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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why are his friends like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on this guy for a while. I think he might like me too, but he is shy. His friends are being unusually nice to me at times. They are always staring at me during class. If I look up at them and they are with him they will Say something to him and then he looks at ... (289 words)

Confused why do I feel like I can't let go of a man who has cheated on me twice and been physically abusive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused why do I feel like I can't let go of a man who has cheated on me twice and been physically abusive.I feel that every time I say I'm movin on and when he calls me I give in. The last incident occured last week when he got upset cuz he said I was disrespecting him and ... (189 words)

How can I move on from my first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all Im a bi guy who is in love with a straight guy Hes the one who made me realised that im into guys I know he is straight cuz he got girlfriend.. Theyre both on my class so I see them every day in school which makes me jealous and angry. To be honest i cry durin th... (177 words)

The unforgetable first crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i met this guy back last May and he had a crush on me i started to like him later on that year like in october(well at least thats when i know i did) but the thing is he got a gf and i was really hurt i was depressed becuase he told me he knew i liked him but he told me about ... (164 words)

I'm just very confused what this girl actually wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help with my relationship. I'm just very confused what this girl actually wants. I was in a 9 month relationship with this girl, and things were always pretty good. Recently though we haven't been seeing each other as much, and the distance (we live in different ... (93 words)

A simple question... How do you know if you are in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have but one not so simple question. How do you know if you are in love?... (20 words)

I am trapped!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trapped. I need help desperately. I formed a very close relationship with one of my school teachers and, well, we ended up kissing. Just once. But my ex saw. And now he's using what he saw as an excuse to blackmail into everything - from doing his homework to... anything... (75 words)

Although I'm dating I always have to call and text to see him. Is he just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my problem is a pretty minor one, but that's what this site's for, right? Phew. Ok. Basically, I am in a relationship with a guy I positively ADORE. I mean, I am head over heels in LOVE. I think. What's getting me down is the fact that he never texts, calls, or asks t... (96 words)

What happened? Why is he ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this boy since September and we used to hang out but now he ignores me. Doesn't talk to me any more. I feel like he hates me and it makes me cry! I didn't do anything to him but maybe like him. He used to like me when he first met me now he doesn't care. What should ... (107 words)

My husband has a big attitude problem and wants to rule me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Recently my husband has been having high ego and attitude problems. He wants me do things exactly he says, if not done that way there are fights. He wants to rule me. If i take any decision he says "you have to ask me before you do anything" (regarding business that... (107 words)

Do I have no chance with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I asked a girl out via texting and this is the reply I got. So is this saying theres no chance? Because I think she's scared. I've wrote and re-wrote about ten msgs. l I erm. Im terrified of sending the msg ive wrote because i know u and urg gna put up a barrier and we w... (110 words)

His ex still has control over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone for 16 months. Relationship is wonderful except that his "ex" still has her control over him. He does not agree with this and it is a constant argument for us. He's out of the marriage because she cheated, lied and filed for the divorce. She moved ... (349 words)

His mates girlfriends go out, but I don't get an invite! Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does this seem right to u. My boyfriend gos out on lads nite out. But then i find that some of his mates girlfriends go too! I dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Hes a manager of a footie team and they r having a big allday drinking day out to celebrate their ... (207 words)

How do I get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay me and my girlfriend broke up. we break up a lot but i wont work this time around. and we both know it. we went out for 3 years and we didn't have a great relationship. but there were times when it was good. we've had our ups and downs but doesn't everyone? we broke up ... (195 words)

How to make him last longer in bed or reassure him without being patronising?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 18 months now, and i absolutely adore him, trust him, love him and hes lovely. He is my first serious boyfriend, first love, first proper sexual relationship. However, even though sex isnt a dominating part of our relations... (181 words)

Do guys date fat girls?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - would guys date fat girls. because i am short and fat and i just can,t get boyfriend they want thin,tall,cheeky girls not like me... (24 words)

Is it legal for my boyfriend to take me on holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - After my GCSE my boyfriend said he would take me on holiday to his villa. My parents are fine with it as he is legally an adult and can take care of me. I'm just worried is it ileagal for him to take me away at 16? Sorry its a weird question, just been on my mind all d... (68 words)

