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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I getting loser and stretched out and not able to satisfy him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for about 3 and half years. He is 7 years older than I am. He has quite a high libido and we have always had a pretty steady sex life. In the beginning of our relationship, I felt like I was pretty tight for him and he would have orgasms pretty ... (264 words)

I know its wrong to like your own kind, but I cant help it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ever since i went to an all-boys school for a year last year,i started to fall for this shy boy which i knew it was wrong to like your own kind.but if you were in my shoes,you would be the same as i am.before i moved to a different school,a mixed school,my friends said that he ... (93 words)

Can someone really have that many friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - on face book can one person have 230 real friends living in small town.or this person just adding freinds randomly or are they real freinds... (25 words)

He always moans about money and never has enough to pay bills. But he has enough for booze and drugs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I've been seeing my boyfriend for just over a month now and we've already moved in together. I know that seems quick but we really get along and it seems like we've been together for years. The relationship is great, we get along just fine and i'm happy most of the time ... (351 words)

Moved in together after 5 weeks and now wondering if I'm pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now, and i know it seems quick but we've already moved in together. We met and fell for each other so quickly we didn't want to leave each other. I am happy with that situation and it was all going grand until Monday when my ... (260 words)

I can't see a future for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here it goes, I met this guy about a month ago and straight away we were constantly seein each other and talking and we both knew there was something there. Then i had to tell him i was leaving to go to london in sept and i dont know what will happen with us, he was upset... (399 words)

Should I let her give me a bj? Or just say no?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a bad situation, my date which i was taking to prom just as friends really likes me now when i still feel the same about her. We hung out yesterday and she was hitting on me really hard. She just does a lot of things i don't approve of and im not all that attracted to ... (167 words)

Big fight over b/f's computer...was I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I spent the night at my boyfriend's place last night. I was laid off 3 months ago, so I didn't really have anywhere important to go the next day. Well, my bf left for work at 7:15am this morning, and I woke up at 9:30am. I called my bf, as I often do when I get up, and we ... (1343 words)

Medical issues, mental health issues and just been dumped - HELP!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Several months have passed since my boyfriend of two years has broken up with me. We haven't spoken in almost two months. I'm ridiculously heartbroken and yet he was able to happily get on with his life as though nothing had changed for him. I wish I had that resolve... ... (387 words)

My family is falling apart and I am turning to drink...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 3 years and have two beautiful children. I'm 26 and my wife is 21 and we got married young, well my wife feels she was too young. My marriage is falling apart and i feel I'm losing my wife and the family that i have built.In the beginning of our marriage ... (179 words)

I'm afraid he'll leave me - he doesn't seem sure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my guy and i have been dating for at least 8 months now. from the beginning it was wonderful. he is an amazing, creative, kind individual. we've both made mistakes. i've been overly emotional and overbearing because he made the mistake of lying to me about his ex, hiding things ... (496 words)

Do I deserve to get my love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been six mths I have been in a relationship with my lovely gurlfriend.fews days ago she decided to break the relationship wid me bcoz I was at fault frm all ends I always tried new things to keep my relationship strong but I failed in every attempt. I tried somethin and the ... (227 words)

Can you help me with some sex education about contraception?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and i love him loads, we have had sex without condoms and also with them. we started having sex 2 months into the relationship and have used a condom like 10 times, we seen to have sex after i have had my periods so that makes ... (184 words)

Do I disappear until after the court case is handled?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with the man that I am dating now...the issue that we have come across is that the man that i am dating is going through a nasty custody battle and recently divorced. I have been dating him for about four months now and he has been divorced for about six ... (454 words)

How do you cope if they don't return your love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. All i want is him. He will make my life complete. He is the only person i have ever loved. i dont know what to do: im feeling sad depressed lonely and desperate. I don't know what to do. I can't g... (97 words)

Why does he say he has no money when I'm about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, first things first i love my boyfriend very very much and were about to celebrate our 2 yr anniversary however.. He is so selfish and whenever i bring this up he loses it and has a go at me making me feel small and in the wrong. For instance, HE was taking ME out, b... (170 words)

Single mum can't cope with-out abusive boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi all i have made a real mess of things so far, I have been in a relationship for 11 years and it was really bad he was very controlling and had no interest in the relationship. i have been told it was mentally abusive it feels like it was, but im doubting that it was him. i... (230 words)

