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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When would be the best time to tell my guy I might be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this the best time to tell him if the test comes back positive? It's been about a week..and no period. I took pregnancy test a few days ago and it showed negative. My boyfriend and I are leaving out of town for the weekend. I will take a pregnancy test with me to test ... (138 words)

I'm wondering if he's cheating..he won't have sex, says its because I'm being mean!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have asked a few questions on here before and I got another! I got to start off saying I love my boyfriend very much all and all we have a good relationship! Except he has lied to me that I know of once involving another girl! He was not sexually involved with her but I do ... (230 words)

How can I make the kiss better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, me and my boyfriend have kissed 4 times, hugged 4 times and we snogged 2 times. how can i make the kiss better if feels as im making it really bad? but he keeps wanting to kiss so he musn't think that, but what could i do to make it better? ... (52 words)

In love with my stepbrother and its not a good situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ive recently wrote a question explaining my situation, and it's that im in love with my stepbrther and it's not a good situation. well i went to visit him because he lives in brazil. i was with my dad and stepmom well we did some stuff and i did NOT open my legs but i did ... (261 words)

Is he at it with me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm heartbroken, I've driven the man I cherish away, we have been together nearly 2 years, he told me he was seperated, i thought it was strange he never wanted me to meet his family and he always hid my things when his friends came to stay, he said he'd asked his wife for a ... (655 words)

I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out but i have never done it yet but he has and im scared im going to mess up and he wont like me as much anymore...i told him over texting that i have never made out but he said that was alright but im still scared.......................so ... (100 words)

Is this platonic or is he just trying to score and being a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Got a question everyone. Ok first things first, I want to clarify that I am talking about my ex-boyfriend that I had been with for 2 and 1/2 years. We broke up about 2 weeks ago because I just can't trust him. He has a tendency of lying in his past, about small things, but you ... (806 words)

He wants a threesome and I DON'T!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old woman and my husband's 26. We've been married for He told me that he wants a threesome with me and another guy involved. I told him outright no, but he insisted we should do it. I asked him if this was just a ruse so he could have a threesome with a... (270 words)

Does it sound like my boyfriend is interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - After dating for over a year, my boyfriend breaks up with me. In the first month, I tried everything to get him back. Then I completely backed off. A week later, he made up an excuse to come over and see me. A week after that, he called me. Now, he's traveling for work and ... (154 words)

Has anyone ever left their girl because of her past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever actually had enough courage to leave their girlfriend or fiance because they couldn't cope with her past? I'm stuck between walking away from someone I love for my own sanity, or having a loving loyal wife but having to deal with the horrors of retroactive j... (82 words)

How to make something good out of my terrible grades?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt relationship. But im desperate for a job now! i left school a year ago, and then did a year at 6form but its shocking. basicly im half way through my CV, and i have absolutly no idea what to put! i got shit grades basicly. i got D's and E's which is bad! and i could ... (79 words)

His cheating has made me see him in a different light

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys im in a really tricky situation and in need of some real advice.. basically i found out my year long boyfriend cheated on me in the 2nd month of our realtionship... i didnt find out in the best way as his ex phoned me up telling me plus he denied it when i confronted ... (241 words)

Why can't I get him to communicate with me to at least try to work it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, well like many others my boyfriend of a year dumped me, a day before our one year anniversary. I don't think it was a commitment thing cuz he always was asking for me to move in and such . But I was on a lease and couldn't at the time . But anyways things in the beginning ... (330 words)

Whenever I try to talk about him coming to the doctors with me for a pregnacy test he just changes the subject to sex! What gives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is acting really odd. It all started when I told him I missed two periods and told him about it. For then on all he talks about is sex and not just normal things he talks about how he pees on himself and licks his own cum. Hes never been like that before ever... (131 words)

I WON'T leave her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl in my grade that I like and she hates me. I will NOT leave her. Please help me!!... (22 words)

My boyfriend is practically being held hostage in his own home! help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Well i have posted questions on here before and youve always been really great help. This isnt really a huge problem, not compared to others and i guess this is kind of silly. Well im sitting my A levels and so ive now officially left school, so i now have... (404 words)

