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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I think about my boyfriend, having an on-line profile on a dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Strangely enough i found my boyfriends profile on a dating site a month ago.(me and my friend were messing around and came across him) Im pretty sure hes had that for a while probably before he even met me. i went to look back to see if he deleted it or something like that, ... (133 words)

Too soon to invite him to a wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my cousin's wedding is in a month. I mentioned it to my boyfriend and he hesitated..'hmmmm June 19th? ummmm no.' I was like 'ok.' He brought up some lame excuse about his B-day celebration. His B-day is (8) days before the wedding date. I acted like whatever but it ... (198 words)

When should I take another pregnancy test?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I recently asked the same question, however I was wondering when I should test again. I took a pregnancy test a day before my missed period, it was negative. I've since missed my period. I usually have period symptoms a few days before my period, like tender breasts ... (69 words)

I need your views on this. Is he still in love with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my guy and I have been together almost a year, we are engaged and buying our first home together. I'm kinda scared to go on with this because I think he misses the first girl he was engaged to in high school! They were thogether 3 years and he dumped her for a girl that was ... (136 words)

I found him again on Facebook. Do we have a chance together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him? I really like this lad, I've known him for years and had a thing with him when we were younger. I found him on facebook and have been talking to him for a while. We ened up meeting up the o... (88 words)

I'm not ready to be a middle aged old bag!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just had my 30th birthday last week, and it's a shock to reach that age where you have to feel ashamed of how old you are. I'm not ready to be a middle aged old bag. I wish and wish I were a young girl again. I've been extremely depressed, and I desperately want to confide ... (497 words)

Have I rumbled him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just started to see a guy that still lives with his ex, they broke up in feb and he cant move out until sept. we have been intimate but he does not want to make it official that we are together just yet. Im quite affectionate and like to send and receive little morning and nite ... (149 words)

Do you think these can be signs of her presence or just coincidences.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tomorrow will be 5 weeks since my grandma whom i was very close to passed away. Saturday night that just passed, i had a dream about her (idk if it was her coming in a dream). We were eating pizza in my school cafeteria and we were talking about a whole bunch of stuff like ... (309 words)

How can I get these girls to stop kissing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are very happy together, but girls keep coming up to me and touching me and doing other stuff when they know I have a girlfiend. Like today this girl from a different school came up to me and kissed me on the lips!!!! and my gf was standing right there. She ... (119 words)

Should I tell her about this lap dancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my current girlfriend since last September. We get on great and I'm generally honest with her. With one exception - sex. Before I met her, I was single for a year and during this time I visited a lap dancing club and paid for an extra-friendly lap dance (No, we ... (119 words)

I've lost everything because of sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a best friend, who eventually became my lover. I never knew we were just friends with benefits, but when i found out i was crushed. When i told him how i really felt towards him, we started to go out and i loved him dearly. We broke up twice, and after the second time, i ... (442 words)

What do YOU think? I think my teacher is flirting with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my band teach is starting to act in a way that makes me think he kinda likes me, he's not married, no girlfriend, no kids, you get the point. I mean i liked him but i'm kinda over him. But, my name is Taillour [Taylor] and when he sees me me he always says "Hey Tay!", ... (276 words)

How can I make myself prettier??? I want to WOW him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im looking for advice on how i can make myself prettier. please not i am NOT looking for answers of people telling me beauty is on the inside, or its about confidence or anything like that. i want advice about physical thing i can do. My boyfriend is coming home next we... (191 words)

Girlfriend is sabotaging relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age - My gf and I have been happily dating for nearly a year. Recently though, she's been out of sorts, crabby, non-loving, and generally miserable. She has self admittedly never been in a good healthy long-term relationship, and in fact, her life has always been rather ... (136 words)

Help! How can I put his mind at ease?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three months now, but lately we've been having problems. Back when we first kissed, I was officially seeing someone else, so in effect I cheated on my last bf. I broke up with him straight away though, and have been in this relationship ... (316 words)

