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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this close friend too close?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been living away from our home for work for most of the past year, I see him once a week now, and he is not really a phone person, so it's short phonecalls only during the week, I've been finding it hard, but when I see him everything is ok, so I try to put up ... (196 words)

Did my condition affect his libido?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He is 35 years old. I am concerned because my boyfriend and I have not had penetrative sex for well over a year now. The last time we had penetrative sex was extremely painful for me and I couldn't help but yell out in pain. ... (290 words)

I want to keep her away from my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend just recently confessed to each other and we went on a date yesterday. We have been seeing each other for almost a year now but yesterday was the first time we went on a date. We watched a movie at the mall then after the movie he told me that one of my ... (194 words)

Is it bad if I make out with her boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was dating a guy and we broke up. He has another girl friend and we are just friends even though I still love him more than anything. Last night I was at his bar mitzvah and he pulled me outside and we started making out. I am talking to him right now and he said he can ... (111 words)

Raped and now pregnant

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have a very difficult problem,Around 2 months ago I was raped. Now he is in jail and facing many years but although I am happy about that, I'm very depressed. Last week I found out I was pregnant. And I know it was by him because not only was I awake when I was rape... (207 words)

On anti-depressants, could this effect my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm newly on Venlafaxine anti-depressants to stop panic attacks in my sleep caused by an anxiety disorder. My period is late. I have been having protected sex with my boyfriend but could the tablets have caused a mess up in my hormones which has delayed my period? Any advice w... (55 words)

How do I become less predictable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've become so predictable in everthing I do my friends and family always know what I am going to say or do, and it's getting me nowhere cause people get bored of being around me. I do occasionally do unpredictable things and get noticed for a while but otherwise I'm always in ... (118 words)

Female professor in love with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a big problem. It's been two years know since I've been seeing my professor. In the beginning I felt extremely strange being that I never had inclinations towards the same sex. She started by asking me to stay after class to help. I found it to be more like a girl ... (404 words)

I had sex with my ex...I think I might be pregnant. I need your 'compassionate' advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant, Me and my ex boyfriend had sex 2 weeks on Saturday but I started taking my birth control pill (I know BIG MISTAKE)but now I don't know if I may be pregant. We did not use protection but I went and got the morning after pill but the woman ... (134 words)

Why is he lying to his ex about us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months and he is crazy about me, he wants to see me every night, texts me in the day. I believe he loves me but...he lies to his ex girlfriend about us making out we are not serious and almost taking the mickey out of me. how do I approach ... (77 words)

My friends seem so fed up with me...I don't know what I'm doing wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't seem to stay on the good side of people who are suppose to be my friends. Am I doing something wrong? I'm at university, and I'm coming to the end of my first year. As the year has gone on, I feel like people are starting to get fed up with me. I always try and p... (238 words)

Need advice on giving a good hand-job...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can you give a -fast- hand job , fast as in the pace , cause my bf always asks me to do it faster but i find it hard, and he slips from my hand, the only way i can do it faster is by staying in the middle and like shaking the skin up and down but not actally going up and ... (68 words)

What do you think? Is chivalry really dead or do gentlemen still exits?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a big fan of classic period dramas and books such as Pride and Prejudice and North and South. I love how women are treated in this era and how men are respectable gentlemen. I know i am not alone in this thought and that many women love this period for its romance etc.... (138 words)

I made the talent show but I'm nervous, any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here is the deal, i finally made my talent show this year and i am singing but i noticed that when i sing when nervous my voice changes so i was wondering if anyone knew any techniques that i could use to help me not be so nervous?... (49 words)

Need suggestions on getting over a first love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How long did it take to get over your first love? I was with mine for 25 Months and 15 Months on from the Split i still think of him everyday is this normal?? We split up due to him wanting space, there is no one else with him and never has been, he had a emotional breakd... (83 words)

I don't want to, but I keep snooping around in his personal things. How do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He's honest and great, but how should i stop being so clingy with my boyfriend and snooping around his phone as well as e-mails? I know this is a big turn off for guys, what should i just know or keep in mind so that i don't have the urge to do this, i'm scared i might be ... (67 words)