Does this sound like I'm getting involved in a whole load of drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy ive met 4 times, found out his has a kid... i was ok with this as its still early days, we arranged a lunch date tomorrow then he texted me saying sorry he could not make it as he wasnt going into work, he lives far from work and i only live round corner from work so ... (124 words)

How do I approach him about trying swinging or introducing another in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! Well, I am in a 2 year relationship and things are just great. However time went by and sex just isn t the same but I'm a very creative person, so I have always lots of kinky ideas and games. My bf is a dear, really good looking and so nice to me. But he is really j... (143 words)

Spying fiance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been spying on my live in boyfriend for two years. I use the computer software but I have recently purchsed a gps for the car. He has been talking marriage I am in love with him but after spying I have caught him talking to his client in an inapproprite way. Which I ... (101 words)

Don't know if I can trust her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry it's long Ok I love this girl very much but I don’t know how to trust her after so many lies we have been together for 9 mouths. and it has gone great. but there was another guy before me. and I have had to deal with this is guy for a long time. They were never together ... (393 words)

Why is the guy I'm sharing a bed with touching me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I have been living in a house for 8 months now and recently moved out. But the there was a guy in my old house who me and my roomie became real good friends with, and even though we have moved out now, we visit the old place very often. The problem is, since ... (165 words)

I'm in love with someone I've never even spoken to! :(

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, well bassicaly this is quite funny! but i swear im in love with someone ive never even spooken to!,its getting so bad i cant stop thinking about this boy 3 and the thing is i dont know if he likes me too but someway i think he does kinda, as he always smiles at me and ... (164 words)

Should I take advantage of the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 6 years but we have been thru a lot together recently we had a talk about the fact that we cant hold a convesation and well after a few hours he told me that he loves me but that he is not happy, I told him that he is free to leave we ... (268 words)

Help! I really want to go but I don't know how to tell my mum, and what their reaction will be...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok.. well I really need help, I'm gay, my parents know and all they're not happy but they cope with it... Anyway I met some boy online and he asked me on a date, I really want to go but I don't know how to tell my mum, and what their reaction will be... HELP!... (56 words)

How to make a good wife to my husband during sex time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How to make a good wife to my husband during bed or sex time?... (14 words)

He reads his e-mails! What does this mean?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my ex, he dumped me, very ugly terms ( he is a mummy's boy who used to badmouth his mum to me, led me on for years, and I bursted it all out to his mum, to find out from her he was badmouthing me to HER as well!) anyway, long ugly story.. Im happy to be done ... (249 words)

Emotionally abusive, can I change him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. we always had to do what he wanted to do, everything was always my fault, there were rules on what i could and couldn't do, he took away my property and stopped me from leaving. i feel liberated to be away from him but ... (112 words)

Is he a controlling boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we've been together before but split up for about half a year before getting back together. Lately, I've noticed a lot of things in him that i see in my parents relationship. My mum is very unhappy, she got married to my ... (429 words)

I still want her in my life after a year apart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ok i really miss this girl now ...she ant be said my ex girlfriend but we came so close once upon a time that it was even not less than that ...it was a long distance relationship ... long story short ,we have had a lot of fun in the past and we shared a brilliant closur... (305 words)

When I get drunk I turn into a different person and I'm so cruel to her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so scared of losing my girlfriend, but i can't stop hurting her! It's like i've got the bad guy on one shoulder, and the good guy on the other! We've been for almost 2 years now and both at college, and going to the same uni in october. Whenever i'm out with my mates, i... (282 words)

Staring at me and acting like a "panicked rat" WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, I finally told him that I liked him. Straight up. Face to face. Honestly. I didn't ask him how he felt about me though, I was too scared. So instead, I asked him if we could be friends, and he said that yes, cause he loved me very much. He was happy an... (275 words)

She says she'll wait 2 years but she cheated when we were apart over a weekend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my and this girl have been together for about 9 months. i love this girl but i've got into some trouble now im getting sent away till im 18. i'll be leaving 2 hours away from her an im 15 alomst 16. in 2 years i can come back to be with her. she says she will wait till i come ... (113 words)

