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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you really get to know someone through online, skype, and many weekends (Friday - Sunday/Monday) together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, I'm trying to figure something out. I know this is a question I have to determine for myself, but it helps me a ton to talk out a question and receive people's input. (like anyone else, I guess). My girlfriend and I are currently in a very long distance relation... (405 words)

Can't get my boyfriend to stop being sneaky and watching porn behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks, this is making me upset while i'm thinking about it but i can't get my boyfriend to stop sneakily watching porn. It's so upsetting because i lost my virginity to him but that doesn't mean we don't have amazing sex. We play lots and i honestly have done every single ... (255 words)

I've made a real mess of my life and need serious advice on how to fix it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi all, I seem to have made a real mess of my life and need serious advice on how to fix it as there is so much going on in my head i dont know where to start. I have been in a 12 year mentally abusive relationship, or so im told by people looking into my life, i am in two m... (287 words)

Why is he doing this to me?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes and I noticed he keeps trying to get close to me. Like he will try to reach over my desk or he brushes up against me. Most of the time there is plenty of room and he doesn’t need to do this. He needed to talk to the teacher and he was ... (147 words)

My husband WANTS another man to make me pregnant!!!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband both want kids, but my husband does, albeit in a slightly odd way... he wants me to "use my feminine wiles and sleep with whoever I fancy to get pregnant!" He says that I should get pregnant by another guy - and said I should act on my attractiveness t... (321 words)

Is he still into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well today is our 10 month anniversary and as we lay together im thinkn he will kiss me or at least touch me but instead he says get out of they way family guy is on smh wat does this mean is he no longer interested in me?... (48 words)

How can I get hard erections back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 years old healthy guy, never had any health problems but like 6 months ago i've became sexually active. I had sex with a bigger woman (1 night stand) we were drunk and on the beach.. it was winter so it was cold. When i penetrated here i was rock hard.. but then i ... (195 words)

Stuck on what I should do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i got a really BIG problem, I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, and i still cant get over him, we wasnt together for long but he still meant a lot to me, he didnt really act normal for 3 weeks, and now his al back to normal he speaks to me but not as much as ... (192 words)

Will he realise he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. I know for sure that i love him, i never question that. But recently he told me he doesnt think he loves me. He said he's trying to. The way he acts around me makes me think he does, spending all night with me when i was ... (131 words)

Were we being stalked?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year we had a field trip to Canada. There was a guy there he had on all black and black sunglasses like he was trying not to be seen or trying to steel something. Well anyway after we left the theme park me and my bff relized we had seen him EVERYWHERE we went. We thought ... (276 words)

How do I answer his email...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF sent me this email and i don't know what to answer him, he stop talking to me 10 days ago without any reason and today he sent me this email. He works in Iraq as a project manager, i work in a neighboring country from Iraq so i do understand the pressure he goes... (228 words)

I don't want to keep on trying, I've had enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, that's it. I am starting to think that there are some people that aren't supposed to have luck with stupid love. I am really done in. Every day I wake up hoping to have a nice day, and at night I understand that it isnt possible for me. After a 14 dumps I can't take more, ... (229 words)

What do you do when the love you feel for someone isn't reciprocated?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think im in love but im not sure, Its wierd becuase there is a girl i like ive asked her out but she has rejected me :( the thing is i cant stop thinking about her shes pretty and inteligent but not being able to have her is killing me inside ive liked her for a long tim... (98 words)

We've never ever had amazing sex and I really want him to give me an orgasm. Any ideas??

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I've been with my boyfriend for a few years and Ii have never had an orgasm. I was quite unexpirenced when we got together but I find myself having fantasies that involve women and I really want to spice things up with our sex life because I think I'm having these ... (82 words)

How can I like myself again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I'm soo in love with him, but everything's getting me down lately and he's given up a lot for me and we're getting back on track and things are getting good with him again, Ii just worry I'm not enough. He cheated on me and I ... (236 words)

I need to find ways to get him interested in me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago but it was over a silly argument that i caused because sometimes i get moody and i take it out on him, and so because of this he broke up with me. but we had been on and off for about a year. but we had got into arguments before ... (197 words)

That tingling sensation...

