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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Dating a high school girl, is it right or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't stress the fact that I have not dated a High School girl since I finished High School 3 years ago, okay, not even one. I'm 20 now and dating a soon to be 18 year old girl in Grade 12, and I was iffy on it at fist too but I have several friends who have done this a... (176 words)

A bad kisser, do I see if he can improve or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i kissed this guy i like...and he wasnt very good. He thrusted his tongue in my mouth several times which i didnt like. overall i didnt like his kissing techniques. i wont want to kiss him again unless he doesnt kiss like that. should i not like him anymore because of this? ... (95 words)

Unrequited love, please help me to fall out of love with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's the age old problem... I am deeply and irrevocably in love with a guy who doesn't love me back and I swear its killing me. I was really wondering how I can fall out of love with him, I guess he's like a drug to me so i think i should probably extract myself completely, but ... (110 words)

Suggestions for brittle, yellow nails?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i really need some info. My nails are yellow like bad no matter what i do they won't get better and they're easily broken. I drink plenty of water and eat really healthy but nothing helps. I've tried not using much nail polish and i've tried using the nail polish that can... (88 words)

So what's the big deal about viginity?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this really isn't a question. Truth is I don't see why people make such a big deal about sex and virginity. I don't find it such a big deal losing it. I mean I'm 16 I'm still a virgin and I believe that you know you should wait until you think you're ready or in love or ... (101 words)

How do you tell someone you love them when they don't love you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you tell someone you love them when you know they don't love you back but the feeling has been killing you because you have to keep it inside?... (30 words)

Is this a threesome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, yesterday, my best friend (female), her boyfriend, and I (female) engaged in sexual activites. We were thinking about it this morning, and were unsure what to call it. He did not penetrate me, but he did with her. We all got off, and we were just wondering what we should ... (59 words)

One man, 2 girl best friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Right I have a girlfriend called Abbie but there's a big problem. Her best friend Sophie I think likes me because she is showing signs that she likes me. Also Sophie is the girlfriend of one of my best friends! I tried a classic trick the good things and bad things suprisingly ... (131 words)

New crush... what should I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So im way into this guy who i have hung out with a couple times. Hes incredible! He makes me laugh, and hes extremely intelligent. He is my ideal package. So this last saturday, he took me out and then after the date we made out like rockstars all night. My only concern is...is ... (222 words)

Why can't I find a guy who wants to commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 28 year old female, who is a single mother to a beautiful daughter. I left her father 4 years ago, and for the first 2 years i have enjoyed the single life. However for the past 2 years since i have felt ready to settle down, all i seem to get is one user after t... (189 words)

Please help me, my heart is broken in pieces.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, About 4-5 weeks ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years agreed to go on a 2 week break. At the time I was glad because I felt like I didn't want a girlfriend anymore. I didn't realize however that I had been goin through a stage of depression thus taking everything o... (764 words)

I'm almost at breaking point...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok heres the situation im a stay at home mom to a beautiful 2 year old girl. I have no social life whatssoever I have one friend in the state i live in and she lives over an hour away from me and is busy with her own life. I'm so bored and lonley i dont know what to do i live ... (129 words)

What would you consider "slutty"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend text me mid-afternoon and says 'Hey Babe I need you to give me a strip show this weekend. Can you find something slutty to wear for me?' I'm up for it... But what is considered slutty? And what else can I do..a lap dance, what? Any suggestions ... (66 words)

I'm a guy and I'm in love with another man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Org, I am head over heels in love with a guy for a few months now. He works in a drug store in the town I live and I fell in love with him the first time I saw him. I couldn't take my eyes off him which he seemed to had noticed and he kept staring at me. Ever sin... (313 words)

How would you react to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, some useful info, I'm 20 finished 3rd year at University, my girlfriend is 17 finishing Grade 12 High School, dating for 2 and a half months. Now apparently and I just found out about this today, she's going with a guy friend to Prom, I took it as an insult and she d... (481 words)

Saggy vagina at this age???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this sounds disgusting but it had really been bugging me, people say that grannys have vaginas with their flaps hanging out the bottom and that it is disgusting, well... I'm only 13 and I have that problem, is this normal or am I 'saggy'?? Thanks in advance x... (51 words)

