking of the relief i would feel just to slap him across the face or sex every man on the plannet just to hurt him and something is screaming out at me leave him because he doesn't love you, i'm ... (216 words)

Had sex on second date and now he is making excuses!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am 23 year old. I met this guy in the university, he is 29. He didn’t know how to approach me so he started talking with my friend and that is how he got my email. We chatted and invite me to a friend's party, of course with my friend too. We went there and we just ... (439 words)

After pressuring her to tell me what was wrong she broke up with me because I suffocate her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here goes, i'm currently almost week five into a "break" with my gf. Shes currently going through a stressful time as her parents are on the verge of seperating. Anyway she was acting a little bit off for a while and anytime i asked what was wrong she would say nothing. When ... (220 words)

He says I have issues, but actually he totally has issues!

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Grr! I'm ever so slightly annoyed. This guy I once adored is pissing me off. He didnt feel the same way back. Fine. I could deal with that, but I told him that I dont want to have classes with him next year. I did this because, I need distance to really get over him.... (113 words)

Should I ask HIM out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, im in a really difficult position please help? This boy, I have like him for about a year and a half. Recently, he has became a really close friend and always asks me to sit by him on the bus... My sister has told me that he likes me because the way he looks at me i... (124 words)

Jealousy issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is being really insensitive. I've been going through a really stressful period right now, I've got exams and my grandfather is really ill (he's got alzeimer's) My friend and I aren't getting along because she thinks that I don't deserve the grades that I get, when ... (215 words)

Love triangle - But the other guy is in a coma, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I am twenty four years old and in love with a girl who also says that she loves me. we have been together for two months now and have made love twice. The problem is that when I asked her to tell me about the guy I thought she had broken up with, she confessed to me that ... (101 words)

Girlfriends depression is bringing me down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I have a girlfriend who is extremely depressed.... Basically since college got over she did not get any job and has been jus sitting at home .. Her parents aint supportive either and they jus keep on taunting her.. I have been with her for 2 years now .. She has become t... (149 words)

He loves me...he loves me not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mother who has been seperated and divorced for nearly 2 years now. I started dating again while I was going through my divorce and met an amazing man. He had just been through a divorce as well (no kids), and we found it comforting and supporting to be with one ... (247 words)

What do I do in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so im new to this whole sex thing, ive had sex once with my boyfriend so far, and we have messed around a lot in bed, hes given me oral a few times, hes fingered me a lot and i have given him a hand job a few times. However i cant help but think it is really obvious ... (176 words)

Why does he call me? He said he doesn't love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my bf broke up 3 months ago we haven't talked since then but two weeks ago he start calling me and i asked him if he still loves me he said no, an i hung up because i couldn't listen any more, 20 minutes later he called me again, i answer and asked why does he call me if ... (214 words)

Any advice on moving in with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm moving in with my boyfriend of over a year. I'm moving away from home for college..the one he's going to. So we've decided that we're going to be moving in together. He's got a 2 bedroom apartment so it's not like if we have an argument I have no place to go, or if one ... (162 words)

Sex life gone bad.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years. we are very happy and are moving in together next month. However our sex life annoys me. when we first got together I used to get oral sex from her but wasnt allowed to cum in her mouth, we had anal sex a few times and i ... (214 words)

I feel like I've died inside now I've found out my friend has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend (female) is now going out with a guy. Why do I feel like i've died inside ?... (19 words)

I thought we were so well matched sexually but this is not the case now we have moved in together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of four years gave a very false impression of his sex drive when we were dating. I had no idea at the time. Now that we are living together and our lives are melded I cop his true sex drive/interest which isn't very much. I was honest about who I was sexually and... (168 words)

My daughter has given me permission to sleep with her friend and I'm torn over what I should do!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age - I'm a single Dad with a 17 year old daughter. She has a friend that's 18. She's been coming around for about 5 or 6 yrs. I have a big house. She's had a room here for about 4 yrs and is here more than anywhere else.(No father around and Mom don't care) We have spent a lot of ... (232 words)