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. We've recently decided to have sex and I was wondering what the tingling sensation is that I get in my toes sometimes when we're having sex. ... (43 words)

Always liking a guy who will reject me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I always end up fancying guys who aren't interested me... or guys who have a girlfriend or possible girlfriend, or guys who don't see like, or liking a guy who is out my league etc. How do I find a guy who is in my league, a guy who isn't full of himself and not overly good loo... (147 words)

Email from the ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just got this email from an ex bf from 2 years ago, a guy I cheated on then dumped, but later wished I was still with. I'm not sure how I feel about him today as I am seeing someone now. Some of his email seems like it is in code. Can you people tell me exactly what he ... (216 words)

Alcoholism and dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that when someone is an Alcoholic and gets sober they are not supposed to date or have any love relationships with anyone for at least a year? Or is this not true? ... (37 words)

I'm new to online dating... what to do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Online dating. I need some advice regarding a guy a met on myspace. I was browsing on MySpace the other day and came across this really cute guy. I checked out his page and seemed like we have a lot in common. I requested to add him as a friend and he accepted. Since... (282 words)

We just seemed to drift apart... why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm just coming out of a long 9 month relationship with this girl. Everything was going great for a long time. Until recently we've had tough schedules and just weren't able to see each other that often. By the time we split up, it had been 2 months since we saw each other face ... (137 words)

What does a climax feel like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone explain to me what climaxing and orgasming feels like so i know if it has happened to me... (20 words)

Married 10 years but still not having normal sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 10 years and have not been able to have regular sex like a normal person. we have not been able to penetrate. how can i get rid of the fear of pain?... (37 words)

I'm a serial cheater and can't help it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheat but I don't feel like one. I am in a steady relationship with my boyfriend of 8 months, and we are great together, the connection is intense. The level of sex is, however, nowhere near enough to satisfy me. We have sex maybe once a week, if he feels like it. This is... (192 words)

Can you love somone without having the hots for them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma. Can you be in love with someone but not have a strong sexual desire to be with them? I've been dating this girl for about 5 months and i'm crazy about her...and I know she's crazy about me. Problem is, she told me about a previous FWB relationship and ... (209 words)

Telling my parents about my guy

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago, I met this amazing guy. He's funny, talented, cute, sexy... you get the message. There's only one problem though. I'm almost 19 and he's 30. My parent's would kill me (not literally) if they found out. Another problem that my parents would have with him ... (104 words)

I know it would be sensible to leave him but I'm unsure how to do so

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and never got involved with a guy before.I used to love being single. Then I met this guy online who used to be my classmate and a big flirt.He lives in another city.We spend a very lovely time together for 1 month when he was in my city for holidays.This ha... (250 words)

I think I love him, but he blows hot/cold

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't stop thinking about this guy, seriously 24/7. I think Im in love with him, I don't get the feeling he feels very strongly for me. He blows hot and cold, one minute wanting to see me all the time, then i don't hear anything from him. We have slept together numerous ... (67 words)

If he were to try to get back to me should I say no?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is my own fault really. I was in a relationship with someone for nearly 3 years. But i broke up with him for a few reasons. This was over 5 years ago. I have since had a child. He is 3. It never worked out between me and his dad. Ive now started working with my ... (116 words)

The rules have changed, I'm the pursuer, and not sure how to go about it

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6 May 2009 (F) - There's a guy who Ive known for about 5 years lets just say his name is Jon. Jon is a great guy. When I first met him we were talking and hanging out together almost all the time, very innocent fun, but at the same time I was in a failing relationship with another guy. Jon ... (186 words)

Would this be a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this probably sounds like a really stupid idea i was just curious really. i get really painful heavy clotted periods which i hate! i was trying to find a natural remedy and it got me thinking... if i ate more anti-coagulatory (blood thining)foods or suppliments would my periods ... (125 words)