What does my ex want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me several months ago, after several weeks apart he came back and said he wants to work at the relationship, he really missed me and loves me. After a great two weeks together, out of the blue he said seeing me confuses him.. and that he wants to be single ... (190 words)

On my period, how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i slept together for the first time on saturday, and im seeing him tomorrow and think he wants to do it again. i want to again, but not tomorrow as ive just come on my period. however im quite shy about things like this and hes my first serious boyfriend, how ... (61 words)

Love triangle and height issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: This young lady has post three questions at the same time so I have linked them so she can get all her answers in one place. 1. there is this guy.... (no hang on keep reading please)... i really like him awfully i think about him all the time and love talking to him. ... (315 words)

Is it possible for a guy to be 'best friends' with a lovely looking girl and not be interested in her?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question mostly for the guys... Is it possible for a v. horny, 24 year-old guy to be 'best friends' with a lovely looking girl and not be interested in her? My boyfriend of 1 year has a friend who moved to another country a couple of years back. They still... (245 words)

How do I stay strong and get used to this huge change?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved out of my dads and got own house with boyfriend. Things were great to start with, but now i just dont know. I want to be back at dads house, i dont know if its because its only been a couple of weeks and i need time to settle, I like it here but it dont fee... (201 words)

Why do blokes ask for your number after one night stand then never get in touch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do blokes ask for your number after one night stand then never get in touch? I meet this lovely bloke the other night and i ended up going back to his (i was quite drunk). We got on really well and the sex was great during the night but not so great the next morning.... (149 words)

I keep thinking he will come back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i was dating a guy for eight months, Steven. And I was absolutely in love with him. Well be broke up in january, he broke up with me, saying he didn't love me anymore. And in the past month or so, he's said he missed me, he talked with me and sayed he wasnt over me. We ... (230 words)

How to ask aguy if he wants to see each other after sleeping together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically , a guy ive been un-ofically seeing, which i get on amazing with though when he actaully meets me.Yet we talk online and text alot.:(i have made most the effort to see him,but he came so he must have liked me to some point) ..Weve been on about 5 dates and i ended up ... (209 words)

Will I ever find a guy who really likes me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - always picking a guy i really like who doesn,t like me but always likes some one eles.i mean a guy i really really like .will i ever find a guy who i really like who like me back.i,ll always be alone by the looks of it ... (46 words)

An affair like no other!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently discovered that the relationship I’ve been in for the last six months is not at all what I believed it to be. The man I have been seeing is married to a woman who lives in Europe, but he lives here stateside. This man lied to me and yet I still haven’t walked a... (349 words)

He lied! should I forgive and trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night, my boyfriend went out to play cards with his friend at the Legion. Before he left, he said depending on what was going on, maybe he would give me a call to come down once cards was over. He called me about 2 hours later to ask me to do something at his house, and I ... (552 words)

Should I just not get in touch with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Really feeling not so great at the moment... I wrote last week about seeing a guy, thought he was great, told me he had a girlfriend, went mad, calmed down and he said he'd be going back home to sort things out with her with the view to possible breaking up... Never heard ... (304 words)

Shd I call her and ask how her exam went?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt love her...i cared for her a lot and really struggled a lot to push her away and i have broken all contacts ...she meant a lot to me and it was so painful to dump her ...somehow i have been able to reduce the addiction and stay away from her ... (182 words)

How can I win back the love of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, my ex girlfriend and I have been going out for 1 year 3 months. I have not been the best boyfriend in the world to her. One time at the begging of our relationship sent was planning on sleeping with another guy. We talked about it and I told her if I do anything wrong to... (189 words)

Sex advice needed....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee n i are xtian n have bn tog' for the last 10yr.never had sex nor slep tog' n wil b wed at end yr.yesterday we slept tog but never had sex.advice was it wrong?can i ask her for sex next round?... (43 words)

Why does everything I do go wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The thing is i have been going out with this person for 2year, and we are planning to get married this sumer.There is one thing i don't get, first everything as to go his way cuz i can't do anything about it i realy love him so much, I have to speak 2him or other wise i won't ... (164 words)

Texting me for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Last week i wrote to you about the problem i had with my friend and the whole sex with benefits ordeal. After i wrote to you he contined to text me asking for sex, i said i was busy every time hoping he would get the message. Then yesterday he text me again looking... (309 words)

I'm having a hard time getting turned on by g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok honestly is the best policy. I have had no trouble at all with any other woman previous to my current girlfriend of 4 months. We had wonderful sex for the first few times and now I'm having trouble getting turned on! And to be honest I tried it with a previous lover while I ... (163 words)

My husband's crazy ex was texting and calling him!