I'm confused! He keeps asking me to have sex with him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i dont regret this, but i think i do :S i no this boy 'c' and he was really sweet to me. so after about 6 months of talking to him on msn, i decided to meet him. he only lived araound the corner from me so it wasent that bad. but the first time i met him, he was really sweet an... (142 words)

Guys: What does it mean to you if she wants to swallow?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for the guys. If a girl wants to swallow your cum, what does it mean to you? Is is special in an emotional way or purely sexual? ... (30 words)

Have I fallen out of love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, i have a dilemma and i dont know how to deal with it. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and everything seems to be ok. But lately i have lost all feelings of love and affection for him. I dont know if its a phase im going through i ... (152 words)

He does everything for her and I always come last

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been dating this guy for a year. When I met him he swore he was separated from his wife of ten years, mother of four children. When she found out about me she put a restraining order against him and me and him went through hell to try to get the kids back. I moved in ... (225 words)

I'm over him... so why does my heart still race when I talk to him? I can't understand it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 nearly 15 and for about 2 years I really liked this guy but a lot happened, we never went out and we stopped talking. I got over him and started going out with someone else. We dated for 3 months and have recently broke up. Me and the first guy are talking again bu... (102 words)

How can I cheer myself up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really upset about leaving school although I am going to sixth form I will miss loads and loads of people and its really sad, I feel really depressed not seeing people I have known for most of life. How can I cheer myself up!!!... (49 words)

I need to find an excuse to go up and talk to her... any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - Hi There's a girl I really fancy who goes to the same gym as I do and I have no idea how I can make contact with her. I see her there every friday and she seems really nice. I liked her from the first moment I saw her(over a year ago now)and I think she likes me too because ... (266 words)

Will my lack of confidence with chatting on the phone affect a future relationship with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently begun dating a lovely man, who I really like, and get along with well. We have only be on two dates, which were fantastic, and have plans for more. My question is about communication - we text/email and IM every day, but rarely actually "call" each othe... (142 words)

What can I do to last longer in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - What can I do to last longer in bed if it wasn't for the forplay I'd be done in minutes. I'm not selfish I always please her a few times orally first but when we make love and I'm looking at her bam I'm done.my wife is so hot I just can't control it.this is 1 to 3 times a week ... (108 words)

We aren't together but he sure shows signs that he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok lets say i a guy showed he liked you, used to stare at you loads and just really showed it and you coul sense there was something there. Then someone got jealous and so turned people against me which made people think i wasnt a nice person..thrughout all this the lad stopped ... (301 words)

Love? Or just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so im 20 years old and i've finally met a really decent guy he's really sweet to me he sends me really amazing texts, and when he does i get butterflies! do you think this could be love? or do you think it's just because he's being nice? i know he likes me he's... (105 words)

Co-worker friend bi-sexual and making comments

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i recently began a new job at a grocery store. I have became friends with some people that i work with which is natural. I have been working here for about a month and i discovered my friend "michelle" is bi. She recently told me that "you can't hide your true feelings about ... (106 words)

Why does my step-dad treat me so badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel as if my stepdad hates me. He married my mum when i was about 16-17. And i had a crazy stepdad before that. But i have always got on with him, it has been my brother that has challenged him and they fought like cat and dog. Now all my stepdad does is bark orders at me, s... (180 words)

He won't let me swallow his semen

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner wont let me swallow his semen? How do I persuade him. I have had it only once and loved it as I accept it as part of him. Any suggestions.... (35 words)

Should I just kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i kiss my boyfriend and im not sure how i should kiss him again! cause i just went to the carnival and well i was with my b0oyfriend and then he kissed meh and well im not sure if i just go up to him and kiss him or if i kiss him when i leave can you help meh ... (61 words)

Is there any point in talking to this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all Need some advice on a situation i've gotten my self into. Recently i have chatting to a girl via facebook, who i am starting to really like. I saw her profile and discovered we have something really big in common.Practically life changing for both of us. i friend req... (225 words)

I'm in love with him and he wants me to meet his new girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen in love with a friend of mine. I have never told him how I feel, although he must know that I am attracted to him as we have slept together in the past. This only made our friendship stronger. Nothing romantically came from it, in part because I wasn't interested ... (192 words)

Should I try to fix things with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend last week because i found out about another girl. mybest friend told me after all the trouble i've been through with him i should try to move on andtalk to someone new.so thats what i did..moved realllyyy fast and rushed into something with a new ... (103 words)