He cheated before on his wife and on me, now what is up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - has my partner really changed? we have known each other since he was married 6 years ago. i was also friends with his wife at the time. they split up on several occasions and this resulted in me and him sleeping together. i concieved a baby but was not 100% sure he was the ... (552 words)

My ex is beginning the process of stalking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is beginning the process of stalking. The only reason there hasn't been any physical contact is because his son is in town, but only for 2 more days. I am scared. He has a short fuse. I know any response even negative (i.e.: changing my phone #) is a positive one in a ... (118 words)

Since she's met this new guy she doesn't seem to have time for me any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend and partner in crime has started dating a guy and now has no time to see me any more. I am lonely and sad.... (27 words)

Should I meet my online fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - met a guy on a social networking site and now we talk everyday on msn. weve seen each other in pics and on cam. we share a lot and i really like him but He wants to meet. should i? im worried he's not going to like me and the way i look in real life.... (57 words)

My boyfriend says that sometimes I am wetter and loser. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend told me that every now and then when we have sex I feel wetter and looser for some reason. He thinks I cheated. Is there any logical reason this could happen. I have not cheated on him.... (42 words)

Should I break things off before he does go elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfirend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He has a really strong sex drive. And my body sometimes can't keep up with it. So when I deny him sex sometimes he'll make me feel guilty about it. Not in a really harsh way. But it still feels like guilt. Then I get ... (150 words)

How can I get over him when I love him so much and invested so many years in him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I'm really having a hard time getting over my ex. When we started dating he was living with someone he said he was divorcing. He said they slept in separate rooms and he was moving out soon. He said that she cheated on him a few times. This man said he loved me before he even ... (413 words)

Head over heels in love with a guy who doesn't love me back

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I've tried eveything possible but i can't help it, i am totally head over heels in love with this guy that clearly doesn't love me back. He could make me the happiest girl in the world if only he loved me. I tried everything to fo... (298 words)

He's the love of my life but his kids always come first to him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I am 20 and I am In a realtionship with a guy whi is also 20 but he has two kids from a previous realationship. I love him and I feel that he is the love of my life. But I can't help but to feel a little selfish because not that I would ever do this but if I were to ... (94 words)

Am I too quick? Am I too sexy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I too quick? Hi, I found a pattern in my love life. I am too quick. I fell in love with my best friend once and took me 13yrs to understand that it cant be it. and to accept that he is not in love with me and made for me and that I am not really in love with him. b... (786 words)

He left me for another girl. How do I move on?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I supported my boyfriend for 2 years financially and emotionally. He was going through a divorce and he lost his job. He owes me a lot of money. Our relationship was mostly platonic, even though we shared a few tender moments over the years. He took his aggression out on me; ... (130 words)

I don't know what to to do anymore. He keeps treating me badly.

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend been living together for a while. But things jus seem to go different lately. He would leave me home and go out and see other woman and come home in the morning. We've been together for 2years plus. He was with ex for six years and then it broke off. He ... (434 words)

I'm so addicted to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid posters, I will break this down so it's not all long and drawn out. In the past all my ex's I have not cared for as much as my new boy friend. I could go a few days without seeing them and hardly even talking to them. But my new boyfriend I really care about. I see ... (176 words)

A guy I like is leaving for the military, should I go with him or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. Ive fallen for this guy who doesnt want a relationship right now because hes leaving for the military and he doesnt want a long distance relationship and neither do i. But we both really like each other and make each other very happy. I dont know what to do. I ... (125 words)

I want my ex gf back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so heres my story. Im 17 and Basically me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months on and off. Weve stopped talking twice before this relationship. The first time was for a week and the second time was for a month. But both for the same reasons. she said that ... (1078 words)

I want another child but he says he is too old

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age - I am about to get married again to a chap who already has children. I am in my early 40's and really want another child before it is too late. My fiance says his days of young children are over and that I must choose between him and being with a man who wants a child as he just ... (151 words)

A tactful solution to my b/f constantly talking about work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all! I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. He's great - really smart and has a very intense job, with tons of pressure and a bizarre management structure that cause a lot of stress. He talks about it constantly, at length. I try to be supportive and listen and ... (133 words)

