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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he know what he really wants .. me or her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey every1 ..my ex broke up with me 7 months ago during the duration of the breakup weve slept togther on a few occasions... to him it was a friends with benifits situation but to me it always felt like more ..im still madly in love with him and cant seem to get over him.. at ... (736 words)

Is he just playing with me? I'm so confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what i should do because one day he told me to wait for him and see what happens ...then the next day we on a fieldtrip and he was talking to some other girls..it seems like he know how to play with my heart he does things on purpose to get me mad...and when im ... (90 words)

He still wants to be FWB

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey DearCupids, I've got a bit of an issue on my hands and need help. me and my boyfriend of 10 months have recently split, out of all the days he ended it on our 10 month anniversary. The main cause of the break up was due to distance, with me living in Crewe and him in Notti... (183 words)

My time is running out as an era is ending. HELP !!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Please help me as I'm running out of time. Please skip to the end for the problem but it's easyer to understand Reading the full thing. I've known my friend who is a girl for about 5 years now, we know each other so well we even say "love you " at the end of phone ca... (324 words)

Am I stressing over nothing? He's not texting me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hey all i met a guy a week ago he is 10 years younger then me but we hit it off from the start, since we met we have seen each other 3 times. he still lives with his x in a shared house until the end of august. he has been texing me pretty constantly until the last couple of ... (134 words)

Boyfriend lives with his ex of 5 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so i have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I love him to pieces. only one problem his exgirlfriend of 5 years still lives with him they have been broken up for 9 months now. She is a lazy sloth who will not get a job and he pays for her car, insurance, cigs, food. On ... (134 words)

Does he ever think about me? If I leave him alone would he contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i know the answer to this but i would just like to hear what any of you guys think. i broke up with someone just over a month ago, we were together for 6 months. i know this is a short time but i really fell for him and i assumed the feeling as mutual until he ended it. i never ... (353 words)

3 problems into 1

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm really hoping you will answer my question and please excuse any typos. I love, my best friend, she has a boyfriend, and she has NO idea I Love Her. We do pointless, mindless flirting, she knows that I also do that with most of my other friends (all my friends are ... (205 words)

Ever felt like you weren't good enough to be with your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone else ever felt like they weren't good enought to be with their partner? Sometimes when I am with him I feel like he is so far beyond the best person imaginable and I feel so inferior just being in his presence. He isn't doing this on purpose its just who he is, is so ... (277 words)

Boyfriend lied, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 and 1/2 years. We are both 21 and have been living together for a year. A few months ago, I found out that he had been chatting and emailing another girl. She lived in another city and their chats were innocent... (258 words)

Is it just my period? Or maybe something different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with my long-term boyfriend for about 7months now, and I've always been careful about taking the right precautons, but last tuesday I was due on my period; which i did, first thing as soon as I woke up and I've never experienced as much pain in my life, it ... (141 words)

Which color of Hydrocodone is the weakest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my mom have looked everywhere and it tells you little things about it but we can't find my question so i hope some of you guys know. So my question is which color in Hydrocodone is the lowest to the strongest? cause i don't want one thats too strong that could do ... (202 words)

Is karma really going to be a bitch to me for what I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Exactly five months and two days ago my ex-boyfriend and I were caught having sex... by the girl he was dating while we were doing so. They had just celebrated their two-year anniversary a day prior to this incident. Anyway, at the time, I didn't give a shit. In fact, I thoug... (322 words)

She obviously likes me but is throwing mixed feelings around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a long one, bare with me....So... I've worked with this girl for 3 years, we work in different departments so haven't gotten many chances to talk in detail, mostly just passing. One day down in the breakroom i get her number, text her later, blah blah and we end up ... (647 words)

How can I be there for him though this hard time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been together 4 9 mouths now and his mother passed away about 3 years ago and 2day is mothers day and he really is feeling sad what should i say 2 him how do i let him no its goin 2 be ok... (49 words)

Boyfriend can't get over the exs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about four months. We've been through a lot together in these short months and are very close to each other. He wants to move in but I'm hesitant to let him move in right away. We have some issues that aren't resolved and I think ... (254 words)

Should I feel guilty about losing my virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I turned 16 in April. i lost my virginity summer of '08. i was 15. i am so confused on whether or not to feel guilty or pleased or secrative or URGH i just don't know. i told my mother today that i've had sex. the thing is- when it happened, i was totally ready. e... (153 words)

My wife is telling everyone but me that we're getting a divorce

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I found out my wife is telling all her friends that she is getting a divorce from me. She hasnt told me yet! It all started when she started to work for a fashion store and she started to go to clubs with the younger employees. I had no problem with this but the prob... (421 words)

