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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get her back? She means everything to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years. Was the hardest relationship i have ever endured. When we first met it was instant attraction and the trust didnt take long. She was up front with me on how she felt but i thought i was being cool not informing her how i ... (396 words)

He's better than me... should I push him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He has been my friend for 3 years. We get on really well. I trust him enough to cry in front of him and he always makes me laugh. He told me that he likes me more than a friend and I really like him but he is better than me. He has a law degree and I don't really have good ... (132 words)

How can I keep my friend and my boyfriend apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had this crush on this guy for 4 years and when he asked me out, I was so thrilled. We have been dating for 5 mouths now. But 3 of those months have been on the rocky side. I was getting a feeling that my boyfriend had a crush (huge one) on my best friend. We always hang ... (175 words)

Have I made it obvious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my friend told this guy I really like that I think he is cute, but just in a young way. (cos he is slightly younger than me.) Ever since then he is really nice to me, laughs at everything I say - and sometimes its not even funny - there are these stares that can be ... (129 words)

How should I take this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend at school that I've known since september is weird. At school he stares at me, makes me laugh, texts me occasionally, and sometimes he mentions a teacher I hate that he loves just to make me talk to him. Today I was talking to his cousin who is my best friend and ... (226 words)

Should I just leave my fiancé??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i leave my fiancee? My fiancee and I have arguments almost every day but what relationship don't. He is so jealous of me when I was talking to an old friend guy about a lady who had surgery, he wouldn't take the time to listen to me when i was trying to tell him what... (96 words)

Need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently got my first boyfriend at 15. I am a bit nervous and unsure of what to do. for a start there is an age difference of 3 years. My friends think I have been moving a bit fast and I had no idea! I didn't know what was acceptable and what wasn't I just treated it as ... (236 words)

I really don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do... ive been with my boyfriend for only 8 months, and i love him so much... its that kind of love that isnt exiting but its always there kind of love. like youde do anything for them... almost everything. but about 10 months ago, while i was just... (311 words)

Can I think of her as a cheat for seeing someone else when I'm still living with my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I met a young lady a few years back. This lady really meant a lot to me. I told her that I was looking for someone who would be faithful, because my wife cheated on me. This young lady was really a nice girl and had been hurt herself. The only problem was I had not moved out of ... (202 words)

I've never had a BF and I'm sick of hearing "it will happen someday"... help me NOW!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Never even been asked out. Not that I don't get attention from guys. It's just that I only seem to get the wrong sort of attention, like guys in clubs who are just looking for a one night stand and don't care who it's with. I... (148 words)

I'm scared that if he finds out that I like him, it'll ruin our friendship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm 15 years old, and a high school fresh man. i have this problem. there's this guy who i just met this year. i noticed that i really like him for about 3 mouths now. he's so nice and we always text each other. i would say we're pretty close friends. he rides my bus and ... (199 words)

How can I know when a girl is in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So there is this girl at our church who smiles at me all the time. She hardly takes her eyes of me when ever she see me,be it at church, bus etc She is very cute but only 17 yrs old while i'm 23. So i ignored her all the time. But now that i dont hav a gf,i tried to ... (134 words)

Should I make him happy or continue to be selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, thanks for reading on, in advance. So my problem is, my boyfriends birthday is in august. His mum and dad want to take us to scotland to visit family. I have been once before and for me its not a holiday, I'm on edge all of the time as I can't seem to relax around these pe... (188 words)

How can I win back the control with my fella?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past couple of months i feel as though i have lost control in my relationship and now all i do is hang on to my partners every word. i want to feel in control again! i seem more keen than him these days, and when we argue i am always the first to come back crawling to ... (161 words)

Do I really have to let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Reality check... Do I really have to let her go. My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our lives. We never argued, we... (1314 words)

When do you know that you have a true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya everyone! I was just wondering when you know you have a true friend? Because recently mine seem to be proving to me that I am just a convenient friend. For instance, one of my friends always puts me down when I am talking to people, and then ditches me, so then I am alw... (259 words)

