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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you maintain a healthy friendship with someone you are in love with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you maintain a healthy friendship with someone you are in love with? What about when you know they are not in love with you? ... (26 words)

Trust issues/Long distance relationships/How to ask her to stop getting drunk so often

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, basically im in a long distance relationship, we have been together 5 months now, and i feel she is the one and know that she feels the same Basically recently she has changed which group of people she hangs out with and this new group goes out gets drunk etc about once a... (217 words)

Do stretch marks turn a guy off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok one for all the hot and sexy dudes out there. im a good looking girl blah blah blah but i have a few strech marks on my hips, nothing major just a few. I read that 75% of men think its a turn off? is that true?. I also have a biggish labia and i was wondering would ... (79 words)

I have just broken up with my married boyfriend but I don't know if I've done the right thing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year i met this guy and i didnt know he was engaged,we were seeing each other almost every night in my place,we were getting on with each other so well and after 5-6 weeks his fiance called me and told me that they are engaged but i didnt tell her who i am and i told her ... (647 words)

What does he REALLY want? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am really good friends with this guy, and he lives about two hours away. We have known each other for eight months, but it is hard to see each other. He is always the one to call me and text me though, and it is usually his idea to hang out. He usually ends up not coming ... (215 words)

I don't find him very attractive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have gone on 3 dates with a guy. I enjoy his company. I have never dated properly and i really enjoyed it! He is a real gentleman But i don't find him that attractive and he's not very compatible with my friends. Anyway, last time i saw him, he said he loved me! an... (134 words)

How can you tell when your friend is flirting with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this question is going to seem kinda stupid but stay with me.... So how can you tell when one of your best friends that is the opposite sex as you is flirting with you??? But here is the sticky thing about the situation i have a girlfriend so really the normal ways ... (141 words)

Is he being friendly? Wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I received a message from my ex boyfriend saying he was watching a film afew days ago and it made him think about me.he also asked me if i remembered when we watched it at my house,and said we were " pre-occuppied " with other things when it was on !.He also asked if i have a ... (151 words)

I don't know if he feels something for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy that i like since a year ago. this year we started dating(not going out) and i fell in love with him. were always always together but i dont know if he feels something for me just like i do for him and im afraid of ssking him. how do i now id he likes me? should ... (64 words)

Can't forget his ex, even though we are married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my husband is 21. We have been together for a few years, and been married for about 7 months. At first, I was treated second best to his ex, who constantly tried to break us up and cause trouble between us... After almost calling off our wedding becuase of her, ... (197 words)

1st sexual encounter uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 16 and i recently experienced my first sexual intercorse. I found it to be really uncomfortable and i didnt enjoy it. I never experienced an orgasm and neither did my partner, is this normal ? I experienced a lot of pain after it also, like when walking. I have als... (107 words)

Is my friend's analysing correct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well basically I heard a rumour about this guy [sean] who i've liked for ages, the rumour was about him and this other girl, so my friend text him on my phone and asked if the rumour was true and when he replied he said "NO. Definitely not true." My friend saw this ... (132 words)

How can I prove that I want to be with him and not my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got into an agruement just because I told him I still love my ex. We have been together for 3 months, but when I told him he broke up with me. Just 2 months ago he kissed a girl behind my back and he claimed she was a friend and I still forgave him. He can't ... (88 words)

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to know if this guy likes me??? I sit next to him in social studies and we share a table. but he never stays on his side he is always on mine and having his arm touching me or putting his head on my shoulder or something. He puts his arm around my chair when he thinks i ... (217 words)

Periods and sexual activity....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im a 14 year old girl and i havent started my period yet. but i like this guy and we have been going out for sometime but he wants to finger me and i want him to but can i be fingered without starting? x... (46 words)

Is my friend's sister into me and if so, how do I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - (I'm re-posting this cause i didn't get enough feedback last time)Let me set the whole situation up first. Basically, I'm in this situation where I think the sister of basically my tightest homie(closest friend) is feelin me( likes me,lol), but the thing is, I think I might be ... (795 words)

I'm pregant and want an abortion, but I'm scared to tell my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old and took a pregnancy test and it was positive. im not ready to have this child nor would my boyfriend but i just found out 2 days ago and not sure when or how to bring it up let alone tell him. what should i do? I am scared that if i talk to him about it and... (110 words)