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I am currently married to a great guy. But before him I had an ex who just put me through everything, cheating, lying, the most horrible stuff! Anyways, now I am married and have a wonderful daughter. Every since my husband and I got engaged his ex gf from highschool ... (227 words)

Daughter will not speak to me because I dojn't like her boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age - My daughter will not speak to me because, I dislike her boyfriend. My daughter has two children with him. Who I do not see. He has alienated her from me. Also he does not work she supports him and his family. I've tried to e-mail. Nothing works. I have sent gifts to ... (103 words)

Parents made me split up with my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Need some help... well a few months ago my parents made me split up with my boyfriend. I've never been so hurt. I'm not allowed to talk to him, see him, or talk to anyone he knows... which really sucks. anyways thats not what I need help with. When me and "the ex" s... (168 words)

Married, unhappy, unhealthy wife & no sex for 20 years..should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age - Hi, I have a question that is really troubling me. I am a 62 yr. man and I am married to a good woman for 37 years. She has been decent until the last 10 years when she let herself become morbidly obese and now in the past year, she had a stroke and heart attack. She is often ... (220 words)

This whole thing stinks of dog doo-doo..WHAT is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so neglected by my guy who use to show and tell me how he feels. I told my guy this and he says its because I complain to much. Well excuse me, I think talking and complaining r2 different things. Last week my guy and I was suppose to order some pizza ( I had to pay ... (378 words)

Break up 2 weeks ago..never seen it coming

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago after 2 1/2 years. I never seen it coming and am now totally devastated. I was preparing to propose to her on a weekend away at the end of the month. She had previous said she was unhappy but that it was her job, so she had ... (745 words)

Am I neurtoic? Wasting my time? Or both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i met this girl via a dating website, ive used a dating website before a few years ago and generally think theyre a pretty false way to meet people, anyway i was just browsing, saw someone i liked, joined, got in touch and to cut a long story short we've had 3 dates and the ... (306 words)

How can we stay safe?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, me and my mate and her friend (all of us 15) are going to a gig next weekend. The problem is its abour 200 miles away and we'd have to stay overnight on the street. We really want to go and we've planned the train journey and we have the tickets and everything but non of ... (97 words)

How do people keep their LDR going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Your all probably going 2 think im sad! But ive been with my boy a while now and we see each other evryday. Yesterday he went away to work for 2 weeks and i just feel like i can't cope! Im trying to fill my time and have made plans. I just cannot take my mind off him, im so ... (104 words)

Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he lived 2 hours drive from me and made every opportunity to come and see me (every weekend and somtimes a surprise visit during the week), occasionally i went to stay at his (but i only went when invited so it wasnt that often). ... (421 words)

Do I wait until he asks to see me or do I ask to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - after meeting a week ago the most amazing guy i have seen him 3 times we are now into the 2nd week and we have not made any plans to get together again yet but i do know he has a busy week ahead. so the question is do i just wait until he asks to see me or do i ask to see ... (88 words)

B/fgoing on craigs list and looking for men/women to hook up with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of one year has been gpingnon craiglist and talking men and women to hook up with. I just recently searched through his phone and decided to check his emails he has 14 unread messages so I was curious. I föhn out more than what I needed to know, he actually cheated ... (316 words)

You think he likes me or is he a complete idiot that I should cut out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, plz help with this. I had a drunken 1 nigth stand in uni with the guy who lives in the building opposite. We decided it was a mistake but decided to remain friends. We txt over Easter and when I arrived bk 2 uni after Easter he was waiting for me and said he'd bee... (509 words)