My girlfriends screaming, caused complaints in a hotel, I'm so embarrassed, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My new girlfriend makes a lot of noise during sex, she moans during and almost screams when she cums, i should be happy that i'm making her satisfied in bed but it's really embarassing and i'm worried the neighbours will hear us. My ex gf was very quiet in bed but we both still ... (121 words)

Am I bi or just hormonal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and i am wondering if im turning bi. i dont want to be but i get weak erections over boys sometimes but all the time and strong over girls. i look at girls as babes but look at boys as good mates. ive only had a little crusch on one boy but loads of big cruches on loads ... (87 words)

My guy has been mooching off me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I have a problem.. there's this guy I been with for eight years . When we first hooked up he an I both had a son from previous relation ships. Which I had been very supportive of he and his son had been living wit me an my three kids which two of my kids are his.but he an ... (156 words)

Is this concern or am I paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29, and my fiance will turn 30 in a few weeks. We've been together for almost 4 years, but knew each other 10 years ago,we have been engaged for a year. When we met she was seperated (not yet divorced from husband number 2) We have planned for our wedding to be in early ... (1024 words)

Does he fancy me or what he just looking out for me because I was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this guy for over 7 months now and im really confused! He is acting like he fancys me (he gives me loadz of eye contact and always touches me)but he always says that he dont. We were both out on sunday night with a group of friends when i had too many drinks and he ... (109 words)

Pregnant...but I don't know who the father is!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in such a dilemma. Three months ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to leave suddenly after a very secretive phone call he made to someone. My suspicion is that he was calling another girl, whom I know to be my ex-best friend. I think he's been cheating on me ... (175 words)

Do I give him a second chance or move on?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do when you just let the love of your life walk out? i had chased him enough and it got the point when i wouldnt want to fight at all i would just cry and open the door. i got sick of him tell me we couldnt be because he doesnt have anything and i have everything. ... (364 words)

Should I go on holiday with my partner to please him even though we have unresolved arguments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner of 2 years recently asked me to go on holiday with him. Our situation at the moment is not all that great, and we argue almost daily. I've never been abroad before and I have a phobia of flying, so if I'm actually going to do this I need to feel comfortable/secu... (199 words)

Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing, and its really made me f... (838 words)

Rebound issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Don't really know where to start... About 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because of my parents. And I'm still not over him (obviously) but there's this guy and I kinda like him but I'm not sure. Am I just 'thinking' I like him to get over my ex or ... I'm so confu... (108 words)

Controlling Parents...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and my parents still treat me like I'm 6. They gave me a phone when I was 12 because my mum and dad are divorced and my dad didn't like calling the house phone... anyways, a few months ago they took that away because 'they say' I was on it too much. Well, I'm ... (177 words)

How can I get my Dad to chill out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. So i need advise. Well after prom its tridation here to go to the shore after prom. I am going to my bf's prom. We haven been togther for a while now and he is my neighbor...so my parents know him well. Also my dad, who i live with, knows i am sexualy active with him. ... (418 words)

How do I flirt, with out flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really like this guy at the local sports club. I'm not entirely sure where I would stand on like a friendship scale. I mean we've known each other about two years and we get on well, but I haven't met his friends so I don't know how he would act with ... (154 words)

Is it his baby? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. About eight months ago we took a two month break. We got back together because I found out that i was four months pregnant. After two weeks of finding out, i miscarried. Two weeks later i get a call from a girl he was seei... (164 words)

I'm a teenager with mood swings, what's wrong with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...its not really a sex thing or anything like that...Ive just started getting really bad mood swings and its really getting to me, im one of those people who never cry unless something bad has happened, but today ive cried at least 5 times over nothing serious like my ... (88 words)

My boyfriend is treating me differently since seeing these poems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I dated this guy for 3 years in high school and without making this a long "pity-me" story, he passed away of brain cancer leaving me crushed. To help me cope I would write pages after pages and poems to release some of my intense feelings. Well it's been four ... (195 words)