Head lice could stop us from being intimate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19. I have headlice. It's humiliating. I spend a lot of time in college so I think I caught them there. But ... I can't get rid of them! This weekend, I spent from about 12am-2am dowsing my hair in Full Marks Solution, combing my hair so vigorously that it turned my scalp ... (122 words)

Is this just a phase? I don't know what to do anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, me and my boyfriend of 17 months have been really loved up. I felt as though nothing would ever come between us, my soul mate, I was just so in love with him and knew that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. But as of recently, the past month or two hav... (392 words)

Sit around and wait? Or find another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 36 she is 44. age is not a problem as we seen past this in our first month of our relationship. we have been dating for over a year now and she has seemed to of lost interest in me. Our first 6 months were great. Sex all the time sometimes 3 to 4 times a night. She owns ... (299 words)

Is this a sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 15 and i have never been kissed or had a proper boyfriends(well i have only had one none proper boyfriend)and people who are as i would say uglyer than me had all had boyfriends is there some thing wrong with me? i do fancie this guy but we hardly tlk sometimes he run... (93 words)

Just another girl to his collection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - its abit of a long questions but its pretty straight foward ive just added deatil. i had sex with this guy last night after going to the cinema, ive known him for about 5 months and weve been sort of liking each other, well ive liked him alot and we speak online alot. Its... (334 words)

No pain, no blood, does that mean my hymen isn't broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex last night for the first time. I was a virgin before, but it didn't hurt and didn't bleed. Also, i've masturbated a few times a while ago, and since my boyfriend and i got together he's fingered me a lot of times. but i've heard your hymen is suppo... (80 words)

Do I need to be less clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When my boyfriend isnt with me i miss him like crazy! I mean i just think bout him all the time. Even when im with my friends i just want to be with him! I know he loves me and i love him. Hes just more independent person than me. He likes times with his friends. As do i but no ... (90 words)

Another porn problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5months now!! We have a fun and fufilling relationship and sex life, but i have a problem understanding his obsession with porn. We have watched it together, which i dont mind, but recently alot of the time i catch him looking at women... (161 words)

Hugh, Dan, and Ben. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with Dan from January to March 2009. During this time, Ben tried to rape me. Ben and Dan are friends. When I reported it to the police, Dan ended it. A week afterwards I met Dan's and Ben's friend Hugh. Hugh and me hit it off straight away and were constantly texti... (129 words)

Who's the Daddy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, this is embarrassing and long, so please bear with me. My last period started on March 29. On April 11, I had sex with my ex. We did it for about ten minutes without a condom, but then I came to my senses and made him put on one. However, he didn't ejaculate. Then on A... (253 words)

How do guys show that they fancy gals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - I recently asked a question about how to slip hints to the guy I like without it being outright flirting...if anyone has anymore ideas please do tell! But when I saw this guy last (we see each other at a sports club) a few times after I played well he would give me a ... (196 words)

Why do I care so much about what other people think of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I have gotten over this girl I liked for a long time. Right now I actually hate her, because of all the mean things she did to me. It was hard, but I had to do it. I dont even look at her anymore, I want her to know I don't like her. Quite honesty the thing I needed to do ... (264 words)

How do you know when you meet your soul mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you know when you meet your soul mate? Can any one give me some advice.... (17 words)

Am I really that intolerant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been accused by a friend of being "fatphobic". This is something that's really been bothering me. I consider myself a really tolerant person, and usually dont arrive at an opinion unless I have thought it through very thoroughly, so this seems really unfair. We were t... (257 words)

French kissing..how to react

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am 13 and i have been going out with this boy for about 3 months and we really want to kiss he said he will kiss me the next time he gets me alone but i know boys put their tongue in your mouth and i don't know what to do or how to react if he does this please help!... (63 words)

How effective is the morning after pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT. Last night my boyfriend was at a party and got drunk. I was in my house with my friend. [i live with my boyfriend.] My friend and I had some alcohol too, so i was drunk. My friend left when my boyfriend got home. We were both drunk and had sex ... (201 words)

Estranged from my child, how do I make it hurt less?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

10 May 2009 (?) age - I would like to address the painful side of Mothers Day! I know for a fact I am not the only one out there feeling sad this day! I am referring to Mothers who are astranged from their children. It hurts! We gave birth to these people! We did the best we could to rasise t... (196 words)

Do I trust logic? Or my intuition?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - So I have this moral dilemma. Basically my brain has more proof than it ever had before that things between me and my ex are through. She said to: "Leave me alone, and I will not read or listen to anything you have to say" That was about two months ago. But now s... (343 words)