Could hefall for me in time or is there just no hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi all! im 35 years old and my boyfriend is 43 hes been single for a few years now and was just enjoying dating women. i have children from a previous partner he hasnt got any. we've only been together nine months and in this time it took months for him to decide to commit to ... (180 words)

Is it better to wait for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 and a virigin. I have a bf who's also a virigin (he's my first ever bf) and he really wants to have sex. We came kinda close to doing it once but we've never gone all the way. Part of me really wants to wait til marraige but part of me kinda wants to do. He says ... (121 words)

I pushed her away, but now that she is moving on it hurts me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i dumped my girlfriend because i didnt love her ..i avoided her even when she tried to became a friend and just removed her from my life completely though it was really heart wrenching and hard to achieve..she was genuinely very caring and a real sweet heart .she supported me a ... (258 words)

I can't have sex with her without security - how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am at university, and am currently dating a wonderful woman. However, I don't want to have sex with her just yet (I am a virgin) and be heart-broken if she leaves me due to problems further down the line. It is so easy to end relationships (and even marriage) these days that ... (167 words)

How can I stop picking the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) age - I always end up fancying guys who aren't interested me... or guys who have a girlfriend or possible girlfriend, or guys who don't see like, or liking a guy who is out my league etc. How do I find a guy who is in my league, a guy who isn't full of himself and not overly good ... (145 words)

How do ask ask for help and get it?

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having some trouble communicating effectively with my wife. She is a busy person, however I feel that because she is so extremely busy, she has failed to be responsible for a few things that I really need her to help me with. For example: We don't have children, r... (149 words)

Fighting over whey protein?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my dad wont allow me to take whey protein...i do regular workouts and it is recommended by my trainer....my family just dont want to hear about protein shakes and tell me that it doesnt suit me as i had a kidney stone problem in the past ...i fight with them all the time that ... (107 words)

My husband kisses our baby goodbye but not me. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, this is a silly question, but im seriously wondering. when my husband leaves vor work he dowsmt always kiss me goodbyw, hell kiss the baby anc tell him loves him,but if i dont go for a kiss sometimes im left on the dark.am i reading to far into this or is a serious matter?... (55 words)

I love him but he doesn't even know I exist...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone i realy hope you can help me!!! well here goes... there is this guy at school that i realy like. and it isn't "just a crush" coz it's been nearly 10 months and i still love him like i did that very first day i saw him. But there is only one problem. he doesn't ... (311 words)

My boyfriend is over protective of his email and workplace.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - my boyfriend is very protective of his Blackberry and email. When I checked his auto fill in, a girl he's flirted with at happy hours and sales rallies is the most used name for outgoing mail. She's beautiful and she really enjoys him too. He never lets me be... (371 words)

I'm due on next week and people say my tummy looks a bit big..... could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After my mensuation time i met up wit a guy we did nt hv intercouse bt our genitals touchd. I am 2 recieve my menstuation 12may. Ppl are telin me my stoamach luks abit big. Cud i be pregnant?... (39 words)

I find older women more attractive, physically and intellectually.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 28 years old and I have always preferred older women. the first time I had sex I was 15 and she was 23 and from that point on older women have been my choice. Sure I have been with several younger than me girls but I feel they're immature, and don't know what they ... (161 words)

Why does she need to chat to her ex so much and tell him he's great?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for over a year - but here is where the problem lies.. one of her ex boyfriends keeps creeping into the picture sending her emails and pictures of them together and she's responded to them by calling him or replying back. Also, ... (173 words)

Always picking the wrong guy and end up alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age - I always end up fancying guys who aren't interested me... or guys who have a girlfriend or possible girlfriend, or guys who don't see like, or liking a guy who is out my league etc. How do I find a guy who is in my league, a guy who isn't full of himself and not overly good ... (145 words)

Can someone please explain the process of natural childbirth in detail

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! can someone please explain the process of natural childbirth in detail. starting from contractions right down to bieng stitched down there.thanx... (22 words)

Everyone assumes I'm experienced just because I'm bi. I can't open up to people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to have a girlfriend (I'm also female)and I get on well with lads and identify as being bisexual. Because of this, everyone I know assumes that I'm sexually experienced. In reality I've slept with my ex- girl but never got beyond kissing a boy. I find hard to trust ... (143 words)