I'm an author looking for your stories about teacher/pupil relationships...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all Have a bit of an unusual question but here goes - I am a published fiction writer in the UK, and am in the early stages of writing a book about a teacher/pupil relationship. I have been reading through stories on this site and others like it, and would be extremely ... (129 words)

How do I know if I am bipolar?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i know if i am bipolar? (Mod note: if you Google this, you will find 375000 entries on it.)... (22 words)

I like her, but don't want to go out until my exams are over with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - thers a girl at my school who i really like. i talk to her via email/text and i found out that she likes someone, but she doesn't think that it is workin out. she doesn't really go out with him and she doesn't like him that much but i have my gcse's starting and i haven't had ... (96 words)

Surgery to get my virginity back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - can i do surgery, and have my virginity back the same way that it was before i wont be tithe ... (20 words)

Using breast milk, but not breast feeding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't really a relationship question, but since there is a topic section involving pregnancy I thought I would try to ask my question here. I was wondering if there is any one out there who has/is breastfeeding, but by only using a breast-pump. In other words, y... (120 words)

Update: He is overly protective of his email and workplace

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I was on here before about my boyfriend being over protective of his email and Blackberry. He viciously protects his office and the vicinity and wants me nowhere close. This is an update. He found that question here on DC, plus your answers, printed it all out, and... (371 words)

Should I keep our baby? Please help me...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. I'm almost 17 and my boyfriend is 19. I just recently found out i am pregnant, my boyfriend says he doesn't feel he's ready to be a dad and feels i should abort but says it's my decision, he'll be there no matter what. He's also worried we ... (251 words)

I can't seem to compare to his ex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf/finace for a year but we met a few years before that. When we met all those years ago, he had just come out of a relationship with a girl. From what I have been told (by him), she was the first girl that he was very serious about. They were together fo... (426 words)

How do I forget past problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cannot stop thinking about some problems that stressed me very much at my past job, now I have a better one but I don't seem to be able to move on and relax my head about it completely any tips on how to manage??? thank you in advance... (51 words)

My boyfriend prefers to have sex with his computer rather that having sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I am living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and our sex life has decreased a lot. We are only 24 years old. We pretty much don't have sex anymore. I been dealing with this for about a year. It seems to me like if he dont feel desire for me anymore. He ... (677 words)

Am I a stalker as she says I am?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Would anyone here consider it like stalking if the person your with says they're somewhere and you drive by to really see if there are where they say? Especially if they've lied before? it blew up today with the girl i was seeing she said she was at her moms and its just been a ... (123 words)

I don't get it...why the sudden change in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy have been bestfriends for about 4 years, there was never connection between us. Not as far as I was aware. One of my friends, who used to be his too, told me that he used to say I was pretty and wants to kiss me, you get the point. I thought she was lying, ... (532 words)

Newly separated and I miss her. How to stay strong is difficult!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am three weeks separated from my wife, who I have dated, lived with and been married to for 7 years - married for 4.5 years. We have two beautiful children, 1.5 and 3.5 years old. We put every wrench into our relationship without spending time on ourselves - dealing with f... (285 words)

He got another woman pregnant...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. Last summer i was seeing this lad who is 4 years older than me for a few months, we got together, but because of the age gap it never went anywhere and we stopped talking. This January we got together properly, our relationship is perfect. He makes me so happ... (242 words)

When is an appropriate time to take it to the next level?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i've been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. Last week, I went to his house and things got a bit steamy. We were kissing and our hands were all over each other and he went 'down there' with his hand and I was literally soaking. Is this a turn on for a guy as he's the 4th ... (166 words)

Should I just give up on this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex for almost a month now. but i can't get my mind off of him. He's everywhere. Whenever I do anything or when I look at anything, it reminds me of him. I miss him so much. We were together for 2.5 years. He cares for me and loves but i seem to take him for ... (306 words)

What's proper protocol on who says "I love you" first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he already in love with me but not saying those three words? After a few weeks of dating he said, 'I think I'm falling for you.' Weeks later he said, 'You know you love me.' I played it off and said, 'No, you love me.' We both laughed at left it at that. This weeken... (136 words)

