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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sensitive penis...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I badly want to have sex! I'm 21, only had sex once before and my current situation means that I HAVE to wear a condom, no question! My problem is, I have such a sensitive penis. Whether im erect or not, the thought of someone/something (a condom/skin/bed ... (257 words)

I don't know how to break up with her in a peacful matter that'll work out fine for both of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We're both still young. We moved into an apartment after about four months of dating, it's both of our first times on our own and we're completely dependent on each other. The entire spark, the vibe, we used to have for each ... (183 words)

How long does a women want a man to last in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How long should a man last in bed? How long does a women want a man to last?... (18 words)

How do I get rid of his current crazy girlfriend???

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy named Rj, before we started dating we were the best of friends. I knew once we got in a relationship, it would ruin everything. He would constantly ask me out, saying i was the perfect girl blahblahblahblah and he didn't wanna lose me. Rj probably said all that ... (1102 words)

It's like Romeo and Juliet, a family fight forbids our love... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and he is 15. We have fallen for each other deeply but we can't be together because our familes got in a fight and completly hate each other and even hate the fact that we go to the same school but can't move due to the economy... we only get to be with each other at ... (144 words)

Help!!! How can I get my husband's attention?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age - I've been married to my present husband for a year now. When we first got married, we didn't live together for almost 8 months! He finally moved in with us in January this year. 5 weeks later I found out that he loves to watch porn on the computer and masturbate at the same ... (393 words)

What can you all tell me... am I pregnant or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a 3 day period, very light and more like spotting. 2 weeks later I'm having pain in my side, vomiting, sleepy a lot, I don't eat pickles or cereal, and now I can't stop eating ice or icys! I took a pregnancy test maybe a week ago and it came back negative but I ... (123 words)

I don't want to end up single for the rest of my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

- Hi, I am 21 years old and have had a couple short term boyfriends since I was 17. I used to be quite confident before I started getting boyfriends/male interest but I feel that as a result of bad experiences with the last boyfriend, my confidence has lowered a lot. I would l... (195 words)

What's going on with him here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so, some background: me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half. I was at his house this evening and for dinner we had burgers and salad [with onions]. Later on in the evening, we were sitting on his bed and, im not sure how it came about, but he said "i d... (174 words)

Help... my friends keep ganging up on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Since im the quiet one out of all of them and they are all so confident they sometimes gang up on me. I give up trying to stand up for myself because i never win anyway. I tried going off to find a different group of friends and i managed but then they started getting like ... (233 words)

Overreacting over his drinking binges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 10 years. When my husband and I started dating, he consumed alcohol. I did not mind at the time because I only saw him intoxicated once and thought he only consumed alcohol on the weekends. Due to our occupations, the first seven years of our marriage we ... (263 words)

Can you offer any tips on how to improve my technique?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a woman who's not quite sure how to move when I'm on top. Can you offer any tips on how to improve my technique?... (25 words)

Guilt after son's death...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age - My son has committed suicide today. Not only am I devastated to lose him but in some ways, I had already lost him. I feel guilty cos he lived with his dad after our acrimonious divorce, his dad turned him against me and I have tried and tried to have a relationship with him ... (123 words)

I feel I can't hold in how I feel about him much longer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I really like this boy, he has a girlfriend, who he has been with for 5 months. They have broken up a few times, and whenever they have he came to me and I listened to him. He complained about her several times to me, but then goes and makes up with her. I have very ... (136 words)

I don't want to hurt his feelings... what do I do?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend went out for like 3 months and we broke up. But then he started talking to me again and he is like i cant live without you. And i really liked him and then we always talked and now its been 10 months since we met and started liking each other. And now he is ... (152 words)

What do I do... tell her I like her or keep it to myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, really like one of my close friends, who also happens to be a girl. I've only admitted to one other person that I like her and that I could possibly be bisexual, and only because that person was open-minded enough for me to be comfortable with. Most of my other ... (136 words)

Medical records...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi cupids, This is a medical question. I have recently had bowel problems which is leading towards surgery. The docs are asking if it could be herditary but none of my living relatives have had any of the same symptoms. My nan who died in 2004 died of a burst abscess in... (113 words)