Messed up first time sex, now terrified of women!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Can anyone help me please. I'm too embarrassed to talk about this to anyone even to a counsellor. The thing is, I know I should just go up to a woman ask her out and see what happens from there but its a lot harder for me now than when I first started dating. I haven't even... (279 words)

How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a kind and caring woman an... (205 words)

I'm being messed about by my Ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex broke up with me over a txt months ago, i think i still got feelings for him so when he emailed today i agreed to meet up with him but he keeps avoiding to come and meet me saying we shoud meet when your better to talk He's been begging me to meet him saying he really... (151 words)

How do deal with a drama-queen collegue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So this is not a love life question but a social challenge question. my co-worker is a complete drama queen! she and i work in the same office just a few feet a way from each other. she is so bossy and trys to belittle me every chance that she gets! she been at this office ... (115 words)

"Dearest" in an email.... what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My Husband was exchanging some fishy emails with a female co worker a while ago, we sorted that out eventually and he promised he will stop that, just yesterday I found an email from her addressing him with "dearest", what's this, what does that mean? He only answered her ... (55 words)

Can a relationship work if you are not sexually attracted to your partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can a relationship work if your not sexually attracted to your partner?... (12 words)

How can I forgive myself for something that I have done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i just have a short post. Can anyone help learn how to forgive myself for a wrong thing i have done, im living a nitemare, i need some help xxxxx... (31 words)

Does my boyfriend want us to get back together or is he just lonely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago because of growing tensions. We had been together over a year and talked marriage. A month into our breakup, he started traveling for work. He'll be traveling for a few months. At that same time when he left, he started ... (151 words)

Are accidental burps/farts a turn off to guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a bit of a strange question i know, but is it completely off putting for a guy when your girlfriend accidentally burps/farts while they're with them? and i dont mean on a regular basis, just a once off thing where its just loud and undeniably came from you. ... (48 words)

All the signs of pregnancy but all the tests are coming back negative!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I always have regular periods and i skipped my first ever one two weeks ago! I went to my local family planning clinic a week after it was due to be tested for pregnancy and it came back negative, they told me to wait a week and go back. I bought two clear blue digital ... (160 words)

I slept with my ex-gf, but she says she's in love with another guy, should I believe her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Last Week I had sex with my now ex-gf. it's been a month since she broke up, because she told me she didnt love me, but she had feelings for another guy. She gets mad when I tell her she doesn't love this dude even though she slept with me and she's always wanting to talk to me ... (83 words)

Do you think he gets a kick out of treating me badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok.. so this situation has been going on for a year now, i used to be really best friends with this guy who has been blowing HOT and cold with me for a whole year now. ive cried many times over it.. he would act weird and say horrible things then be all sweet and say im the m... (245 words)

Should I still be expecting him to make a bit of an effort after we have been together so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I feel as though my boyfriend doesn't care enough about our relationship, and I'm not sure what I can do. When we first started going out, my boyfriend effectively did all the chasing, he made such an effort and did everything he could to impress me. Now, almo... (244 words)

Hard break-up, should I keep any hope of getting him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the deepest pain I have ever been in my life, deeper even than when I lost a very close relative. My boyfriend of 8 amazing months broke up with me on Monday because of something I said. For a bit over 3 months, he was gone on his study abroad trip in a neighbor... (733 words)

Part of me is craving being single, and the other part loves my perfect girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I've been going out with long-term girlfriends for the past five years, since I was 15. There's never been much of a gap between long-term relationships. The first turned out to be a compulsive liar and screwed with my head quite badly, the second was a reaction to the ... (372 words)

I left my ex to be with my new man and now he thinks I will do the same to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The man im with now, i met him while i was in a 4 year relationship, i broke up with my ex to be with this new man....but now hes worried im going to do the same to him....im so confused as i cant change the past what can i do? Do you think it ruin everything in the long run?... (61 words)