We've dated 2 years...and his ex will not allow me around their son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and have been dating the love of my life for 2 years now. He is almost 10 years older then me. He was in a past relationship for 13 years and they have a handsome 7 year old son together. We are kind of in a rut I guess you could say, in our relation... (365 words)

He cheated on me and then he gave me an STD! Keep him or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for three years. Hes always been the love of my life, until about a week ago i found out that he had cheated on me. Due to his dumb actions i now have an STD. He knows he messed up, and has apologized. I truely believe he wont do it again, but i also ... (82 words)

Am I just being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Firstly I figured it might be worth writing that I wrote this other question a week or so ago so that I do not have to repeat myself; "http://www.dearcupid.org/question/forced-to-watch-her-in-relationships-right-in.html". This question is simply a trivial thought... (488 words)

What should I think or do about his Erectile dysfunction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age - I'm really at the end of my rope. My husband is just off sex. It is very painful. He once lost it in middle of intercourse,and than since he is limp.. And he WENT TO DOCTORS, but they can't find anything wrong with him... We are in this situation years ago, and when he t... (170 words)

Peter Andre and Katie Price breaking up has really upset me. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel seriously pathetic and stupid for asking for adivce on this... but thank you guys for even reading the question. I'm sure all you people in the UK will have heard the news that peter andre and katie price are splitting up? Well it has really affected me and i'm not s... (186 words)

I hate my sister's boyfriend! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I hate my sister's boyfriend! What can I do? They're currently LDR, but he's planning on coming to live here. Well, the thing is that he's 32 or 33 and she's 22. He's so annioying. He may be old, but he is so immature. He doesn't work, he's looking for a job, and he's so... I ... (340 words)

Sexy but romantic birthday treat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's my boyfriends birthday next week and I really want to make it a memorable one for him. The only thing is I don't know what to do. I want it to be something quite sexy but I want it to be something romantic as well. And the other thing is I don't have alot of confiden... (121 words)

Should I leave my husband or try and fix this mess?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi..so here goes. I am a recent newlywed and I have also just had a wonderful baby. I have been with my husband for a few years before we got married. He had cheated on me in the past but our relationship was long distance, the problem is he changed his story so many ti... (386 words)

Just friends or is there something more there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, i have a problem. I am 26 years old and about 3 years ago i started going back to college. About 2 years ago I took a drawing class with this girl in it, she is 19 years old. I noticed her right away, she was very attractive. I eventually got the courage to start... (590 words)

Best place to lose your virginity?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm ready, and I'm gonna lose it. The question is where? Ideas anyone? The beach? The woods? Not some sleazy hotel room or my bed. This is the first time you'll always remember. I want to make it memorable in so many different ways, and I need your help! ... (62 words)

He's in jail and wants phone sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is in jail and is asking me to have phone sex with him. i never had sex with him as i was only with him for 2 weeks before he went to jail and wanted to take things slow. he has a moblie phone (cell phone) in jail which he bought because he is not getting realesed ... (80 words)

LDR and now I'm not sure what is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am madly in love with this guy who lives in Canada, and im from the UK. i believe that it will work out for us and im pretty sure he does too, but...we have both said i love you to each other and get along amazingly, i mean we talk for hours every night but last night he ... (166 words)

Pregnant and craving coffee!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To all the moms in here.Im 5 months along with my second child and i have been craving coffee really really bad!!! Would decafe be okay everyday?... (27 words)

Can't stop thinking about girlfriends past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I cannot stop thinking about my girlfriend's sexual past. I have asked about it and regret doing so because I can't stop thinking about it and have found out she has had sex with more people than I have but she hasn't said how many and won't. She has told me shes had a guy ... (133 words)

Having doubts and want to end the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with a guy for over a month now, but for the past 3 weeks I've been having doubts about the relationship and decided I want to end it. We started going out 5days before half term, and during the half term break I had no contact with him as he had my mob... (179 words)

I havent seen him in 12 years but I still have feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I got together with a wonderful man 12 years ago. It didnt last long,maybe 2 months but it was blissfull. Sadly though I listened to my well meaning friends and left him. He had a bad track record with women and had been to prison for driving offences. It is now 12 years on ... (106 words)

