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Why is he acting this way?

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Question - (27 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A female Lebanon age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so I met this guy a month and a half ago!!!! The weird part is I met him at church with mutual family and friends sitting all together after mass. I noticed he liked me b/c he said hi to me twice!!!!!

After a week or so he kept on calling my mom's friend so she could set us up!!! A plan was set, which I was unaware of!!! But since then there has been contact between us!!!!

We went out a few times and we had a really nice time together!!!!!

I met his friends and they seemed like very nice people, and then I set a plan with my friends which he met and really liked as well, accpet for one of my girlfriends, where a small quarrel of disagreement took place between them related to different political views!!!!

Since then he was very distant and he just stopped calling me and even sending me messages, which was very unlike him!!!!

After the 4th day of no communication, I was at a pub with a group of friends and then all of a sudden he calls at 11 30 pm!!! I looked at the phone and saw it was him, I didn't want to answer since, I'm not with the fact that he thinks he can call me when ever he wants!!!

After that i hear someone caling me from out side of the pub int he car!!! I look out and its HIM!!!!!

He looks at me and tells me to answer, I look at him and I say NO I DONT WANT!!!!

After that the next day after I finished work I sent him a message, asking him to call me when he can would like to speak with him!!!!

And since then nothing!!!!!

What do u think this all means?!?!?!

Why do u think he's acting the way he was?!?!!?

and do u think he'll ever call?!?!?!

Thank u

L xoxo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

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Thanks for the positive thinking attitude!!!!

Means a lot!!!

Well, I didn't answer because wanted to tease him a bit for one! For 2, he hasn't called me for over 4 to 5 days and expects me to answer when ever he wants and so late at night?!?!!?? And for 3, I'm telling u he saw me, that's why he called...so basically if he didn't see me he wasn't gonna call!!!!???!!!! Right?!?!?!

I don't know...and I'm more confused than ever with him!?!?!

Whatever both ways I knows it's his loss!!!!

And I don't think he will call!!!

But oh well, thanks for making me feel better!!! :)

Was a pleasure!!!

L xoxo

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A female reader, Lani702 United States +, writes (27 May 2009):

Lani702 agony aunt Don't worry about it. He's peeved that you didn't pick up the phone (why didn't you?) but you texted him and asked him to call and now the ball is in his court. If he likes you, which he does, he'll call. Don't sweat it.

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