She told me about her past and I just can't get over it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Been with my girlfriend around a year and a bit she is much older than me which for me was not a problem as she has a fun personality and i barely felt the difference at the start i am in love with her and she is my first true love i didnt have a lot of sexual experience before ... (443 words)

Easily quickly forgotten...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi: It will soon be 2 months that my ex and I have ended our 3 year relationship. It's been rough, I see now that he was selfish and a coward for breaking up over the phone over, I opened up my heart after my divorce, and I thought he was so nice. I was apprehensive but I ... (330 words)

He didn't try to kiss me at the end of our date... why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a blind date with a guy last night. We're both in our mid 20s. The date seemed to go pretty well. We talked and laughed, not really any awkward silences. It wasn't the best date I've been on, but it was fun and I would definitely go out with him again. At the end ... (191 words)

Emergency contraception! Please Help!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent. im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago. However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip was in me, it was quite thin and... (191 words)

I want to acually date him but how can I get closer to him if I never see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I knew this guy when I was fourteen and hadn't seen him for 5 years then we meet up and hit it off. We text all the time every day or every other day but every time we make plans he always breaks them and it makes me so mad but then he'll text me the next morning and ask me how ... (167 words)

Finding it hard to stand up for myself without making the argument worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been friends for four years and dating for 1, and this is really starting to bug me. We'll get into these stupid ridiculous fights and he'll accuse me of really dumb things (ei. my friend that doesn't like him: he thinks that I'm telling her untrue ... (136 words)

Condom broke during sex....where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex and he finished inside me however when he pulled out the condom had a big hole in the middle. This happened two days after my period had ended and im expecting my period the 8th of june. Are my chances really high im very worried and stressed where do i go from here ... (57 words)

Dating an older guy and nervous about sleeping with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been dating a older man for a couple of weeks, we have only kissed but im scared of the whole sex thing as him being 6 years older then me im worried hes had much more experience then me as ive only had one sexual partner, also im a curvy girl a size 14 but then found out ... (72 words)

I cant help thinking my dream may have meant something!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this incredeble coincidences,and I don't know what to think of them. Let me give you one idea,how crazy they are. So I had a very disturbing dream about rats are attacking me, in a laboratory, and I just felt bad for hours, but later I turn on the tv, and right when I... (146 words)

He doesn't want me to go back home with him....could this mean he is still with the mother of his children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive met this guy hes 29 im 22, we have been on 4 dates and email and text everyday, they were great dates and were so attracted to each other lots of kissing...he lives about a hour away from me ive now asked twice to go back home with him, hes said no becoz he respects me and ... (113 words)

Does he still love me now that we live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if you could please help me. I dont know if my boyfriend loves me anymore! We have been together 2 and a half years and moved in together with each other last weekend. I expected it to be really romantic - cuddling up on the couch to watch tv and cuddling up ... (191 words)

I told her secrets to another and now she doesn't trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - about 4-5 months ago I told one of my girlfriends secrets to a friend of mine. She found out about it by reading one of my IM chats with that friend, she was furious about it. But now 4 months later she is still angry about it, she doesnt trust me and can not forgive me. She ... (147 words)

What would be the reason(s) for husband not wanting sex with wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What is usually the reson for a man, for not wanting sex at all with their wife? All opinions are great help for me right now. Thanks... (29 words)

If he wanted a fling you would think he would choose a girl he has less history with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

- *answers from guys REALLY appreciated* Hi, I'm female, 21yrs old. My best friend (male) has been confusing me. At my 21st bday he kissed me now he acts like it never happened. (I posted a different question about the same guy a while back http://www.dearc... (497 words)

How can I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really confused as to what I should do? Me and my partner met 3 years ago and were dating for about 1 and a half years then became exclusive. We have been living together for just over a year. It has been difficult at times as he has been away a lot because of his job so ... (260 words)

How soon into a relationship is it acceptable to stay the night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I am in a bit of a quandry. I am 25 years old, and have recently got back into dating after a long spell of being in a LTR and then single getting over it. I have met a lovely man, someone who shares many many of my ideas, loves, hates and beliefs, and we get al... (307 words)