Recently married and wondering if it was a big mistake

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, please please can anyone advise me on this. My husband and i have been together for about 5 and half years. we got married about 6 months ago. And to be honest i just think i have made a huge mistake. The months leading up to the wedding were very stressful. Hus... (407 words)

Dreams about anal sex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a 16 year old, current single, and tbh a little insane, :), anyway, recently i had a dream about this girl that i consider as a sister ( we are not related ) now when i see her i get horney, and constantly thing about it, the thing is we were having anal sex in the dream. ... (138 words)

He broke up with me without a reason but do you think he will come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone i need somehelp I went out with a guy for a year and he lives in austria now he dumped me with out reason he broke up with me but didnt explain why? do you think was the reason that he met another girl / is there any chance he will come back?... (62 words)

What do women like in a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note - poster had asked 3 seperate questions but merged them together in order to recieve more answers] is being too romantic wrong, do women get put off by things like poems or flowers? what do women like in a man?... How can men last longer in bed?... (53 words)

Should we spend some time apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Before I start, thanks in advance for any time you take to reply! :-) My b/friend and I have been dating for about a year now. When we first met, as is always the case, he was super damn hot in his fiery sms's, telling me the sexiest things! He still does occassionally no... (393 words)

Is sex my anti-depressant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've found that lately... (due to scheduling) my boyfriend and I haven't been seeing eachother as much which upsets me a little but hey, we got work right, but I guess what I'm confused about is my moods. I mean when I get to see him I'm usually in a bad mood until we have sex ... (115 words)

He makes me feel so lustful but I don't want to lose my virginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a lovely boyfriend ... hes my first proper boyfriend and everything is going well but he makes me feel very lustful. I don't want to have sex yet and he doesn't pressure me into it but sometimes when we are caught up in the moment I feel like I want to do it but I don't. ... (104 words)

To cheat? Or not to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm happily married but have been texting this friend for the last couple of months. The texts have been very intimate and very flirty! We have both established this turns us both on and subsequently are finding that our sex lives with our parnters is fantastically enhanced! We ... (130 words)

Can't get over my ex and wondering about his feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im still madly in love with my ex and cant seem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes always in my thoughts... we slept together on a few occasions i only slept with him because im still really in love with him and thinking he might be still in love with me.. ab... (663 words)

Where is this relationship heading?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

- When is a good time to bring up the topic of where a relationship is heading? I have been seeing this guy for about 1.5-2months. However he then had to move for work. We knew this from the beguining and I never intended to fall for him like I did, I just thought it'd be ... (264 words)

This guy has been driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy that's been driving me crazy, in both a good and bad way, for about 6 or 7 months now. he's just very back and forth about being social. and i know that's not a personal thing against me. he's just, not the most social person. some days he's quite chatty, ... (293 words)

Keep my confused distance from him? Or do what my parents want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm graduating college in June. I have no desire to walk at the ceremony especially considering it's for a blank piece of paper. However, my family desperately wants me to walk and my grandmother even bought my cap and gown for me. To be respectful of their wishes and ... (767 words)

His ex-my pain

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend who loves me to death and wants to marry me left his girlfriend of 1 year to be with me. It was after I declared my feelings for him, said this is why I can't be your friend and walked away from the both of them so they could be happy together and know why I didn't ... (185 words)

Confused, heartbroken and wondering if I should fight or walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - For the first time in my life at age 41, I fell in love with wonderful woman. I have/had an attachment disorder and through months of couselling a few years ago, I learned how to connect my heart and head as one. I met this woman and we fell in love. It was so natural and e... (359 words)

I want to explore his bum like he explores mines but he's not keen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 24 and have been in a relationship for 9 months with a 30 year old man and it has been great. Our sex during this time has mainly involved me being anally receptive, which I have enjoyed a lot. I have recently asked him if we could switch things round and explore his ... (317 words)