My wife loves another man, what should I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married for almost 6 years. Recently she developed a friendship with a man at work. They became really close and while I was away for work, he came over to say goodbye to her cause he was going away for work also, and things happened. There was no sex, ... (266 words)

I can't get a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - 16 year old girl, at an all girls school, have a mixed group of friends that i go out with regularly and were even going on holiday together so i have guy-friends, its just guys never seem interested in me. its not that i want to go somewhere with my friends its just when ... (101 words)

Self esteem issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello . i am a 14 year old girl. i currently live with many issues. i have very low self esteem although im told im not ugly. im told im too skinny i weigh 100 lb. i have scoliosis and wear a brace but only to sleep. i think i have hyperhidrosis because i sweat ALL the time on ... (156 words)

Should I get close to him?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband are going through a tough time. i have been backing off since his lies have cause a rift between us. I tried to start counseling, but it has taken for ever to get an appointment. Is it a good thing to keep my distance? It doesn't even feel like we are ... (255 words)

Wait and try to get back with my Ex or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, everyone, Last night I atteneded prom with a good friend of mine. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months only a week ago. I love my ex so very much. I like my prom date as a potential boyfriend. All that being said, I'm not yet over my ex. My friend knows that. Were... (202 words)

My b/f's ex reveals she likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my best friend's ex gf reavels she 'likes' me after breaking up with him. although i like her too, she says we can't date because of the fact that she wants to leave in peace. what should I do to convince her to give ourselves a chance? i'd appreciate some advice.... (51 words)

Just friends or does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So im gay and ive been friends with this guy for about two years. he knows im gay and he used to say he was bi but ive started to pretty much fall in love with him. and it seems like when he found out that i liked him, he decided that he was straight. were still really good ... (343 words)

In love with my band teacher's wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i fell in love with my band teachers wife. me and him are sorta close. should i tell him how i feel? or should i tell her how i feel? or should i keep it to myself... (37 words)

Does it sound like she still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how too go about finding out that question. So, I thought I'd come here and ask for advice after I told you part of the situation. We started dating in Feb 09' we've known one another for nearly a yr and a half before that. It was the best kind of love, the I'm ... (412 words)

Wife had affair. don't know what to do.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i've been married for 6 years now, and it's been pretty happy up until recently. a couple of days ago, i accidentally overheard a conversation between two of my wife's friends and it was revealed that my wife had an affair with one of her coworkers. i confronted her abo... (187 words)

Just found out that my boyfriend got me AND my best friend pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi iam 16yrs old and i have just left my bf after i found out he had another child. the childs mum is my best friend the child is 1year old. me and my ex bf have been together for 9 1/2 months, so he did not cheat on me. he says he loves me but i just don't knwo what to do, my ... (185 words)

Worried that he wont like me when he sees me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here it is. i am really nervous.. this boy (a friends, friend) and i have been talking on msn and he asked me out. ive said yes and we are going to meet in a weeks time. i have met him twice like with my friends always liked him but didnt know he liked me too. the thing... (196 words)

Are all the guys my age only looking for one thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am so bad at dating lol no but seriously i was with my x on n off since i was 14 im now 20 and single and i just cant stand it. im so use to having smeone ther all the time and i miss it i enjoy my space dont get me wrong but i want a boyfriend. i never did the dating thing ... (332 words)

How do I get through this break up and still be her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm sorry if this is too long for you to read, but I'm just giving the whole story so you can give a more cogent, well thought out answer. Okay, so in the beginning of the school year (september 2008), this new girl came to my school (which only has like 40 people). We'll c... (629 words)

Is it ok to just lie there? Do I need to do more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 34 and my boyfriend is 56. He is only the second man I’ve ever been involved with. I think my first guy was impotent or non-sexual. We slept in the same bad a few times and he just cuddled. He never made a sexual advance nor do I think he ever got an erection with me. ... (552 words)

How can I get the confidence to approach girls without feeling rejection

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 22 and very insecure. i have never had a proper g/f and find it hard to approach girls for fear of rejection. i portray myself as a carefree individual but that could not be further from the truth. i take negative comments very personally. i dont feel i am aan ugly person ... (96 words)

He says if I can change he might be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is really complicated so i really need help me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had "a thing" with this other guy. then me and my boyfriends got back and now hes finished it with me and hes seeing this other girl.... (151 words)