What made her change her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 14 years. For the first few years, she enjoyed receiving oral sex although she never had an orgasm through oral sex. Now, she doesn't even like it and only allows me to give it to her if I ask. I don't know what has changed and she hasn't ... (77 words)

Love, marriage and monogamy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age - I have a question about love, marriage and monogomy. When two people love each other and are married, is it normal for both of these people to be seriously attracted to other people, to the point of one having an affair and the other having to use extreme self control to avoid ... (112 words)

I'f I'm pregnant he could get into trouble with the law... Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old. well ive found myself kind of being a little bit slutty i guess you could say. i go out and party and just try to have fun. well i met this guy. Hes 18. And going into the Army. I dont believe age matters. But in the laws eyes it does. Well one night we... (365 words)

He looks down on me like I'm the worst person in the world...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I met this guy in 2003. He told me that him and his wife were not together because she cheated on him. He said that he was staying in the home util he got enough money to get out. He said he could not be with her after what she did to him. He said she cheated more than once. ... (351 words)

I want to give my wife one more chance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age - I am writng for advice on how to get my wife to come back home. My wife recently moved out, at my request, after six months of her telling me she didnt love me any more and wanted to move out. We have been to many councelling sessions and the whole thing has been up and down ... (359 words)

I feel hurt and used by her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

- Man I feel like such a pussy typing this up. But I dont want to ask any of my buddies. Two years ago I dated this girl for about a year and a half total. I broke up with her for a couple of reasons, mainly selfishness on my behalf, I wanted to party and hook up with other gi... (669 words)

A 3-some gone wrong!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really need some advice for my best friend. She has been in a relationship with this guy for some time and its her first sexual relationship. A few days ago it was his birthday and she gave him a little surprise... he's always wanted a 3-some with one of her friends ... (281 words)

Should I walk away???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age - Thank you all for trying to help me with my dilemma. I am no child, he broke up with me about a month ago. He said some degrading things to me that are were not true. We were together for 3yrs and I accepted things that I would of normally walked away from. Like the ... (607 words)

Even though the condom didn't break and the test came out negative, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the very first time just over 2 weeks ago. I was 9 days into my cycle. We used an extra safe condom, which we checked after hadnt split and we also tried putting water into it and seeing if any leaked out, which it didnt showing there were no holes at all! I'm ... (150 words)

Escort girlfriend, true love, and sleepless nights. Help..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I met a girl 10 months ago who is 2 years my junior at age 23. We hit it off and quickly our relationship developed. For the first two weeks I believed that she worked in a japanese restaurant, but it quickly became apparant she was in fact a karaoke hostess - a prositute but a ... (1057 words)

Tell me if you think these are good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Tell me if you think this is a good poem - Dreams Do you ever dream of something you want but then you turn around and see what youve got theres nothing there but tears and hate you want love but its too late what you must do never hold inside the feelings you have you mu... (281 words)

I broke up with her, now my conscience is cursing me for hurting her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my 17 year old girlfriend because i wasnt in love with her. I broke the news without any warning and probably with the silliest reason that i was committment phobic... she was devastated! I had no other way to end this and i was totally depressed cuz i care for ... (319 words)

Help needed! What should I do...? I really like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I fancy my Brothers mate (Harry) and we both kind of like each other the signs he gave me were: The signs he gave me where: • Staring at me in to my eyes • Makes me laugh • Comes out and knocks on my door too see me NOT my brother once asked where I was. • Somet... (706 words)

Is my b/f being shady or am I just paranoid?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f and I have been dating for almost 10 months. I had major trust issues from a previous relationship that had been a strain on ours until I started going to therapy. He has started going to therapy for some issues HE'S been having, and things have been going really well ... (325 words)

She turned everything all around

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Rightt here we go agaaain Theres this girl I've beeen speakin to on msn for about 2 months now, and were always on and off, like I think we both like each other but it's never as simple as that, there is Always something in the way, another boy/girl or... Ok relapse, fro... (687 words)

Won't have sex with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i dont understand whats gone wrong in my marriage,I need advice!I have been with my husband for nealry 21 years,we have 4 children that still live at home.He is the boss at his work so he's always on call.I work weekends mostly.but in the last 4 months he seems to have lost ... (385 words)

