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writes: ok--16 years ago and counting, i still think about the first boy i was ever in love with. i was 13.i think we would have dated, but i wasn't allowed to go to his house when he invited me over, so at school we held hands and put our arms around each other and flirted between bouts of acting like we hated each other. obviously we were not mature enough to handle our emotions anyways, at the time.but, i actually looked him up on myspace, and found he didn't appear to have changed much in personality-a good and bad thing...still, i have an almost irresistible urge to contact him. i'm not going to. i think it is a little crazy, but i don't know why i haven't let this go. there have only been a few people in my life where i recall feeling a mutual animal magnetism. he was one of them, and of course, the first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): wow. Im 14 years old. me and this boy have been on and off for over a year.. He cheated on me many times but i always forgive him. I lost my viginity to him. Does that mean that in 16 years im going to still think out about him and miss him. i am devasted that we arent together any more but all my friends say il get over it. i really dont think so though... and you story made me belive that it is possible to never stop loving your first love. no matter how long you spend apart from him and not talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): I struggle with that same problem alot, the only difference is that I am getting married in 4months.. Your first love is not something I think people can get over easily if at all..I still need to figure out a way to live with that rather then having it consume my thoughts and emotions. If your single, contact him! Why not? IF your not single when then you should probably try to ignore your urge the best you can!
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reader, deadheart123  +, writes (28 May 2009):
after all he is your first love, you can not let him go no matter how hard you try. my advice to you is just to focus on something else, try to forget about him and stop looking at his myspace.
but remember, your first love is very special, it is VERY HARD to let it go...
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