Why did he run off like he did? I thought we were friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - All last semester I was flirting off and on with one of my co-workers, and then friend, despite him having a girlfriend. We both new it was just us being friends and we didn't spend much time together out of work, probably for that same reason. But then right before our winter ... (991 words)

Single for 8 months! So hard to meet someone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i find it so hard to meet someone. Ive been single 8 months. I really want to be with someone i get really lonely. Ive never had a one night stand and never want to. My friends have. And sometimes i just feel boring cos i dont like to get drunk and sleep around thats not me. ... (222 words)

He made it clear he won't commit! So why is he questioning me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been going out for years, he moved away for a job, he told me to do what I need relationship wise regardless of what he does. We still meet up every couple weeks. We still have great sex, fun, very compatible. I know he's trying or is going out with other women. I took ... (143 words)

Shouldn't I be the one who is mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay my boyfriend/bestfriend of 8 years on and off cheated on me and i found out by calling a number in his phone. Then he gets mad at me for calling her and tells me mean hurtful things. Then he changed his number on me. Shouldnt i of been the one mad? It makes me feel she ... (75 words)

I have feelings for my best friends brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, but I am not sure what is going on or what I should do. Opinions, comments please. I've known about this guy for about a year, I never really had time to talk to him though, I really only started to get to know him and hang out with him since March ... (522 words)

I don't know if I should walk away or just be a little more patient

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i moved to here around 5 years ago so my natural social network is not in where i live now. especially now i find it more difficult than ever as i started working full-time and most of my uni friends are gone back to different places. but this doesnt mean that i dont have ... (1208 words)

Anyone have any information about cytomegalovirus?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello!. well, I had a blood test just as my medical annual checking and i came positive for cytomegalovirus.. i have been reading some things and most are related to pregnancy.. so my question is, does anyone know what this is? cause i have been trying to look it up a... (103 words)

We fight soo much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time- almost a year and a half. I love him to death but we fight SO much. I feel like if i am with someone i love then i should be happy, but i'm always upset or mad, rarely happy.We broke up last night after a long disagreement, ... (197 words)

Inconsistent with pill, condom split..pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I have been on the pill for around 2 years now. Although i missed alot of pills from the last pack i had. I had the 7 day break from the pill and on the 7th day had sexual intercourse with a condom, but it split really bad, and now im worried that im ... (74 words)

Pregnancy concerns, even been to doctor about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lately been worried about pregnancy. I haven't had my period in more than two months now, though my cycle is every 6 weeks. My boyfriend and I do have sex, but few times and we use a condom each time. When my period was late, i took a pregnancy test two weeks later, ... (207 words)

Best friend cheated with my b/f and now I think she might be trying again to get him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out again and things have been really great. But in the past, him and one of my best friends had gotten together behind my back for a month. It has been almost a year now and i have forgiven both of them and have put it in the past. It too... (268 words)

What to do when your very first moment occurs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi :D I was just wondering what to do when your very first "special moment" comes. My friend had one the other day but she said she completely messed it up. There's a guy I really like, who also likes me and so basically I was wondering what to do on your first kiss. Thanks i... (60 words)

Do I miss my ex? Or just having female companionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I've only ever had one girl I have ever loved in my entire life and our relationship didn't end to well. She dated on me two years ago and I've still yet to find the right girl for me. I miss her but do you think it's more a fact of missing her or just missing female ... (198 words)

Is this normal for a period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi.I had my last period,i think,about 3 weeks ago.It started on the 26th of April,and finished exactly a week later,and yesterday,i got the signs of another one starting.I usually get a brown discharge for a day or two before my period starts,then it starts properly.If it has ... (124 words)

How do I get out of this tight situation with my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum is really mad at me, i went to a gig yeterday in a city 200 miles away staying on the street over night. my brother told my mum and now shes really really mad, she wants to tell my mates parents but i cannot let her, my mate parents are so uptight theyll never trust her ... (116 words)

Move with parents? Or stay with my guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I have a problem that I need help with. My parents are moving to Alberta very soon (end of June) right after I graduate from highschool, and heres my problem 7 months ago I finally started dating someone who I've had a crush on since I was 13! I love him so much. Th... (230 words)

