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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know what to do! My girlfriend is rude and very insensitive to me..Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, My girlfriend is always very rude when I want to talk to her about my feelings or stuff that bothers me. She sometimes makes me very sad or angry, and she doesnt seem to care. Today i had a fight with her about this , and she kept acting very immature, and I... (284 words)

What if I am missing out on the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Finally moving in a week but not sure if I might be making the right decision. My bf and I had been together in a LDR for 5 years. Our relationship, has gone through a lots of down. He has lied to me on several occasions; and even though he says to trust him the damage is ... (310 words)

I know I'm straight but I'm also curious. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not totally sure of my sexuality. I'm a real girly girl, absolutly love fashion and indie music scene. I have the most amazing boyfriend he's gorgeous and girls drool over him, he's absolutely crazy over me and i couldn't ask for anything more! We've been together nearly a ... (243 words)

I SAW the email from her, confronted him and now he's angry with ME!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my boyfriend recieved an email from a woman it said Hi, Thank you for your diary. Have a nice evening. It was nice to spend time with you. again we do it bye Smiler I asked him about this. all he said was that he has done nothing wrong, and ... (130 words)

I'm 'straight' but I've fallen for a lesbian in a committed relationship...What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40-something woman, and generally speaking I am and have been straight. I have always fantasised about women, rather than men, and have on a few occasions actually fancied other women, but have never done anything about it, nor especially wanted to. A month ago th... (537 words)

We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parents wouldnt let her (I hope ... (184 words)

I know it was just 'sex' but we're both married and I feel so guilty.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 18 years and have 4 children, he is miserable, swears at me, and is gernerally a nasty person, other days he is a kind loving person. I am attracted to someone else now which I think is just an escape from my real life. Last month I text him to ... (120 words)

She doesn't believe me! She wants me to prove it! She wants more! What do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, idk what to do so i was thinking someone might be able to help. ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months, but she “doesnt believe me” when i tell her i love her. (i do). but its a little more complicated than that, she wants me to show her i love her because i dont act like ... (135 words)

It's the "Carrie-Aiden-Big Sex In the City" triangle come to life! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

- im currently in a situation that can be likened to the Carrie-Aiden-Big triangle on sex and the city. My 'Aidan' is a boy i've been distant friends with for about two years now, following the demise of his relationship we grew closer and recently embarked upon a romantic ... (325 words)

Should I go? Afterall, he's an absolute stranger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy after a night out randomly on the street in town when every one pours out from the clubs. He was very goodlooking and smart - not some tipsy guy. we exchanged numbers and now, a few days on, he wants to meet up for a drink. i want to go because i don't like to miss ... (82 words)

I'm so easily aroused! Is something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im a bi-guy ....and i dont have an account here..so im using my friends account.. so im really 17-18, not 14-15 so any ways...im not a virgin and i regret it..i lost it at 15 and i wished i hadent....but my problem is..i dont know whats happening to me..my mind... (117 words)

I don't know if he cares about me but I still love him after everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i lost a guy who meant the world to me a while ago he was my first love and best friend for four years, and he left without saying why. the only one i can think of is that hes moving away, and he is trying to help me let go because he saw how much i hurt when he spoke of... (183 words)

I'm a guy. Should I shave my legs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15, 16 in a week and my legs are full of hairs i just want to know should i shave them because i am an amature footballer and i know that some footballers shave their legs? also i was woundering if i should shave them for the girl i like because i know that some girls ... (70 words)

I forget about b/f when his uncle is around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Everything between us is great all the time, except when his uncle is there. His uncle is 24, i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15. Before my boyfriend and i got together, I had a really big crush on his uncle, a... (254 words)

Ending a workplace affair without a disaster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so here goes.... i am friends with 2 co workers who are married, not to eachother. she is in love with him but all he was looking for was sex, which never happened because she won't do it with someone she is not married to. he wants the whole thing to end but does not want... (110 words)