LDR but he makes no effort to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a long distance relationship..for two years now! My boyfriend's work brings him to my adopted country a couple of times a year. I fly out to see him whenever he is in the same hemisphere. The problem is that he makes no effort to come see me on his own, if his ... (146 words)

Teen love? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm 15 bought to be 16.. I have been in many relashionships before untill this past .. I fell in love with a 18 year old , he means so much to me .. We were really good for like 3 months happy , laughing , etc ... Untill he started hanging out with his one friend , ... (157 words)

Women all around him but he says he's just being friendly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is says he quite honest and this is making me insecure. Weve spilt up a few times and things have happened where he done stuff. And even though were trying again i dont think i trust him. Here is what i mean. Everytime he goes somewhere hes always got to make some ... (356 words)

Family problems venting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i dont really want an answer just kinda venting to just get an opinion on what ya'll think of this....Well a lil history for you guys i live with my mom step dad and boyfriend and 3 yr old daughter in a big house like 3bdrms 3btrms dining room 2 living areas and huge ... (554 words)

How do I make them want to be more than friends?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, it is a silly question tbh but im just a bit curious :) Im a 14 year old girl, 15 in August and going in to my final school year in september and i just wanted to ask you why are no boys intrested! I am best friends with boys tbh and i get along with them more then ... (154 words)

Do I go and visit him as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey, I wonder if anyone can give me some advice on how to handle my current situation please? A few months ago I had a one night stand with a guy I barely new. I didn't expect anything to come from it and I was happy for it to be a one off. He lives 200 miles away so I didn't... (341 words)

WHY is she still texting this guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey All: Well here's where I am at. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. She was in the UK for 4 months with school, and surprisingly, we made it through. Now, tons of fighting. Last night was particularly bad. About a year ago, we were in bed a... (220 words)

When is "we were on a break" really ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been dating for 1 year. Recently he has been acting like a jerk and the final straw was when he stayed out all night drinking with "friends". I broke it off with him and for 1 week we did not talk. He would call my other friends saying how much he missed me and ... (180 words)

Should I ask him out or is it worth possibly making our friendship weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been best friends with this person for 2 years and i really fancy him! he has started to act differently around me and i dont know if i should just ask him out because we will still be best friends if he says no. do you think i should?! help me please... x... (57 words)

My girlfriend asked if she can "share" me with her step-mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I know how this is going to sound but I swear that it's the 100% God's honest truth. My girlfriend, who is 23 years old, lives with her step mother who was widowed a few years ago. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about six months. I get on with her step mother, she's a ... (177 words)

I need advice on breaking up with my violent boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, of which we've lived together for 2. He's always been an "angry drunk", and last night he crossed the line. The beginning of the relationship, he would be angry, but direct it towards other people, trying to ... (325 words)

School project - ideas for a business please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm doing this project at school in which i have to create my own business and the starting money you get is £10 but i can't think of anything that will sell good in school, or any ideas. Please i need a wide variety of answers as i have 3 months for the business and the one ... (114 words)

We lost our baby the first time, now I am scared to try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 21 and i been in a relationship with this man thats 28 for 3 years and we had a daughter that passed away. The pregnacy came unexpected and at first he didnt want kids then he wanted them. Now he wants to try again and i am really scared to go through that again. I feel that ... (125 words)

Sex just doesn't interest me at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well ever since i lost my viginity at 16 nothing grand has ever happened to me! To get to the point i have never had an orgasm at least i dont think so! Sex makes me more depressed than anything:( My boyfriend is very supportive but sometimes i think he feels like it's his ... (132 words)

Trying so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex and nothing is working!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I try so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex, and it never seems to work. Sometimes he'll tell me to wait till later or brush it off. We don't have sex often and when we do it seems I'm the one who is starting it up. Does anyone maybe have an explanation ... (61 words)

I know I've found my one true love but she doesn't feel the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl 2 years ago since the start of 1st year university and I have been in love with her since the moment I met her. I started dropping hints that I liked her but she never seemed to like me as more than a friend. Our friendship grew drastically to the point where we ... (334 words)

We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

- Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the site are welcome!... (50 words)

I was so sure he liked me then he met someone else on holiday!