Is my boyfriend still into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, My boyfriend broke up with me two and a half months ago. He basically said the bad started to outweigh the good. For the first month I kept asking him to rethink things but no luck. Then I completely backed off. Now he's travelling for work for a few months. A couple... (127 words)

He says he's not physically cheating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 10 years. We finally planned to marry. He works out of town for weeks at a time then comes home for a week. I have caught him several times on porn sites and webcamming on adult sites. He says he's not physically cheating on me but, I don't ... (84 words)

Every time we get into a fight I wind up hitting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I REALLY don't know what to do @ this point. I'd been w/ my boyfriend for about 6 months, and everything was great the first couple of months, and than we started fighting constantly because he thought I cheated on him w/ a friend of mine when I went over there just to ha... (452 words)

What a mess I'm in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this 23 year old woman back in november. I am 31. Prior to having met her I had broken up from a 10 year relationship that brought about 2 children, who are now 9 and 5. This woman and I went out for the first time a few weeks after meeting. Our first date was a ... (454 words)

Best friend and I like the same boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend and I both like the same boy. He goes to our school and is in the same year. But the thing is, I love someone else aswell, and so does she. I found out on Friday that she liked him, but she doesn't know I like him aswell. I don't know what to do. I'm compl... (90 words)

Do I let things run their course and develop naturally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with a guy and we have been friends for a couple of years. Over the past few months we have become closer. We are both single. We've started flirting more, when we are close together we brush up against each other. When we talk there is a lot of eye contact and I've... (152 words)

He's breaking my heart all over again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I am hurting so much inside because about l7 years ago, when I was engaged to my ex fiance', I fell in love with a married man and he means the world to me but he would never leave his wife for me even though he is living in hell with her. He had two young children at that ... (374 words)

Was that her period? Or is she pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I avoided having sex around her fertile time and she hasn't had any pregnancy symptoms. Her periods are usually really short with heavy cramps and a relatively light flow. She hadn't started on the day she was supposed to so we decided to go ahead and make ... (112 words)

Should I ask him to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 i had a boyfriend he was 15 we broke up 3 months ago and two weeks ago he calle me and asked if i wanted to go with him to a disco... offcourse i sai yes because i love him... and in the disco he star dancing with me ten he huge me and wouldnt let go, i felt really g... (199 words)

Haunted by the past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't if i'm going crazy or if whats happening is normal.my bf and i have been datin for a year and a half and i love him so much but there is only one problem i can't forget what he did in the past.he played me and made me feel like i'm not good enough for him ok yes he has ... (196 words)

I love him, I cheat, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem will probably appear very mixed up and contradictory. But i'm saying this from my own experience from my boyfriend of 15months. Since around 4 months ago, me and my boyfriends relationship deteriorated slightly, many arguments came and he felt it was me causing ... (675 words)

Text and sex with the ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my x have been flirting by text. We haven't been with new people still going through divorce. Is it wrong to have text sex then maybe even hook up, knowing our marriage is still over?... (37 words)

Turning 30 and becoming a little desperate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am turning thirty this year and I think I am becoming a tad desperate. My friends and relatives are getting married left, right and centre, and here I am without so much as a boyfriend. 1) When I went home for Christmas last year I met this guy on the plane, we had an... (233 words)

Will he cheat again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 4 years, we have been together for 7. 26 months ago I found out my husband had an affair with a neighbhor. It was short lived but it hurt me terribly, while I wanted to divorce him right then he was truly so distraught by what he'd done I thought he ... (325 words)

Is she trying to get out of going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, met a girl online, she added me on a social site i go on, we kinda hit it off and chat for hours all week and we get to the stage were we arrange to meet up for a drink. She said she's really looking forward to meeting me. So we have no contact for a day and i text the ... (148 words)

Family problems have left me really depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Poster is 15, not 18 as stated. My mum and dad split up in august last year, and ever since then theres been constant arguements etc. The main arguements are between me and my dad, and theyve got so bad that i actually hate him and refuse to have contact with him... (311 words)

My voice hasn't broke yet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi. i am 14 and my voice hasn't broken. My friends said not all peoples voices break is this true and when will my voice break. Thanks... (28 words)