Boyfriend watching porn while I'm in the next room

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past 6 months. I've been unemployed and he works from home so we've been seeing A LOT of each other! Not surprisingly our sex life at the beginning was amazing and very frequent. Now it probably happens about 2-3 times ... (200 words)

Can we rekindle what we had?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, me and my girlfriend just broke up, for reasons ill go into now She signed upto a dating site and i kind of found out, but she said she was just looking for friends, sempt abit odd but nevertheless she carried on chatting to a guy. This is where things went all ... (231 words)

Flirts with his ex in front of me

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Help, ive been with this guy for only just over two weeks and he flirts with his ex INFRONT OF ME! He seems much more interested in her than he is in me. What should i do? ... (37 words)

Best position to conceive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was just wonering what is the best position to concieve? Now ive heard that missionry is the best but what I really want to know are your chances alot less if the girl is on top?... (38 words)

Is he just saying this to get me off his back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can someone please help me with this problem? so me and my boyfriend broke up after 9 months and i really love him and it was my fault so i'm begging him to come back. i treated him badly and he told menot to push things and i said if i stop pushing you would u give me anoth... (99 words)

I rushed into marriage and now have serious regrets

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man 6 weeks ago, and fell head over heels, but I need to mention I just came from a divorce at the end of january. I agreed in a week to marry him, I was stupid. I realize now I made a mistake, this man is very insecure, accusing me constantly of cheating when there is ... (230 words)

How can we go back to being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everybody! Yesterday, my best friend and I broke up. I love him very much. How can we go back to being best friends if we both love each other? (he broke up with me because be didn't have time to spend with me and I deserved better.) Thank you in advance! -GG... (57 words)

My best friend broke us up then she dated him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't get over this situation and it drives me nuts, it's been about 3 years and this is the story. I've had this friend (let's call her X) and we'd known eachother since 4th grade. Inseperable for most of our friendship. In 11th grade I started dating this guy... one of t... (483 words)

Issues in the bedroom with my husband of 15 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age - My husband and i have been married 15yrs but up to a few years ago things were mostly good. But the last few years hes changed! He has developed walking around wanting to be naked. Sitting downstairs watch tv no clothes on. Even if we have our daughter to stay he has a shower ... (317 words)

We only broke up a week ago and she is already in love with my former best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my ex broke up about 1 week ago. Stupidly I tried to rush things, and ended up making things worse. She said the reason we broke up is because she wanted space and was not sure about the relationship. She also said that we had been through a lot and she needed to get ... (165 words)

Help, I can't feel attraction anymore!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I still love my ex even after how bad she treated me. Our communication has broken down a long time ago so I cannot speak to her, she will not listen. If I look at this girl's picture after 3 years and still think she is the most beautiful creature on the planet, and no o... (186 words)

My baptism is approaching and I've been told I should look for adult "sponsors" rather than godparents - any advice?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, So i need some help please Ever since my grandma died on boxing day 2008, I have believed more in god (my gran was extremely religious) and so i have attended church with my mum on a regular basis and asked the vicar about getting confirmed. I am not taking conf... (258 words)

Scared to tell the guy I like my true feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and im gay and i really like this guy and weve spent a lot of time together and hes really friendly towards me im not sure if hes gay im a bit nervous to tell him about my feelings im a bit worried about it getting out that im gay i really like him what can i do?... (60 words)

Left in limbo - he went from being very interested in me to not wanting to see me at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I ruined a potentially good thing...did I? I met a guy online (let's call him W) and we had our first date a few weeks ago. It was great and I haven't felt that comfortable around someone new in a long time. He asked me out again and the second date lasted twice as ... (395 words)

I thought I was happy until an old ex got back in touch!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years and have a 18 month old child. After the birth of our child I suppose me husband and myself became bogged down with everyday life and being parents. I though I was happy untill recently an ex of mine got in contact. The ex in question was my f... (305 words)

Do guys prefer city girls or country girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in the country/farm. I am good house keeper and I can cook,clean and I like doing DIY using hammers and plyers. Would a guy like me or would he like city girl with high heels and painted nails and short skirts who works in office compared to someone like me - plain and ... (63 words)

