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*sladyballa24
writes:Well im a 20 year old female and im currently dating ah 21 year old female. we have only seen each other once since we've been together. we have been dating for 3 months now, and i can honestly say i love her. she's there for me when others are not. sometimes i feel as if its fake beacuse we never get to see eachother because our schedules are so busy. Were finally goin to spend time with eachother for 2weeks n june, so im very excited about that. She says she will not do me wrong and i believe her. Right now she's 7 hours away, but she's moving 3 1/2 hours away from me n 2months. My question is: Do you believe long distance relationships can work if you barely see each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): I don't think so either but you never know, you guys could be the exception. It's far too tempting at your age to meet other people locally and the deception rate is very high in LDRs. Even with constant communication, it's only by phone and that is hardly a replacement for a real person to spend time with and there will be many of those available to both of you locally.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (27 May 2009):
 In one word....NO
LDR'S are very difficult. I can safely say that the overwhelming majority of them fail.
and you have to be very confident in your partner and she in you for this to work. It takes constant communication to make it work.
I am sure there are more than a few persons here that may chime in. Some may have had or be in a successful LDR. But they are rare, and most likely possess a great mode of communication. That is key.
Best of luck
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