I really think there could be something there if given another chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me...I really need advice on how to re-connect with this guy I met. All advice is accepted and appreciated! Ok here goes, I met this guy on a social networking site. He gave me his messenger screename and I we had two conversations. It seemed to me like we were ... (285 words)

How do I fix my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have never asked advice online before so here I go. I have been dating a girl for a year and a half now. I hav lied to her on countless occasions on stupid stuff. I am 31 and she is 40. She has 2 teenagers that live with us. We have always worked things out and I know that ... (246 words)

He treats me well but I've caught him in lies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay right i've been with this guy for a year yesterday he treats me so much, like yesterday he took me shopping with £300 he spoils me so much. the last 2 months, we've been going down hill. he's lied to me over our relationship. At the begining on our realationship he l... (482 words)

Why do people stare at me wherever I go?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I go out with family or by myself, people look and stare at me like i'm an museum exhibit. This really irritates, upsets, and angers me. They stare at me for more than 3 seconds. When i'm at a restaurant with my family people just stare at me even when I get to my table ... (184 words)

Why isn't sex such a big factor now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend havent had sex in a while(since last month)and we have talked about how we want to whenever it is were away or miss each other. i love him and obviously our relationship isnt just about sex which is good. but what confuses me is that whenever we are ... (151 words)

She has been faking orgasms and I just now figured out it was all an act!

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17 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a month and a half and within the first week of our relationship we began having sex. Every time we had intercourse she "acted" like she was orgasming and I didn't question her but I had my doubts. Well about a week ago I gave her oral sex ... (288 words)

How to help someone who cuts?

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17 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a fourteen year old friend (girl) who self-harms, as in she cuts herself, but I don't know what kind of advice to give her. What kind of advice would you give to a fourteen year old girl who self-harms for attention?... (43 words)

FWB wants me to move in with him and his wife!

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an older male friend who lives near me and we have a discrete physical relationship that has been going on for about a year. I enjoy being with him but I don't see him as anything more than a fun time once in a while and a good friend. Friday he asked if I wanted t... (116 words)

We think my friend may be pregnant, but we're not sure what to do

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help and i dont know what to do. Im a 13 year old girl and my best friend(who is 13 too) had sex with her boyfriend and she hasnt had her period in about, a month n two weeks. She cant eat and she throws up all the time. We(me n our other best friend) got her to ta... (158 words)

What is wrong with sex between brothers and sisters?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I know sex between brothers and sisters is considered wrong by most people. Why? I mean if they love each other and make sure they don't have any children, what is wrong with sharing that love physically? ... (39 words)

Is leaving him alone the best thing to do?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and about 2 years ago I cheated. I told my boyfriend I wanted a break because he wasn't there until late at night and then he'd be up early for work and I felt like we were so distant but I still did care about him. I was young, 21 ... (583 words)

Starved of Affection and Lonley ......

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years. I am a doctoral student and work full-time. My husband goes to school part-time. I have been thinking about this for a while and just need some advice. I love my husband, but he says he is not an affectionate person. The only time he hugs me is ... (166 words)

What should I do about my husband's anal obsession?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband insists on having anal sex. Every time we've try, it's been very painful. Yet he keeps begging for it and makes me feel bad when I turn him down. What can I do?... (35 words)

I'm so lonely...but it's never going to happen for me and I cant change it!

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17 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - help im so lonely! i have friends. i have family. but i feel depressed and lonely! i want a boyfriend, someone to love me! everyone says, it will happen but im tired and restless of waiting. ive never had a bf and im 2o! i know what my problem is and i cant change it!... (173 words)

Really would like the opinion of the females here...

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had always been the tom boy, until the past three months (I guess). I am head over heels for the greatest guy I have ever met...he is younger than me, not very confident, virgin, not outgoing at all, pretty much we are complete opposites, but he makes my heart jump. I have ... (189 words)

I want another baby. My husband does not...How to change his mind?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i want another baby but my husband doesn't. i have a 1.5 year old little boy who is the center of both our universe's. i want to wait till i get out of school (another 5 years) but i know i DO want another one. my husband is completely against it. i was very close to my ... (128 words)

He's bipolar..won't take his meds...I'm really afraid of what might happen.