My ex thinks he's doing the right thing by breaking up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex thinks he doing the right thing by breaking up with me..should i wait for him or just move on because when i look at him at school he doesnt seem to care about me anymore..he still come to visit me and when i talk about how we can start all over again he gets mad and say ... (360 words)

How tall is too tall?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) age 41-50 - So, uh, ladies... what height do you prefer on guys? What's gotta be the bare minimum height you like on a guy? And if there's such a thing as too tall, beyond what height would that be?... (40 words)

Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a sexual question. Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"- building her level of arousal in steps. If so I would like some advice- I stimulate my girlfriends vagina, and then when she's close, I slow it down a bit, or try to keep her on the edge and ... (167 words)

Should I wait till after them to start the medication or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, this question isn't a relationship one but a health one. I've just been put on citalopram for moderate/severe depression and I was wondering before I go on them if any of you have been on it and if it has actually made a difference to your life. I'm quite scar... (110 words)

I'm apple shaped but he prefares pear shaped, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a man who is attracted to pear-shaped women. I am an apple-shape, and this has caused me to want to end the marriage. He always watches porn or looks at women that have a pear-shape. I can't change what i don't have. It has caused me to envy those women, ... (93 words)

If a guy is into you...wouldn't he text you a lot!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - its been just a week and i have been seein a younger guy (14 years) he is so sweet and attentive when i see him and says he wants to see how things go, but when we r not together he is very quite maybe a couple of texts a day, if a guy is into (like he says he is) then would u ... (80 words)

I can't stop thinking of this former nephew, (by marriage)!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age - Hello all, Just over a week ago, I was at a funeral for my children's grandmother on their father's side. We have been divorced 7 years now, he's remarried and all is good. So, I was re-acquainted with everyone, including one of my nephew's (by former marriage), I'll call ... (996 words)

I get jealous of anything my boyfriend does with out me...do I come last, in his life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I get jealous of anything my boyfriend does with out me! If he texts his friends more than me. Or goes out without me. Etc Things like this. I feel that if he does stuff without me he will want to do it all the time. And i come last! Its like nothing he does is could enough. If ... (219 words)

Should I ask him out or wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so basically. I like this guy who's my friend, but I kind of like him as a boyfriend, we've dated twice already and I am wondering if he likes me back because he always lets me choose the topic of conversation and he's always calling my name in class. Also we sort of ... (78 words)

He hasn't texted me like he usually does! What's happening here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might sound slightly petty but here goes... Ive been with my boyfriend for eight months. He has a full time job and I'm in six form. He's up early most days for work, and he always gives me a morning text and to see how i am, then he'll text me at dinner telling m... (171 words)

I have no more tears and I'm heartbroken! How long should I wait for him to call? .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi after 2 weeks I have not called my ex boyfriend. I have good days and then I have bad days. I'll briefly explain what happened. I dated my guy for 3 years, there have been good times and there have been bad times. But at the end of the day, we were fine. We are in our ... (759 words)

My life story

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok - where to start. In 1995 I feel in love with the girl I was dating. We went out for about a year before she ended it. She wanted to be friends and I respected that, but I did send her letters at first saying I love you, and regardless of where life takes me, I will always ... (756 words)

Is she pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone my friend and I are a bit confused and need a little help she had sexual intercourse without protection in February but had what seemed like a period took a pregnancy test and it was negative then bled again in March but in April had no bleeding at all it is now ... (85 words)

Do I need professional help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I never did this before. Feel lost and confused in what just happened to me, not sure if this is too much or too little info: My first marriage didn’t work out. I walked away from the marriage…Long relationship (5 years dating, 2 years marriage), I am now rema... (796 words)

Playing hard to get backfired, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've made a big mistake and now i don't know how to handle it. I was with a lad for about 6months but we kept it casual although he would make the effort to speak to me everyday and we got on so well, but because of a previous bad experience i kept him at arms length and alwa... (209 words)

What do I do? My boyfriend has a baby with a crazy woman!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we live together. About a year ago we decided to have a break from each other, in this time he slept with someone else. We decided over our time apart that we missed each other too much and couldnt be without each other and d... (396 words)