Scared of getting old and nothing to show for it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am scared to turn 30 years old because i never had a boyfriend and i am very lonely.its the fact of turning 30 years old makes it worse far worse.its scares me it really up sets me the fact i am turing 30... (44 words)

My sex drive is out of control!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, im a guy. i accidently pressed the female option on the form thing and now find that i cant change it. so i masturbate ALOT, and im horny all the time. i find it really difficult to find a girlfriend that satisfies me and time and time again it leads to problems... (161 words)

GF problems help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi well i've been with my gf for 1 year in 2 month. Lately are relationship been having problems. We are actually in long distance relationship we live like 6hr away from each other so we rarely see each other lately. She always talks about how much she loves me, However every ... (305 words)

How do I move to the next step with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Apologies, this is going to be long. I've met this guy, all we've done is kissed, but we're not going out. There are things he has said that makes me think he wants more than a fling, but at the same time i don't really know where I stand. For example, we were talking abo... (182 words)

Love gives pain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girl friend is loving me so much from 6 months but now she is speaking with other boy over the phone i told her i dont like it but she said i'll flirt over the phone only nothing more i love u so much. i had fought with her she is still speaking to him and meeting to him in ... (97 words)

I need to make him trust in me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy on a cruise 2 months ago. We had this amazing connection unlike anything I had ever imagined. He told me he was 33 (i'm 23) because i was joking and saying how older men always hit on me. Turns out, he confessed a week later, he's really 43. I was taken back, ... (343 words)

Any tips on how to give a good blow job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've never thought about giving my boyfriend a blow job before until last night he asked me to give him one. i had no idea what to do. any tips on how to give a good blow job?? thanks xxx... (42 words)

A poll regarding virginity

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the people who are seniors in high ... (79 words)

Girlfriend needs a break because shes afraid

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16 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and myself have been dating for 8 months now, we meet at college and things were going fine. At the start of summer vacation she tells me she needs a break because she afraid of commitment. Shes told me she is eventually going to need to take a break because that ... (120 words)

Having a hard time dealing with this hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So here I am. I just broke up with my boyfriend. I had written here earlier, a month back, askin for help. And i did get answers to my question, thanks guys! So well, i talked to him about my feelings and how i feel ignored. We had a really long conversation. But he didnt do ... (183 words)

Did he mean what he said? how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the 2nd time i broke up with my boyfriend. But now I know this one is for sure.The reason we broke up 2 months ago was i found out he was cheating on me. I asked him to choose but he said he is already in love with this new girl so I decided to let go. Just an hour ... (680 words)

She can give him, the one thing that i'll never be able to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for many years. We're childhood sweethearts and got married a couple of years back. Soon after getting married, we tried to have a baby. After a long time of me not getting pregnant, we took some tests and found out that I was infertile. ... (135 words)

I want to get myself back to 11 years prior when I didn't care or think about my wife's past. How do I get myself there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for close to 12 years now. After a month of being married my wife tells me of her past relationship and that she had an abortion, but she would not reveal the name of the guy. She was extremely upset and she thought I needed to know. Also she was fearful ... (407 words)

Colour, hair and personality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do guys prefer blonde girls to black haired girls? Do they prefer them tall or short, tomboy or girly girly type? Do they prefer a heavy girl with blond hair who is short and heavy or black haired who is short and heavy?? ... (45 words)

Help!!! Torn between the two...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I been dating this boy for 5 months and the relationship is boring. He acts different around his friends and at school he acts like he doesnt see me. For the past week this other boy came along and he is always there. He likes me and I'm having strong feelings... (64 words)

Tired of feeling like an employee instead of his wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here's the long short of the story. My man is in his early 30's and I'm in my late 20's. We've been together for over 2 years. During the honeymoon period, we had earth shattering great sex! I mean the sheets would be smoking if you know what I mean. Granted I know that it ... (305 words)

