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writes:Ok so my bf and I were together for 4 years, and he was always a great bf.We were in long distance relationship and eventually things became difficult and over the last year have been on and off. We stayed in touch, and when he came back to my city for awhile we hooked up.He told me recently that he got drunk and made out with another girl recently, but did not have sex with her.I am heartbroken over this fact, as he is as well. I really feel betrayed somehow. He feels awful and wants to be with me, but I'm unsure if I can forgive him for this. Should I forgive him, I was the one who initiated the original breaks because I was unsure of us. But do I even have the right to be mad at him? Should I forgive him, or should I move on without him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Well if you chose to move on then that would be such a waste of what seems like a great guy and a 4yr relationship. He fucked up...or well I'm not rly sure "when" since you stated u guys were on and off. But thats the thing we all fuck up at some point and it's up to you to decide if he is worth it or not. Some people are and some are not. You may forgive him if you so desire, but let him know that you have lost a lot of trust. If you don't feel like this, give it a little time to think.
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