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writes:I have a boyfriend of 4 years. It has been a difficult 4 years. But the times have not been all bad, or else it wouldn't have made it this far. He is younger than I am and I have 2 children from a previous relationship. The past 2 months have been terrible, and 2 weeks ago he left me and went to stay with his grandmother, who raised him. He tells everyone that he loves me and the kids and wants to work things out but he won't call me and tell me this. I really thought we woulld get married, I love him that much. So much that I have halved the medication that allows me to live. I have not eaten a thing in 2 weeks, I can't stop crying, not even at work. I am so devastated that I am really counting down to the end.When he left, he only took clothes with him. He left everything else including his cat. He was hysterical, we both were, when he left. Everyone says that he will come back. But I am not sure how long I can wait this out. It has already taking its toll on my health and my body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):
In our lives, we suffer a lot.. We walk through on several trials, that causes us to give up. Sometimes we think life is so unfair because of the hindrance we've been through. We struggle a lot to survive, but when things went wrong and everything is gone, we find someone to blame on and ask "why me?"..But things are just not constant, things may come and go, if not today, tommorrow, or never. But we need to value things that comes along our way, looking back the past may serve as our guidance to a new and better path forward..
“Every problem has a gift inside. We seek problems because we want their gifts.”
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