She's been with some "big" guys. What if I'm too small for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfreind and i have been dating for almost 3 weeks but about 5 months ago we dated for about 3 weeks.(because she broke up with me) and weve gotten a lot closer since then. She thinks that sex is very important in a relationship. I love her very much and I have had sex ... (105 words)

My boyfriend goes on forever... I can't get him to finish! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a handjob qestion by the way, whenever i give my bf a hand job I never seem to get him to - finish - he does seem to like it judging by his sounds and comments but i can give him a 45 mins hand job - im not exadurating - he precums and then gets a little less hard ... (125 words)

Any suggestions for first year anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are coming very close to our 1 year Wedding Anniversary. As a matter of fact, so much has happened in the year, I cant believe its 1 year already. It has been a tough year. But my worry is, I dont know what to get him for it. Has anyone any ideas for me to get ... (84 words)

I'm not allowed to hang about with her any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My good friend just started dating someone who is not that great of a guy. He smokes, he does drugs, has sex and is only 15. My mom told me that if he is hanging out with her I'm not allowed to hang out with her but I want to, she's my friend. I'm not sure what to do becau... (99 words)

I'm 16 and want a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Im 16 and need a boyfriend i know, i dont NEED one. i just feel like a failure for not having one, im not pretty, but i dont think im THAT ugly either - pretty short, brunette, size 10-12 (8 in like mum type shops). I just want tips on how to get one. i like a few people, b... (188 words)

In love with a professor...what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well im an lesbian, and i have given an lady professor some roses. My friend actually did, stating its from me. The professor wanted to see me and i went inside. She started asking me my name and nationality, etc...she then said i could have gone up to her and at least said hi ... (119 words)

I get an erction when I'm thinking of men not women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: Poster is 13, not 28... please help me i dont want to be gay but im so attracted to a man not a girl im 13 years old boy please help me im so depressed im not so attracted to girls but but im so attracted to guys how can be this?plss help me im getting crazy to t... (92 words)

He thinks I was cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi me and my boyfriend live quite a distance from each other and the nights we are apart which are more often than not we talk on the phone before bed usually around 11pm Last night i had a very bad headache and text him at 9pm to say i was going to soak in the bath and the... (276 words)

I'm 15, think I might be gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 15 year old male, and i am confused about my sexuality, i have always been aroused and have always fancied girls and i prefer to masturbate to women but the thing is i cant climax very well when i think about women or watch lesbian porn. one day i was masturbating to ... (246 words)

Only 2 weeks but I think I really screwed things up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in the first two weeks of a new relationship and PMS has just kicked in for this month. I've suddenly become really unhappy and irritable. And I'v already took it out on my BF through about 10 texts this morning, to which he hasnt replied to any! So am worried that I may ... (256 words)

Why is he so jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys i been wiyh my boyfriend for a while and we promised that we gonna be together foreva but we both have different religions which is abit hard sometimes to understand each other. i can not have a normal convesation about as he gets upset or angry because of hiss ... (140 words)

Is it too soon to be in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is this too soon?? im 18 chatted to a guy from the net for over two months to be honest he has always chased me and fancied me more then i did to him..but then i decdied we should meet. first time we met i had my first kiss with him and he told me he loves me..he siad lov... (147 words)

I have broken my wife's heart..what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age - I have been married to a lovely girl for 4 years and blessed with 2 beautiful children.A few weeks ago my firm sent me away on training course for 3 weeks.There I met a female colleague .It started as good buddies enjoying the course and work envolved but tnen we started ... (269 words)

Scars and very self conscious about them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have scars on my legs and knee and i am very self conscious about it especially when its summer and my friends wear skirts because of this i dont like wearing skirts and shorts or going swimming what should i do... (43 words)

Is there something up there that could be broken? I cant even sit down without pain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. well im seventeen years old, so before i say this, i am legal. ive been with my boyfriend now for almost two years, we didnt want to start having sex before we were legal and in love. well i went on the pill and we started havin sex about 8 months ago. we use condoms too, ... (181 words)