Husband's porn viewing has made me feel small

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's porn viewing has made me feel small recently. He's been looking at pictures of "hot guys", shirtless pictures of men including Gael Garcia Bernal, George Clooney, David Beckham and Russell Brand. It makes me feel like I can't compete with them. I tried to g... (291 words)

Life's twist point

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and have my bf of 32.i love him a lot and just cant stop thinking about him.he too loves me a lot we are apart and it isn't possible for me to spend a quality time with him.the fact is that i just cant live without my bestfrend and she knows everything about me .our ... (276 words)

Just gone on the injection - are these stange period symptoms normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To any ladies who may be able to help, or men!?? : I recently went on the contraceptive injection (middle of April) and i was told that most of the time, your periods will stop whilst on this or become very irregular like one in every few months or something. . . i know this. i ... (184 words)

My boyfriend used to be an animal in bed. Now he won't even look at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He’s perfect and I love him, but (same old story) we now have nooooo sex life! Yes, I know, heard it all before, but I never thought it would be me! I’ve always had a really exciting sex life, and yes, ok have slept w... (316 words)

Sex problems and diabetes - any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age - I am diabetic and I have problems in the bedroom dept. I can get aroused very easily but when it comes to sex I only like to do it really fast cause if I try to go slowly, I lose the feeling and want to stop. I take a long time to finish normally as I just don't get the feeling ... (92 words)

I am confused over a girl,time is running out and I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago before Christmas, a friend of one of my friends would come round our house to visit him. One day we were all sitting together in the house and she was arguing with another friend about something. I agreed with her and i looked at her and suddenly she looked d... (1024 words)

I tried to cheat on him. Should I tell him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend so much, and he's everything to me. But last weekend i got drunk and tried to kiss one of my close male friends. I can't even remember doing it, but people who were there saw me. I don't know weather to tell my boyfriend or not, because nothing did actually ... (93 words)

Shall I stay friends with and lend money to my druggy ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of one year had drug problem and while we were together he used ones a week he use to work but always without money so i guess he didnt stop taking the drug he realize that he has a problem but he never do anything about it, he always tell me he wants to change do ... (134 words)

Ex Girlfriend dumped me three weeks ago, now she's sending me messages...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi My Girlfriend and i were together for about 8 months and dumped me out of the blue three weeks ago, told me not to look for her anymore. yesterday she wants to chat on yahoo, to say hi and to ask me what I was up to, could it mean she's sort of missing me? or just talk? she ... (149 words)

When I think of him I feel excited, but also miserable, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old bi guy and I'm TOTALLY in love with this guy at school!! I have been for a while, but now more than ever!! I just don't know what to do because he is straight and would never even think about me in that way!! It is so confusing because every time I think about ... (100 words)

There are so many things I want to do and I worry that it's too late.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I feel torn about this, because I can accept an honest answer, but I don't like to give up on dreams. This has nothing to do with sexual relationships, but music was, and still is, the thing I have always loved more than anything else. I just had my 30th birthday, and I'... (230 words)

Feeding my baby the correct foods...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

- My baby is 7 months old in 5 days time and i am unsure what food she is able to have? She has baby porridge in the morning, then in the afternoon i give her hipp organic baby food jar and a fromage frais yogurt, is this suitable? as she seems to still be hungry half an hour ... (63 words)

Importance of family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need some advice on the importance of family in a relationship. Basically my partner's family are rude at times, have little to no manners and the majority also have poor social skills e.g. saying hello can be an issue. The parents do invite me to things and do ... (115 words)

Is he really just friends with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I fully trusted him... he could go where ever he wanted, do whatever, and talk to whoever because I believed he would always be true to me. Then he began to mention a girl he had been talking to at work in ... (169 words)

Why does he want a lap dance on his stag night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age - My fiance and I get on really well, we have both been married before but at last are happy, we hardly never argue and everyone says that we are made for each other. I am unusually laid back about most things BUT we are getting married this year and it came out that on his stag ... (497 words)

