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Is he getting ready to leave me?

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Question - (27 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Is there any signs, when your husband is thinking of leaving you?

I have a feeling ,that something is going on in my husband head, but he wouldn't tell me what it is.

He would be doing it in secret ,just leave a note, as he is not the kind of guy, who can handle the truth.,

So , I don't know, if he really does, but he is changing, he started to work out, and changing his diet, and just not saying anything..

We were fighting before for a long time about things , but now he is just avoiding me.

Sex is out of our life years ago.

What should I do? Should I pack, before he does? Should I prepare myself, or forget this whole idea? What is the best thing to do?

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (27 May 2009):

niki20 agony auntguys are thick headed (no offense readers) but you have to break that down and try to figure it out. if anything bring up a seperation and see if hes up for that. get a feeling for whats going on its hard. maybe he is cheating? or maybe he just doesnt like himself. you got to try and talk if everything fails you dont want to feel alone while your married, even if you just right him a note saying how you feel and pretty much describe what you wrote as your question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Are there dependant children living at home? Or are you a childless couple? Either way, I wouldn't move..he does! But I'd get cracking and begin making some plans, here. Get to a lawyer and find out what you rights are. Do it asap.

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