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Is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy she likes him or to ask him out?

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Question - (27 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i like this guy named Pedro and I think he likes me also..The problem is that he is shy I noticed that when he talks to me he gets nervous. I know he won't make the first move because he is shy..So I'm thinking about asking him out.OR just telling him that I Like him..My question is --is it wrong for a girl to ask out a guy?---Is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy how they feel about them?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

No its great for a women to take control and show that their not afraid it makes us more equal and any good man would respect that so give it a shot and dont be scared just because of a stereotype

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

No its not wrong. If you feel confident enough go for it! But if you are still a bit nervous just tell him that you like him and see where it goes frm there! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Its not wrong at all, as many girls have asked me out. Go for it!

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

No its not wrong, I dont think so, There are alot of shy men and women out there so go for it chick good luck with love n hugs mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, Loopy14 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

Loopy14 agony auntAlmost four years ago i was in the same position, i met a shy guy that i really liked, we spent loads of time together but because he was so shy he didnt make the first move and we werent moving any further forward,However,i took control of the situation, told him i liked him and asked him out and guess what .....4yrs down the line we will be celebrating our 4 year anniversary in July, we live together and have plans to get married in the future. He was well worth making the first move for. I hope this answers your question.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntno of course it's not wrong to tell a guy you like them or ask them out.

i mean if he's shy then it will be a boost for him to ask you out if he likes you or perhaps tell you he likes you back.

but do make sure he does like you first why not ask him straight up if he likes you.. then that way you'll know :)

hope this helps.

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