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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's still checking his online profile

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks and he is still checking his online dating profile. I even caught him looking online several days ago but didn't say anything. We have not had an exclusive conversation and so far he spends a lot of time with me, several days in a row at ... (146 words)

I think I did the right thing but why do I feel so sad now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for a couple months. He told me that he doesnt believe in labels and that we are not boyfriend/girlfriend but we'll just go with the flow. Even though I told him I dont do anything without a commitment, he asked for oral sex. This got me extremely angry ... (240 words)

Girl likes boy, boy likes girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so theres this boy i've known about for 9 months now. i told him i liked him in january, and he was cool with it. i really like him. he told me last month that he liked me too! he sent me a text message this one night asking "what would you say if i asked you out, im curio... (127 words)

I'm registered to a dating website, but I never get a reply. What makes a good opening message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm registered to a dating website. What is a good opening message to send to a girl your interested in? Any time I send a message, girls seem to read it and either deleted or not reply. It'd be nice to get a reply. What can I do?... (52 words)

Evidence of cheating on his cellphone, how do I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship for a little over two years now. Last weekend while visting my boyfriend, I snooped in his cell phone. I had a gut feeling for a few months that something might be up , but everything he said seemed to check out. so when I sno... (180 words)

5 Questions about teen pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 1, Are you more likely to get pregnant if you have unprotected sex about five days before your period? 2, If you have unprotected sex too close to the time of your period can you miss a period and it be emplantation bleeding instead? 3, What is the best HPT to use, which one w... (167 words)

Current relationship is depressing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have been in this relationship with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. But lately I am depressed, when i asked myself ; 'why?' I came to the conclusion that this current relationship is depressing me. She is very indifferent about my feelings, And I always ... (264 words)

She won't like the age gap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and my boyfriends 23, ive known him since ive been 14, and for many reasons we didnt get together but now we love each other so much. Next week im going to live with my mum which is about 3 hours away from him and i want him to come and stay for a weekend or somethin... (131 words)

Feelings for teacher aren't going away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am so confused and i just want to stop feeling so confused :( i have a bit of a dilemma :( theres this teacher that i havent spoken to in a year properly. We used to have a great realationship but it got torn apart because he didnt want to have anything to do with me because ... (168 words)

Questions about bj/hand job

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - while giving my bf a hand job - my first time ever - i felt something that i donnu if it is natural or not , at the base of his penis from under - near the testics there is like 2 small bumbs or something i donnu what it is , is that normal ! and also i was afraid to hurt h... (99 words)

Do condoms come in different sizes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and we decided that we were ready for sex. My boyfriend went to put on the condomn but it wouldnt fit... Do condomn's come in different sizes? If so where can we find them?... (45 words)

Should I go to Singapore for my future or stay in Spain with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I live in Spain, am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 17. My father lives in Singapore, where I want to live, because I want to be an air traffic controller. My boyfriend is going to be an electrician and does not speak English. In Singapore the official languages are En... (149 words)

FWB or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was naive and had never been in a proper relationship before, so when a gorgeous, charming boy starting showing an interest in me, i forgot all my morals and started having sex with him pretty soon. In hindsight i would never have done this as its just not who i am! and i ... (535 words)

How do I give my teacher a thank you card with out making his collegues jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I want to give a thank you card and a small gift to my teacher. He has been very helpful during my years at the school that I will soon graduate from. I often have to visit his office for stuff so I thought I might deliver the gift there. However, I have to figure out a way ... (178 words)

Should I be jealous of his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I am very in love with my boyfriend of two years, the only problem is my extreme jealousy which tears me up inside. he has had one other major relationship in his life and a few other fairly major relationships whereas he is my first boyfriend and this really bothers me as i ... (306 words)

We need to kiss!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is how it all goes down. I'm in love with my ex. He still loves me but we aren't together. We've never kissed but did we want to. We were both to nervous. I feel that in order for us to fall head over heels we need to kiss. I'm too much of a pussy to do it. I need ... (66 words)

I need help is it wrong or should I say something??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I’m 20 and I have been having feelings both emotional and sexual towards my mum's cousin's husband's brother’s son. We have always said we r cousins even though we are not related through blood. We have been close for about seven years. i Broke up with my ex last sept ... (162 words)