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6 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Dear All, Having been in a stormy on and off relationship for two and a half years I finally cracked and joined a dating agency. I waited some months before going on a first date. The guy was stunning, however I kept my wits about me and played it cool. We got on pretty we... (298 words)

Moving in together but he wont pay his share!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are moving in together at the start of next month. Before this, my boyfriend was renting a room at a fully furnished house, so he hasn't had to buy any furniture since he started living alone. I bought most the essential furniture at my house now, but I've ... (401 words)

We only argue about my breasts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we have been living together for the past 5 months. Since we began living together, he has started to get very upset when I wear strappy tops or anything that shows any sin around my neck area or clevage (even to... (357 words)

Stories and experiences with IVF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if anyone can give me some stories about their experiences of IVF treatment? M husband and i will be starting the treatment later this year and i would love to hear some other peoples stories? thank-you so much xx... (43 words)

Gummy bare!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi there. i have a sort of problem. i am a member of several different dating sites. also bebo, facebook etc..... i have no foto on these sites. the reason is, about a year and half ago i was mugged. my front teeth, 7, were either knocked out or cracked. i have got frien... (172 words)

What defines cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When is cheating actually considered to be cheating? Kissing? Masturbating someone? Oral sex? Or is it just a personal view?... (20 words)

My husband told me to find satisfaction elsewhere, so now I have!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age - I've been married to my husband since 1991 and for the past couple of years it's been completely sexless. No matter how hard I try I just can't get him interested. I've asked him to go to the doctor's, take some time off work, anything! He says that he's fine and I've just got ... (417 words)

Will the Other Woman and my Husband last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband cheated on me and instead of working it out he wanted a divorce. She knew he was married and didnt care, will there relationship last? He still tells me he loves me... (34 words)

Am I overreacting? He was texting his Ex while we were out for dinner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone please tell me I'm not crazy. I'm ruining my relationship with a man I'm truly in love with. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We live together and spend a lot of time together. For some reason lately I've been feeling so insecure and jealous. We ... (152 words)

Should we continue using condoms after our little incident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We've been abstaining from sex since from the beginning of our relationship,thats 8 months ago.2 weeks we finaly did it and wow it was marveleous,not after all this waiting.We not regreting it and concluded to do it more often.Here's the problem,during our 1st time the condom ... (121 words)

I thought I could forgive and forget but I cant continue to live a lie!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age - I thought i could forgive and forget my h/b affairs but i cant seem to, we are at a dead end neither of us seem to have the courage to move on when we both know deep down things will never be as they were. I have heard that affairs can make a marriage stronger but with me as mu... (309 words)

Is it better to have the little he gives to me or nothing at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a little over a year ago, we were together without the boyfriend/girlfriend titles and it wasn't until recently that I found out why. He's got a fiance! I had suspicions about it the whole time because she'd always send me messages and call me or tag him in ... (178 words)

His story doesn't add up... is he lying to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for close to 30 years and after a strange happening my husband told me he needs space and doesn't love me any more. Last week he told me he was going to a men's bible study group then came home and said he saw a stabbing and put the woman in a motel a week ... (201 words)

One night stand can turn into a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a few months ago i had this really hot one night stand with this guy he called me 6 times over the next week. i blew him off made up stupid excuses and stuff like that. so lastnight my recently dumped friend made me go out. this one of my exs was telling me about a party so i ... (216 words)

Stay friends? let it go?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i just sort of got out of this relationship recently and its troubling me a little bit atm.... I had this fling with a girl a couple months back, where everytime i was with her i was either at a party or club and pretty drunk mostly. So we got pretty close and what hap... (355 words)

She lied to others about me..let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm in a awkward situation and need some help. Last summer I moved to a new town and visited the local pub every weekend. I quickly fell for the barmaid who worked there, but at the time I didn't know she was a compulsive liar, she is well known down the pub for her ... (300 words)