What motivates a man to want friendship after a one night stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I’d really appreciate a male perspective on this please. Have you ever had a one night stand with a woman and then become really good friends with her afterwards? I don’t understand what would motivate a guy to keep in touch, as a friend, after a one night encounter. Esp... (153 words)

My ex of a year is suddenly being very friendly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex of over a year ago, who works in the same building as me has suddenly started to come into my office on a regular basis, she previously very rarely came up and if I ever wanted to see her I would have to go into her office, but for the last six months I made every effort ... (302 words)

Did I blow my chance with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have known this guy for 10 years, i didn't see him for about 8 years tho but now im single and going out again i have started to see him out with his friends. about a week ago i was out with a friend an we went bak to a friends of his for some drinks after we left the club, ... (165 words)

Questioning my partners use of the company mobile

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner recently went on a business trip. He uses a company mobile phone and when I ring it the ring is a british telephone ring. I have also rang his own mobile phone and that ring is the same as abroad. I confronted him about it and he said the company phone doesn't have a ... (86 words)

Using the pill for period pain without my mum knowing it's for contraception too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been suffering with severe period pains sinse i started and i get these pains every two week which last for 1-2 days, i researched on the internet and i ticked off almost evry box on something called "dysmenorrhoea" which is apparently pretty common. Anyways, earier this ... (163 words)

Molested by my father: How do I explain to my mother that I can't let them have my kids at weekends?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ever since I was 4 years old I remember being molested by my father. Even he will admit that he would touch me and get turned on since I was a baby. When I turned 12 he started having sex with me. I didnt tell anyone because I believe in aweird way that he did it because he ... (152 words)

My fiance won't let me see his email! Is this childish?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age - My fiance refuses to let me see his email. He signs on under his own account on my computer. He says it is something that is "just his" and won't give me the password. We are both in our 40's. I think this is childish...or he's hiding something. The latter I'm sure. What should ... (56 words)

I get erections all the time but they aren't as hard as they used to be which is a bother, help?

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my partner about a year now, things are generally good, apart from in the bedroom. This weekend for the second time in a few months i wasnt able to get hard enough for sex with her on top, i do find her attractive but- when she tried to slide me inside her... (271 words)

Weight issues...

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5 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, everybody, I know this question doesn't have a defined answer, but I was just looking for opinions: what is the ideal ratio of a guys' weight to a girls' weight in a relationship? Thanks... (38 words)

Boyfriend's new female friends!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - BF and I have been going out 3 years and this year I've graduated and started working and he started another course in uni. He's always been very outgoing and had lots of friends, but mostly guys who I know quite well. But since starting his new course he's making a lot more ... (157 words)

Any advice, does he really want it over or am I just not accepting it?

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5 May 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my partner 4 weeks ago and I just can't get him out of my head. I finished it but I tried to change my mind and he just said fu*k it we're done. I went away for the weekend packed all his stuff, he came to collect it when I wasn't there and that was it. I feel... (231 words)

I'm in a sexless marriage and I'm soooo frustrated!

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5 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Well, I have a sad situation. My husband, does not desire any sex. I don't know why. He suddenly lost his erection once, and than next time he couldn't get it up at all. He went to doctors, but they didn't find anything wrong. Now, he never wants me. And I feel sexually... (185 words)

Friends... or is she ignoring me?

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close mates) and she's being not as tal... (286 words)

He has a girlfriend and me online - and now he's coming to visit!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , my prob i that i have been in a long distance relationship since 2 years, n in that period we had several breakups n makeups..which dint really mattered much as we both knew that we were not actually "seeing each other". The prob is that the guy is a big flirt n he has a ... (147 words)

I'm being blackmailed by an ex who has gotten me in debt!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im being blackmailed by an ex, he has got me 20k in debt and has got cars on finance in my name, now im being threatened by solicitors and courts with legal action as the payments havent been made, when i ask him whats going on he says he will sort it all out but its been a ... (119 words)

Should I try now, later, or never to get back togeather with my ex?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three months and I just broke up two weeks ago. For both of us it was our first real serious relationship. We pretty much broke up because I was upset by the fact that although his residents hall was a 3-5min walk away i only really ever saw him at meals. I ... (190 words)

The mother of his child is trying to worm her way into his family!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So...my boyfriend of 2yrs and i are living together happily and have been so for 6months now!!! my problem is the pesky mother of his child. my boyfriend and his daughter's mother were never in a relationship...in fact, his daughter was conceived from a casual sex incident...he ... (307 words)

Pregnancy test says negative - is it right?