Madly in love with a man who is engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am in the same situation as all of u, i am involved with a man for the past 3 yrs and he is already engaged i am madly in love with him bt he is still with his fiancee most of th e time he spent with me infact when i say i'll leave he come to over with all love infact he was ... (111 words)

What is wrong with this woman? I think she has a personality disorder!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just received this email from my gf. We just recently got back together after a week apart. We were texting back and forth on Saturday and she ended up calling at 4am after knocking on my apartment door at 3am. Sunday and Monday night she made love to me passionately and told ... (460 words)

Applied to be his carer...now he is coming on very strongly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts/Uncles, This is not a problem, I just please please need your views/advise on the matter because im not sure how to react to this myself. Im a Healthcare Student studying at Uni at the moment. I have a few years yet before i graduate, but been looking for a job f... (325 words)

He keeps asking me if I'm a virgin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

- I went out on one date with this guy, and then the next day we were talking through text messages and he asked me if I was a virgin or not. I told him I didnt feel comfortable answering that at this stage yet and he said thats ok I dont have to answer it. However, later that ... (319 words)

My future wife to be is still frequenting chat rooms and dating sites!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - After 3 years together and making future plans, for the third time i have found my almost wife to be is still frequenting chatrooms,registering on dating sites and texting men from these (usualy younger). From day one she has denied doing anything wrong and calls me paranoid. ... (162 words)

How can I boost my husband's confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and me have been married for 4 years now. He's recently started taking confidence classes after having worries about his confidence in social situations, and has done well in them. Recently we had a dinner party at our house, and his new-found confidence was... (174 words)

Our relationship seems to be going backwards!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a nearly 4 years now and whilst he still makes me happy we seem to be in reverse - we moved in together almost immediately and since then we've taken steps back. Living together turned into living alone which now becomes him wanting to find ... (145 words)

My wife was doing things sexually with some other guy that she wouldnt even do with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my wife and I have been married for only about a year and six months. And just this last summer we had split up over a fight. The break up lasted about three months. And I'm having a hard time getting over what we discussed when we got back together. She told me that she ... (209 words)

Is there life after a marriage breakdown?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, it's over. If you read any of my previous questions you can chart the decay and destruction of my marriage, it's all there. We're now going to seperate. her choice, not mine. She says she needs to "find herself" and decide what to do with her life while she's still at a ... (414 words)

Do you think once my exams are over I will be a happier person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried. It's exams this year and next, and I think I may be suffering from extreme exam stress. My thoughts are blurred and I'm a lot lazier and disorganised than I used to be. I used to be a happier person when I didn't have coursework and examination dates to worry ... (929 words)

Is it possible to have a LDR with someone you've just met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

- About a month ago, I met this guy and after chatting non stop for days on end, he asked me out on a date. We went out on a couple more as well. I think it went really well, and he seemed/seems to like me,as he said he thinks im absolutely gorgeous and he kissed and hugged me ... (458 words)

Worried my girlfriend might be in love with an ex-student of her's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a woman for one year. We've been very romantic together, the lovemaking was always good, we communicate well, everything seems or seemed wonderful. Recently, however, she mentioned how she is being contacted from an ex-student of hers (she's a professor) and ... (277 words)

Is there any help for people like me out there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do anymore, I'm at the end of my tether. I lost my job in September last year. I worked there for four months after leaving my previous job after five years. The company I moved to was meant to be training me to be one of their top professionals but one ... (305 words)

Is there a nice way of telling him that I want to end things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the last 7 years, i have been in a casual relationship with my ex boyfriend. It has been fun and all, but I dont want to contiue on with this relationship as it has become quite empty and meaningless. I do like him very much, but our relationship is based exclusivly on sex. ... (136 words)

I want advice on older women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all I'm 16 almost 17 and I'm talking to this 19 year old... She thinks I'm a bit older - 18. I think she wants a casual relationship thing. I want to know a couple of things: 1. Do other people find that weird? 2. To the women, are you put off by differences like that... (89 words)

Am I ever going to find someone that loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i ever going to find someone that loves me? I'm 20 and i feel really sad. i have never had a boyfriend. When i was 6-9yo and 13yo i was sexually abused and even though i know it wasn't my fault i kind of have always felt 'dirty' and as if i lost my innocence too young. ... (273 words)

Why can't I be articulate and say what I want to say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Question: Do any of you know why I have so much trouble articulating what I want to say to people? Almost everytime I want to tell someone something, I just have trouble saying what I'm thinking. Usually when I wanna communicate something to someone, I end up saying "whatever" ... (128 words)