What does "He's not giving anything away" mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what does this expresssion by guy. "hes not giving any thing away" .what does mean.is that bad thing that saying.i not sure what that means.and i can,t elaborate any futher... (32 words)

Why are older guys interested in younger girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why do older guys like say 40 year olds prefer to be with girls of like 18 or 20 years old ? doe sit make them feel younger.or are they actually in love with the younger girls cuz of their prettiness and whatever. ... (47 words)

How do I know if he means it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here goes. I been datin my boyfriend sense I was 18 there is an age differnce he was 23, we last 6month but fastin forward he was datin a girl for 3 years they had there problems n he splet wit his friend n now has a 4month old baby. I been back in his life sense oct of 08 ... (129 words)

Pains in chest when I breath

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last Wednesdya I began getting pains in my chest when I breath. Its been almost a week of pain and my parents finally might take me to the doctors but they're afraid that I go and theres nothing wrong with me. Should I still go? The pain in my ribs is the same and Advil do... (66 words)

Should I come out to my homophobic family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i finally accepted myself as being a lesbian and i wanted to know if i should tell my family or when even if its only been a couple of months since i had accepted myself and nearly everyone in my family is homophobic... (44 words)

How long, on average, should it take to 'get over' a 5 year relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my relationship break up. My boyfriend and I were together for almost 5 years and about 3 months ago he caused a bit argument and walked out on me. We were always very close and had a strong connection although we did have lots... (405 words)

How can I make my text messages more flirty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. I don't text him often as im usually busy so I've decided from now on id like to make the txts I do send him, more flirtacious. How can I turn a simple "hey how are you?" txt for example Into something more flirtacious. ... (64 words)

Why don't guys go out with girls with low self-esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - why don,t shallow good looking guys like fat girls why are we not good enough to be seen with .i feel so inferior that i won,t ever get a boyfriend becasue my weight and lack of social skills.good looking guys always have girlfriends how is this ?and girls like me are left on ... (98 words)

My friend shows no interest when I go on about the teacher I fancy. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i really need some help. i really really REALLY fancy this guy that works at my school. He's a helper for kids that find it hard to learn. He isn't that old. He is in his early twenties. Everytime i see him i feel like i am going really red and i get butterflies everytim... (143 words)

What to do if you're a lesbian and you're separated from your girlfriend and she's being abused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm a lesbian and I've been dating this amazing girl for a little over 3 years now. She is everything to me, I dont know how I ever was happy without her. I love her more than anything and she loves me just as much, if not more. All our friends support us too. But a ... (166 words)

Help with a seemingly impossible situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend now for nearly 2 and a half years. We've been having a lot of problems over say the last 6 months. I'm 19 as well as my girlfriend and I've been in a longish relationship before, whereas she hasn't. I'm feeling very skeptical about a good answer to ... (832 words)

What do guys want in a girl who is a 'potential hookup'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just out of curiousity, what do guys want in a girl who is a 'potential hookup'? Most of the time when i have been out, all the guys have always seemed to go for a friend of mine, who is quite pretty but rather slutty. I'm not saying this to be mean, but she is known around ... (97 words)

He's not a creep I've met his family... Online! I'm 17 he's 30 what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy that I met online. we have been talking for a couple of months now and in no way is he a creep or anything. He's even introduced me to his older bro and his sis in law. His parents even know about me and i have spoken to them but the problem is with my ... (99 words)

How can I get this young guy out of my head and concentrate on the older guy who gives me everything I want and more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,can any one help me.Early last year i came out of a 10 yr relationship which i have a six yr old daughter from.The last few yrs my ex was quite abusive,so i had to bind my time to get out of.I have a good relationship with my ex now,and he is more of a father than he ever ... (302 words)

Nervous about meeting up with my online guy in real life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I met a man online we've been talking for a while now we r both married so we just basicaly want the same thing friendship someone to talk to. I trust him we've talked on phone lots and its neet because we worked at same place years ago just didn't know each other. He still ... (92 words)

When and why do guys get erections?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. i really dont understand this erection buisness that well.i know that guys say they have one when they see a girl they fancy and she does something sexy. but do some gusy just have random one's?or just have one when they see a person they fancy but she doesn't do somet... (127 words)

I feel so betrayed, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age - I am finding life difficult to live at the moment due to how my now ex betrayed me. I was with him almost 15 years. In December he came to see me said he wasn't in love with me any more,didn't know what he wanted in his life etc. I asked if he was cheating on me again as he di... (421 words)

Is my partner a nasty piece of work or just ignorant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I posted before about a have a problem that is causing me a lot of distress and since then things have got worse. I've been with my partner for 6 years now, during which time I have supported him through all sorts of problems, including a messy acrimonious divorce. ... (590 words)