Female teacher. Female student. I have deep feelings for her, but I've got to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16, 17 in September and I have finished school and I am halfway through my GCSE's. I had a few issues with one of my ex-teachers; as I am not coming back to my old school next year, she is now an ex-teacher. The story is long, but basically she was found out of imp... (376 words)

I'm having the hardest time talking to my crush and school's about to end! Help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having the hardest time trying to talk to my crush. Even saying "Hi." feels like the ultimate thing to do. I've liked him since the end of last year. We used to talk and goof around a bit but we were never really friends. But this year, he found out that I like him. ... (387 words)

What can I or my boyfriend do to make the taste of his semen better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

24 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am a male who enjoys giving fellatio to other men. I usually put on condoms on the men I am giving the blowjob to. I do this to prevent the spread of disease and because of the taste of semen I did not like. I have found a man that is healthy and has no diseases. He wants me ... (114 words)

I'm stuck in the middle between a problem relating to my mum and my sister and I hate it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys am in a real tricky situation... my mum recently found out about my sister's boyfriend whom is a different religion to us... they claim they want to get married and my mum is realllly upset about it... for the last two days she has been crying on my shoulder... the ... (130 words)

Dumped him, shouted at him, made him think I'm an idiot and now like him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with a guy quite a while ago - well a few months. I haven't had a boyfriends since but he's had one girlfriend. When I dumped him a few months ago, he acted really childishly and we had a few big arguments. I said some things I didn't mean and now he must think I'm ... (125 words)

Why has my EX added me to his Facebook?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My ex has added me on Facebook,but he has a girlfriend. I can't understand why he has added me?. We dated for a few months in 2004,then we didn't see each other again till 2005,and during some of the time in 2006.It was strange,because we didn't actually break up,we jus... (437 words)

One minute I think he really likes me, the next I think he doesn't. I'm confused by his behaviour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I like this guy at school, and my intuition tells me that he likes me back... but he hasn't come to talk to me yet, I just gave him my email yesterday... he and his friends kept smiling back at me afterward... but now I still haven't heard from him. He has tried coming up to ... (183 words)

I want to get with him but don't want to upset me friend over it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so there is this guy that I like, let's call him Ray, everyone kept telling me that he liked me, based on the way he was acting, but I wasn't totally sure. he asked me to hook up with him and I said yes. On the day when we were supposed to get together, we wer... (261 words)

My fiance is acting so strange and I don't know why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance has recently started making weird statements and acting bizarrely and I've no idea why. He doesn't appear to be stressed so I can't understand it. He's been saying that his stomach stinks, which sounds weird to me, and also trying to pick a fight with any woman w... (113 words)

I really don't know what I'm doing in a relationship without a name.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started talking to this guy who is my best friend's school mate. We hit it off really well and finally fell for each other. He told me he more than likes me and that he will wait till I am 100 percent ready and only then will he officially propose to me. We ... (265 words)

Family and relationship problems. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: There are 2 problems here} wow ok i need ALOT of advice, i have no clue what to do on so many things. first off my mom is an alcholic and she drinks like every other day and i cant stand it...she divorced my dad for being a drunk and now she is and i think my s... (258 words)

Extreme opposites...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

24 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am very confused about how I should feel about my GF. She lies to me about little things that don't matter, but it makes me wonder if I can trust her about real issues. For example, she is under my phone plan, so I get details about her phone usage (just when and how much, I ... (305 words)

Husband is a great man and wonderful father but we have no emotional connection. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 19 years now. My husband is a responsible man of integrity. He is a wonderful father, doesn't raise his voice or namecall...we have 4 beautiful children. However, I feel unloved by him. We have no connection emotionally. No passion. What makes him ... (164 words)

Who does he like better... me or my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm writing this for my friend. She's kinda shy about talking or asking questions to people over the internet. My friend is in the 11th grade and she has a crush on 11th grader like me. (Lets call him al)Anyway keeps telling me about him here are ALL of the things she ... (245 words)