Troubled relationship... my girlfriend is so frustrating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid... My girlfriend is frustrating me to no end. She is super jealous of my work. I work from home as a freelance web developer. I work sometimes 18 to 20 hours per day. I make time to spend with her when I can. Usually every weekend, and for a few hours every nigh... (519 words)

I keep finding myself trusting the wrong people...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had trust issues and i keep finding myself trusting the wrong people. When my boyfriend had cheated on me before with one my friends, it became even harder. It's been a long time now and we are back together, but my trust is not completely there for him yet. I ... (251 words)

I'm so confused and messed up what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - argh ok i'm stuck in a rut. there are two guys i like and they both like me. the one i met a few weeks ago he is like really sweet to me and stuff calls me gorgeous and makes me feel great. then there is this other guy he went to my high school year above me and we got ... (456 words)

Mastubation or Sex that is the question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age - Is it sensible to masturbate or to have sex ?... (10 words)

Do girls lie about being a virgin?:

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - When girls have a bad experience their first time in sex, or regret having sex for their first time. Do they later on lie to their future boyfriends about remaining a virgin?... (34 words)

My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, I need some advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please i need advice. Me and my bf broke up about a month ago after a 2 year relationshp the reason was coz he thinks i'm too controlling, well i have to agree sumtimz i was. I still love him to death, i feel lost without him in my life. I know that he also still loves me o... (358 words)

How can I increase my boob size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey agnoy aunt, will u please suggest me how to increse my boob's size without any surgery? My boobs is of 32 inch and I want it atleast 34. Thanks... (36 words)

Coiuld she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex, 2 days after she had her periods, and her next month period was late by a week, is there any chance of conception, as we are totally unsure. Please help. It's said that if you have your periods, you have no chance of concepti... (53 words)

I need some sexy things to read, where do I find the right stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I want some sexy things to read, full of passion and sex. Please advice. ... (19 words)

Am I a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 and i'm not sure if i'm a virgin or not. I had 'sex' when I was 17 but we didn't finish and he didn't fully do it. I didn't even feel anything. Now all my friends think i'm not a virgin and my boyfriend wants to have sex but i'm going to feel awkward if i bleed again or... (110 words)

Will I ever find someone to love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there something wrong with me? Every time I fall in love, I do it with the wrong person, the one that does not love me back. For the first time I found someone (one of my best friends) who i thought felt the same for me, but he's been in a committed relationship f... (178 words)

How do I know what foreplay is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with me after being with me for six years because I haven't been there for him. It's hard for me doing this cause I have never had to ask anyone for advice but I need to ask someone how do you know what foreplay is? I am not sure why I am asking I am tryi... (76 words)

I need help to boost my self-esteem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have extremely low self esteem. I wasn't like this before. I became this way after my relationship with my sons father ended after 3 years. I begged and pleaded, because I couldn't understand why it was over. That was 3 years ago. Since then I've moved on. I've dated a ... (121 words)

What is foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having sex for a while but I am not sure what forplay is, I need help with this. ... (21 words)

My fiancee broke it off and I want her back. Maybe send a birthday card?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My fiancee broke up with me a few weeks ago for reasons i have no clue. Her birthday is next week and i was wondering if i should send her a card? I still love her and care about her and i really do want her back, everyone is telling me not to but i think if i ignor... (86 words)

I want to try a threesome with another girl. How to get my husband onside?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so this will probably answer itself, but I need advice. I love my husband with all my heart-never loved another man like him in my life. But I've been wondering what being with a woman would be like. I'm not the most "in shape" woman in the world, but I am attractive. I... (232 words)

Long distance relationship - I need help

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This might take a little bit but I'm going crazy over here and I need to know what to do. I've been dating this guy for months now, we met offline, he lives 5 hours away from me. We see each other a lot, so it's really neat, I like the distance. I'll start with his past.... (697 words)

Wife goes back on promises to help fulfill sexual fantasies

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of almost 12 years has made thousands of empty promises over the time we have been together I have wanted to let me give her a facial but it is nothing more than empty promises. We have discussed many fantasies of mine many of which are things most guys take for ... (388 words)

Married woman who loves two men. Should I leave my husband?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for three years now during the course of our relationship he has cheated on me several times, some I can prove and some I just have a strong feeling about. Example after being married for three months I found out that he was having another ... (394 words)

Does my ex wife want to be a family again?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - About a year ago my ex wife told me she wanted a divorce. It devastated me I lost 60 pounds in a month; yeah I was a big boy. I tried so hard to get her to stop the divorce. I got down on my knees and begged her. I wanted our son to have both his parents. She said no and ... (464 words)

Relationship with a close friend.