Delayed ejaculation and unsensitive penis, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend has problems with delayed ejaculation, he can always please himself but very rarely gets to orgasm through sex. he also seems to have a very unsensitive penis, he says he cant really feel anything, even fellatio, I think the problems all maybe emotional, he ... (59 words)

Why and what is the reason for his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 33 years old, married, and work as a nurse. I met a physician 58 years old that has tooken an interest in me. He is a flirt and a social butterfly. I am shy, quite, and reserved. I started noticing him when he started flirting with me which turned me off completely. I use ... (430 words)

I want to leave my husband as I know I don't love him, but I don't want to break his heart. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to start with this question.... I don't know where to really go, or what to do. When I was 18 I dated a man who was horrible to me. I ended up getting pregnant, and had a miscarriage three months later. When I found out I was pregnant this man left me... So... (348 words)

I feel like the most boring, ugliest, most bitter person ever! What do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I don't know whether I'm depressed or what. But I don't feel ok. I don't feel very happy. Ok, so let's see. This has been happening for a while, but usually I feel bad because of boredom and because I feel I lack something. I have some hobbies but I guess I feel bad that I ... (315 words)

Is she really busy or just not ready to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dealing with a lot of insecurities and issues recently but kept many of them to myself as I didn't want to seem "weak" or unattractive to a female friend I'm very very close with. Recently we were at a party and after seeing her talking with a couple guys, guy... (388 words)

I was going to ask him out in a few days but now I'm not sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i like this boy and he likes me too. everything was going great last week.. until friday. we were speaking and smiling and everything to each other. but on friday i seen him at lunch at school and he walked past and i think he said hi to me but i didn't hear him, and now ... (127 words)

Country girl finding it impossible to find love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have very basic question. how do i get a boyfriend how do i get a guy to fancy me.even though i am fat,short,plain looking,30+ age and feel over the hill and no guy be interested in me because older and no longer in my 20s .who shy and find it hard to talk to guys because ... (118 words)

Did I miss my period?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We had unprotected sex five days b4 my period was suppossed to start. My regular period lasts seven days, its been that way for three years and has never messed up. About three days after the sex i thot i started my period...which is weird for me, this time it was lighter and ... (109 words)

How does a girl know when a guy is having sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how does a female comes to know that a male is having sex for the first time?... (17 words)

I need some help labelling my sexuality

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having difficulty in labelling my sexuality for others to understand. Whilst it doesn't matter to me, I can't find a category I can define myself by and was hoping that others with more knowledge or an unbiased view could help. I'm male, I've had relationships wi... (182 words)

I cant handle another break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for about 3 years now and we have a 7 month old son and i have 2 little girls from a previous relationship. Everything was great when we first met and were friends and also after we took it to the level and started to date. Right before i found out i ... (310 words)

What has happened to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello His 17 and i am 16 Basically I fancy my brothers friend and yesterday my brother and his girlfriend went outside and told him in my front garden if he fancies me and he just said no my brothers girlfriend called me and he said to me “Look sorry but don’t take as in... (427 words)

Everyone else is in love with my boyfreind,why cant I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i need help ,I'm in a relationship that I see going nowhere, He loves me to bits my family adore him,I think they like him even more than they like me,he is perfect. I cant talk to him ,I don't find his jokes funny ,we cant laugh together ,I never want to have sex with him ... (238 words)

Is he lying to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a matter about my boyfriend, i have a feeling he is lying to me. Yesterday well he was visiting me i was sitting next to him on the couch when one of his mates called to ask if he and i will be going to motor practice on saturday and if we will be going with to prize ... (163 words)

I can't cope with this LDR am I asking too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in this long distance relationship for 16 months.... We started out that way so I have accepted the fact that we're thousand of miles apart and that is not a problem for me to handle. I believe that long distance relationship is like any other relationship. It's just ... (944 words)

Am I wasting my time with this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Right now I'm in a very unhappy relationship. I have no idea what my boyfriend is feeling or thinking! Here is some basic information: - He is the same age as me - We were great friends for years before becoming a couple - We've been dating for almost 8 months now - H... (604 words)

I am scared but so curious to have a relationship with a woman. What should I do?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am an attractive, divorced woman with a child. I'll have to say that I've had many women attracted to me but I never accepted them. Deep inside, I always wanted to say yes, but I was too scared to realize my preferences. Well, it would be like coming out of the clos... (131 words)