My friend keeps thinking she's a vampire!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my friend *Emma has just turned 15. The thing is she keeps thinking she is a vampire. It started around halloween last year like pretending she was a vampire and it was a laugh but she continued with it. When she started to read Twilight and saw the film she be... (412 words)

Boyfriend's ex constantly asks him for things and he's too nice to say no... What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im seeing this great guy, so kind and caring and we get on so well. He has two children, this was hard but i accepted this, its hard sometimes as we cant spend loads of time together, but the real problem is his ex.....the kids mum, he can't say no to her, she will say can i ... (185 words)

Is it wrong for him to like me even with the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who is three years older than me. IF he did fancy me and he wrote on here to ask what to do about it, or even whether to do something about it, what advice would you give him? Would you think that it's wrong for a 19 year old boy to like a three years younger ... (86 words)

How do I show him I really like him without being too forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 (soon to be 17) dating a 19 year old for nearly a month. We aren't official yet, but it's getting there. The age doesn't concern me, my problem is the fact that I've NEVER been in a relationship before, I've never even kissed a guy. This guy is the first guy to like me, ... (313 words)

Twenty-eight, family still dictates, no friends, no boyfriend, miserable as heck, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - why is being middle child a nightmare.i always treated like i am stupid.i am 28 years old and my father is still telling me what to do.telling me where i can go and what i am allowed to spend my money on.telling me what i am able for or not.i have ask him can i do this or ... (88 words)

Big problem, no sex with wife, she stays out with friends? til 12, what can I do, going nuts here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

24 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 10 yrs and have two children. My problem is that my wife and I haven't had sex since Christmas eve. I keep asking her whats wrong with me/us and her excuse everytime is that she isn't interested and is turned off that I drop hints about having sex and ... (242 words)

I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would be immune to it by now. Any... (103 words)

I am a married Indian woman, pregnant by a married black man who wants me to divorce my husband., what would be best?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a twenty three year old married Indian woman. My husband has been working overseas for the last two years. He last visited me in November 2007, when we spent two weeks together. I spent my birhday in December 2007 with my parents where I met Bryan. i was introduced to ... (380 words)

Friends told my teacher I liked him, not true, I told him that, should I say more to clear the air?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyboy!!! Well my problem is that my school is finishing up for the summer in four days and I was wondering what to say to my teacher. I have known this teacher for three years now and we have become sort of like friends. A whlie ago my friends told him that I fancied ... (180 words)

I need more open signs of affection, he is reluctant, how concerned should I be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've had this conversation with my boyfriend--about how I want more demonstrations of love (just simple things--ie; a note on facebook about me, a personal poem, something simple like that..) and how it's grating my nerves to have to ask for that when it ought to be an ... (220 words)

Wanted to marry me everyday, now wants to take it one day at a time, what gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem I have been seeing this guy for 3 months, he is 10 years younger than me, from the first week he was telling me he loved me and that he knew that i was the one he wanted to be with and marry we get along great together, he lives 2 hours away but comes down ... (173 words)

He changed, we broke up, was it the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, who is fifteen, just broke up with me a few days ago, right before our year anniversary. He said that I was too emotional and needy, which I probably was, having gone through an extremely tough year. However, the break up came somewhat out of nowhere. He wanted ... (289 words)

Can't get my boyfriend to stop watching porn, what can I do to change this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh boy, where do I start. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, he's everything I've ever wanted in a person; faithful as hell-we basically see each other everyday or every other day and he does so much to prove how much he care for me. Around the time we made 4 months... (766 words)

Mom and dad separated, but dad still lives with us, people talk about him behnd his back, what can I do to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok...real problem in my head right now... my mom and dad are seperated but he still lives in our house because he has no where else to go... but he's really making my mom mad because he takes stufff without asking, and acts all high and mighty but my mom also has her share o... (119 words)

His actions are very strange and secretive, what is the reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy in the internet. He lives in the US and just came to Singapore for a vacation. He was born in Singapore and he usually goes here for a vacation. He told he'll be back in the US but then, he decided to stay and told me it's because of me. We fell in love the first ... (491 words)