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I realize that there are probably no 2 bipolar individuals with the same symptoms. But When my husband leaves me, sometimes for weeks at a time, what is going through his mind? When asked, he says "not much of anything". He even says he doesnt think about me. How can this ... (297 words)

How can I break down this wall.. and let someone else in again?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over my trust, controlling, and commitment issues, so I don't ruin things with this guy that I really like! I'm fifteen years old, and I've had two what i'd like to call 'serious' boyfriends since 2007. The first relationship I had I was thirteen, he was... (443 words)

I'm sick of the fighting! Am I not seeing his side or do I just walk away?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want some raw honest advice. I have been with this guy for over a year. I love him, he loves me. He would NEVER cheat on me, he is financially stable, if I ask him to do something (reasonable) he always does. We just aren't getting something. I've read books, gone to ... (558 words)

Do men like independent women?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very independent, I know so many people but I dont have a group that I regularly hang out with. I like being by myself and sometimes spending a lot of time with certain people bugs me. Dont get me wrong, I'm not a misanthrope lol but I can take care and stand up for myself. ... (68 words)

Real problems between my son and his step father...any advice please!

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a quandary. My son is 10yo, and has behavioral problems. They seem to be getting steadily worse and I know the problem is my husband, his step father. He gets so verbally and mentally abusive when my son messes up, that he just makes it worse. I try and try to talk ... (214 words)

I NEED a girl in my life...!

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17 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I can never seem to find the right girl. I can't stand being alone. My mom left around age 9, so I think thats a factor to why I need a girl in my life. I always feel alone, unloved and need someone to be there for me. Basically like a mom, but my own girl. I tried dating ... (180 words)

My husband makes me feel like I make him unhappy...help!

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband lights up to the sight of anyone around him, normal and happy. When he is with me he makes me feel like I make him unhappy quit and withdrawn only touches me when ready for sex I want my marriage to work but feel bad like I make him unhappy, I am lonely and need ... (59 words)

Would you talk to the girl you liked?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this guy all year. I've heard from multiple people that he likes me too. We have had the same class together all year, but he won't speak to me. Even if I say something to him he will give a short answer, but he won't look at me. He's had plenty of opportunities ... (181 words)

How do I find out who this person is?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little scared.I got a text message out of the blue from a number i didn't recognize saying " your name is _ isn't it ? " (i left the space for my first name ) and i replied asking who it was,they didnt say who they were and then they asked what my surname was.when i didnt ... (148 words)

He is making me feel guilty for being happy...

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and split up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years after all of your advice (thankyou to all thse who replied). he belittled me everyday and made me angry. now that i am single again, i started seeing a guy called david. he made me feel beautiful again but i ... (249 words)

Why would his late wife's mother want me over for dinner?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends wife died over 30 years ago and I can't imagine how hard that must be, they had two sons together too. The problem is that he approached me and said his sons grandmother asked him and our new son over for dinner but I was invited also. How can my boyfriend or his ... (138 words)

Boils - Do you have a remedy?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there! This is abit of an embaressing issue really. I get Boils on my bottom and i was wondering if anyone has any tips / remedies on how to get rid of them or reduce them because i have low self confidence because of it. Help please! Thankyou.... (54 words)

Suddenly there is this distance between us. I don't know what went wrong!

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I m 18 year old.n in luv wth a classmate of mine for past 8 year. nothng changed but i dont know why a distance grew betweem us. he is the same but i dont know what went wrong? ... (39 words)

How do I get him alone?

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and so is he. i really like him and i think its a possibility that he could like me back. what i really want to know though is how to get him away from the group. we are going on a camping trip with a load of friends and i want to make the most of the oppertunity but ... (70 words)

We had sex and now he wants to be "friends"...???

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i had sex then he want us to be friends what does that mean... (17 words)

A very complicated situation for me....I could use your advice.

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'd love some advice about my situation...hoping you can help. Yes, the answers may seem obvious, but here's what's happened. I met a group of guys at my golf course about 20 months ago. They were older than me but fun. They had been friends for a while, and welcomed me into ... (1521 words)

He's so 'hot' and 'cold' with me, I don't think I love him anymore..

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17 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I used to be completely crazy ... (167 words)