Should I stay and work it out or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has been going on online dating sites and flirting with girls, i also checked his email and found that he had been sending dirty pictures of himself to them. this is not the first time either and he promised he wouldn't do it again. he says he loves me but that ... (100 words)

Getting back deleted history on the computer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dont know if any of you out there can help but i have been wondering how can you get back things that have been deleted on the history on my computer?... (31 words)

I think she's getting something on the side

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (M)

age - I am a male (47). My fiance is 43. We've been together for close on 10 years. We had a really amazing sex life up until 4 years ago, when it became less and less frequent and less and less adventurous. As I write this we haven't had sex in more than 4 months, and the period ... (164 words)

Married 2 years and still no love for my husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i love my husband. weve been married for 2 years and still i dont love him until now. i married him because i was already 30 and no one courted me. i was afraid of being single.. i was pressured by my relatives and my friends. i thought i will fall on him once we get ... (95 words)

When is enough really enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and I want to know if what I'm feeling is just paranoia or is it real? My boyfriend is a tattoo artist and he's been going to clients houses to work. I get very "freaked out" by this because he only does art on ... (274 words)

I either want him or I want to move on from him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi right this one is a longish one.. lets call my ex Jo.me and jo broke up 3 years this aug 8th after 2 and a half yrs 2getha. i experienced everything with him for my first time so to finish after he cheated on me was heartbreaking. we both moved on, both lived our lives ... (294 words)

Is it wrong that I enjoyed his misfortune?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I spoke to my ex last night and he started asking personal questions about my sexlife. so instead of continuing with the conversation as I used to I asked him straight "shouldn't you be asking these questions to your gf?" and he said " I dont want to talk about my gf, things ... (76 words)

I'm having an affair with my sister's fiance..

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought this through over and over and just don't know what to do. Hopefully some of you may be able to help me. I'm sorry if this turns out to be a bit long but I just want people to see the whole picture. I've been with my boyfriend since I was fourteen years old. Now w... (924 words)

Its scary to start a relationship after all this time!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been single for 61/2 months. i was married for 22 yrs. to my first bf. one month ago i met this wonderful man, we get along really well he has already told me he love me and i feel the same way about him. do you think this is poss. it's scary to start a new relationship ... (71 words)

Facebook about to ruin another relationship?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I would really appreciate people's opinions / advice on this particular dilemma...Nothing new, but I'm sure lots of people have had similar experiences. Damn facebook... Me and my girlfriend (both early 30s) have had some problems lately but we are working through them tog... (899 words)

Is this really going to give me the answers I want?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi me and my husband are going to relate on thursday(he had cheated on me 3 times in 21 years of marriage)we want our marriage to work but i want to know the why's Can a person really change? By going to relate what can i expect do they really help or will we be wasting ou... (103 words)

Pregnant and confused--help

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 and a half years. Everything was SO amazing with us when we first got together, about 5 months in, my parents, as a punishment, sent me on a missionary trip for two months to Iceland. When I returned home I heard all of these rumors ... (615 words)

Is it really me?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I sit up crying every night while my husband sleeps wondering if i am the problem to this relationship. i am outspoken and i speak the truth all the time, even if it hurts peoples feelings, i am very cautious and veryprotective of what is mine. i am shy around new people and i ... (342 words)

She is so withdrawn and it worries me

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it. I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she loves me. and one time she said tha... (173 words)

Is it so strange to fall in love with someone so much older?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I got engaged last week to my boyfriend. He is 25 years older than me. he is the kindest and sweetest guy i have ever met. I have no doubt at all about him and we are planning to get married in october. The problem is i am getting alot of dicouragements from some... (150 words)

Suggestions of schedule for 2 busy people?