Why the gay sex pornography?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just 22 have been marrid to my husband for almost 2years. Recently i have caught him watching gay porn and when i asked him that if he wants to tell me something or if he is a gay he denied it. After that he stopped for a week and then started again. I frequently tell... (184 words)

Wondering what this could mean, if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi aunts, this is a bit af an odd question and i aint guna make it to graphic, i have never had regular periods but the last 2 years i have had one every 5 weeks, however my last one came at 7 weeks then this one at 5 again but the last 2 havnt looked like blood in colour or ... (78 words)

How do I tell him I just can't do this anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this guy for three years. He was my first boyfriend and I was very much in love with him. However, when I left uni, we decided to end it as I was going off travelling. He came to visit a couple of times over that summer, which in hindsight was a ... (157 words)

I'd rather not go if he's flying first class and I have to fly economy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a partner of 2yrs,i love him very much.he goes overseas twice a year for business,and hes asked me to go with him on his next trip.hes always flying first class.and hes collecting all points that he gets from fying 1st class to get me a ticket(economy). that just makes ... (99 words)

Do LD relationships ever work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 17 yrs old i live in california anyways lets get to the point! i met this guy online he's 19yrs old, he lives in Florida but studies in virginia anyway like i was saying i met him online and he is really sweet and everything so when he first asked me to be his gf i was ... (170 words)

He married someone else saying I wasn't wife material but now keeps contacting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend who went on for an arranged marriage after 3 and a half years of our relationship is now trying to call me . He started doing this after a week of his marriage. What is his problem in life? I do not respond to his calls or texts. Why is he calling me when he is ... (102 words)

She e-mails me loads but doesn't want others to see me talking with her in person. Does she fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'll be brutally honest with you. I'm thinking about having an affair. I know I shouldn't and I guess I could put the brakes on whilst I still have the composure. Here's the story. I'm not married, have two children but my partner in recent years has become an alcoholic and ... (447 words)

He's soon to be a father and I don't know if I want to be with him now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have became close friends over the past few months.. he has admited to being very attached and likes me alot, but I never really thought of him that way.. lately, I have been thinking I might give him a shot because I always date losers, and gives that end up not ... (238 words)

Help! He's too tired to sleep with me but stays up all night to watch weird porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - *sigh* okay so here it goes i apologize for grammar since now because i am in a hurry. Okay so some inside details, I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, things were fine at the beginning of our relationship. and things moved a bit fast he asked me to ... (459 words)

I'm her perfect guy, except for the distance between us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl I'm absolutely crazy about and this isn't an infatuation thing. I've been absolutely crazy for her for over a year. When I first felt that way, I told her straight up. She was hesitant mainly because she had already been seeing a guy for a while off and on... (408 words)

I know I did the right thing by breaking things off but the guilt is really bothering me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - we had a breakup recently ...it was a year old relationship ....she has taken care of me and loved me like her own child...all i can say is she loved me crazily and has supported me a lot ....she said she can cross any limits to see me happy ...but the truth was different, i ... (244 words)

My ex is playing mind games and I don't know if any of it is really. Please help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

How can I make sure I don't respond to my FWB when I suffer from a lack of will power?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell deeply in love with my fwb. To this day i don't know how he felt about me but he told me he really liked me and didn't just want me for sex. He gave loads of hints that he liked me but now i see he was most likely lying to me. Anyway, he hurt me badly when i found out... (198 words)

Used by girls and no friend's to speak of, how do I rebuild my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

10 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - right.. erm.. im 22 years old and basically i have had very bad luck with girls from the start... one girl whom i use to go out with went off with my best mate and cos we were in the same class i had to put up with seein them on a day to day basis.. at this time i was very ... (704 words)

I told him I was older, and now I'm falling for him. How to tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 and have been going to a local bar for the past year. I met this cool guy who I told I was 24, he started talking online alot then dating . He is 34. He has told me he loved me and I"m beginning to fal hard for him. I dont want to lie to him anymore but I am afraid ... (90 words)

I've been having sore pains in my left breast, what could this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ive been having sore pains in my breast. but only on my left one. now i just noticed that it is a dark brown color around my nipple and very sore.ppl say that it usually means ur prego but i just had my period and it ended yesterday..what does it usually ... (71 words)

How do I stop being scared that he likes me?