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - please ladeis i need help, i had an intercourse with my wife wich lasted long as i usualy dont cum fast,but i lost erection before cumming.. the peoblem is,since then her period has been late now for 12 days we bought a pregnancy test and the result was negative, but s... (70 words)

My casual girlfriend dumped me by text so suddenly - why?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I met a girl about a year ago and I had my first same sex experience with her which I really enjoyed. We made plans to meet again but she traveled back home and then traveled for work and I eventually managed to meet her again for a drink in November after I asked her out.... (451 words)

My online friend sometimes ignores me!

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - why is it that this girl that i chat with online is all loving and nice one day, saying she misses me and stuff like that, and then the next day she completely ignores me, like when i say hi? that drives me insane! i just don't get it! i hate getting ignored and this hasn't ... (86 words)

Single with a child: I'm depressed and wonder who would want me?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When will i be ok. Im single with a child. My ex left me. I am trying to move on but im so full of hurt and resentment. I have trust issues and baggage because of the way my previous relationship ended. I wonder who would want me. My self esteem is shatterd. I neva go out ... (129 words)

I am so worried that I could be pregnant, any advice?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old, I recently gave birth to my beatiful 8 month old daughter. I never had any symptoms of being pregnant with my daughter. The only symptoms was me getting bigger!!! I promised myself that I would NOT have sex again until I got married! I was stupid and recently ... (283 words)

I've jsut found out the guy who raped me lives nearby!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not sure how to go about this so bare with me.In March of this year I was raped in my and my roomates apartment by a friend of hers.I never reported it and moved elswhere to just put it behind me.Now I find out he is living just 6 miles from me in another apartment..and I ... (122 words)

Horrible pain during my periods!!!!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have quite a problem with menstrual cramps. I have ever since I started my periods (when I was in 4th grade. I’m in 11th now hah.) In the last year, they seem to have gotten worse. My doctor has prescribed me everything under the sun and I have tried just about everything in ... (114 words)

I feel way guilty...should I be?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been dating this guy for a year now, (we'll call him todd) which has been total bliss, except for this past month we have had a lot fights, resulting in us breaking up. i love him and care for him dearly, although i fear our relationship has been ruined by hurtful ... (564 words)

Can you help me understand why people may not want to include me? Am I wrong to feel slighted?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently joined this ladies' club. It is a social club. We get together once a month and go out for dinner and drinks or do various activities. I honestly do not know a lot of people in the group well, but there are a few people who I know and really like which is why ... (428 words)

Am I turning into a nympo?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and recently started dating a new guy. I always enjoyed sex and orgasm regularly. My new guy is amazing is amazing in bed, orgasming with him is something I never felt before. He has even made me squirt which no until that point I didnt even believe was real. ... (99 words)

I want to seperate, but how do I say it?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to leave my husband of 6 years but am not sure how to say it. He says its obvious I don't love him (which isn't entirely true) but I am not "in love" with him anymore my question is, how do I tell him. I hate hurting him and seeing him cry but I really want to move on.... (137 words)

My best girl friend wants to date my best guy friend?!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here's the deal, I've been best friends with this girl, Smokey*, since freshman year in high school, and we've been on and off only because she's had "some issues" to say the least, but never the less I consider her my only true girl friend. Now, Ive been friends with ... (313 words)

How early is too early to annouce a pregnancy

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How early is too early to annouce a pregnancy. I just found out I'm pregnant, I have PCOS and it took 3 yrs for my husband and I to get pregnant with our first child, who was premature and died. This time amzingly We weren't even trying and I'm pregnant. I went and seen my ... (83 words)

Teacher attraction: is it ok to add him?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to add a former college teacher that i was sort of attracted to when i took a class with him last semester to my list of friends? I mean this is weird but he used to look at me literally every 4 seconds (yes,i counted) maybe he was attracted to me too? ... (59 words)

How do I get him to hug me or do anything??