No Make-Up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this man for about 2 months now. He saw me makeup-less yesterday and raved about it. I HATE NOT WEARING MAKE UP. He caught me in very good light and my hair looked amazing, but this is rarely the case. It's not what I'm most comfortable with but I would like to ... (77 words)

We are so well suited... But he's not content with JUST me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a gay man in SF...I'm in a relationship (5) years now with a man who confuses me. I'm 38, he's 53 but the age difference doesn't really matter...in many ways we are well matched. We disagree about sex...I want monogamy, he doesn't. The neighborhood and the commu... (119 words)

Dye my hair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so this isn't a relationship question but I have naturally light brown hair. I have never highlighted or dyed it before, and I really want to dye it blonde. But i don't know if i should or not? Because I would have to keep on dying it to cover the roots, and I don't want to ... (92 words)

The relationship with my dad is fading fast and I don't know how to rekindle it. Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 years old and when i was younger i was very close to my dad. i looked up to him all the time. But as i've gotten older that relationship seems to have deteriarated. my mum had two more daughters so my dad now has three daughters. i also play football and the only tim... (299 words)

I'm feeling frustrated with the little affection I get from her in public

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (this is goanna be pieced together kinda oddly, i have allot of scattered thoughts and emotions atm) hey me and my girl have been dating now for 9 months, we love each other dearly, there is no sex in our relationship since she refuses to till she is 18, (I'm 19 and she's 17)... (374 words)

Is this my child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi their i need your help,my wife jst gave birth to our second child 22 days before the EDD.The thing is that before the pregnancy we were on separation for 2months and when we got back togather we made love for 2days and the third day she started her menses later she was ... (58 words)

He abused my trust -- how do I got over it?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been struggling to deal with what my ex has put me through. After we broke up I tryd to get on with my life even tho deep down inside I still loved and wanted him. He was the father of my child we had built a life together. I went thru absolute hell but I did my ... (370 words)

Why do I wish for more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. he has set me straight on wanting to take it slow. no ring in the near future. he enjoys his alcohol and that won't change. i go to church and he only goes on the holidays. he has been unemployed for a while now. i have ... (115 words)

The teasing is really getting to me -- any lines I can use back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I get on the school bus everyday and I usually have a high ponytail. The boys on the bus have started to call me Jet Li, and make weird martial arts noises whenever I walk on and off the bus. They are very popular and I myself am just an average kid. This is extremely embarras... (148 words)

Do best mates make the best lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for advices from both genders and all age groups, thanks! I have heard this saying a number of times already (mainly family and friends trying to give me advice): "Best mates make the best lovers." Is that true?... (43 words)

Seriously guilty over having cheated

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my fiancée very much. Last month I went out with some buddies and cheated on my girlfriend with not 1 but 2 girls I met at the bar. I was really drunk and started flirting with a girl thinking it would never amount to anything, next thing I knew we were at a hotel ... (105 words)

Confused about where the friendship is headed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Please can you read this an honestly tell me. If you saw this happening what would you think is going on? I'd like other peoples’ opinions on what could be going on or what’s up with him before I even attempt to talk to him! Ok he’s in my class. When I first started th... (914 words)

After 3 years he's not acting like a b/f anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I really hope you guys could help me on this one cause I really don’t know what to do..well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I love him more than anything he means the world to me, but recently things haven’t been the same. He moved up north and ... (288 words)

I can forgive him for cheating, but my family can't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years had a great relationship with my family, they loved him. In January he went to Mexico with a group of guys and ended up cheating on me. He told me a few weeks later and we broke up. I was really upset and cried to my mom late one night. The next day ... (335 words)

The first year was great; the last few months not. Am I losing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does she still love me? I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years and for the first year and a bit we were inseparable. Over the last two to three months we haven't been anywhere as near as close as what we used to be, we haven't had sex for nearly three months and ... (103 words)

Why are the first few months the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In a relationship why are the first few months the sex is the best? And after that new love thing is over why do I suddenly get over it and not want to have sex with him anymore? ... (38 words)

Balance between friends and the relationship - has he gone too far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m having a rather annoying problem with my boyfriend. We had been best friends before getting together, and during the time where we became good friends he began to ignore his male friends. For the past few months, 2 or 3, he has been spending a lot of time with his male ... (265 words)