Should I hang on in there and see what happens in his relationship or cut contact? I like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help, I think I have entered the friends zone!!! I had a one night stand a few months ago with a guy I knew vaguely from a long time ago. He lives about 200 miles away and was visiting his parents in my home town. Since our night together we have kept in contact via msn.... (305 words)

I don't want to tell my boyfriend that my baby is not his. Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and im 10weeks pregnant, i do have a boyfriend who i have been with for about a year but in febuary we had a break and i got a bit drunk and slept with another boy. And i know for a fact the baby is his. i got back with my boyfriend about a week later then found out i was ... (113 words)

Why does he always come back if he doesn't really want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, me and my ex had a good strong relationship. We had so many good times and we went thru a lot together. Wen our son was born it was the happiest time of our lives. Things were so going so well. After our son was born things changed. My partner hurt himself at work and he ... (428 words)

Am I really a dumb b*tch? That's what he said! Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - “Sometimes you must allow yourself to go through some hurtful things so you can become strong because you were emotionally weak”. (My quote) ***This is long, but not boring*** Were do I begin! I'm in love with an ex-con who had it together, but still was lost on how to... (1403 words)

Difference between love and lust...can you tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know what is the difference between love and lust how to find out because when ever i meet my boyfriend we have sex...... (26 words)

His condom came off..inside of me. What could happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend recently just had sex for the first time and we were both Virgins. It was quite painful but he made sure that we went at my pace and that i was okay with everything. There was more blood then i expected as well, we did use a condom but it was slightly too... (130 words)

He accuses me of cheating..how do I deal with his temper tantrums and foul language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance are going through a very rough patch. We've been together for 2 years and he recently proposed. We were friends for about 5 years before we started our relationship and I felt I knew him inside out. Many people told me I had changed him - for the better - and... (448 words)

Depressed and in an abusive relationship, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

- Hello Before i start i want to just say this is a long one so please read carefully. Ok so here goes me and my partner met in august 2006 and in december 2006 we split because my bf was so controlling he didnt like me talking to other guys and when he found out i went to ... (501 words)

Why does he act differently at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i really like each other...(like a lot) and i know he does because he tells everyone. but he dosnt talk to me that much at school except for a little hi and a smile in the corridoor. and at lunch he is always with his friends over me. i know he li... (112 words)

Is my boyfriend pushing me away because he is joining the Air Force?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm not really sure what to do about my boyfriend of over 2 years. Were both young, I'm 17 and he's a few months younger. To begin with, we were ace, we'd been best friends always, and although I had a bit of a rocky past, he took me regardless and was amazing. Things ... (465 words)

I attract men a lot younger and a lot older than I should. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently 18 soon to be 19 and I don't know why but I get the wrong attention from guys. When I'm out in college I get guys at least 25+ hitting on me and when I'm in town I get 14-16 year olds trying to have a go aswell. I really don't understand why. I look my age, ... (145 words)

Do you think he is using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship and have been for nearly two months. I dont really like relationships so when i do get into one its no long term. The first few weeks was great he took me to the movies, we met each others parents and i think its fair to say that i really liked him. Th... (348 words)

The ex talks sex and has a g/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok everyone a bit of help needed My ex bf and i get on very well still since we split, ok we stoped talking for about 3 weeks but then made up, and are still getting on really well, we talk on the phone most days and he always poke me when he sees me, Anyway the main probla... (244 words)

My ex wants me to give him 125.00 for a speeding ticket!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf has just asked me for 125 2 pay off a speading ticket he got and 6 points, i said i have 2 think about it i know i will get the money back, but he has a new gf and hasent even told her he has got caught speeding Im also not sure if hes telling me the truth as i d... (164 words)

She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I am not totally inexperi... (201 words)

Telling the difference between friends? or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have never really had any close guy friends, so when it comes to boys i'm clueless as to whether I fancy them or if they are just a really good mate. How can I tell the difference?... (41 words)

Torn between current boyfriend and ex..break up now? break up later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for 2 years and I'm planning to break up because I'm not really happy and fulfilled with him. Before him, I was with another guy, in another country and another continent. We lasted for 2 months in a long distance relationship, we both had to part in ... (502 words)

Is he cheating? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. im almost 16, and have been with my current boyfriend for 4 months. latley things have been abit rocky: so let me explain. i have been out with him before, but ended things because he was always really paranoid, but in October i starteed to develop feelings f... (454 words)