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I think might like me. I really like him too. I've never had a boyfriend. I've never had a guy act the way he does around me. It's to the point where I'm scared that he likes me. It's so bad that I've been trying to make it seem like I don't like him... (89 words)

Developing deep feelings and would like to make things exlusive with him

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on a dating site. We emailed for a month and now have been dating for 2 months. He confessed a couple weeks back that he was seeing multiple women but then it was just me and one other person but "doesn't really talk to her anymore". I didn't think that was a clear ... (266 words)

Having problems with my mom

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship with my mom has never been so good. Shes's got a really short temper, she would flip out out of nowhere and react angry even to such little things. When she gets like that, I've always tried to ignore her, and i always stayed quiet cuz i didnt wanna make ... (460 words)

His mom is a big thorn in the side of our relationship

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am engaged and we r already planning the wedding but I have one problem....HIS MOTHER! We live together and have 3 kids witch she treats bad. She has told other family members that she don't think I love him like his ex from 5 years ago did! He and I have talked about this ... (149 words)

He wants to have sex to see what I'm like

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10 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Men help me out. I have been pursued by a man whom I love to be with. We went out several times and are compatible and have great communication: honest, open, and trusting. We even discuss disagreements with respect for the other's feelings and position. A huge sign of our ... (227 words)

Why don't I get pleasure from didos?

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My question is why don't I get any pleasure from dildos? I'm a virgin, but I'd like to break my hymen beforehand and be more comfortable with penetration on my own before I decide to have sex. The thing is, I think I already have broken my hymen because I can get dildos in ... (141 words)

Why do girls make things so complicated?

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10 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so there i was sittin in the library revising. opposite me was a girl who was also doing some work. i asked her "i kno ur busy but would u like to grab a bite quickly?" she said no but is goin for a smoke later and i could come with if i do smoke. so i nodded. but when she ... (177 words)

I like him..he likes me but nothing is happening

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: I've known this boy for a while now, I'd say about three months. The first month we actually talked was over the internet. We had talked like that for about a month and then I started meeting his friends. After me and his friends got acquainted I had not a hear... (421 words)

Found out he has a child, not even divorced yet

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a 'serious' relationship with my boyfriend since august 2008, however, i have never invited to his home(he lives 6 hours away). i asked to visit just after easter, however, got a shocking confession from him instead--he is divorced, has a little boy with the exwife. i ... (293 words)

I have fallen for a gay boy

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and recently i've begun to really like a a guy in my school, i knew he was interested and i think he knew i was intertested too. anyway we swapped numbers and it wasn't long until he admitted he was gay, i was devastated! but he told that i'm the first girl to ever ... (91 words)

I need to find a way to talk to him

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so there is this guy that i really like and have liked for a long time and i went to a dance and he was there. i know him but we are definantly NOT close!!! anyways i really like him and i wanted to dance with him but i didnt want him to say no because i know his parents ... (299 words)

Husband rude to my elderly mother

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When I married my husband, he knew that my elderly mother lived with me and that I had responsibilities to her. Now he wants her to get out. He acts rude and hateful to her all the time. It makes me hate him sometimes. I don't know why he just can't suck it up for a while ... (66 words)

My little sis and my ex

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people im chloe 15 I just split with my boyfriend 4 weeks ago and he is going out with ma sister who is 13! he is sixteeen but told ma mum he was 14 and i tryed telling ma mum that he is 16 but she said you cant stand your sister being happy. But only yesterday ma mum... (141 words)

To be or not to be with her

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10 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been broken up with my girlfriend the last 3 months we were together 2 years and ended it because I wanted to be single sick of fighting and the jealousy and wanted to see other people. We have remained friends and still act like boyfriend and girlfriend and i... (296 words)

He seems to only want sex

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10 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hi, I suppose this isn't really a complaint. I'm 18, gay. Apart from a little kissing and fondling with other guys, I never had sex til last year. It was so amazing, I was instantly addicted to this man and we've been doing it now for about 6 months. He's 25, gorgeous, an... (317 words)

I really don't understand why I feel the way I do

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10 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don’t really understand myself right now; I just wonder if anyone out there may understand or relate to why I feel the way I do. I feel down, bored like I’m ‘empty’ - unsatisfied, yet nothing seems to fulfill my boredom and ‘emptiness’. I never feel better, even when I do t... (320 words)

Partner racist and its really disturbing to me

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10 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I have a problem that is causing me a lot of distress. I've been with my partner for 6 years now, during which time I have supported him through all sorts of problems, including a messy acrimonious divorce. He has always been 'difficult' but can also be loving, generous... (608 words)

Whats this man playing at does he still love me?

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10 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey.. my ex broke up with me 7 months ago since then weve slept togther on a few occasions the last one he made me thinkl he was in love with me because of the way he was acting .. im still madly in love with him and cant sem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes ... (669 words)