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am almost 16 and me and my not offical boyfriend have been "talking" for ever and he hasn't done anything not even hug and i really dont know how to get him to at least hug me or something he tells me that i am great its not me. he doesnt like dating and his last relationship ... (87 words)

Falling for my first cousin...what should I do?

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - welll couple years ago i start flirting with my first cousin..but now i just want to get over her because i think i'm falling in love with her.. she live next to me so you imagine how often i saw her and every time i saw her i just want to be with her.but i know that this is ... (84 words)

I think I lost him and my whole world is crushed. Please help me!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it all started about 3 and a half months ago when me and my boyfriend of almost a year started getting mad with each other and fighting a lot. we were on and off for a while, constantly "taking a break" and then getting back together. until about a month ago. everything had ... (776 words)

My parents and my best friend all hate my gf! What should I do?

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My parents and my best friend and some of my church hates my girlfriend. Her and I have been through alot and we dont wanna stop. You cant change how someone feels about someone else in their heart. I wont give up and I wont stop! I will do anything to be with her and it ... (73 words)

He has mental issues and I want to dump him! Should I be scared?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has mental issues and the more we stay together the more controlling he is becoming towards me. When we started dating, he was so much fun and exciting and did everything possible (in a good way) to make me fall for him. As we got to know each other and I opened up ... (144 words)

Ladies! Is there any way to 'numb' the area down there before waxing?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is for the ladies out there!!..so im kinda freaking out because i want to get rid of the hair down where the sun doesnt shine..if you know what i mean. so first i shaved a while ago but it hurt realy bad after and it got very itchy down there and uncomfortable...so then i ... (154 words)

We're engaged so shouldn't I be his benefactor on his life insurance policy?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance` has just recently turned in his papers for benefits at his semi-new job. One of those benefits was life insurance. He rarely deals with his folks and out of curiosity, I asked when the last time he even talked to them was. His response was..."uhhh....last Monday. I ... (236 words)

Is he too busy or losing his feelings for me?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started dating this guy. He is really sweet but gets me so frustrated some times because he is so opinionated, as so am I. He says he loves me and I love him so much. He makes me really happy, but the problem is we don't talk that much. He is to busy sometimes it seems ... (188 words)

We really like each other, but if his gf finds out..she'll kick my butt! Help!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im in love with this guy who is completely amazing..and he likes me back...but hes dating this other girl...and he said that if he wasn't dating her he'd be dating me...but i really want 2 date him and we are really close and all...but if his gf finds out she will kick my ... (57 words)

She doesn't have a very attractive body...will I get over that eventually?

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5 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently started a relationship with a girl I get along very well with. She lives in a different city and she is considering moving to the city I live in. When we are together, I am attracted to her mind enough so that we have a decent love life. My problem is that her body ... (228 words)

I'm 17 and very close to one of my teachers

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I've noticed that there are a lot of teacher/student relationship questions on this website. I know there are many, many of these questions but I would really appreciate an answer from anyone. I'm currently a sophomore in high school. A new science teacher was hire... (1056 words)

This new guy is so special..but I don't feel like I deserve him!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been in toxic relationships for the past 2 years. Horrible controlling relationships with too much abuse that i put up with. Now that's it's been like 3 months since my last one and i have a new boyfriend. He's a great guy we started off as friends and he's sweet and ... (130 words)

Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is coming up and there's this long ... (188 words)

Doggy style hurts bad!

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have sex in every other position, but doggy style, it feels great. But as soon as we try it doggy style, it kills me and we end up having to switch positions. Is there somthing wrong with me?... (43 words)

What will he be like when he gets out of jail? Should I wait or just move on?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years; since we were both nineteen. And he's been in jail for the last year for a crime he did not commit. In fact, it was a crime his best friend committed but he died because of it. I am currently working on becom... (344 words)

I had a dream...where he got really mad at me! What does this mean?

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5 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my situation is well i have a little crush on this guy who is named Pedro and well I sit by him in a class and we talk and stuff and he is very cool to talk to.Well today I had a dream that we were walking side by side and that I told him that I had a little crush on ... (89 words)