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6 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello! Thanks in advance for the help! I was wondering what people might suggest for a relationship between two excessively busy people (like, possibly unhealthily...). How can we make time to be together? Thanks a bunch! -GG... (40 words)

He is so sleazy so why am I still attracted to him?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about a year now and we ended up kissing one night when we first me. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I stayed friends with him because we have mutual friends and found out that he sleeps around a lot. At 23, he has had over 35 partners ... (126 words)

Does anyone have any idea what the hell this was?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The weirdest thing ever just happened to me, and I’m really freaked out. I’m hoping this has happened to someone else out there before and they can give me an idea of what’s going on. It’s not a pretty subject, but bare with me. I just started my period this evening, an... (468 words)

I fell in love with a goddess, but I don't know what to do?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm fifteen years olds. I really like a girl who is about two or three years older than me, and she seems like such a bright, nice, person and I really want to befriend her. The thing is, she's some sort of church girl and it's really hard to just walk up to someone during ... (193 words)

How do I handle her?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend that I have been dating for 8 months is starting to drive me crazy. She thinks that whenever there is something wrong its always about her. I know she loves me and i feel the same with her but it seems as though she is trying to get on my nerves. Little things she ... (137 words)

I have a feeling he is cheating again

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and we have 2 kids he have cheated on me at least 5 times and treat me like i'm nothing it hurt me the way he talk to me and treat me we always have to have his friend with us every where we and when i ask for alone time ... (124 words)

She's like a roller coaster

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I was with my ex girlfriend for around a year(my longest relationship) and all was perfect for the whole beginning. She always told me how much she loved me, how I was perfect, how she always wanted to be with me, etc. For a while I never really told her I loved her ... (423 words)

Getting a really bad feeling

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have got a really weird question, I have no idea what is going on. I have got a really strange feeling in my stomach and haven't got a clue why. You know the feeling you get when you are super nervous, its really hot and unpleasent right in the middle of your stomach, the ... (218 words)

Please help!!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had my period 2 weeks ago and just got it again. ive had it for three days now.. and usually when i get my period it gets lighter on the 2nd or 3rd day but its still very strong, probably stronger than normal even. im a little freaked out so i need some help please!!... (56 words)

Best friend turned boyfriend...now its awkward!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started going out with this guy. He's been my friend for three years now and we always liked each other but he use to be kind of a player and only recently did he start getting serious about life, during which time we started transitioning into becoming more than friends ... (479 words)

I just want to know how to move on...

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was best friends with this guy for eighteen years. We knew each other before we were even born; our moms were best friends! The last four weeks, however, he was in the hospital due to a Pilocytic Astrocytoma brain tumor. Apparently, it was growing in his brain for over three ... (141 words)

He trusted me with his secret, now I want to be there for him.

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Im in my first year at uni, and ive a guy friend in my halls, we are close but only when were not in a big group which is annoying and wierd but thats just how we are. I hadnt seen him for a while, as hes got a gf of a few months now, we all went for a meal one night... (193 words)

How do we get the pill for my girlfriend?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for just short of a year now. We are both sixteen and live in the US. We were both virgins before we started dating and just had our first time a while back. We had talked about it before and bought condoms and everything and thought we were ... (178 words)

My friend went out with my boyfriend

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.... I had a boyfriend over summer until a month or so ago. we both live in the same home town but we are at different uni's so it became really hard to make it work! It was clear it wasnt working but he broke up with me via facebook! Being he didnt have the decency to ring ... (197 words)

Good boy versus excitement?

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6 May 2009 (?) age 51-59 - There's two guys i'm seeing. One who is loyal, dependable and a gentleman. The other is exciting, unpredictable and I'm in love with him, and i think about him when i'm with the other man. Why type is the best to be with? ... (43 words)

Not sure how to act around him

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!!! I am going to a dance this weekend and my crush will be there!!!! Anyways... I really like him and think hes extrememly hot but for some weird reason i dont want to dance with him ... Lol i know that sounds weird but i feel like i dont want to mess it up or something!!!! ... (148 words)

Love seems to be a mystery to me at the moment.

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya I need help please! Love seems to be a mystery to me at the moment. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend of a year five months ago, and still mulling over why we actually parted ways. We are still fantastic friends but he wants me back- for good, which scares me, I'm not read... (207 words)

What are the chances he likes me?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I really like. He acts like he likes me, but he is shy. I keep telling myself he doesn't like me and I've been trying to get over him and forget about him. He is about 6'0 tall and he is average build. He's not chubby at all, but he's not rail thin ... (424 words)

Letter To My Ex: Send or Not?