Would this be considered rape?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, ok I feel kind of stupid asking this. Ok last week I ended things with my BF of 2 1/2 years. He had become verbally abusive, but always saying the comments were "just joking and you know I don't really mean that". It took me about 6mos. to work up the courage ... (781 words)

How likely is it that I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my period came today, but I've been worried about pregnancy. I'm on the pill and use condoms, but I heard today about someone who was on the pill and had periods as normal, but discovered at 4 months that she was pregnant. This as a result has me worried. How likely i... (58 words)

Can a man just forget the person he dated for 3 years after a bad breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age - My days are less painful after my devestating breakup with my boyfriend a month ago. Although we had difficult times and great ones. After 3 years with him, I think about him everyday, do men think of the person they brok e up? We knew what we were doing at all times, the ... (222 words)

Question about race and dating.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I am hoping my question does not come off as offensive or racist at all. It's just that I have been dating my boyfriend almost a year now; he is caucasian (blonde hair, blue eyes) while I am asian. This has always made me a bit self conscious as I have noticed that ... (95 words)

Dating an older guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i am now dating this guy and i am really getting serious with him. if he would ask me to marry him, i think i would say yes. but our age gap is 22 years. i am 23 and he is 45. i am worried what would it like to have an older husband. what are the problems that may come ... (69 words)

I feel down...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been dating a girl for 3 months up to february and she asked to seperate for a while. We have met a few times as friends, but I have just found that she has found someone else and I feel really upset. I don't know what to do to make me feel better. Do yo... (67 words)

What can my married lover do for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid i am in love with a married man not because I wanted that but we were met each other with his reason, he is married and have 3 children but not happy in his marriage they were divorced many times but children was the reason to be together but separate in their house, ... (168 words)

Broken-hearted 15 year old daughter who lost her virginity to a guy she "loved"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am the mother of a 15 year old daughter (soon to be 16). Her boyfriend broke up with her suddenly after going out for 6 months. He claimed he "loved her" even up until the night before her broke up with her. His reason for ending the relationship was that he didn't feel ... (264 words)

Does he want me to act like a pornstar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago my boyfriend asked me if we could have sex in a different position (just to make things a little different) i'd already been on top, so he said why not face the other way? I instantly felt uncomfortable and said no. I asked why he suggested it and he said to ... (212 words)

She is my destiny and I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a lesbian relationship for 7 months. My girlfriend and i did argue a lot but still loved one another. Now shes dumped me saying it will not work and shes convinced herself it wont work out. She texts me to ask if im ok but i still love her and she says she loves me ... (95 words)

My ex FWB and future husband wanted my consent to have sex with a friend, I disagreed, what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female of 32 years old. I have a boyfriend who is 30. We have had a no strings attached relationship for about 2 years, where he knew about my boyfriend then and i knew of almost all his escapades with women. He went for postgraduate studies for a year and since he ... (275 words)

My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age - Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 times a year. We decided to liv... (296 words)

Fuzzy feeling with my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am implicitly going nuts over my friend. I met this girl about a year and 6 months and we have been very good friends. I wanted to ask her out but I was scared of loosing her as my friend. Eventually I did because I just could'nt shake the feeling. Well, she turned m... (284 words)

Why am I so bothered he is moving back in with his mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, here it goes. I really dont know whats wrong with me. See, my best male friend, which is really very close to me is moving back to his mom's house. She cant afford to pay the place and still manage everything by herself. So he decided to move back in so she wont have to do ... (231 words)

How can I move on if my ex keeps on contacting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I was dumped by my ex gf almost a month ago, I've been trying to move on. I've tried not to talk to her at least not try to initiate a conversation for the whole time, but there's a problem, she won't stop talking to me. everytime I'm online, she sends me messages wanting to ... (93 words)

Is he still in love with me or is it her he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex broke up with me 7 mothns ago during the duration of the breakup weve slept togther on a few occasions... to him it was a friends with benifits situation but to me it always felt like more .. at times i think he doesnt really know what he wants even though he says hes ... (566 words)

My b/f talk to his ex often, he says she does the calling but I know this is a lie!