Ever since I told him I like him, he has stopped talking me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy and we're close acquaintances. We know each other from school and we used to be friendly(thought he liked me for a while but something came up). He has a gf. A girlfriend that has no feelings for him whatsoever. I think he just realized that cause when he was ... (380 words)

Partner had an emotional affair 2 years ago but still talks to the girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner had an emotional affair 2 years ago, but still talks to the girl via email despite my repeated requests for it two stop. my partner told me that it is no longer a romantic relationship and finds it hard to end it as the girl has problems and few friends to talk to. ... (106 words)

I'm tired of taking care of his mother and living this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am tired ,exhausted of problems. today i argued with my husband because of his mother, all this because she is diabetic and he always tells her to not eat things that can bother her but she never cares and always we have problems . always i give her the amount of food s... (461 words)

I think I might be pregnant but how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well okay, here it is... For the last week i have been tears and Jtpt cant stop crying, my male friend had received text message from some strange girl.... Just yesterday i noticed that my period had not net started and it been a week late now.... Now i can feel a change in my ... (194 words)

Confused. closet or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex used to have these moments, usually when he was high or really tired, when he'd blurt out: "oh, i'm gay...i'm gay i'm gay..." and it never had anything to do with what we were talking about or doing. he'd always just blurt this out randomly. and he was definitely not tryi... (374 words)

How to make him show some sexual feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well let me start...me and my lad have been going out for 3 months now..but there hasn't been any action...we only make out..ha hasn't touched anything and i don't want to be the first one to make the first move...i notice that he's getting hot from his breathing because it ... (71 words)

I want some adventure in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have only been together a couple months and already moved in together. At first it was basically just me staying with him, we didnt register me as living here or anything, but now we're going to so i can get work, hopefully. I'm only 19 years old and ive ... (454 words)

Are my expectations just too high?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend passed away 3 years ago and he was my first love, my first everything in fact. We dated for 5 years, so you can imagine how attached I was to him. Now that I've accepted it and a couple years have gone by i'm dating a new guy whom i love dearly but he's concerned ... (123 words)

Difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend told me and his friends that he loves me, but he's not in love with me. He says that may come in time. What should I do? Is there a differance between loving someone and being in love. He shows all the signs with his actions that he is IN LOVE with me, but maybe im ... (80 words)

Is it too late for something romantic to happen between us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts I am in a bit of an odd situation really, which has been going on for many years now. I am 27, and recently single, after a series of bad short term relationships. I have known this guy (he is 28) since I was at Primary School (about 5 yrs old - yes I know,... (440 words)

I let a man use me but wanted him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have let a man use me.because i felt so low bout myself thats how he made me feel. And thought i wasnt worth anything else! It puts me in such a negative state of mind! Comments like im with u cos i like to do my bit 4 charity.i feel sorry 4 you.youve put on weight.are your ... (303 words)

20 year old female virgin with intimacy issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old female virgin and I never had a serious relationship/boyfriend or even had a real kiss. I'm smart, have a job, and been told that im beautiful by many admires but i have never really been on that relationship rollarcoaster. people think im naive but i do know ... (233 words)

I'm pretty sure that soon I won't feel anything for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay basically. A guy who's friends with some of my friends added me on facebook about 3 weeks ago and we started talking and got along great. 6 days ago we decided to meet up with two of our other friends (this was mine and his first time meeting) and we had a great time. 3 ... (175 words)

Boyfriend fine one minute and flips out the next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 2 years 3mnths. I finished him recently because we were both under a lot of strain and the constant arguments between us were hassling our work. Two days later, I slept with him. He knew that I love him, but at this space in time, I ... (378 words)

Are there risks involved with having sex with two women at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, can i get any STI's or anything like that through having sex with two woman at the same time, without using a condom. is it safe to put my cock into one woman, then into another and back again? is there any risks?... (44 words)

He's very jealous and I'm not sure what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

- This will probably be long. Because I want to include lots of points. There is a boy I think I'm in love with. We have felt this way about eachother for 8 months now. He is very jelous and I get a lot of accusations such as.. I fancy my best friend. Who two years ago, I had... (701 words)