I went and spoilt it all by saying something stupid....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating this guy officially for only a little more than a week, but we've liked each other for a long time. he is very open and affectionate with me and is always telling me how much he likes me. this weekend i accidentally let is slip out of my mouth that i love ... (206 words)

Am I the one to blame?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Just wanted a bit of advice, well to see if I am to blame or not!! My b/f and I were together about 6/7 months. He had a bad temper, but thinnking back I don't know if it was my fault. When we first got together he told me he loved me near enough a few weeks into it, i wa... (615 words)

Why tell me nothing's changed and we're still seeing each other if he refuses to see me/go out with me/actually date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been trying to get over this situation but I'm stuck! I met a guy a few weeks ago. He'd just gotten out of a 6 month relationship a few weeks before he met me, where the girl cheated on him. I knew this and tried to be cautious around him but look, it hasn't worked, I... (420 words)

Missed period, could this be normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. I hope someone can ease my worries a little and thanks in advance for all replies. Im wondering if its possible to completely miss or skip a period. My period is now 3 weeks late. My cycle is also very long, i usually have my period every 6 weeks and it has been like ... (207 words)

Why do men suddenly stop contact, why cant they just be honest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi, maybe a guy could answer my question or problem. To cut a long story short, my best friend (male) left his partner and children 8 months ago. We have been more than friends now for 4 years. When he left he disappeared off my radar for 2 months, where we used to speak and ... (514 words)

Do some people just grow apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, me and my boyfriend of 17 months have been really loved up. I felt as though nothing would ever come between us, my soul mate, I was just so in love with him and knew that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. But as of recently, the past month or two have bee... (384 words)

I need help with my trust issues...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - help! im a 29yr old woman with a 10yr old daughter from a previous relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend (the 2nd one ive had since the split from my daughters dad when i was pregnant) for nearly two yrs...but i still dont entirely trust him and i get really jealous really ... (107 words)

Should I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I dump my girlfriend? We have been together for about a year now. My problem is I always feel I am the one driving our relationship and organising things for us and doing things for her. My bday was on this sat just gone and she didnt do anything. no card, no n... (875 words)

Fooling around...and now I cant pee!

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were messing around last week. Afterward, it hurt a little more than usual in the next couple of days, and a pain kept lingering. Yesterday, we got... um... naughty in a pool and now every time I use the bathroom I feel a searing pain. What's wrong wi... (61 words)

How can I build my self-esteem and learn to approach girls I like?

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I go to an all boys school, so I dontb see that many girls. Very often, but in my town there is this girl who I think I love, thing is, I have a really low self esteem and I have only ever talked to her once. We barely ever see each other and I think she barely knows I exist ... (251 words)

Staying together for the kids....

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I haven't been in love with my girlfriend for a long time. We have just had our 6th anniversary, we have 2 kids, 5 and 4 years old. We were friends for many years before we got together. We are not married but have lived together and shared everything as if married for most of ... (194 words)

How can I tell if he is interested in being more than just friends?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am attracted to a man i know through work but im not sure if he is just being polite or if he is actually interested in me. We flirt via email on a weekly basis (not daily though)he usually initiates it and keeps touching on a private joke between us and this year we have ... (228 words)

I'm not sure how long I can continue being punished by him!

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice please. My bf wanted to know everything from my past, every last detail of who I was with, what I did with them, when, where etc etc. When he asked who I had slept with I lied. Reduced the number mainly as I was ashamed and regretful myself. I had fa... (448 words)

Am I overeacting or should I just wait for him to open up to me?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months. we met in January, constantly hung out i seriously lost count since then till he asked me to be his girlfriend. within dating him for a month i told him i loved him because i couldnt help holding it in so i just told him. ... (245 words)

Is it me....or him? What do you think?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years now...we have had our fair share of ups and downs and have split before for 3 months, but started to see each other again because he said that he really loved me and that he has really missed me. At the moment things ... (1607 words)

He hit me several times but I cheated on him....what's worse?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He hit me several times but I cheated on him once. Whats worse ?? I cheated on him first month we got together and i continued to like the same guy for 3 months while i was with him. He forgave me and we stayed together. We've been together for 1 year and a half n... (186 words)

I turned him down when he came on to me but now I want to be with him!