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12 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating a man for 2 yrs and he keeps in contact with his ex wife, who he has no kids with. She cheated on him 3 times and he divorced her. He calls her 3-4 times a week and sometimes on the weekend when he's spending time with me, this bothers me. I told him that ... (146 words)

Am I Pregnant or not?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so i've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the past 5 weeks on and off. Stupid, i know, but we got lazy with the condoms and haven't been worrying about it. I have never skipped a period in my life and my period was due eight days ago and still hasn't ... (216 words)

Please help - am I losing my mind?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 37 year old married woman with a good job and an outgoing personality. I enjoy being with people but get so anxious and nervous about going out and meeting them, that I whip myself into a nervous frenzy and usually try to cancel things as I get an overwhel... (476 words)

Bad patch is over...so why am I still in touch with this new man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 22 and I have a boyfriend of 4 years, we had a bad patch and i met another man gave him my number been emailing alot etc, hes a great laugh we have not done anything we just have the same personality, things got better with my boyfriend but im still incontact with this other ... (133 words)

Getting over a girl I can never have

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Sorry for the essay but it must be said. K i have really strong feelings for this girl at work, id say she's pretty much the most the amazing girl ive ever met, id probably say that even if i didnt love her. Anyways we see each other about 2-3 days a week and sometimes we... (550 words)

Working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years

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12 May 2009 (F)

age - i am working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years. he has joined other singles groups and has reunited with old female friends. he is have a party at his home in a few weeks and i am not invited and am feeling very badly about this. does this sound normal or should i not ... (60 words)

I feel so drained and worthless

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12 May 2009 (F) - i feel worthless i feel i should be talking to a freind about my problems, but then they just say what you want to hear. so im here telling my problem. i feel really down today after too many arguments with my partner of 6 years its really getting to me. i have 4 childre... (311 words)

How can I make my boyfriend stop talking to other women?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for the past almost 7 months. He has proposed to me twice already and I have told him that I think its too soon. I met him through my ex as they both played hockey together. After my ex dumped me I became even closer to my boyfriend. After a ... (430 words)

Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squeeze ma wrist. However after wa... (267 words)

My wife is still meeting up with her ex!

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am desperate for other peoples opinions on his matter. I will try to report the facts as they are rather than as I see them, but I'm sure I will add some bias. 1. My wife met an Indonesian waiter on a cruise ship when she was 15/16 and they had a relationship o... (749 words)

Should I be worried or go with the flow?

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am Bi and my gf is straight. We have been dating now for some time, and things are going really well. We are both kinky and enjoy the occasional addition of an extra guy. I know you must be thinking so here we go...Well we have had extra guy before; however, these are not ... (802 words)

My boyfriend is reluctant to go on holiday because of what I did whilst we were on a break!

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends mom wants him to go to Moscow for 2 weeks with her! i think its a great thing to do..i told him i wanted him to go! a couple months ago we took a break and i messed around with another guy he found out (before i got a chance to tell him) and broke up with me. we ... (156 words)

Can my marriage be saved or am I kidding myself?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age - I have a few questions i would like your views on please,I have been searching for a year now and really need your advice to help me make up my mind once and for all. 1st can a man who has cheated more than once really change? 2nd He had a fling that lasted several years ... (294 words)

Money issues in our long distance relationship

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts I have started a long distance relationship. I am in it for two months and I have already spent a 4 day long weekend with my new boyfriend. He came to visit me... the problem is that the financial issue have arisen... I have a minor financial glitch and I was... (413 words)

I'm scared to have sex with my boyfriend who is 11 years older than me

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 year old and since i've been 14 im attracted to older man. My first boyfriend that lasted 2 years and half was 28 and i was 14, he was the best he used to take me out to eat, picked me up at school, took me out ect. We kissed, hugged and touched never oral or penetrating ... (285 words)

An old friend that ruined my life is moving in on the guy I love!