I'm so scared to tell her that I like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl at my school. She had a crush on me in primary school, but she wouldn't tell me. The news just got out. I secretly had a crush on her too, but I haven’t told anyone. Now we are in high school, and we hardly ever speak to each other. I still have a crush on her ... (108 words)

I'm head over heels for her but..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok hi guys i need some help here's my story.... Here's me a skater kid who loves to party and being with alot of girls and drinking and drugs. And here she is prom queen, prettiest girl in school, and ms.goodie 2shoes. now at my school im known as the sweet talker but this ... (483 words)

Why am I always paying for things with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not a generous person for sure. In fact, I care about spending equal amount of $$$ when I am going out with frds or significant others. For example, I've been seeing this 30 years old grad student for a semester. I just realized we've been eating in our school cafe ... (393 words)

1st cousin and I want to be together but don't want to shame our family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my first cousin from my mothers side recently came down 2 stay with me, he lives in london, me swindon. we were never close growing up and hardly ever talked we havent seen each other for 5 years, but when he was here we fell in love and got involved in an emotional and ... (85 words)

Dumped by fiancée, should I get the ring back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - After proposing to a woman I have lived with for two years i moved to another city. She joined me a few months later, but then ended the relationship because I cheated on her. (note: she did as well prior to that) She wont give me the 10K diamond. Should I get it back? ... (58 words)

I'm terrified of giving birth again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm terrified of giving birth again. I know you probably get this alot but i dont know what to do.I had the most awful time the first time round, i was abroad so nobody could understand me and visa versa, they wouldn't give me any pain killers (i couldn't stop shaking long ... (160 words)

Should I ask him out or wait on him to ask me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi..im 14 years old and i really really like this boy and i feel so good around him when im talkin to him on the phone or by him..im really just wondering should i ask him out or wait on him to ask me out?? I never really felt this way over a boy before..NEVER..its somethin... (160 words)

Married since August. Has he fallen out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my situation. My husband and I have been together for over two years. We've only been married since August. Why do I feel like my marriage is already in danger of being over? He's a distant individual, unlike when we started dating. He was warm and loving and consi... (514 words)

I want to believe that it wasn't all a lie or was it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently found out my boyfriend[now ex] was cheating on me. i was so inlove with him. he was my first love and the one i lost my virginity to. we would do everything together. he was my best friend then things started to get kind of rocky. we started to argue more often. w... (913 words)

Should I add my ex to facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

3 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - is it ok to talk to exes in the long run of life ? i broke up with my girlfriend and we have agreed to talk after some months. till then no calls, texts etc... But she was madly in love with me whereas i just liked her more than a friend. idk, what will be her state after so... (142 words)

Don't like him, but do like him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, one of my friends asked me out a few times a while ago and I said I couldn't go out with him 'cause I don't like him like that. Everything was fine until our schedules changed at school and we started hanging out a lot more. Now he keeps flirting and asking me to go to the ... (203 words)

Why does he keep coming back?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been separted for over a year, he knows I still care for him but he says he doesnt. A few days ago he tells me that he does still love me - would be easy to go back with me but he wants to stand on his own 2 feet. I was ok with that, I love him but buried ... (617 words)

Mixed feelings for the new and the old

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really sad and depress now. My bf and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. The reason of our break up was because I lied to him a lot. I was hurt on my past relationships and turned out not wanting to trust men. I met him and wanted to give it a try, but it was still hard. ... (226 words)

Dating and I feel trapped like I can't be myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm new to the whole dating thing. I have my first real boyfriend! And I love it, I love him. But there is one thing that I don't get....y do I feel kinda trapped like I can't be the same person. I am a really big flirt so it feels really different knowing that flirting with ... (93 words)

Too soon for a HPT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We had unprotected sex a week ago,it hapened so fast so we didnt even think bout it,it was bout 3 days b4 my period. i think tho that i had emplantation bleedin insted cuz it only lastd 4 days n thats not my normal period. I'm relaxed n calm,im a lil to yung 2 b preggo,but i... (223 words)

Was he sincere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A month ago my went out of town for a few weeks with another woman and lied to me about it. We have tried to talk, but nothing is getting resolved, we start therapy this week, but I am not hopeful. Well, a few days ago he left this note in my car, it was kind of like he ... (223 words)