Wrong to have sex with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im a singal gal n i fall for my cousin who happen to be a hunk. he came n stay with my family for about 2 yrs now cus he studin near my place. last week my parent were out so i was along with my cous. i wore a set of black semi-transparent lingerie n knock on his bedroom d... (299 words)

From two different cultures, but love each other, what now?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice versa. it's hard becuase i ... (182 words)

I love you is overrated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well with my last few boyfriends, they have always said "I love you" in the first few days of us going out. It really bugged me, and I did kind of love them but it was more of a crush/fancying them at that stage. How can I stop guys I date from saying "I love you" too soon? I ... (100 words)

Stealing, lying, cheating! Should I trust her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am basically looking for advice as I fear my decisions are absed on love clouding my judgement. I have been dating my gf for 5 years. During that time we have had virtually no problems with our relationship. The only time I brought our trust into question was when I f... (273 words)

I have a good guy but because of my past, I can't trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every man thats ever been in my life except my dad and current boyfriend has hurt me and its given me really bad trust issues. My mum and dad broke up when i was about ten months old and so ive never known them to be together. I have really good parents regardless, they... (1034 words)

Husband says he doesn't love me because he doesn't feel loved by me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 years old have been with my husband for 17 years and married for nearly 11. We have had the usual marriage probs but have always pulled through until a few days ago he dropped the bomb shell that he no longer loves me. I'm devastated, we have talked about this and he ... (171 words)

My boyfriend is like a doormat

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Don't get me wrong i love my boyfriend to bits. He means the world to me and i couldnt imagine my life without him but he lets his friends walk all over him. If his best friend rings him up and asks him to drop everything hes doing to go miles away to his house for a drink he ... (340 words)

We both like him, he flirts with both of us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age - So theres this guy at school. Hes hilarious, cute, sweet and fun to be around. But the problem is, my best friend and I both like him. We know we both do, and he flirts with both of us! I don't know who he likes more, and if either one of us end up going out with him the other ... (94 words)

I'm not even 16 but he won't stop talking about "doing it"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just finished year 11 at school. It was a great day everyone had fun and most the girls and some of the boys cried. Then there was the leavers party that night. It all went well till two of my mates left at 8 and I was left to hang out with a bunch of guys I'd just me... (292 words)

Broken up, so why is he still calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My bf broke up with me, but he still calls me every once and a while. Why is he still calling ? He has made it clear that he doesn't want me and my hurt starts all over again when I talk to him because I still love him. Should I avoid his calls?... (54 words)

Is it true men like the chase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this new guy, we have been dating for 2 weeks, but ive become obsessed, dreaming about him, thinking about him everyday, wanting to speak to him every day (but i dont) as i dont want to scare him off.... im 22 is this normal? im worried im thinking to much into this and ... (93 words)

I hired a prostitute... but couldn't get an erection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

24 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 27 year old guy. I'm a virgin, and for the last few years have been getting concerned about my situation. I haven't really gone out much in my twenties. But do enjoy it when I do get out. I have kinda withdrawn a bit. It's not that I'm not good looking. I have had... (354 words)

Embarrassed of my parent's addiction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and we have a great relationship, although I've been keeping something from him. One of my parents is addicted to drugs. I want to tell him as we share everything but I'm afraid he will judge us. I don't know... should I be worried?... (57 words)

Is it possible that semen could reach my vagina and I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hey.. I have something bothering me all day and I need some advice.. Yesterday I was with my boyfriend and we were fooling around. I've never had sex, and we were making out. We were naked and I gave him oral sex. He came on his stomach and a bit got on mine. Afterwards I wip... (105 words)

She talked me into buy a jacket simply so SHE could borrow it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, a few weeks ago me and a friend went shopping as i needed to buy a jacket to go out in. My friend found this gorgeous one for £65 and said i should try it on... which i did and liked but it was a little out of my price range. Anyway... we carried on looking around a... (201 words)

I feel like vomiting when I see them around each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a complicated predicament. So, I was with my boyfriend for a bit over two years, we broke up for a while and he started dating my best friend. This tore me to pieces, it was the worst emotional pain I have ever felt to see them as a couple. They broke up after awhile a... (149 words)