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very much head over heels for this guy lets call him Troy. Troy is my ex-BF and we broke up because i was pushing him away because after my last Bf and every other male in my life i find it very hard to trust guys. But when i started to trust him i became very scared and ... (351 words)

My boyfriend left me after I became pregnant, what do I do?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am 26 and have been with my current boyfriend who is 36 for a year. When we met he was having a 6yrs girl with the ex-girlfriend. Our relationship was quite ok for all the time we were together. He didn't want us to have a baby until i become 28, hence I tried my best to ... (173 words)

G/f needed time off and changed her mind

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - about 3 weeks ago my girfriend decides that she needed some time and want to focus on herself and figure out what she wanted to do after graduating from college. we dated through a long distance relationship and everything was great and were making plan for her to live with me ... (287 words)

I like this guy, but I only want to date him in private. What to do?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy i like and i have liked and known him for a over a year now... but i think im starting to like him more... I find myself always needing to talk to him or think about him or talk about him... I also have been known for well being a good girl but talk about ... (173 words)

Keep it casual or a long term thing

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a casual dating relationship with a guy. He recently asked me if I wanted to "keep it casual or make it a long term thing". If he asked that, does it mean he wants more or is he just curious to know what I think?... (47 words)

Completely devestated that g/f left me

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Going to be a semi-long story but here it goes. Basically, almost 2 months later I am completely devastated that my girlfriend left me. We were together for 2 1/2 years, almost 3 years it would've been this June. Now, the reason for the break up is complicated. I reali... (661 words)

How important are those butterflies?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering if I should marry my boyfriend... We have been dating for almost a year, and I really enjoy his company. He is kind, thoughtful, fun, and we have very similar backgrounds and ideas on life. However, I have never had those "butterflies" about him. We started ... (165 words)

Why is he flirting with me if he doesn't like me?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy i liked since ever we would always flirt but he would always be mean to me saying i should shave my face and i'm effin ugly and i know his joking cuz he always smiles and continues flirting well today i decided that i wantted to text him we texted and he kept ... (319 words)

Dating but ex has popped back into my life and I don't know what to do

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for 4 years. We just moved into a condo together. My ex from a few years ago just popped back into my life. Things with my current boyfriend are not great. We fight a lot, and we seem not to agree on anything anymore. The ex that came back ... (133 words)

No sex with me but looking at porn

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've never done this before, but then again...I've never had the sort of problem that I have now. I am 26, and have a bf that is 28. When things started out, they were good. My bf seemed really into me. Lately, (and we've been together a year and two months), he ... (284 words)

I got pregnant from being raped but lied and told husband the baby was his

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help, my husband and i is sufffering right now, he works abroad, last june3 i was raped, and a month ago he comes home,after that i noticed i was pregnant but not with my husband and with the person who raped me whom i dont know from nowhere. i never told my husband ... (265 words)

Do I need medication? I have an irritability problem

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always had a bit of an irritability problem, and i try to control it. When i say irritability i mean that if someone ask 5 times are you feeling ok or are you sure you dont want to go with me? it tends to get on my nerves so bad i will yell out the answer and usually ... (185 words)

He broke up but wants to be friends and I want more!

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12 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi! My bf and I just broke up in this past week. We have been best friends for quite a while, and were really in love (yes, I'm 15--I know you're going to say we aren't in love, but let's move on from that). We broke up because we were too busy and he didn't have the time to ... (242 words)

Boyfriend is nothing but a pothead!

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is nothing but a pothead. I can't stand it. He's stuck in a dead end minimum wage job because he can't pass a drug test. He never follows through with anything at all. All he does is get high then eat everything in the house. The biggest problem is we're going to ... (195 words)

I'm a teenage horndog

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 14 -soon to be 15 year old guy and me and my girl friend are in a very high level of "LIKE". any ways i love her to peices and we do everything together so great.........but ihave two problems....okay me and my gf make out all the time..she loves doing it and so do ... (216 words)

I destroyed any chances of being with him again

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to apologize first because this is long but I am very desperate now so please help me. My ex and I were together for one month. That one month was amazing. We connected at first site. Long story short it was special. It was a short but strong relationship. We... (600 words)