She says she's sleeping with her ex.... is she cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well um I wanna ask for some relationship adivce help idk if this site is good for that but yeahh anyways... this being my 1st real relationship... I have been going out with this girl for about a month starting today.. but it has been a hell of a trip... I met this gir... (526 words)

Not together but know he is the one

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently things have got so weird..we went on a brake as he is having a breakdown right now with work and having trouble sleeping it caused him to be very off with me.. when then a couple of days after the break i couldn't take all this stress and just split with him.. he sa... (358 words)

My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't care if I do or not. But I've ... (182 words)

Age difference. Great relationship. What do I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age - Hi all. I am a 50 year old man, who has just had a 3 month relationship with a 27 year old woman. We hit it off straight away and have enjoyed the most fantastic three months together. We have had numerous weekends away in romantic venues and romantic evenings etc. You now wh... (347 words)

Can someone text too much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently started dating a girl. We've been on 3 dates in two weeks. Currently in the 4th week. Shes been busy this week. (Thats not a fob of story). In the first two weeks we would text a few times aday, a few days a week. Since we've not seen each other we tex... (148 words)

Serious stomach cramps!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I had a major problem yesterday and was wondering if anyone knew what it could be. Yesterday was the first day of my period for this month, and i got some pretty bad stomach cramps it started in the morning and i was thinking that's normal...cramps come with periods....... (158 words)

Unplanned pregnancy, unsupportive partner

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just found out I am pregnant, it wasn't planned. My partner and I have always said we would wait till later in life to discuss children as we are both just not ready yet. I have told my partner who is my whole world and he took the news well at first, He was not happy... (155 words)

My friend is in my dreams...is this a sign of reconcilliation?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! me and my friend fell out 10 days into this year and we havnt spoke since, well nice words anyways. But i keep dreaming of her. its kinda weird. but im leaving school on the 15th of may and ive built a few bridge's with people and because she keeps popping up in my dream... (133 words)

Oral sex? So embarassing!

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7 May 2009 (F)

- please help.. this is soooo embarrassing!! ok so ive been in a few relationships the longest being 4 years and im quite adventurous in bed but the problem is when it comes down to oral sex i get so embarrassed! i dont have a problem recieving it, it's just giving it thats ... (144 words)

Random question hope you can help

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i know you guys are not doctors but i was jsut wondering whether anyone has had this before or whether someone recognizes it? on my tongue it's like a chunk of it is coming off looks like an ulcer but IT'S NOT! i know because i[ve had it for months it's really annoying ... (179 words)

Friend is dating an old ex of mine...why cant I accept them?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why cant i accept them? A few months ago i found out my best mate is going out with an old ex of mine, i felt hurt coz she never came to me 1st asked if i be ok about it. I tried to be ok about it all, but every time i think bout them together i feel angry! I told her i cant ... (140 words)

I feel sick around guys I like....please help?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey um... hoping someone out there can help me with this... this has happened 3 times already and I'm starting to wonder if it's going to be like this for 'ever'... here's an example scenario: i like this guy, or at least believe i do; i like the way he smiles, how he laughs, ... (287 words)

She is ignoring my calls and messages - should I be worried or am I just being immature?

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf is mid 30 and I am mid 20. She is married and divorced with a daughter. She been through a bad relationship before. Added with the age gap, sometimes, I don't know if the things I expect her to do is correct. I need some advices because I am really troubled. ... (375 words)

Sexually incompatible but everything else in our marriage is good!

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for ten years. All 'n all we have a good relationship, except our sex lives. I'd like some "outside perspectives" over what the problem(s) might be, and what others have expereinced, so I appreciate your feedback. We started dating when we ... (770 words)

Pregnant again but the relationship is very rocky at the moment

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 33 year old woman. 18 months ago i got into a relationship with a 20 year old guy and he moved in with me i know he`s alot younger and i wont lie, it has been hard(even thou i look alot younger than i am) about 9 months ago i found out that i was pregnant. at tha... (592 words)

Is my man gay?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my man Gay? I've just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years has been calling a gay chat line every time i'm out of the house. this has been happening for about 5 months. He tells me that he had an addiction to sex chat lines about 8 years ago which he stopped when he... (383 words)

Am I diabetic?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My mum is dibetic, and i had symtoms of diabities, dizziness,blurred vision,thirsty all the time and going to the loo alot a feel like am gonna faint all the time. so i used my mams one touch to take my blood sugar levels and it came back as just one diget 3 is that ... (65 words)

Very complicated question, for a complicated relationship

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A little note about myself I've had a long history of depression through out my life. I've been dating a girl for almost two years now. She's 23 years old and I myself am 21. The relationships is a bit odd since we met through the internet and met up then it picked up from t... (428 words)

She went back to her ex!