Help! I would love to be more than just her friend but am scared if she rejects me I'll lose that friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with one girl which I had known for 4 years. At the current moment, we are very close friends. I had always wanted to start a relationship with her, however, I got this feeling that she just treats me as a good friend and afraid that she might reject me. When this ... (86 words)

Will I get him? Our families are against our love

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a hindu .i'min love with a muslim boy. his paprents wont allow us to marry . he loves me lot. my parents too wont allow us to marry . he also want to marry me but all his friends and cousins are against it . hey cupid our,s is true love . will i get him???... (57 words)

I have proof that he is cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Kay I have poof that's my husband is cheating on me with a co worker. I found out by reading his emails. He stopped being wanting sex for a while and that just got me thinking there's something wrong. When I read one of his emails. It said that he is meeting the slut at a motel ... (102 words)

Guy asked me out and then disappeared

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this guy on the internet for about a month now. We get along fine and flirt a lot, we have everything in common. We met once already and he asked me to a movie this weekend. I said yes. The day before we were supposed to go he said he already went and saw ... (145 words)

I'm over the clubbing scene but my friends are so into it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friends have now gone into this phase where they're in love with clubbing and go every friday and sat of the weekend. since they go so often they normally get free entry and bouncers dont even bother to check their id anymore. i used to go clubbing last year with other ... (170 words)

We are broken up although we still love each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well since my bf had to go to canada for his college(he's canada based indian)we broke up...we were in a realtion for around 6 months...we really love eachother n still care for and respect eachother.he was my senior... 1 and a half year back he had a gf of 1 yr and ahe had ... (172 words)

Recovering from anorexia but still have concerns

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24 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hello. I am currently recovering from anorexia, and I feel like I have reached a bit of a hurdle. I got to a very low weight and was nearly hospitalized, but I managed to turn things around with the help of my mom and psychologist and get better. I am a lot better than how ... (301 words)

He was staring at my butt

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Poster's age is 19, this is highly unlikely after reading the post. Hi.I know this kid he's rides my bus.And I want to know if you guys think he likes me so here it is.My story.The kid who rides my bus is soooo cute.He sits just across from me on my bus and I ten... (217 words)

Still a virgin and also, how do I help my friend?

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24 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old nd still a virgin. I've been called romantic and sensitive. Isn't that what all girls like? I can't seem to get a girl. Even if my life depended on it. Help!!!... Also, my friend has a cheating boyfriend. I love her more than anything. I need idea's on how t... (69 words)

I'm tired of people asking me if I'm pregnant!

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ever since I was in middle school, people have constantly asked me if I was pregnant. It gets on my nerves. In church when I was middle school age, this woman came up to me, put her hand on my stomach, looked at me and said, "Are we having a little baby? Cos I just love little ... (568 words)

How do I get her to go on the pill?

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24 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this is awkward... but anyways we've been having sex for quite some time now --i wear condoms when we have sex --i tell her to be on the pill, but she doesnt want too --she doesnt want to be on the pill because she would get the pill through insurance since its cheaper... (155 words)

I'm really worn out from all the sex! How do I get that through to her?!!

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24 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend needs me to have sex with her three times a day. I use to love it but now i'm can't even say no to her without her crying and I can't stand hearing her so I give in. I'm really wore out from all the sex. I told her to cut it down she ... ... (60 words)

My ex or my good boyfriend?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heres the deal I dated this guy when I was 13 and he was 15. We'll I ended it then becuase he cheated on me. We stayed friends which may seem weird to some people but it seemed to work for us. Thing is even after 8yrs, I still have feelings for him. A few months ago we met up ... (218 words)

Do you think he's shady or I'm just paranoid?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who is in the air force, he´s stationed in Alabama. I met him 1 year ago in one of his TDYs. Since then we´ve been keeping in touch as friends by email and for special holidays on the phone. He´s married, but we have never touched any topic relating to ... (223 words)

I'm insecured and it's driving my boy away!