He said how lucky my future husband will be

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy friend of mine told me this: " I hope that your future husband realizes how lucky he is to have someone like you." ? This guy and I were talking and he just randomly told me this. He told me he liked me, and then he just said that. I remember thinking, future HUSBAN... (144 words)

DId I really deserve all this?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my 20's, my boyfriend of 2years is in his 30's but I love him so so much. First of all, the problem started when I found out he cheated during a period he was treating me somehow and distanced himself from me. I forgave him, we tried working things out, then I found a ... (602 words)

My sister says she hates me

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my sister but every time I ask her if she loves me, she says no. Then when I say I love you to her, she says I hate you to. Now I know she doesn't mean this 80% of the time, but it still makes me upset when she says this. I have heard her say I love you and care about ... (168 words)

What is the most reasonable approach in choosing which guy to date?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First I would like to thank anybody who is kind enough to read this and give me some advice. Now here is the story, I have a friend that I've know for a long time of which I kind of dated (not officially) for little while, but lost interest because I just couldn’t find hi... (343 words)

Dating but have no feelings for him

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month now. We've been in a difficult situation together because before we went out, he went out out with my ex-best friend (who was my "best friend" at the time) and she played with his feelings a lot, and broke up with him more than ... (268 words)

Pregnant with abusive husband's child! Do I tell him?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My name is Brooke and I am 24 years old. I met my best friend Mike, when we were in high school. We spent many hours hanging out and just being there for each other. 18 months ago he walked me down the aisle when I married the man off my dreams. We had a ... (393 words)

Grown children still making mistakes

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12 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, my children are very stubborn and it’s very difficult to make them change their mind when they are up to something. How can I teach them other way? I always pay the price for their mistakes, because ,they never want to follow my advice. I don't know ,how did I make it so... (102 words)

Kiss Me dot com?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend is 50, a widower from his second marriage. I'm 48, never married. We met through an online dating service, matching 22 of 22 categories. We have been going out for over a month. We have a great time together. I feel as though he is the one I have been looking ... (183 words)

Telling a girl you want to be in a serious relationship

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you tell a girl you want to be in a serious relationship with her? she told me that she likes me, and she kissed me when we were together last, but she also said that she's never had a serious boyfriend, that she's always been used (i don't want her to feel like i'm ... (179 words)

How long does cramping last when pregnant?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am pregnant and i was wondering how long does it take for this cramping to stop and how soon does it start i want to know if its normal. Sometimes it even feels like it came and when i look nothing's there. Help thanks... (47 words)

Very complicated situation and I don't know if I should leave my boyfriend

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story. Thank you for taking the time to read this! My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. When we first dated, I had just left an abusive relationship and eventually had to place a restraining order against my ex. I truly should have taken the time to h... (1429 words)

Can't get turned on

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my boyfriend were having sex and i could not get turned on i don't know what wrong if its me or him but i would like to have sex with him and get turned on. this is the first time that this has happened we have sex lots of time and i always get turned on and i can ... (71 words)

I'm not sure if I'm what he wants physically

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - before my husband and i got married it seemed as if he had a completely different sex drive. we've only been married a few months, but i can't help but feel unattractive towards him. before we got together he had many different sexual partners, and tried hooking up with a lot ... (131 words)

He's going to a party as a female and wants me to help dress him

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends who is male recently told me a secret of his. It's not uncommon, he gets turned on by wearing girls clothes and has fantasies of having sex with girls whilst in girls clothes. This isn't a problem with me, however... There's a fancy dress party comi... (202 words)

Need thoughts..tricky situation

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12 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my gf had been together for almost 2 years. We lived about 50 miles apart and still managed to see each other almost every day. I honestly did everything i possibly could to make her a happy girl. I mean it wasnt a perfect relationship, but i would definitely say it was ... (904 words)

Why does he stare if he doesn't care?

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12 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy since September 2008 and i like him, i think he likes me but then again i'm not sure. He's always talking to me, touching me(arm,thigh),complimenting me on my clothing, staring at me in class and when i walk by him in the hallways, teasing me, we ... (246 words)