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11 May 2009 (F)

- I need some help. My head is wrecked over this!! Apologies for the length. I'm a girl, and one of my best friends is a boy. I met him about two and a half years ago when he started working for the same company as me. We've always been close since we started working ... (358 words)

What should I do to be friends with my teacher?

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11 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Sorry it's a bit looong.. Well, I have already finished my last year of high school, there are only some exams to take, but I have a minor crush on a teacher (or not really a crush, I just like him). He's 20 years my senior, has a wife and two kids. I have a boyfriend of ... (281 words)

I'm sure she still has feelings for me....what should I do to get her back?

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this friend who used to really like me but i was unavalible. Things changed and i started to like her but she no longer liked me and things became wierd between us since we were friends. I still really like her and recently she has started being cuddley with me ... (169 words)

Is she playing games with me?

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this is the last time. im too confused and in love yet I feel like im doing a pop quiz I didn't study for. so I wrote two other questions I would appreciate if they where read before you continue reading this one. I feel it would help you to better understand me and in all ... (356 words)

How to deal with a bi friend that always lusts after straight guys?

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 16 and straight but i have problem with a bi friend. He always go after straight guys that have no interst in him but hes so desperate that he'll that he do anything for them. Basically he lets himself be used and got hurt when me and my 2 other friends told him that he ... (216 words)

Should I give him another chance after he broke up with me and slept with someone else?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for almost 5 years and we lived together for almost 4. Recently I moved in with my mom to save money and he broke up with me and immediately slept with someone else. Now he wants to earn me back and says hes done with her. He even invited me to go with him to ... (103 words)

Are we really meant to be? Why do we keep coming back to each other?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to make this brief but there's a lot of history ..I have an ex boyfriend who I started dating about 10 years ago the first year or two were rocky...then had some really good times for about four years. The happiest times of my life where during this time...I have ... (938 words)

She cheated on me and now I can't come up with a good bday present for her

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey every1 i posted a question last month abt a cheating girlfriend whom i was meant to propose to on d 20th of this month on her 21st birthday! she cheated she says she made a mistake i believe her but g part of me is stl very angry at her! normally when its her birthday i get ... (105 words)

I love my parents but I feel smothered living with them

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a 22 year old boy living with my parents...i have not done any wonders in my life and have always been an average guy in everything from my looks to my studies ...i couldnt find any better job after my graduation due to poor results..my parents are very supportive and have ... (215 words)

Ex having midlife crisis and now wants to be friends

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my fella for over a year.. his best friend has just been sentanced to 9 months in prison and has received a letter from him explaining he wants to start a new when he gets out.. this has made my fella want to think and has caused him to think about what ... (382 words)

Was I sexually molested as a child?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - was i sexually molested as a child? my best friends dad stroked my breast once n my older cousin felt on my private parts when i was younger. if so, whom should i tell?... (34 words)

I don't like him seeing his ex

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is bothering me and I would like some advice please. This is a silly problem but if anyone could give some help please - Ive heard the 'just get over it' and it doesnt work! My boyf is great and we have a good relationship. He has had a few previous girlfriends and I ... (226 words)

Got really drunk, don't know if I had sex or not?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a party and got really drunk. i don't remember what happened. i hooked with my ex-BF who i still really like and people are now telling me i hooked up with his mate, but one guy said that we did more than that i am pretty sure that he ment that i had sex with my ex'BF ... (139 words)

I've been trying to win his heart through food

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this one guy friend that has noticed me since the begining of the school year. I have seen him in one class but i noticed that i have him for two classes. At the begining of the school year, i didn't really know anyone. So one day there was a group project and i was ... (363 words)