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7 May 2009 (M)

age - She Went Back to Her Ex When I met Dee, she had been out of an abusive relationship for six months. Her ex is an unemployed alcoholic who used to physically and mentally abuse her. She had to take out a court injunction and seek Police help to protect her from this very vio... (746 words)

Pregnancy test came back negative but I still havent got my period!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My period is almost three weeks late and i have been experiencing several pregnancy symptoms. Increased fatigue, increase in vaginal discharge, and today i felt some sharp stabbing-like pain in my upper left abdomen. I have taken a clear blue colour change tip pregnancy test ... (93 words)

We have flirted in the past now he is totally ignoring me!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age - I need some help. I really like this guy at my school. I’ve liked him for about 4 months now. He has a girlfriend at a different school. We have flirted in the past, and played around joking and stuff. Then randomly one week he just stopped hanging out with our group. He’s ... (246 words)

Lost love - normal to see them in another person?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I have a small question to ask. When you fall in love with someone, you become completely attached to them and devote your time, self and thoughts to them, right? But, if you lose them, either through death, distance or just by a falling out, is it normal f... (154 words)

Help! I want to have sex with my cousin!

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 16 years old and I have this cousin that I can't get out of my head! I severely want to have sex with her, it's just I don't know how to ask. I do not see her often, If I'm lucky it's once a year for about a week. What I want in a reply is not SHOULD I, but HOW do I? ... (111 words)

I would be the luckiest girl in the world if I married him....but I cant express my feelings to him!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys.. i need a big help.. i love my friends.. i have a guy friend.. i like him a lot.. i use to tel everything to him always. but he is not. he is very calm and stubborn. but he likes me a lot. he use to say that am his dear.many of my friends and my family members use to ... (241 words)

My fiance hasn't even told his mum that we have set a date for our wedding!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - the problem is my fiance and me have booked our wedding for next year. And i asked him if he had told his mum as he sees her more than me and he said he hasnt when i asked him why he said i told her before we was getting married. which i dont believe!! but now we have a date so ... (102 words)

She says she cannot continue our relationship because she is cheating her parents!

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i love my girlfriend very much.we even spended some nights together. i was her first boyfriend. she is a girl of 17yrs.. now she says that she cannot continue our relationship further. she says that she is cheating her parents... she says that she cares for me.. and if god ... (74 words)

He wont even kiss me in front of his friends because he thinks it is a sign of weakness!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so confused bout life that its making me dizzy literally in my head! I feel im always running out of time and that if i dont settle down get marrie and another child by 30 it will be too late. My main problem is that im really not happy with the situation im in! Me and my ... (317 words)

I feel like I am wasting my time!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - when I met my boyfriend 11 months ago he said he was seperated and he and his wife had agreed to a divorce but as neither was in another relationship he did not start any divorce process. He claimed his wife left him, took the kids and lives in aother country. That they had ... (250 words)

Am I just being crazy?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in this long distance relationship with a guy across the country. I am planning to visit him for 10 days in July and when i had planned the trip originally i didn't know that there would be any problems with schedules. I just found out that he is starting school ... (296 words)

Finally moving in with my LDR boyfriend, but I have my doubts he is not the "one"

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7 May 2009 (F)

- I have been in this long distance relationship for 4 years, and now we are finally moving in together. But, our relationship has not been in our best. He has lied to me several times, and it has been hard for me to trust him, and we are constantly fighting about it. I am a ... (248 words)

He said he doesn't "do" relationships

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really into this bloke I work with but he only ever seems interested at work, I have suggested drinks after work but he has never taken me up on the offer, we have a works night out on saturday and he says he cant wait to see me all dressed up and to spend some time with ... (156 words)