He cheated and now I don't want him to kiss or touch me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advise... I've been married for 10 yrs and I just found out my husband was cheating on me. It all started with a time out hoping it would make us stronger, but than I found out he was living with another women for three months and he was also thinking of having a family ... (176 words)

Why did he say that he wished I was a good part of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My boyfriend said to me that he wishes i was a good part in his life?what does he mean?when i told him that the meanin is clear that this sentence means am a bad part?he denied it sayin it doesnt mean that and that i always interpret things wrong?doesnt it ... (74 words)

Boyfriend had secret account email but says he was just curious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 Yrs. we were engaged and everything ready to move in this coming December. He's been the most caring boyfriend with me. Very respectful, gentleman, sweet, always listened to me, in general...I thought he was the perfect man. Well, little did ... (453 words)

Girlfriend made mysterious call while drunk and I was away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I was away on work this past weekend. My girlfriend went out one night with a mutual guy friend of ours (not worried about that). They ended up bar hopping with some of his friends and going to a party and she stayed out until 5am, which she never does, not even with me... (332 words)

For the past weeks he has been rather distant, I think I don't love him any longer but I am afraid to tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) So I have been with my current boyfriend for about five months now. At first things were AMAZING, we had so much in common and he seemed perfect for me. We would talk for hours on end. He would always tell me how much I loved him, and I loved him alot. Or so I thought, ... (233 words)

HELP! Getting married in 4 months... But I still think about my first love!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I definitely need some guidance and advice! My first love from when i was 13 we were on and off until 3 years ago when I met my fiance (I am now 23). We always talked secretly throughout the years when we were with other people, or when he had a girlfriend and I was single w... (795 words)

Together since we were teenagers, our relationship has deteriorated with time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok so I will be as breif as possible. I am 24 and my Special other is 28. We have been together since I was 16 and lived together since I was 17. We were a great couple up until about 3 years ago. Something just changed. Neither of us are interested in sex. He works all day, ... (233 words)

Please help me. Is my boyfriend cheating? He says this is a set up.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am 28 years old mother of a 10 year old daughter. MY past relationships haven't been all that great. My first husband cheated on me numerous times but I stayed with him to try and work things out. Well that was back in 2003 that we got our divorce. I am current... (289 words)

Obsessed with lesbian porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 19 yr old girl, im engaged and pregnant but i have an obsession with lesbian porn, i watch it daily. i dont fancy women but id love to hav a woman go down on me, it gets me so horny when i watch it on videos. i love oral sex of my bf and orgasm within 15minutes but im ... (96 words)

I'm not happy with his past and thinking of leaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do i stay with my boyfriend or leave. my partner is 43 and im 24 and we have just had our first baby together. he has been married before and has 2 children with his ex wife and he also has another child with another women. This women keeps coming round my house and writin... (107 words)

My boyfriend's ex wont allow me around their daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2yrs this August, I am 29yrs old and he is 33yrs old. My boyf has an 11yr old daughter and I have a 10yr old daughter. My boyfriend ex wont allow me around their daughter. She allowed it on NY and NYDay but said that was because she wanted to ... (400 words)

Stay with the guy who lied to me or marry a person of my parent's choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi..! I am in relationship with this guy since 5 months i.e. from Dec end. We got to know each other through phone and usually communicated through phone and after talking thrice or some more times he proposed me. At that time I hadn't seen him but I felt something special ... (500 words)

Infected foreskin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've done some research on this and the results so far haven't been good. I'm 37 years old and very obese. I'm not circumcised and have been getting infected foreskin a lot lately. I'm almost positive it's not an STD. I haven't had sex with anyone for close to 13 years. I'm ... (126 words)

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been dating for a month, we got drunk and went to a hotel, had sex, he then had a blackout and cant remember a thing and is so upset as now he thinks i feel used, is this relationship doomed? I dont want to seem like a tart.....but i really like him and now we have done ... (65 words)

Husband's ex left him a broken man, how do I move on from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello I really hope you guys can help. I have been with my husband for 2 years. But I am having trouble accepting his past. He was deeply in love with his ex girlfriend for several years and he was left a broken man when they broke up. He took years to get over he... (166 words)