I suspect that he's talking to someone else and he doesn't know what he wants anymore

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been involved with this guy for about 4 months already. and things were going good up until last month, he had heard something about me that wasn't true but was having a hard time believing me and taking my word. i kept trying to convince him that nothing was going on ... (152 words)

My family is falling apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

8 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is Roman and I'm going through a break up or a split up with my wife we are married for 3 years and have two kids I'm 26 years old my wife is 21 by the why I'm Russian so we were thought to get married young well for my wife it was but the thing is she wants to move ... (239 words)

Am I wasting my time here? Is he just a passive guy, and can't even say it's over?

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8 May 2009 (F) age - My husband says, he does not care if, I don't feel his love. And he says ,he has enough of this ,that I keep telling him, he does not love me. And he says,if i don't I DON'T believe him, it's up to me.He can't tell me anything to beieve it more... So ,he is super passive, ab... (249 words)

Twin brothers dilema!!

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having such a terrible dilemma for the past 4 years.My best friend has two brothers. Twin brothers. One twin was bad, always in trouble and gone. The other was sweet, hard working and funny. One summer me and the good brother started kissen and kinda seeing each other for ... (410 words)

Is this guy into me?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there was this guy in my class last year i've talked to him and flirted but i guess it wasnt that much of flirting cuz he couldnt see the board and he was a skater boy so he didnt want to wear glasses..so i would always help him out and tell him wat the board said :D but a year ... (205 words)

My boyfriend would rather climax watching porn, than satisfiy me, what can I do about this, please help?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He enjoys porn alot. I mean alot. At first we had sex frequently and he appeared to enjoy himself. I have always had a high sex drive myself. However, when we were first together he did not finsh, if you know what I mean. ... (258 words)

He seemed interested, but was it just for sex?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my "love life" was normal until my 3 year relationship with my long time boyfriend ended. I didnt think it would be hard to find another good guy, me and my boyfriend had broken up because things just weren't working out.But, he was a good guy and he did treat me right, ... (440 words)

We have been together for 20 years and I am looking for something new in the sex department, any suggestions?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been having a sexual relationship with this guy for over 20 years. I know he is totally happy with what I do, but I am really kinda looking for something new to do. I love giving him oral sex, but I need something new. I've tried different positions, gels, toys. I ... (70 words)

My son's girlfriend died in a car accident, and he has not been able to move on, can you provide any advice so I can help him?

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8 May 2009 (M)

age - My 22 yr old son was in a car accident a year ago and his 19 yr old girlfriend died. I understand that it was hard for him but I am really wooried about him. He hasnt moved on at all. In one full year he has not lef tthe house unless he was forced. He was been in counceling ... (102 words)

I am dissatisfied with the choices I have made in my life, and wish I was younger, what to do, please advise?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had my 30th birthday last week, and I can't stop feeling sad. I know I need to get on with my life, but I can't help it. I wish and wish I were young again. More than feeling old, I'm wishing I'd pursued my dream of being a musician. I don't want to just do it as a hobby... (177 words)

My ex cheated on me, emotionally abused me, and basically disrepected me, yet I still think about him, will I get over this jerk?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a slightly odd and very long story, so please try to bear with me and try to stay unconfused. I also need to tell you everything that has happened within the last two and a half years because my question might seem slightly odd if I don't add some detail. I apologize in ... (988 words)

How do I make out? I don't wanna screw it up

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8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so I wanna know how to make out. i been with one girl before who said i was good at making out but I don't know if she was being serious or not and that was a year ago. now i have another girl who wants to but i dont want to screw it up. i need some help... (60 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend give me oral anymore?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are engaged and have been for the last past year and been together for 5 years now and had a baby last july. since i had been pregnant i noticed my boyfriend stopped giving me oral sex. now i admit when i was pregnant i could not stand giving him oral, ... (111 words)

Will anyone else be just like me and be okay with my lifestyle and habbits?

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8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there anyone else out there that would adapt and/or be just like me and be okay with my lifestyle and habbits? Im not a party person, I dont drink or smoke. Now that Im out of high school life seems a whole lot more boring. Im home alot and go out rarely. I play alot of ... (131 words)

How can I rectify this?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We are in love and have been since the day we met. There has always been a light at the end of the tunnel in our situation but recently (the last month or so) I have been a little pessimistic about this. Because he has been ... (572 words)

Is my ex better off without me?