Need advice - Is my husband gay? Desperate for answers.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am posting this personal information in hopes of getting different perspectives on my current situation. I am a 39 year old married woman. I have been married to my husband for almost a year, with him for 3 years. I found out 6 months into our dating relationship tha... (1073 words)

I'm afraid that if I wait to long then we will never be together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My heart says that I fancy this guy, yet my head says that nothing will happen between us. I'm 16 and there is a three yr gap between us. He makes me laugh and I enjoy being around him, and he does tease me - sometimes I retort back, sometimes I pretend to be annoyed although... (197 words)

Could my crush find out the email came from my computer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend sent an email to a guy I like (telling him someone "liked" him). She created a special gmail account to send it using my macbook at my house. She used a fake name to create the account. She sent the email from another computer, but she started drafting it at my ... (129 words)

Seeing ex and her new b/f made me very angry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I went out to a bar last night, where some friends were playing in a band. I had a few drinks before I came out. Whenever I arrived, I found my ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend were there as well. At first it didn't bother me, but as the night went on I started to feel ... (198 words)

Just by looking, can you detect virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm not sure whether this is the right place to post but, I have been wondering can people tell who is a 'virgin' or not? if so, how? (e.g. the eyes, the way they dress, act?) ... (38 words)

How can I tell my kids I am divorcing their dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi like your views please I am in the prosses of leaving my h/b as i cant forget him cheating and lying,my 21 years of marriage has been a sham. I hate myself for arranging all what i am doing behind his back as i feel like i am no different to him but i must for my own safet... (234 words)

Any advice on allergies?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a health question not a relationship question. I went to the doctor because I thought I had ear infections and tonsillitis, which I didn't I got diagnosed with hay fever or really really bad allergies that cause liquid behind my ears and the bacteria from my nose cau... (148 words)

She's older, should I go for it?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - should i make a move? There a girl across the road from me a few years older, anyway she's proper fit and i well fancy her, she's really nice and whenever she seems me she's smiling and says hi.. should i tell her i like her and see what she thinks? ... (57 words)

She smokes! Why do I want her?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a freak right. The fact that some girl smokes turns me on and makes me want her, why am i weird like that? ... (29 words)

Football idol!

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to favour a certain football player, is it like normal to have them as your idol? or am I weird?... (23 words)

Single and ageing

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is being female of 30 years old + bad thing and being single because i dont i'll ever get a boyfriend i live in a rural town where is absoulty nothing going on but the weather.i feel past sell by date.i feel there is no body there for me.i find when you reach certain age that ... (158 words)

She said she wants to take a break but to continue hanging out together!! This is all so confusing!

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everybody well today i was talking to my girlfriend and out of nowhere she tells me that she would rather take some time off from being with me because she wants to make sure that im the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with. I told her i would give her the ... (99 words)

She told me I am better than her boyfriend and she loves me, what should I do?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, last night, i did something, i should be ashamed of but im not, i slept with a girl thats taken, ( dont worry we used protection ) she was screaming really loud, she told me that i was better than her bf, and that she loves me, what should i do?... (54 words)

How do I go about this situation with my boyfriend of 2 months?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i saw my boyfriend yesterday at uni, he seemed very down and he told me he was tired and stressed about uni work. i dont really know what is going on, usually we hold hands walking around campus, we did, but it was loosely held. we sat on the bench and talked for a while bu... (301 words)

Sperm donation from a friend or go to the Doctors?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been wit my gurlfriend for 3-years.we live together an we want to have a baby.what should i do.i love her so much.so i go to the dr and try it that way.or should i find a frind that will give the sperm?... (43 words)

Do I end it with my cheating boyfriend when I have raised his baby by another woman as my own?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, where too begin I have been with my boyfriend/ father of my 8 month old child for a 2 years now we have been realy good friends since we were really little we are still young both only 22 but anyways when we first hooked up i kinda became pregnant right away and he had told ... (488 words)