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - And its making my boyfriend of 13 months to nearly give up on me after giving me my last chance to change! I hate to admit it but i get bugged when he goes out with his friends because there might be a girl, i get mad when he talks to a new girl for example over myspace, even ... (168 words)

Is it me or is it because of his ex?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile now and we spend the entire week together cos we attend the same school. But recently, we fought because I saw his ex-girlfriend blog, writing stuffs about him and that he is still contacting her. I asked the question alot of ... (529 words)

Hand-job Disaster

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay sooooo my 1st bf and i (i'm his 1st gf too) very recently just experimented by taking things to 3rd base..i did the basing. to be precise, i gave him a hand job, a pretty weak one seeing as i had no clue what i was really doing. but it did do the trick after a few minutes ... (194 words)

Just how often does the average male masturbate?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just how often does the average male masturbate? my guy freind told me it was like 4 times a DAY..is that true?? and do they really use pictures that often to do it? for some reason that really creeps me out, the thought of a guy doing that while looking at a picture of me =\ ... (61 words)

He has shown sexual interest, but how soon is too soon to have sex?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on a date with a guy I really like. He is almost ten years older then me but that doesnt bother me at all, however he has indicated that he is interested in me sexually as well. I feel the same spark as he does and would do it in a heart beat but Ive been told that ... (94 words)

My boyfriend gets on my nerves!

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I havent een together very long and he's already getting on my nerves. He's thinks we need to spend every day together or talking on the phone. When we cant he gets mad at me. For example he went out of town today and it didnt bother me. But when I told him i ... (119 words)

When does it mean when a guy says he wants to be in a relationship with you but is too busy?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when a guy says he doesn't want you to wait around for him, like if he's busy with finishing school and doesn't have time for a relationship, even though he wants to be in one with you. what does he really mean? guys say this all the time, but in my opinion, i feel like they ... (67 words)

After he moved, he's been ever so distant

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24 May 2009 (F)

- Im confused with whats going on with my bf. He recently moved to a different town for work, he said he would miss me lots and will visit me heaps and he wanted to continue our relationship long distance. After he first moved away, things were normal, for about a week, he... (481 words)

My soccer coach and I have bonded but what should I do?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I don't know what to think right now. So I feel like I've gotten to know my soccer coach well this season. I think we've bonded well together. During and after games, he'd always congratulate me by patting me on the back, he'd joke around with me (more than with ... (260 words)

I want a divorce but I'm worried he will take my baby from me!

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends, Please help me! I am unhappy in my marriage. My husband doesn't love me but he doesn't want to get a divorce. I don't wanna see him. I also stopped loving him. We have a baby. And this makes everything more difficult to get a divorce. My husband told me that ... (107 words)

Can't get him out of my mind

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Fell in love with this guy 3 years ago, he moved away and never left a forwarding address.... I've "moved on" in every other way, but sometimes I still think about him, I have colorful dreams about him. It's frustrating because if he's gone, I want him to be gone, I don't want ... (79 words)

Am I letting old feelings get in the way?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - k... here's the story. Me and this guy have been going out for a while now. He really loves me and i'm not sure if i feel the same way anymore. It is starting to get really boring and he is starting to get annoying sometimes. the only problem is that i have thought about what ... (414 words)

How can I break things off without damaging our friendship for good?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a bit of a conundrum. A very close male friend and I have been sleeping with each other on and off for that last year. I have deeper feelings for him, and he does not reciprocate them saying that because his job is moving him in July, it isn't fair etc etc. I guess m... (135 words)

What do you think? Is he into me?

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24 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Well, I've met this guy for a month already, we went out a couple of times, had sex, and we were still ok with each other. I havent see him for 2 weeks already, cause he started working and he says he is tired. We talked very often on the MSN or he even texts me. If he ... (86 words)

Doubting her sincerity!

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24 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am really starting to doubt the girl been seeing. We used to hang out a lot, but now all she wants to do is hang out with her friends on weekends and stuff. She never asks me if I want to come and I have never met any of her friends. It seems like if I want to make plans sh... (219 words)

The long run? Or just one thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

24 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this is a total mess and i'm writing it on here to get 'advice' NOT 'critiscm' please. im almost 16 by the way (next month) but extremely mature for my age, i look about 18-19 (so people say) anyways that was just for those people that will start saying the person im ... (666 words)