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6 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Is this a good note to send to an ex? Or is it too involved? All perspectives welcome here. Like, guys would you send this...and girls, would this be a note that warmed your heart or freaked you out? Names are all made up... ~ Marie, I'm just very bothered by th... (429 words)

He wants another baby but I am feeling overwhelmed with the first one!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 16 and my bf 17 when we decided that we would have a baby. It didnt take long for us to get pregnant. When I found out I was pregnant we moved into his parents basement apartment. I now have a 4 month old son,Kyron. He is my life and I love him and my bf. My bf said he ... (120 words)

He doesn't know that I know what he said?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well okii well i met this guy online then we met and a couple of date after he ask me if i want it to do it and i said yes then we did it but then we turn to be someone to different then i thougth cuz after he told my sister i dont like her or will ever like her i want advice ... (78 words)

Neep help with a big decision!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm faced with a really huge decision I have to make, and soon. My husband has told me that he wants our marriage to end. I have tried to persuade him to reconsider, get counselling, take a break etc. but he is not budging. The tricky thing is, I am in Canada now being ... (298 words)

Caught between two guys

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here would be my problem, i've been dating this guy for a week.. and now im starting to think this is just a friend kind of thing. and i don't wanna hurt him because i'm afraid that he'll be mad and that he won't wanna be just friends afterwards. :( not to mention there is ... (83 words)

What is this and what does this mean?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this and what does this mean? ... (30 words)

Am I just paranoid? OR is she preparing to dump me?

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright.. so me an my gf have been going out for almost 2 months now, and im not sure whether this is paranoia or what. so ive previously had bad relationships, all of them ending with me getting dumped. but this relationship is so much different, an i think i might love her. ... (276 words)

Tell me what's happening here...

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6 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This seems a lil embarassing but i will just say it hopefully you guys can help me with this. When im with my gf, kissing and hugging each other for a longer period of time, i get erect. I stay erect for a while and keep erect if we keep kissing. When we finish and we le... (157 words)

If he doesn't want to continue, why doesn't he say so?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just need help with this situation because I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or what. I’m 23, have never really had a proper relationship, so I don’t really know what’s considered normal, acceptable, etc. I’ve ‘dated’ guys in the past but it never turned into anything. ... (612 words)

I don't want to hurt them but they don't seem to understand

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Need some help from fellow students. Sorry if this is a bit long winded but there's a lot to it and I really need some help. Ok, so I'm just finishing my first year university and am now looking for somewhere to stay for my second year. I've got a really good group of... (854 words)

The symptoms are correct but am I pregnant?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 17 my boyfriend is 21 we want a baby so bad and now i think im pregnant i had sex april 5th and got my period april 27th but it stayd 4 3 days and was very light every since then i have been craving icys n pickles i pee alot i sleep alot and i get agrivated quickly i ... (110 words)

I've become so abusive and jealous since I got pregnant!

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody, this really sucks im in a relationship and hes great but im 7 months pregnant and lately im feeling so jealous and insecure cause sometimes he looks at other women and i feel so ugly if he leaves for 1 hr., im already thinking hes cheating on me. before i got ... (102 words)

I just cant see myself raising my daughter. I don't think I even love her.

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm basically wondering what's the best way to end a long term relationship when you don't want to give the real reason? Bit of background... I'm 18 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 5 years and we have a daughter who's 2. We're both just finishing coll... (299 words)

I'm almost 16 and I think I'm ready for sex.

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 turning 16 and i really want to have sex. i really dont know what to do. i am very nervous. i think im ready for sex but i dont know how to do it. i dont really do anything physical with my boyfriend except make out with him. Im so confused. Can you help me with this? I ... (70 words)

How can we show are parents that we want to take resposibility for our mistake and be good parents?

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6 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for almost 3 years now and I love him a lot. We both are normally very careful but I accidently missed a few birth control pills and since we are faithful to each other we didnt see a need to use condoms. ... (136 words)