Are my chances of dating him doomed?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. The other night I slept with this guy who I have known for roughly 5 years, but we very seldom saw each other. We finally hung out the other night and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I am not like that at all, and have not slept with anyone in over 5 ... (137 words)

How do you find out what causes impotence?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can you find out what causes impotence? How do you know ,if its psychological? Is there a good way to do that? thank you... (29 words)

I love her but do I stand a chance?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, im 14 and in eighth grade, I met this girl in 4th grade and fell in love the day I met her, she stayed single until 6th grade when her first boyfriend was one of my best friends, they stayed 2gthr for around 4 months, 2 year ltr I confessed to her that I liked her a lot and ... (153 words)

People stop to watch us because I am a black female with a white male!

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Black Female with a White Male. Everywhere we go people stop to watch us, like they have never seen this before. I notice when its a Black Male and White Female no one talks. What is the problem here? Don't White men: date and marry Black women?... (47 words)

Is masturbating harmful to my marriage?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 25 yrs old, I masturbate 2 to 3 times in day from last 10 yrs. It is harmfull or bad for my marriage life and I thing, may be due to this I am thin also and I ever don't have nightfail, it is normal? pls give me ans....... (51 words)

Asked by my lover to visit him in Turkey....is it safe to go?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am American Black female who is in Love with a Turkish Man. We meet while working together, he was on a visa working in the States for a year. He has invited me to come and visit Turkey. I have never left home and would like to know if it is safe to go.... (55 words)

Does he like me or is he just being friendly?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he like me? Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this ... (947 words)

Want to be a dad but too young, what should I do?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im only 15 but i love this girl with all my heart. we dated once dint work cuz im 2 hours away now im moving with my causins so i can live only 3 miles away from her. i'll be ther in a week an were going to try to date again an i know this time it will work. an i know im to ... (127 words)

I love her, she says she loves me. Is it true?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i got this girl, we tried it once but din't really work cuz long distance. back in 8th grade i was a player wont lie. but she say's she has done alot with other peopl in her past. I told her i've changed. she said she has to. i belived her an she called one day saying she is ... (148 words)

He spends the night at his ex's home, and tells me to deal with it. Not sure that I want to?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I started seeing my bf about 2yrs ago, after getting comfortable in the relationship he confides in me that he and his ex-wife were swingers. Not only were they swingers but he had sex with almost every cousin she had (she was involved in the acts with him). I tried to break ... (274 words)

He cheated on me, dumped me and wants to think about where we go from here, I am heartbroken, what do I do now?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of one year and three months just broke up with me because I tried to discuss my feelings. He has a past of cheating with me and after the incidents it left us with the problem of me not being able to trust him, that was back in September and since then I tho... (237 words)

It distrubs me very much that he masturbates over pictures of other women, am I wrong to feel this way?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering what people think of fantasising and masturbating over other people when you're in a relationship? I have no problems with my significant other masturbating when he's not with me (i live in a different city) IF he's not thinking of anything and just enjoyin... (713 words)

He has major trust issues with everyone, any hints as to how I can help him to overcome this problem?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i show my man that i am trustworthy, he has been betrayed in every possible way by family and friends, ex girlfriends as well. he dont trust anyone how do i show him i am trustworthy?... (38 words)

He wants the fantasy be become real. I feel devalued.

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I am upset and confused. My husband and I were recently discussing a fantasy that we have discussed before. It is HIS fantasy of watching me with another man either secretly or openly. This was always ok with me because it was just a fantasy and I know it's normal to ... (164 words)

After 11 years and children together, my boyfriend has an affair and possibly fathered a child, we're still together, but how do I get over this emotionally?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Aunts and Uncles: I need your advice anyone. How do I get over this affair? I have never felt so emotionaly drained in my life. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years he is my soul mate, my world, my everything and I am in so much pain I have never experienced anything like ... (405 words)

Is there anything wrong with being a long distance friend, to a married man?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - More than 2 years ago, I met a guy in a business who was very friendly. He´s military and we became friends, nothing more. After he left we started to keep in touch by email, and sharing regular friends stuff. He have always talked about his family, but in a very general way... (282 words)