I would like to know about women's periods

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi dear girls... My question is only for girls pls... don't mind boys.. Yaar because I am come from that society where it is not possible for me to ask this directly to someone. I want to know about periods. How it happends and in what age. is it have any fix t... (112 words)

Do I have to forget her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello to all... I have a problem, i.e. I love a girls too much. but now she get marriage with someone. she was also loves me. we don't have any physical relationship. As i told you she is married now, and don't have any contact with me. but some where I found by her behavi... (105 words)

Will being "loose" down there affect married life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will it effect on married life, please tell me i ... (58 words)

How to break-up without breaking a good man's heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - who to choose? how to break up without breakign a good man's heart? 5 months ago in Munich I met a silly, skinny Swiss boy. ok, he's 24 and I'm 22, but still... we laughed, got drunk, kissed, snowball fought, poked, and danced our way into love. he really liked me, ... (473 words)

Do I let him go? He now wants children and I still don't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now (I am 37 he is 32). At the start of the relationship we had quite an open conversation in which I said that I had never been that interested in having children and that I felt indifferent about it - other things were ... (323 words)

I don't know how to talk to my son about his choice of a partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age - My 16-year-old son is gay, he came out to me about a month ago. He's about to finish school in a month anyway and is doing well in his studies. I'm not shocked - it's an alternative lifestyle choice and if it suits him I'm happy with it. My husband is OK with it. It's his ... (217 words)

Problems with sweating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This probably isn't the appropriate question to ask on dear cupid, but I would like some opinions please. This is a health related question. I am male, 25years old, and fit and healthy, however I have have a problem with my underarms, I am fortunate that I do not have body od... (221 words)

My wife enjoyed sex with her ex but she isnt interested when it comes to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i wanna know how do i get my wife to want me sexually cause she never wants to have sex with me i mean we do it but very often she never wants it just me or even when i ask her she gets mad somtimes when she gives it to me she tells me to hurry up and get it over with we have ... (111 words)

Am I bisexual or gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys! i'm so confused with my sexuality lately. let me put up my situation: since i m young (like 8) i have crushes on boys but i never really dated. just some silly childhood crushes i suppose. i dun have any special feelings for girls. then when i hit puberty at aroun... (497 words)

One week on the pill - had unprotected sex during period

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So earlier today i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in me. I've been on microgynon 30 for a week today and so far have taken 7 pills in a row religiously at 4:50pm (when i took my first pill last friday). It's only 10am however, so i haven't taken my 8th ... (172 words)

Why is my friend being so ungrateful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Morning All, it was my friends birthday 2 days ago and i got her Lost Season 1-4 boxsets because she mentioned how she wanted them but couldnt afford them. When she opene it she looked dissapointed and when i asked what was wrong she said she thought i was going to b... (205 words)

Why is he keeping our relationship a secret from the people closest to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 years on and off. We lived together for two years, but then i left because i felt empty. He was hurt, and after i left, i wanted him back. We both live seperately now,but are back together. In the beginnig it was hard to get him ... (229 words)

Is it possible to have a girlfriend for that long and fall for someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, well i have a really confusing situation that's been bugging me for over a year now!!! last year, i met this amazing guy at uni, i liked him from the first time i saw him staring at me. for the first couple of months, i didnt know him, but he was always around where ... (410 words)

I want to keep our friendship but I'm afraid he might confess his feelings for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend, and i think he likes me, he really is a nice guy, perfect gentleman and everything, it's just that i am not attracted to him at all. i mean he would be a great boyfriend but i don't see myself with him. and i'm afraid that he might confess, but i just really ... (84 words)

How can I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have an ex from over 16 months ago, who I found was seeing someone else from where we work. I walked away no trouble very hurt, wishing her well since that time I have tried to achieve a friendship or normality and she has simply been very determined it seems not to all... (300 words)

Why is he waiting for his ex to agree with the break-up before he can be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I been dating this guy and he promised to make our relationship official as Boy and girl friend relationship once he have settled with his ex gf. He mentioned break up with his gf and is not picking her call up, but his gf keep on calling his house number and threaten him wit... (197 words)

Infatuated with my instructor - how do I make a move on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been going to a certain martial arts class and I find my instructor irresistible. I really want him. What is the best way to make a move (since he is my instructor after all)? ... (36 words)