Lonely in a bad marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So me and my husband are in a really bad spot right now, and I don't see it working out. We are going to start couseling, but that is not for another week. The problem I am having is I and really stressed out, and it is making me want to have a really passionate affai... (164 words)

Daughter trying to get us to go to social events that we feel uncomfortable about

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I;m having a serious dilemma. Its a long story ,but I will the try short form, so I wouldn't go too deep. So my daughter is trying to make us go to social events thru a very fancy university. Social balls, etc. We feel totally out of place, as we are more of the 'artist'... (137 words)

Age..just a number?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy- but hes 24 and i'm 14. i know i have to get over it, but i just can't! i try so hard but it doesn't work. I see him all the time, and he acts like its a joke that i'm in love with him when we're around other people, but when we're alone - he says he ... (124 words)

Did he think it was a date or not?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of some serious help here. About a month ago a guy messaged me out of the blue on myspace. I didn't really know him, we'd only ever had one class together, but we started talking a lot. He asked me for my yahoo id so we started talking even more after that. Then a ... (196 words)

Can these things happen during pregnancy?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In week one of pregnancy after emplantation bleeding and all that good stuff does ur stomach cramp up a lil? Also a question im wondering can pregnancy make ur ribs hurt?... (31 words)

I love my fiance but I just don't know about her

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3 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i everybody my name is zach and i am haveing problems with my feiance jessie i love her to death but i just dont know wat is goin through her head lately cause when i try to talk to her she gets pissy and she always pushs eachother away i dont know if it is her thinkin about ... (366 words)

I don't want to be known as the homewrecker

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 6 months ago I met this great guy through friends and we started hanging out. He is a newly wed and just moved into my community for work. One thing lead to another and I find myself in love with him. We both tried to deny our feelings for each other but one night after going ... (284 words)

I think he's faking it and I don't know how to approach this with him

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3 May 2009 (F)

age - Help here please I am in a relationship with a man and we are both in our mid 60.s we have sex on a regular basis but the last couple of times we have ,i think he has been faking it and i'm wondering if i should say something to him about this or just let it be as he may get ... (153 words)

20 year old boy with a serious problem

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3 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, I'm a 20 year-old boy with a HUGE problem. I'm living in Germany now for almost 2 years, and in this time I've got to know different people. 2 months ago I met a girl who is 14, 15 in 3 months(... this is being so hard to write...). She is a cute girl, very ... (698 words)

She has cancer and is pushing me away

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3 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My best friend of 5 years and girlfriend for 6 months has cancer. I spent 4 weeks in the hospital with her while she had an operation and treatments.I truely love her and care very deeply about her. Tonight we were laying in her bed watching a movie and she told me that she had ... (180 words)

I'm trying to push him away because he really hurts me

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've met this guy in the work and we always see each other once in a week.and we started to talk about almost 3 months ago..In the first month he always text me called me.Everything went perfect..during 3 months we only hang out once..After that I asked to hang out... (392 words)

Major clues to him

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy named James in my ILR class. I only met him this year and WOW. In class he always tries talking to me and such. When I see him in the hallway he'll try to block my way and he'll pick me up by my waist and give me a big guy. He slaps my my butt at times,rubs ... (88 words)

I think he called me fat.am I overreacting?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry that this is kinda long, but I think the back story is relevant... So I've been dating this guy for about seven months and 99.9% of the time he is really sweet and really good to me. But there are these little things. I'm 5'7" 148 lbs. Not a stick, but not fat ei... (455 words)

I don't trust his ex, but I want to trust him

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So it's been 5 months since my boyfriend and I got back together. Things are good, but could be better. Well a month ago, his son's mother came back into the picture. She finally decided that she would allow my boyfriend to be in his son's life almost 2 years later. This child ... (314 words)

What does this mean and how do I move on?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I forget a guy and what does this mean? Ive had feelings for him for the past 2 years and its hard to just let go. However, he's never respected me and only talks to me for sex. Ive slowly talked less since I know thats what i should be doing but nothing seemed w... (106 words)

Having STD testing as a rule?