My much older boyfriend is engaged to another woman, but I know he really likes ME!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and the man im seeing is 34. we are smitten by each other... we see each other nearly every day, send over 100 texts to each other daily and cant keep our eyes off each other. I have never felt this way about anyone before! There is the small problem which is constantly ... (216 words)

Do I need proffesional help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this sounds pretty silly, but i think i need help. i've tried explaining to my mum how i feel about things and i said to her that i need to speak with someone proffesionaly but she just laughed and said i was a teenager and that i would feel like i do the odd time. but i feel ... (418 words)

Whats the point in dating a guy when his friends all hate you and scream at you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel really really bad. i've been going out with this guy on and off for only 3 months now and we get on great but he's friends really don't like me cause my ex goes to there school. me and my ex had a very bad ending to our relationship. Basically, he cheated on me and I ... (191 words)

Is this going too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just had my first date with my boyfriend last night. ive been with other guys but this date tops all of them... we both agreed to take this relationship slow. we started watching the movie and holding hands and the whole lay my head on his shoulder thing.. and he french ... (96 words)

Sometimes he is happy and other times he wont talk to anyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday me and my guy frind were walking together. We both were getting picked up and I saw him walking the same way I was so we walked together and talked. He seemed happy yesterday. He always trys to look cool in front of me. I know hes flirting but he isn't always this ... (106 words)

Have I lost my virginity to my friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best friends. This one time 1... (162 words)

I'm in love with a girl who's cheated on me at least 3 times

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am since three years i a relationship with a girl i love to bits. but during that time i know of at least 3times she cheated on me(was during the first one and half years) she confessed parts after i caught her the first time, then did it again and only when i caught h... (169 words)

Should I go or should I not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There ia girl Which I met about 8 years ago due to common friends I thought maybe we could become good friends and invited her to my parties and phoned her sometimes to socialse but she never invited me to her birhtdays, parties or showed a will to socialise with or nor with ... (212 words)

We kissed loads and loads and that's it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a while ago, and the last time we saw each other (about a month ago) we kissed. I went away for 2 weeks, came back and thought I would text him to see how hes been. He texted back saying did I want to meet up, so we did. We ended up kissing again, and arranging ... (107 words)

Problem prone life. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really down all th time due to many things. i flucuate with my weight and either am happy coz i get to eat what i want but hate it coz i feel fat or am on a scrict diet where iam losing weight but am unhappy because im not eating what i want. Also Im stressed at work. My ... (252 words)

My period cycle just ended, I'm worried my b/f could be bothered by the smell!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive had sex once with my bf last week, and im pretty sure we will do again today for the second time. I want to, but the thing is i just had my period, like it literally finished in the night, and im wondering cos it might smell a bit, would my bf be bothered? ... (56 words)

I barely touched her vagina with the tip of my penis, any risk involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Could somebody please answer soon. My gf and i were fooling around. I barely touched her vagina with the tip of my penis, it more so touched around the bikini line and there was no pre-ejac. Can she fall pregnant? many thanks... (48 words)

Is he truly and utterly into me or am I the rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this man that I really like who I've been with for a week but I don't know if he is true. He approached me online and said all these sweet nothings to me. He's 29 and is already trying to be in a serious relationship. I want to know how do I know when he is truly into ... (72 words)

Is there a textbook on love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am now living in another city to work. Every now and then, I feel want to call my gf to talk. When I think about it, I been calling her 2 to 3 times a day, mostly during our lunch time and while she is driving home. We get less things to talk about. I guess I ... (157 words)

Whats a good moisturizer to fix combination skin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i have combination skin. mild acne. my cheeks are really dry, and my nose, chin, forehead, and eyelinds are really oily. whats a good moisturizer to fix this? cuz it gets sooooo annoying! i want something that will moisturize my cheeks anough, and control the oil on ... (84 words)