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this girl. She has been my best friend for 8 years or more. There is nothing that I wouldn't do for her. Recently, we have messed around. We both thought it was going to be weird being around each other, but it kind of made us closer. We have had a few talks about ... (209 words)

My husband is hiding his marriage from his friends!

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I got married five months back..My husband had married once and the got divorced. He told me the reason for their divorce is because his Ex- wife got a better paying job and then they started having problems. Even though I had all means to inquire about his past, ... (256 words)

I know I'm ready for marriage, but logically am I too young?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, im 18 years old and my girlfriend is 20 we have been together for a long time now, and she and i have been talking about marriage i know im ready for it and i know she is too.. but logically am i too young?... (46 words)

I couldn't trust him before, should I give him another go?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, im having some boy troubles and well i need some advice please. i dated this guy a few months ago, and well he lives 2 hours away but now hes moving down 5 min away from me and he is living with his cousin, so he went down this weekend to bring some of his stuff an... (264 words)

We love each other, but she still won't date me!!

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well im in love with this girl. and she loves me too she says. and well we do everything together and we do everything, like we are going out, we hold hands and cuddle and make love to each other. but she wont date me. she says the time isnt right and theres the distance. and ... (88 words)

How can I get out of this rollercoaster cycle me and my ex have gotten into??

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated for 2.5 yrs, and we broke up 1.5 yrs ago. We've had some time apart, but it's never stuck - he always ends up calling and putting himself back in my life, and then I end up falling for him again. (To be clear, this isn't an on again, off again, friends w/ ... (586 words)

Was he only after one thing?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Was he just after one thing? I was seeing this guy for two weeks. First date went really well as did the second. On the third date we planned to go to the movies (my suggestion) but when he picked me up he was saying that he’d rather order take-out and watch dvd’s at his pla... (461 words)

I really want her back. What can I do?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke up with my ex gf a month ago. We had a 2 years relationship. We were both serious even though we knew that we had to break up someday because I wanted to have a "normal" family. She's a bi but I'm straight. I just fell for her, but not any other girl. I really m... (158 words)

Does he like me or is he intimidated?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I kind of like. I kind of think he likes me back, but he gives mixed signals. One day he will always be staring at me and when I look up at him he looks away really fast and pretends to be working or doing something else. When we are in the hallways he ... (443 words)

I'm worried I won't be able to satisfy her...

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok ya'll heres my deal im roughly 35 years old, and male i am in a relationship (a fairly new one) we have had sex roughly 4 times, but the past two times, we went to have sex, yesterday and today , it was up, it was strong and seemed ready to go, upon assuming the position, it ... (423 words)

Why do I only seem to attract the jerks?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with someone because he only wanted to have sex with me. I didnt do anything with him but he is one of many who just want to sleep with me. I dont know why I only attract the jerks because I dont dress like a slut or sleep around and make sure the guy is ... (111 words)

I want him as a friend, but he won't return my letters. What should I do?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a problem that I can't seem to get rid of. For the past several years I have been dreaming, thinking and fantasizing (non-sexually) about another guy while with someone else. I have tried to contact this other guy for god only knows what reason only to get no reply ... (244 words)

Does he like me?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okayy does he like me? 1. he sent me a pic of him and was like send one to me now:] [not a provocative pic, just a normal pic]. so i did and he was like Thank You:].. 2. everytime he texts me hes always like hey beautiful(__then whats up or something_____) 3. on... (167 words)

I need to move out, but I don't want to lose his friendship. Help!