I am confused by his behavior and what he says

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - would you think a guy like that can be trusted?by what he said also said some thing opposite to that"hes not giving any thing away" then he said no girl will have him and laughs next thing he said.i,ll be on the look out for a girlfriend and yet he said i don,t understan... (196 words)

He doesn't take me seriously

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ? continue to see the man I dated last year although there isn’t a relationship between us. When I tell him that I want to see him more and be together he doesn’t take me seriously. Sometimes I try to be more hard and serious so as to make him think but always he rejects my ... (154 words)

I don't want to leave her behind

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - "the greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return" -from the movie "Moulin Rouge!" Oh it is so very true. I am 18, a German student that is 3 weeks from finishing High School in South Carolina, USA. I have lived in the US with my family sinc... (662 words)

I'm tired of being called CUTE!

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I apologize in advance if this turns into a long post. I've been struggling with my self-esteem for years and I'm tired of feeling this way. My confidence problems have to do with not one, but several factors. Please bear with me to explain them all. I'm 23, but my... (564 words)

How long before a lovebite fades away?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have this really big ugly lovebite on my neck, how long do they normally take to go away?... (21 words)

Packet of condoms hidden in the garage with one missing

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found a packet of condoms hidden in the garage with one condom missing out of the packet. My husband tells me he has no idea how it got there - I do not believe him - we have two children - I am highly pregnant with the third one - what should I do. Everytime I close my eyes ... (69 words)

Saw my ex and now I am unhappy

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I Just saw an ex of mine for the first time in 5 years last night and now I have mixed feelings. He broke up with me 'cause he said he had some personal issues and needed time to sort things out. I was very sad 'cause I really liked him and I think I had fallen in love with ... (277 words)

How can a woman initiate kissing? What else could I do to show I like him?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and i am interested in this guy hes 44. I feel 100% safe with him (he knows people in my family-who happens to be in police force-hes not going to hurt me). We were both hurt in last relationship. Thing is mine was my first relationship. I have one child he has chi... (217 words)

How do I not feel guilty about going to prom? I wanna have a great time!

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11 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi Cupids-- My exbf (together 4 months) and I broke up last Thursday and my friend (2 years older) asked me to prom on Saturday and it's next Saturday. I love my exbf very much. I haven't had an appetite for these 3 days, and we had a fight today and it made me physical... (173 words)

We were together for 4 years, how do I move on?

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and i have been broken up for 6 months. Since she broke up with me I took it a lot harder than her. We were together for over 4 years so i knew this was going to be a process. The thing is, it's been six months. i would have thought that by now id be over this. ... (165 words)

I care for my ex but he doesn't care at all

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay me and my ex broke up. But the next day as we broke up he asked somebody else out! its killing me. its been on and off. but we have been together for 1 month. we "loved" eachother. before when we broke up i didnt care. but he did he always called me and stuff BUT NOW ... (194 words)

How to help when she doesn't want consoling?

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11 May 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend is very upset. There is this lady she has tried to be best friends with for over 4 years now. I say "tried" because all this lady does is use her to watch her kids or do some labor around the house or lately borrow money from. I hate this lady and don't understand ... (177 words)

Insecure and obsessed with his ex girlfriend. He's to blame

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Any advice or words of wisdom...? I've been with my boyfriend (24 years old) for coming up 5 years (in June). I'm 20 years old and we began our relationship when I was 15 (inexperienced, insecure and unstable etc). This ex was with him for about 2 years, she is 2 years hi... (1538 words)

Will I ever be able to swallow?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a long time (almost 4 years) and we have recently started experimenting orally. He says that the sexiest thing would be if he could watch me swallow afterwards. I do enjoy performing orally, but for some rea... (166 words)

Texts me all the time but makes excuses not to see me

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy about 3 months ago he is a very shy guy I see him once or twice a week watch movies at his house he has even cooked me dinner he will text me every day morning noon and night he use to work nights and I worked days so our scheduals were way off now he has moved ... (149 words)

How can I skip this boring repetitive play?