He says I have insecurities but I don't!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age - I been seeing this guy for 5 months now, we saw alot of each other in the beginning but now he seems to forget to call, i have spoken with him and sometimes when he cant get me right away and we have plans he goes and does something else. he said he has to play it but ear, and ... (92 words)

How can I make him forget or hate me so we can both move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 24 yr old female, and he is 29. We loved each other soo much for 9 months, and we decided to get married. We are both from a very conservative background, and so we decided to tie the knot only if our parents agree 100%, else we should split. Cause we both couldnt bear ... (346 words)

Anyone know how to figure when baby would have been conceived?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

16 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - okay my ex is pregnant and i had always thought she had been faithful to me but i just barely found out that she wasnt which is why shes my ex, well the doctor told her that her due date is oct.14 of 2009 ,can any one tell me roughly around what date the baby would of been ... (81 words)

I deserve a better friend than this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend has really let me down. It's been years of making and breaking promises, disappearing for months at a time without an explanation or a way to contact her, and the last time I visited her; she ignored me, became passive aggressive, and pretty much treated me like ... (456 words)

Does he really have a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ....i met this guy at a camp, and well he seems to have a crush on me...i dont though, well the thing is i dont really know... ok, lemme describe it....hmm, ok this guy keeps on looking and looking and looking at me......well, in the camp(badminton) he sits opposite to me o... (319 words)

Faint pregnancy negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I took a pregnancy test when I Got home from work and recieved a very faint line which looked like a negative result should I test again with first morning urine or does this mean Im not pregnant I've never seen faint negatives before just faint positives so Im confused ... (63 words)

Should I give my union documentation that they should have on file already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Your union should work for you that is, your union works on your behalf. But if they breach the contract, allow employers to bypass union/company policies, and wrongfully terminate employees what should I do when they call asking for documentation they should have from the ... (222 words)

Sex brings on terrible cramps & pain..does anyone know why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a serious question, its a bit crazy. i know you guus arent doctors or anything, i just want some advice so i dont feel so alone on this issue, i dont have insurance either, so if it is serious i cant really do anything about it. i am a healthy 20 year old and whenever i ... (179 words)

What to expect with a yeast infection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I'm 23 years old n I have a yeast infection (it’s my 1st one) so I really don’t know what's supposed to happened after u think is going away! I have had one for almost a week I have been putting this antibiotic inside of me( to not get into details) I’m having ... (125 words)

How can I believe he loves me when he hurt me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this girl for the longest time- we've been through every situation possible and I love her to death. A few years ago, I told her that i was really starting to like this boy. She looked shocked and a bit mad, but said she was fine. Now, me and the boy i ... (476 words)

We broke up, but I can't get over him

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently broke up with someone I really like and we had been together for 2.5 years. He is my first. I cannot get my mind off of him. Everytime I see him, I have my hopes up again, but when he left, my hopes are gone. I really tried not to see him or call him because... (324 words)

He changed after we had sex

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and three months. I love him, a lot. He claims he loves me, and he was always so sweet and just felt like I could talk to him about anything. But, we had sex after being together for about six months. After we did, everything ... (95 words)

My ex b/f is trashing my reputation

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boy friend is mad we broke up so he’s treating me bad..... of course he does this to every ex girlfriend but he been doing this for over 2 months and when I go out with some one else he starts rumors and drama he also convinces my boyfriend at the time that I'm a horrible ... (200 words)

I love him but he doesn't want to commit ...