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help I'm not sure what to do. I'm living with a male friend who is also an ex and at first everything was fine until he got a girlfriend. I told him I was moving out and he got upset and begged me to stay, so I did as he had some valid reasons. However just over a month ... (291 words)

Should I pick the one I'm living with, the ex-boyfriend, or just toss both of them?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age - well here goes. im living with a guy that at the beginning wanted a real relationship. now he says he doesn't wont to fall in love and now he only has feelings of a friend. he waited for 7 months to tell me this. what gives? now an old boyfriend has got in touch with me and ... (127 words)

My husband doesn't have interest in me any more

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32, my husband is 28, we've only been married 2 months, but I found out that he masturbates on porn sites. I need desperatly help..I cry every night I think about it. I work nights and when I'm not at home, he masturbates. The biggest problem is that he does not make sex ... (126 words)

How do I get rid of this porn fetish?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a porn fertish and I want to get rid of it can anyone help?... (16 words)

Why does sex still hurt so much?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, So i recently lost my virginity to my bf whom I am very much in love with. I am pretty sure I was ready and have no regrets. I've done it five times now and it's not very fun. The first couple times it hurt alot, and not it hurts for like a second at the begining and then ... (133 words)

How do you let it go?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF and I broke up three months ago. We were really close and she really wanted to be my friend but I ruined everything and now she will never talk to me again. For real. I ruined things that bad. I have never, ever wanted to be able to pick up the phone and make sure ... (191 words)

I don't want to continue living with my mother-in-law

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi every body, I am tired of living with my mother in law at the same house ,and i don't know how to convince my husband to move and live alone. We just got married a few months ago and i moved from another country to usa,befor i come here he asked me to move to another place... (501 words)

My girlfriend always has to know WHY!!!!

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend always has to know why. It seems like I can't ask her to do anything without her knowing why I want her to do it. For instance, we'll be walking along and I'll say stop (because I want the people behind us to pass us) and she'll keep on walking and ask why. I d... (218 words)

My penis won't stay up when it comes time for penetration. Please help!

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im a virgin and me and my girl have been doin role play kissing for an hour and my penis is hard through tht tht but once we stop and I want to go N my penis gets soft and I can't get it hard enough to penetrate and im to young for viagra what sixteen year old takes ... (103 words)

Her grandfather is dying, how can I be there for her and cheer her up?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, theres a really huge problem i have, my girlfriend's grandfather is dying and i dont know what to do. i want to cheer my gf up but i just cant seem to find any ways to do so. knowing the fact that i cant do anything about it hurts. i really need all your guys suggestions, ... (131 words)

We had sex on her period, could she be pregnant?

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf and I had sex. she was still on her period, I didn't ejaculate in her at all, (didn't even come close). the only default is that i didn't wear a condom... is there a chance she could get pregnant and if so, what are the chances?... (48 words)

I feel like he doesn't trust me...

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for three years and things are good between us, he treats me well and is always there when I need him. But the problem is he always asks questions that I find unnecessary like: "did you meet anyone today and did someone meet up with you?", "did ... (312 words)

Shes likes me, but doesn't like it....

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19 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have started seeing a women who is a few years older than me. Shes lovely, sweet and can just make me smile. Her last relationship was around 7 months ago and ended horribly, from what i am aware of he was strongly violent towards her, causing physical harm. Things start... (477 words)

What did I do to drive him away...?

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend he is not acting the same. I don't know what to do! I'm crazy for him but he barely talks to me. I feel sad and confused because he likes me. I feel disappointed when he doesn't talk. This problem has been driving me nuts? How can I tell him that he hurt me? I know ... (95 words)

I'm looking a boyfriend with out making holy show out myself.

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19 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel at age i should have at least one decent boyfriend, a nice genuine guy but i have none. Any guy i like turned out to be rotten to me always been nasty to me. i feel guys have more opportunity to meet girls because girls are chasing guys around the place, sending ... (204 words)