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8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been apart for over 2 months and Im not over her at all, and she seems to be doing okay. Last time we spoke it was her telling me to leave her alone, ONLY cause I told her I couldnt be her friend, it was too hard for me after everything we've been through. so ... (109 words)

Does my teacher like me for more than just a student^

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I never really noticed this teacher until I was with my cousin at the liquor store buying drinks for a party. I was in the car since I'm 16. I saw him walk out with his friends and he just blew my mind. He has dark hair with light blue eyes and that is what turns me on. On M... (418 words)

I have NO idea what to wear for a dance!

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K so im going to a dance on the 9 th and my crush will be thet. This is a completley informal dance..... I have NO idea what to wear!!! Lol! Any ideas ??? I wanna look hot and cute and get noticed but not stand out too much from everyone else or look trashy!! I really want him ... (86 words)

He's 12 years older than me, what do I do?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is dating this guy who's about 10 years older than her... Well he has a son (I'll call him matthew) and hes really cute and sweet and just totally perfect... he thinks the same of me... i know your probably thinking whats the problem then... well hes 27..... and that ... (115 words)

Any time I like a guy I'm too shy to ask him out... Help!

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I find that every time I like a guy I can never bring myself to tell him or ask him out. I can't even let my friends do it. If the guy finds out I like him I can't look him in the face anymore. If I find out that he doesn't like me back, I can't even talk to him anymore! I ... (90 words)

I don't like how my vagina looks now that I've had sex!

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was a virgin (about a month ago) I used to have a nice looking vagina. haha might be weird but yeaah.. my labia or the lips of the vagina covering the hole used to be tucked in and 'juicy'. But now that I've been having sex a lot it changed and became very wrinkly and i ... (98 words)

I always miss my chance to find love. Is there something wrong with me?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen years old, and I am always looking for a serious relationship. I have only been in two relationships cause I was thirteen. One of them lasted 8 months, and the other one lasted 4. My ex boyfriend and I broke up in January, we had a little bit of a rocky break up, ... (224 words)

Married but attracted to my co-worker!

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8 May 2009 (F)

age - Married HR Rep attracted to Coworker. I have been married for almost a quarter of a century to a man who is my best friend, but with whom no intimacy now, or ever existed. We sleep in separate rooms on two different floors. Because our marriage is amicable and we have two ... (330 words)

How do I get out of my marriage, I'm not happy at all.

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8 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married 4 months and I have never been happy since, My wife and I have been fighting for ages, even before we got married, she terminated the pregnacy a week before our marriage and made things worse, as I crying to have a baby and be a father, we haven't made love ... (103 words)

I'm at my wits end with my husband! Help!

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is really long, but I really need help!! My husband acts like our son and I are holding him back. When I was pregnant, I went out of town, and he went to the strip club with his friends, and needless to say the cops showed up at our house 2 days afterwards because ... (485 words)

My ex feels I have no right to be jealous...

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and best friend prior to us getting together, recently broke up with me because of my apparent jealousy towards her new friend. two weeks later she started seeing this friend, telling me that it was never her intention on being with her it just happened. my ... (135 words)

Should I wait for her?

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8 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, yeah, I'm in love with this girl (and I don't use that word lightly) and she loves me too. We've loved each other since like 10th grade and we're both Seniors now. For some reason we can never get together...I put in my best efforts and she just kinda goes with the fl... (315 words)

Help! I think I'm in love with my colleague

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been working for this company for about four months now. I wasn't interested in this man until one day, our system collapsed and our teams were forced to lay down their duties. I haven't made any plans for that unexpected day off. So, I asked him to hang out with me beca... (176 words)

Could I really be pregnant?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I believe im pregnant yes I had unprotected sex and about 2 or 3 weeks later I got my period it stayd 4 3 days n stoppd then I bn feeln nausious havn headacha very agrivated vomiting affter eatn fettish 4 pickles n icys peeing a lot now I have a cold I haven't taken a test but ... (66 words)

First love, how to move on when I am still so young?

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8 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well first of all I'm 13. I don't know how to get over my ex boyfriend and it's been 4 months.I have a boyfriend that I like very much but I have no idea how to get over my ex can some one please help me???!!!!!?????... (47 words)