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy exclusively for 8 months, I lost my virginity to him, I absolutely love him, but he doesn't feel the same.He says he is confused, he says half of him wants to be in a relationship with me, and the other half wants to see other people. He also said that ... (93 words)

Sociopath ex-boyfriend trying to guilt trip me back, what to do?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, ok I broke up w/ my verbally abusive bf last week after 2 and 1/2 years together. A friend sent me a link to a site on Sociopaths. He fit the profile perfect! Pathological liar, no signs of remorse for anyone, difficulty in life plans, spending money recklessly, ... (595 words)

Is this considered illegal?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, If someone over the age of eighteen (this is in America, by the way) engages in an ABSTINENT relationship with PARENTAL CONSENT from both sides, is it still considered to be illegal? ~Wondering~... (41 words)

We're already going out, but he hasn't asked me to the dance

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How to you get a guy to ask you to the roaring 20's dance and we are in love but how do i get him to ask me in like 5 days befor the 20 of may please help me i don't know how to i'm lost.... (47 words)

How do I become a HOT DIVA?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i become a diva.alright im going to highschool and i really really rreally wanna loook hot for the boys.but how do i become a popular diva girl.please help!!!!... (30 words)

What is going on in this "relationship"?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm African American. So I snogged a co-worker that I was close friends with at a party and his Caucasian friends seemed to have a problem with it. At work everything was as normal and we were chillin out as usual. He told me he did not want a relationship with someone at work ... (345 words)

Does my crush like me or not?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Does my crush like me or not? please answer Ok here it goes when i came to this school i didnt like or have a crush on him but for the past 2 weeks he keeps looking at me each time i look at him back he looks away but barely he stays eye contact with me for like 5 s... (81 words)

I told him its either her or me

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with someone whom I love more than anything. He works on a tugboat and is gone most of the time. I recently found out that he is texting his friend's girlfriend (His friend works on the boat with him). I confronted him about his and asked him to stop. I ... (159 words)

How do I get the stupid, selfish "beauties" out of my head?

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16 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - what can i do about the beauties.I have a several girlfriends,they are all lovely and smart.but i can't stop looking for the beautiful girls and even don't care what they thinking what they are,just like talking with them and wishing do anything for them. most of beauti... (69 words)

Why do people strive to fall in love?

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16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - why do so many people strive to fall in love? whats the great thing about love? and what are the set backs? it doesnt really make any cents to me anymore.... (31 words)

He loves me but all I want to do is focus on moving out....

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem. My ex (who I dated 6 years ago.) came back into my life as friends. And he told me he loves me. I don't feel the same way and I've told him. But he doesnt under stand that I don't want to be with him like that. Infact I don't want to be with any guy like ... (95 words)

She's pregnant and the sex is great? Is that normal?

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16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well my wife is pregnent and lately the sex (when we do have it) well, it has been like great is this normal i mean...... (26 words)

I love him but I don't know if he's worth it...

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to break up with my boyfriend i still love him with all my heart but our relationship has been falling apart he says he doesnt want to leave me but i dont understand how is it that he loves me sometimes he says things to me that hurts me or in a fight i end up with the ... (84 words)

I've been on this emotional roller coaster for too many years, I want to get off. Any advice?

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16 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Ok, so I've had feelings for this guy for 4 years. He's been sending me mixed signals consistently. I'm so confused. Thus far, I've been attempting to get over him, except he lives in the neighborhood right across from mine. And every time I think I've moved on, ... (98 words)

Should I follow my heart...?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so crazy about this guy; it took him a while to warm up to me because he has some trust issues. Well I was being impatient and made a remark to him and realized after I said it, I put both feet in my mouth, because it came out like a threat. It pissed him off and he has ... (227 words)

Flakey friends

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16 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Often my friends flake on me, sometimes they don't stick to their word or suddenly something comes up and they can't stay with their commitments. This is causing me real problems and upsets me because I feel like I can't rely on them or sometimes even trust them. Its a ... (86 words)

How can I get my mum to let b/f stay?

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16 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17, my bf lives 3 hours awey and train tikets cost quite alot to keep goin bak and forth to see him, how do i get my mum to let me stay at his a few nights or even just one so iget to spend more time woth him ?... (52 words)

Feels like hell

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16 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, I'm a guy, and while this may seem unusual coming from a person of the male persuasion, I feel utterly lost and confused by my current predicament, so let me try and explain as best I can. Let me begin by saying I'm madly in love with a wonderful woman. She brigh... (272 words)