My online guy doesn't like hairy guys, and thats exactly what I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I am in love with this guy who I met online we shared pictures and we talk a lot ( been a year now ..we still talk). It didn't work out and we were just phone friends. Lately he's been hitting on me and told me he would pick me over anyone if he had a chance. Now I recently ... (108 words)

I've given him signals I want him to contact me but all he can do is stare!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is he thinking when I am ignoring him or just not paying attention to him...(well I actually am but just not staring directly, but I can see and feel him staring at me when he walked around me... I gave him little notes saying hi and gave him my email and he didn't r... (206 words)

In my mind I feel I am pregnant but I'm not really sure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello...i have a question about whether or not i could be pregnant....I have had unprotected sex several times in this month of may. I usually tend to have irregular periods. I began my period of May 20 in which was the same day I also had had sex. The problem is that my period ... (119 words)

I love her, but she's completely inconsistent

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone well how to start im 17.. my ex is 18.. we went out for about 1 year .. i love her to death, i would do anything for her.. she broke up with me about 1 month ago, the day she broke up with me she went to some party,got drunk,high, ended up sleeping with some guy ... (332 words)

I miss her, but don't think I can be "just friends"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl for a month and we had a great time but she is leaving in a year and a half so she says she doesn't want to commit to me, so she only wants to be friends, so we don’t get hurt later on. I can understand that but I can't be her friend. Whenever I’m with ... (146 words)

He doesn't reply to my texts

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi My name is Vicky. I don't understand guys at all,there is aguy in my English class. He always ask me out, like hang out, having lunch, and shopping today. Some of his friend say he likes me, he tells me everything. But when the classes over, i text him and see how is he do... (93 words)

Is she into me or what's going on?

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29 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me set the whole situation up first. Basically, I'm in this situation where I think the sister of basically my tightest homie(closest friend) is feelin me( likes me,lol), but the thing is, I think I might be feelin her too. I consider my homie to be like blood, so I always ... (780 words)

Is admitting you are "scared" unattractive?

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29 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Would most women think less of a man they were in a relationship with if he admitted he was truly scared or fearful of something that maybe the woman didn't find fearful? ... (32 words)

Worried about whether I could be pregnant!

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me...i am worried weather i am pregnent or not? i have sex without using condom with my boyfriend...but he said the sperm didnt go in...he just let on my body and even i saw that but my fear is before my period starts my breast swells and after a weeks my period ... (90 words)

I can't trust my mother and it hurts me

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29 May 2009 (F)

- I droped a drink on the floor at home and my mum strated yelling at me so much, even though I said it was an accident, that I was sorry and that I would clean it up. BUt she was still mad. And then she kept threatening to hit me and then she raised her hand at me, so i ran out ... (191 words)

Thinking a serious relationship? Or not?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is a guy thinking when he asks a girl to attend a holiday dinner with his family or his mother's birthday party or even go to dinner with him and some of his friends after only one or two dates? Is this a sign that he is interested in a serious relationship with the girl ... (63 words)

My boyfriend can't stop lying to me about everything

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy I am seeing keeps telling me lies. Sometimes he lies about things that don't even matter, and I even tell him that if he had told me the truth I wouldn't have cared, yet he still lies. For instance, he and I were laying out at the pool and he was covered in bruises and I ... (341 words)

When do I dismiss what he said and listen to my own heart?

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29 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I don't know where to draw the line. Less than a year ago, when I started a relationship with my (ex)boyfriend I met while traveling, I told him from the get go that I didn't even want to have a relationship, that I am in a phase of life where I don't want attachments. Bas... (1484 words)

How to deal with chest hair?