French kissing and wanting more?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A quick question when you are french kissing a guy and you feel how excited he is (if he puts your hand on it) is he wanting more and if so what does he actually want you to do, I am very inexperienced and I have never went any further than french kissing and I am not to sure ... (81 words)

Seeing each other for 6 months but only got to second base?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been official for 4 months now and seeing eachother for about 6 and we're only on second base. The only first move other than kissing he's ever made was to feel me up the first time; since then, I've been the one having to put his hands there. He won't ... (100 words)

I feel like I always have to follow others or wind up walking alone

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was brought to the States by my parents when I just turned 18. I have been living in the States for almost 5 years since then. I went to a local high school for one year and now I am almost graduating from a prestigious college. Through out the past 5 years, my English ... (278 words)

I find it hard to loosen up with my friends in school

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 20 this year and I started going to a new school at the start of this year. I have this group of friends but every time when we hang out together, I dont enjoy the company at all. I cant open up and I dont find the jokes or conversations even funny at all although I would ... (126 words)

How can I get over my crush of three years?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on this guy for about 3 years but he has a girlfriend. How can i get over him and how can i get my friends to stop bugging me about it? My friends just tease me like "look who's over there". Please help me get over him and get my friends to stop. ... (57 words)

Does he have a crush on me?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a boy at my school who (when we have the same class together) keeps staring at me. He isn't really a good guy (I'm sure he does drugs; he did the last time I checked) but he's been nice to me in the past and I think he's an o.k. person. Last year he defended me when ... (98 words)

I'm 15 and find myself unable to quit smoking

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am fifteen years old now, and in Grade Nine. I've been smoking since Grade Seven, and I was twelve years old. Over the course of the past couple years, I've tried my best to quit smoking but I always fall back into the same routines, and lately, I feel like I will be stuck sm... (228 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me via text and is now ignoring me

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently posted a question about my exboyfriend. he broke up with me about a week ago, saying that he wasn't ready to be in a relationship right now, even though we'd been together for almost a year, but that he still loves me and wants us to be together again soon. this was... (318 words)

Living apart even though we have a baby and are working things out

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex boyfriend and I are trying to get work things out but some of his actions confuse me. we have a 10 month old baby together and he moved out into a house by himself. i have been left to take care of the baby and my other two children.. he comes over at his convenience, ... (152 words)

What is the process on IVF? Is my boyfriend lying?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 10 years. He says he loves me and one day we will be married. He says he has a shitty relationhip with his frigid life. His wife went through IVF last spring and they were succesful in Nov. He now says he new nothing about it until the very las... (72 words)

I am at a loss for words with my boyfriend and very shy, can someone give me some topics of conversation?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend and well i always seem to not to talk to him cuz well i have nothing to say so please give meh things to say and well i always seem to get red when i talk to him and im afraid to kiss him im really nervous cant you help meh???? ... (55 words)

Both married, I broke off with my lover but wonder if I did the right thing

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. I thought I was on the road to recovery but I guess not. I am married and have been for 12 years. We have 3 sons together. For pretty much my whole marriage,I've been unhappy. I met another married man about 4 years ago and fell head over heals in love with him. ... (708 words)

Should I call him, write to him, give up or what?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There´s this guy with whom a have feelings for. We are long distance but communicate very often, or at least we did. Usually, we send jokes or updates, etc. I wrote to him on Sunday and he hasn't replied. Usually he writes immediately, I haven´t heard from him since 2 week... (142 words)

We are in a long distance relationship, does anyone know what to do to get a visa?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im with my lover who currently lives in bodrum i love him so much and want to be with him vis vers hes currently in uni and he wants 2 cum 2 england after hes finished how do i go about getting him a visa what do i need and what do i have 2 do hope to hear from some one soon ... (66 words)

I can't get over this guy

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i really dont know what to do, so here it goes. my best friend got with the guy she knew i liked, and broke up with him a week later, but thats not the problem, my problem is that i couldn't and cant get over this guy, its driving me nuts. this monday in lunch i noticed ... (126 words)

Would this be considered an abusive relationship?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I already posted a question, but it's getting worse.. This clingy, attatched boyfriend is getting rediculous... My phone was messed up and basically unusable. And so I got an old one a friend had given me. It was tmobile, I have att, my boyfriend had to unlock it, yeah yeah ... (154 words)