He's mean and I am tired of his behavior, how do I move on?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age - so my ex and i have always had an up and down relationship after our break up. cause he was really mean to me. but he like he told me he was very sorry and would chnage and he did change for like 2 weeks and was really sweet being the guy i always wanted him to be. but now hes ... (110 words)

I'm still obsessed,with my first love

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21 May 2009 (F)

age - I have a strange secret. After 30 years, I'm still obsessed,with my first love.I know,it's sick, I have a nice family, and loving husband, great children, and I have a good life.I'm very wrong to feel,what I feel, but that is why I write here, as someone might be able to help ... (198 words)

Had a crush on him in school, found him again, he has a girlfriend and a daughter, is there a chance for me?

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21 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Please help !.I'm 25 years old, and i have recently found my high school crush on Facebook !.He hasn't changed abit in ten years !.He is a year older than me, so he left the year before i did. Just to tell you abit about it, he found out i liked him because another girl in ... (561 words)

Should I bow out, until he decides who he wants to be with?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here it is. I met a guy and I started to like him alot. I am older than he is by 4 years. I am 29, he is 23 going on 24. It took him awhile to figure out that I liked him. I finally had to tell him. We were just friends for about a month until very recently. I've held ... (505 words)

Sometimes I want to kiss my friend.

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know why but everytime one of my friends thats a girl has a boyfriend or talks to another guy i get mad and annoyed. i know im sorta bi because i do like girls but would rather gys but does this mean i like my friends? i sometimes want to kiss her and stuff... but at the ... (68 words)

How to sort it out with sponging friend?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with my bestie for about five years and we've had our fall outs, for like three months at a time sometimes, but always made up. We've had some really great times together and i am forever grateful for how hes always been there for me. The only issue ive ... (393 words)

Should I go out with a player?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy asked me out, but he's a real player. but i have seen him be really sweet and nice, i'm just afraid he might cheat. should i say yes?... (32 words)

Abortion in Canada?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about abortion in Canada. I am international, and I have no health insurance. How do I go about on getting an abortion here? Please, pro-choice answers and informative answers only. Thank you very much.... (39 words)

We're friends but I'm getting mixed signals

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im getting mixed signals from this guy i have been friends with for a while. We dated for about 4 years ago but its didnt work out and broke up. We lost touch but for the last year we have got back in touch mainly because we have the same friends and i have more time to hang ... (241 words)

How do I tell her that she needs help on her technique?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you tell your babymother that she needs help with giving head. Is there an easy way, and what do you tell her to do. Even though you know that she says just tell me anything, and you know it will hurt her feelings to where she might not do it no more.... (54 words)

She wants to break up!

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Three weeks ago there was this girl that i got together with and we felt like we were the best couple ever, better than any of our other relationships. one day she just changed, she hasn't been trying to get a hold of me in any way, now she wants to break up, at least she's ... (105 words)

How can you love someone who hurts you?

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21 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend of mine who's maddley in Love with this guy who treat her sooooo badly and she just won't leave him alone he talks to her like crap and just walks all over her.he hits her and just so nasty and disrespectful but she just can't leave him alone how can I help her ... (71 words)

Do good relationships come easy?

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21 May 2009 (M) age 30-35 - i've not been in many myself, but my friend and his girl keep having argements and getting back then the smallest thing pops up, i wanna look out for him, cos that what we do, but i dont wanna see him sad cos he likes this one, when he asks for advise i'm like shit, I know dee... (194 words)

Falling for a girl that is taken

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21 May 2009 (M) age 30-35 - i dont think im a bad guy, i help out my friends when they have problems comfort people so on, i'd never beat up a woman or anything, ect ect However i find my falling for a girl in my year that is taken, we've been friends for about 3 months but know we text everyday and whe... (241 words)

I feel so weird and confused...and gay?

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21 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old close to sixteen and im warried about my sex life i truly don't want to be gay because i want a big family but i get attracted 2 men when i was around 5 to 7 i had alot of girlfriends and i was around many guys and i had a best friend that was a boy i was in ... (792 words)