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writes:Ok so i have a massive issue. Let's start by saying I love a guy that likes someone else. I was dating this guy but he broke up with me for her. But we made out a few nights ago. I didn't mean for it to happen, he put his arm around me and we were walking around. I thought he was doing it as a friend, so I didnt think anuthing weird about it. I looked up at him (hes taller than me) and he kissed me (with tongue). I didnt want that to happen. What do I do? A lot of girls think I'm a slut for kissing her boyfriend, but I didnt want to, it truly just happened, he planned it but I had no idea!! HELP!!! ps: he said he was going to kiss me again to prove that he can kiss better than he did the other night.(were just really good friends)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy does everyone say that he will never see me as girlfriend material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Yeah, but acting like you are will ensure that he'll never see you as girlfriend material. Your now the girl on the side, the backup. He can have you anytime and he'll just continue to have other girlfriends and not see you as anything worth value that he has to work for and appreciate. Guys don't commit to girls with no self respect. It may feel good to have his attention but it's the wrong kind of attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni cant get over him. i love him more than life itself
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (27 May 2009):
It doesnt look good! And in this situation although our hurting imagaine how his gfs going to feel? Nobody wins its a loose loose so get out before you slip back into what once was. Its unhealthy and wrong, he treats you like dirt and still has the power to wrap you around his finger, dont fall for his games, youll hurt too but people wont sympathize with you, some will blame you for being involved so just leave it.
In a way its good for his gf, shes seeing who and what he really is, but at a cost. You can spend you days blaming yourself and taking all the blame but two of you were there and what has it achieved now?
Personally i guy who treated me like this? I wouldnt want to be good friends with, hes got no respect or consideration for how your feeling or who he hurts.
Count your lucky stars you know him for what he really is.
Id tell him to stay well away, your no longer playing to his tune.
Get yourself back on track with the right one, never fall to easy, you should always have your guard around if the one whos let you down comes back into your life, let it be a harsh lesson you were forced to learn.
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reader, Loopy14 +, writes (27 May 2009):
 One word best describes him and thats TROUBLE! He wants his cake and he wants to eat it, dont fall into his pathetic mind games trap your worth so much more than that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): It doesn't sound like you are really good friends because he's using you and you are getting a bad reputation because of it. If you didn't mean for it to happen, you'll stop talking to him and not allow him to treat you like a slut. He broke up with you and now is treating you like trash, some kind of friend. Keep your dignity and self respect and don't let boys treat you like this.
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