My gay best friend came on to me and I don't know what to do

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i have a problem and i dont know what to do... okay basically my bestfriend joey came out to me...he told me that he was gay and was attracted to guys, i was shocked but i didn't really care so as a good friend would do..i reassured him, comforted him and made him feel com... (194 words)

He likes me, I don't like him, he won't leave me alone!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok .. .... So i have this guy in my class who likes me and apparently hes liked me for a long time!! Thats a good thing except for i don't like him back!! :( we were talking on the internet and i had to know if all of the rumours about him liking me were true so i asked him. I ... (162 words)

My girlfriend got involved with another girl and it is troubling to me, should I be worried?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me again. My girlfriend came back to me, you could say. We were going pretty good until this other girl came along. My girlfriend told me she only liked one girl, and that was me. This other girl [Let's call her "Girl B"] claims to be madly in love with my girlfriend, and ... (255 words)

We are living together and I feel he takes me for granted, please help?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 yrs old my boyfriend of almost 10 yrs is 27 yrs old, and we've lived together a little over two years with 0 children. When we werent living together it seemed as though he wanted to spend more time with me, now that we live together he's always at a friends house ... (208 words)

Attracted to my on again, off again fiancee's brother, what do I do?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i have been with this guy for tens years off and on. We met in high school and are now engaged our relationship is rocky at times but i still love him. well i had a crush on his brother first, but at that time he never gave me the time of day. Well any who, we have all ... (191 words)

My boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't think I have enough experience tp please him, what do I need to know?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok im new to the hole sex thing and i really want to hear how to so it by someone that has please my boy friend is really wanting me to do this and i keep telling him to wait so help!!... (42 words)

How do I deal with my depressed boyfriend, without becoming depressed myself?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is extremely depressed at the moment. He has a history of depression, and has gone through phases like this before in our relationship, but it's getting much harder lately. I've taken psychology courses, and there is a history of depression in my family, so I know ... (279 words)

My long distance relationship is beginning to suffer, what can I do?

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7 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I live in different country from my gf. We call, text and chat online. She usually call every few days by using a prepaid phone. She always text and despite those, we still chat a lot online. Few weeks after that, the text get delayed a lot and sometimes... (219 words)

There is a clear liquid that comes from my nipple, what could this be?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts Can anyone tell me what is the clear liquid that comes from my breast when I squeeze it. I don't think I'm pregnant. Please help... (31 words)

Confused over two men, please advise, who would be better?

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am currently with a guy i liked for 8 years, we've been together for 7 months. He is pretty awsome, really sweet, treats me great, helps me with my kids, and im slowly falling some what in love with him(not really love yet), anyways, there is another guy that i fell for he ... (169 words)

I need help with my crush!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coaches son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. I just saw him a few days ... (804 words)

I've just found out I'm pregnant. Is it safe to fly?

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7 May 2009 (?) - I just found out I'm pregnant and am due to fly out on my hols on Sat week but need to kno if its safe to fly?? I haven't been to the doc yet but have an appointment made for Friday!! ... (41 words)

He won't stop drinking...

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i am 18 and i have 2 kids, and am now with the guy i had a crush on for 8 years. hes almost everything ive ever wanted sweet, smart,fun but he cheated on me when he was drunk, and i forgave him, except he still continues to drink after many many times of telling me that ... (174 words)

I'm scared the condom will break!

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so I'm not on birth control and I want to have sex but I'm a scaredy cat and I'm scared the condom will break but I don't want to get on any kind of birth control. What should I do?... (42 words)

Proof of looks...

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7 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met a guy online and have been talking to him for two months. He lives 500 miles away. He said he is interested in me, but doesn't ask anything about me. He keeps asking for nude pics and I always say no. Once I asked him if seeing me nude will determine if this ... (116 words)

Is this why he's suddenly given up on things?

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7 May 2009 (F)

- Hi, I'm an 19 year old girl and I've been seeing my new fella (he's 21) for about 6 weeks. He's amazing :) However. The sex started off great - loving, sexy, respectful, lots of foreplay. Now he is still loving and sexy and respectful, but he seems to have kind of... lost... (361 words)