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29 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a pretty hairy chest, but i dont really want one anymore, ive tried to shave it but all that it left me with was multiple ingrown hairs, rough stuble. I want a smooth hairless chest, is there anyway to get that?, maybe waxing?... (48 words)

Bothered that the ex remarried, and my current relationship isn't great

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all Please could someone answer this. Recently I heard my ex got married it was like someone had put a knife through me-I don’t understand why when I was with him we had a house-which he later sold-I relinquished my rights on breakup-stupid I know but I want... (174 words)

If you were in love with someone once can you fall for them again?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - if you were in a serious relationship and in love with someone once can you fall for them again? after years of being long distance friends? ... (26 words)

Hopeful and in love, or is he just a cheater?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfreind for 4 yrs broken up for some short times but we always manage to work it out.i love him and he wants to get married how do i know hes for real and he has cheated before but i got thru it, one of my good freinds says once acheater always one and i ... (81 words)

Could my sister be pregnant even though she's on the pill?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister is on birth control she has been taking her pills faithfully and she had unprotected sex her period should have started already but it didnt she just spotted could she be pregnant even thought she is on birth control... (41 words)

Should I just give up? 3rd time for marriage counseling

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Should I keep trying to save my marriage? I am 38 yrs old and married for 3 yrs. My husbad and I are currently on our third session of marriage counseling but I feel that it is too late. I want a divorce. 3 months after we got married and bought a house he left hi... (251 words)

How reliable are home pregnancy tests?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a problem af now 2 months late I made a docs appointment for June 2 or 3rd I cant remember But I took a number of hpts and the epts were very faint while the first response showed negative I wanted to know how many pregnancies weren't detected when taking urine test ... (61 words)

Controlling, disrespectful boyfriend -- or am I overreacting?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We actually knew each other 3 yrs prior just as friends talking. Well, I have many things that I consider a red flag. When we moved in together he became very jealous. He would accuse of doing things I knew I wasn’t doing. 6 ... (534 words)

Is my ex the one calling me late at night?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorced from my ex and have a child in common. To make a super long story short, this man emotionally and psychologically abused me, using his child, the courts, higher authorities, he abandoned me leaving with my child alone, unemployed and will every responsibility. He ... (286 words)

He agreed to go to a movie -- does that mean he likes me?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am nearly sixteen and so is he. I really like him. He really makes me laugh and I find him very attractive. The thing is I know he kinda likes this other girl because I asked him and he said that he did a bit and he knows that I like him. (I went for the straight forward but ... (233 words)

How do I know he won't cheat again?

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29 May 2009 (F)

I have a friend who thinks it's funny to lie all the time, why does she do this?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok..so my friend lies to me..alot. She does it alot and whenever anyone confronts her about it, which is not alot, she always just jokes about it..and sometimes she can be mean about it. She always jokes all the time and lies..and sometimes I find it really hard to trust her, ... (176 words)

I do love him, but I don't trust him, how do I overcome this problem?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is a long one, Me and my fiance have been dating for 6 years now and have 2 small boys together.I love him so much and would do anything for him. He has messed up so many times and every time he messes up i feel like a small piece of my beliefe in him dies. I dont tru... (470 words)

Broke up badly, we share mutual friends, and that is becoming a problem, please help?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a major fight with my best friend, he finished the friendship and he wants nothing to do with me. This happened 6 months ago. I've moved to the next city so I don't see him anymore, however he still hangs out with mutual friends that I'm in contact with. I have 2 ... (668 words)

If you are drunk, will your first sexual experience hurt less?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a Quicke Question. Does The First Time hurt Less If Drunk? x... (15 words)

On and off relationship, but lately he's been acting a little strange, what's going on?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here it goes a big old blurt of worries again lol. ok this dude and me have been on and of since we were 14 and were both 17 turning 18 now. it seems that every so often we get back together then ends ina big to do then the same thing happens again and again,he's a bit... (299 words)

Having an affair with a married man, he is attentive, calls and texts me all during the day, do you think there is a future here?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been having an affair with a married man for 11 months we have known each other for 30 years, we get on great together have good sex he has never made promises he can,t keep, when we talk about the future he indicates he wants to be with me but says to see what happens ... (131 words)

He tells me he cares, but he doesn't think there is any future for us, what is the problem, I am confused?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age - Hiya!! Could someone please help me as I feel so confused! I am 45 and my boyfriend is 50 we have been together for about 3 months now. but have know eachother for about 2 years, We went on holiday for a week and had a great time, Since we got back he said that he felt like he ... (164 words)

Have had unprotected sex for 7 years, not pregnant yet, could infertility be the problem?

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29 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 years old and my boyfriends 28 years old. we've not been trying for a baby but have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 weeks and im not pregnant. of course i am over the moon about it but at the same time im quite worried i could be infertile? what are the ... (57 words)