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I seem to attract alot of attention when i dont try, but when i show an interest..thats when the games begin. so whats the best way to take it from the 'initial interest' and skip this boring repetitive game play? and how can you tell the difference between hard to get and not ... (56 words)

I'm not supposed to beloved?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sure I am not alone in feeling this way, but has anyone ever felt like they weren't supposed to be loved? That it was something that was meant for others but not yourself. I guess it is a different way to feel. I don't know what to think most of the time. I have always ... (368 words)

He broke up with me saying I was always mean to him

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we've been dating for like 7 months and he's saying that the reason why he broke up wit me is because we always argue and im always mean to him... it hurts becuss he said that even though we broke up he will always love meeh but that is so hard to believe each time i tried to ... (181 words)

Exercise help

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11 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, this isn't a relationship question, but anyway. I'm 20 years old. It's autumn down here and well, I have a busy schedule with uni and all that. I want to look really good for summer (December), and well, I need to tone and lose weight. However, due to my schedule at uni (it ... (250 words)

Masturbating to pictures of his ex!

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My live-in boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. 2 years prior he had broken off a long-term relationship after his gf cheated. This past December, I was using his laptop to upload pics to my Facebook account (with his permission, of course)! The default folder that ... (307 words)

He had an affair before we married... should I just come out and ask him if it's true?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband Mark, and I have only been married for 5 months, we have a great sex life and we spend a lot of time together. A few weeks ago a female friend of mine that I have known for 6 years told me that she saw Mark with another woman at a restaurant together, she said that ... (169 words)

He won't even talk to me...

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I have been together for 9 and a half months. since the summer. were only in middle school. In the beginning, he would mess around with me saying its over blah blah blah..and it was kinda a joke just between us. so when school started we got really close. we ... (740 words)

"What should red do...?"

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do if you have two friends one is named blue and the other is named green blue had a boyfriend who she broke up with because she couldnt take the fact that he has another baby with another girl. green is with blue's ex boyfriend (the one blue left)and... (101 words)

I'm heartbroken, confused and don't know what to think or do

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11 May 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend who is in the middle of his divorce decided to go away for one week to Europe after finding out I had gone on a date several months after we started dating. At that time, December 08/January 09, he had been acting standoffish, distant and would no longer stay at ... (341 words)

My dad says I'm disrespecting him if I date this guy.

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy. Hes black and my dad doesn't want me dating a black guy at all. He says its bad to society and everyone will hate me for it. Is that true ?? Me and the guy have just started really getting to know each other and we aren't planning on really dating for a while ... (165 words)

I really don't like femdom but it seems a big thing for him..

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, i'm so totally confused I need to ask for help - and help from males as well as females would be appreciated! My fiance says he's into D/s with me being the submissive, and says he hates dominant women, but sometimes when we're having sex, he'll say that we're "play... (237 words)

She's obsessed with him!

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is my second question about my current relationship with my boyfriend, zack.. This month will be two years with my boyfriend... We have been going through some MAJOR up and downs, and plenty break-ups mostly to do with trust issues. I finally found that I had... (762 words)

Am I being pathetic or is there something going on here?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend nearly ten months. And everything is perfect. He's so loving and we have up to now not had one argument or anything. When me and my friends get together and have boy talks, i always say how much i trust him and i love him so much! I have ... (583 words)

Negative pregnacy test, but still no period?

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I have a question and while I think I'm just going to have to wait a week or two more to find out anyways, I feeladvice could help. My period wasdue today. I typically have symptoms before menstration starts. Lower back pain, tender breasts, and cramps. These ... (114 words)

She keeps kissing me, but she has a boyfriend.I can't say no to her.help

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11 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have admitted to liking eachother a lot. But she has a boyfriend. I had noticed one time a little bit ago that while we were cuddling (we cuddle and rub noses all the time it's just our thing) we had come very close to kissing. Then a couple days later when we ... (389 words)

Why does a man stop feeling sexual desires for his wife? All opinions appreciated

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11 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was wondering , if I can ever figure this out somehow. Do you know , what reason, a man stop having sexual deisre? Well, my husband used to be very sexual with me. But not anymore. He stoped it ,years ago.. I just think he is not in love with me anymore, and I'm so afra... (129 words)