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3 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Since several of my friends fell victim to some nasty STDs, I decided to make it a rule to never sleep with a woman unless she got tested and showed me the results ( and I would in turn of course ). However I feel this simply doesn't fly with most women as I've quite liter... (190 words)

I don't want to change for someone

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What am i supposed to do everything is so different now!! Lets start from the begining...my boyfriend lets call him Alex. Well Alex is my first real boyfriend. I never really went out with a guy before i was more one of those people that just likes to have fun hang out with ... (380 words)

Coming to terms with and surviving a divorce

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday, my husband and I decided that we cannot go on living together. For the time being, and for the foreseeable future, we have decided to end things after only about a year of marriage. Basically I am feeling really shattered right now, and have not slept in 2 days.... (156 words)

Why am I always thinking of her?Its been too long

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3 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey,dear people. i really have a problem.i used to loved a girl in the college.she 's beautiful,so i try to court her.i do whatever i can do to make her like me,but she refused me.she don't like me and "you are nice guy but i don't like you…"so it's for 8 years ago.meantime we ... (105 words)

Dealing with an "emotionally unavailable" man

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hear about how common it is for the husband to be "emotionally unavailable", but how does a wife deal with that? Thing is, it's not like we have all the time together. He is in the military and is gone for periods of 3-6 months. Thing is, he has been home for about a year ... (174 words)

Is this gay?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's my problem. Is considering yourself heterosexual but having an inclination towards the same sex considered being gay? When I was a teen, I used to sneak into my brother's room to look at his porn magazines. Why? because the women I saw excited me. I used to get ... (299 words)

Flirting with a guy who isn't single

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how dose one flirt with a guy whos not single? and please dont say forget about him because i cannot...... (22 words)

I don't want to turn 30!

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 and my birthday is tomorrow. I know that it's inevitable, but I can't help it. I don't want to be 30... Most people probably wouldn't consider that to be young anymore. I need words of comfort, please, the thought of my youth being over overwhelms me. I'm not e... (197 words)

FWB but it means more to me than that and he's really hurting me

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, For the past six months i have been in a kind of friends with benifits relationship with a guy in my group of friends, i only started talking to him last september and one of my frends gave him my number.He seemed like such a nice guy and i enjoyed texting ... (511 words)

Do I think he'll be back, absolutely... but why does he do this?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age - I met a man on line years ago. We spoke for a long time months before we finally met. Our first meeting we kissed and that's when I knew he had me. We spoke later on that day and agreed that we definitely should get together again. Every time we planned it, it never ... (685 words)

My marriage is dead. Is there a chance with this new woman?

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3 May 2009 (M)

age - I am a 57 year old married man with two teenage daughters one of whom does not live with my wife and I any more and the other being 17 years old. My marriage is dead and has been for years. There is no love any more between my wife and I and too many hateful things have bee... (470 words)

Help!!! Could I be pregnant?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex a week ago (during ovulation) but the guy pulled out. It is now a week before my period, and my breasts are starting to get tender, and i have been extremely tired. I know that tender breasts is also just a PMS symptom, but i've never felt tired like this. ... (77 words)

Can anyone shed some light on my questions about masturbation?

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3 May 2009 (F) age 26-29 - ok. this is gonna sound reeeaaalllly weird. but that's okay. :) so when i masturbate i get a lot of pleasure from it; it feels sooooo good and everything but when i reach a "climax" i don't think i actually orgasm... isn't, like... stuff supposed to come out when you do? like... (198 words)

I'm 13 and female and my friend (female) kissed me... thing is I liked it. Is this wrong?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi well here's the story and its long but i really need help so please read it all. im a girl, I'M 13 and i spent the night at my friend M's house last night and my other friend C spent the night too. we went to M's house right after school and we walked around town n stuff. we ... (275 words)

Am I beating my head against a brick wall here?

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3 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is an update to an earlier question. "Jill" and I have been dating for the past three months, and things really took off for us. Before that, we had been friends for several years. It feels like we have such good chemistry, and we just fit together in a way that I've ... (655 words)

I'm sick of all this sneaking about. What should I do?

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at my friend's house one night and her older brother was there (hes 27 and im 17) and ive always thought he was really fit but my friend has always warned me to stay away from him 1. because the age diffrence and 2.Its a simple rule you dont sleep with your fri... (259 words)

Lonely desperate female...

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3 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm 42 and yes might be too old to be writing to you but dont know what to do or who to turn to as im feeling really down and depressed and keep crying. i feel that im worthless and undervalued due to lack of self esteem and no real friends to socialise with. I feel tha... (192 words)