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*alt_And_Pepper
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for eight months now, and for five of those months we've been sleeping together. I love him more than anything and he loves me too. I know he does. He never fails to show it and he does so many things for me. We are both sixteen, and were both legal when we started sexual activity. For the first couple of months or so, everything was fine. Then during the third month, he suddenly developed premature ejaculation. I am allergic to latex, so I got the contraceptive implant and am also on the pill. We were both virgins prior to each other, and got tested a few weeks ago and are both fine. STD free. However, for the past few days he has had erectile dysfuntion. It is fine during foreplay and if I finish him by hand, but as soon as we start having sex his erection will go. He assures me that it's not me, and I do believe him. He promised me that he wasn't worried about it, and I have assured him that although I am disappointed, I love him too much to let it bother me. It is something that we will work through. I was just wondering if there were any home remedies that we could do to help both his premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction?We have an appointment for the GP tomorrow, but I was just wondering if it sounds medical to you, or do you just think it's the stress of his exams and such? If it is medical, are there any cures? I know there are treatments that are temporary but are there any permanent cures?I apologise for the amount of questions... I'm just so concerned for his health. I want him to be okay. He satisfies me enough in other ways and I am truly happy with him, I just worry about him and that he is not being satisfied. I apologise again for the long post and awful lot of questions. Overall: are there any home remedies to cure both problems?; what does it sound like is causing it? (I do understand you aunts are not doctors... I just would like a small guideline as to what you think it is); are there any permanent cures?Thank you so much for your time and if you reply, thank you for that also. This doesn't sound like the friendliest post, and I apologise for that. It's just the way I type. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): You may want to try kegel exercises, it could be that with penetration, he loses his erection because he is not getting the friction he needs to stay hard. Strengthening your muscles (when you go pee, you can hold it, let it out, hold it, etc) will help. I'm basing this on what you wrote about him being able to get hard and having no problem ejaculating when you give him a hand job so it doesn't sound like he has a medical problem.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (27 May 2009):
 Firstly there are latex free condoms available, so can I suggest using them.
Secondly if you are both 16-18 then I think you will both be going through exams or job seeking at the moment, this is a very stressful period of your lives and one of the first signs of stress is loss of sex drive or inability to maintain an erection.
I think this problem will go away by itself, but if you are concerned, he should speak to his GP, who can sometimes prescribe medication that can help (not always sidnifil).
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