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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he being self-conscious about the age gap or is he trying to hide something from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I am dating an older man who is an adjunct teaching piano at a university. I'm 23 and he's 30 and we've been going out for two years. I was over at his place recently and he had to go into school to hear some of his students play in a recital and asked if I wanted to come ... (280 words)

Quiet and boring until I drink.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When i'm sober i am really boring and find it hard to start conversations. At work i'm the quiet one with hardly anything to say. Talking to a girl i just get tongue tied and embarrased. When i have had a drink i'm the life and soul of the party. Girls find me interesting a... (140 words)

She doesn't mind me liking her but doesn't want things to be awkward... is this a good thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I really like this girl, but i'm not sure if she likes me back. One of my friends told her that I liked her, against my will, but she said that she didn't want it too feel awkward, and she doesn't mind. So is that a good thing? Please help, as I really like her. ... (66 words)

Why are older guys attracted to younger women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Why are older guys attracted to younger women. And why are some younger girls attracted to older men? ANSWER MY QUESTION........PLZ!!!... (21 words)

Parents took his phone and now we can't talk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this boy over the internet. His name is John and I'm absolutely wild about him. the thing is that I know that it doesnt feel right to flirt with a guy who I've never even met but as we started talking we got close. We also texted. his parents found out now we are ... (91 words)

He's happy to tell me what's wrong with me but doesn't want to hear about his faults

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I seem to get into arguments about the same thing. Often it will be about something that I do not like about a situation going on. After trying to talk about things we blow up at each other and start insulting each other and finally one of us ceases ... (182 words)

I can't stop thinking of another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm happily married to my husband of 4 years (together for 8) but we barely have sex. Everything else in our marriage is great except the sex, or lack there of. In the past 2 years I keep finding myself attracted to other men who show me clear signs of attraction, nothing has ... (211 words)

I'm losing all my friends because they say I've changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Since I moved to Upper School, things have changed alot. I've stayed roughly with the same friendship group but I mean things were bound to change and they have. The thing is, people are saying I've changed, alot. Over the past few months I've lost 3 friends - all for diff... (116 words)

I think he's two faced and not sure tht I can trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a very complicated situation and would like some advice. My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old and we have been dating for over a year, starting around winter 2008. When we first got together he was always there for me. He didn't care that my ex-boyfriend was... (856 words)

Torn between THREE boyfriends at the moment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is what happened: I'm originally from France but study in the UK. My boyfriend (alex, not real name) of four years is still back in France and we managed to keep that long distance thing going for almost 1.5 years now. Last time I visited him we went to a job fair at his ... (568 words)

What does cum taste like?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I was wondering what 'cum' really tastes like? I have heard on here and friends that it tastes real bad and can anyone relate what it tastes like to a certain food or something? so then at least when the time comes I will be ready, so what does cum taste like?? Th... (59 words)

We could actually make a go of it this time but should we?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there.. Long story but I'll try and shorten it. I'm 35 now. When I was 17 I had a bit of a romance with an older man who was 28 and separated. He worked for my parents. It only lasted a couple of weeks as we felt guilty and the age difference etc. He moved away. Months p... (481 words)

I think I'm having a breakdown! What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night was very odd and I think I had some sort of breakdown - I'll explain a few things first. I've just turned 17 and I've not had an easy life - I had precocious puberty (I started my periods and basic puberty at the age of 6/7. I've been wetting the bed all my life ... (1438 words)

Would anyone EVER date a girl like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - would a guy go out with girl a with big fat face not a round face with short teeth. with long black hair, is short in height and overweight and old. no young good looking guy of 28 years old would date me. when he had a beautiful young girl... (50 words)

A great bit of fun and no strings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im seeing two men, one is my long term boyfriend the other a man i met in a club and have met him a few times, he knows i have a boyfriend but still wants to meet and emails and texts me everyday....im just wondering why he is doing this? do you think he just thinks oh great ... (73 words)

Only 20 minutes apart, but she broke up with me due to this 'distance'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my long distance gf broke up just over 2 weeks ago becasue sher couldnt handle with the distance, in sempemter am going to university and she going to college but the thing that we will only be 20 mins way from each other could things finally come togeather ?... (51 words)

How do I heal from a long term traumatic relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I heal from a long term traumatic relationship? I just disovered he was always half a person, lieing to me, deceiving me, for 4 years; I left him once but he came back begging an I took him back; he has been sexually abused as a child but doesn't want to get help; rec... (212 words)

Flick it or lap it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to give my girlfriend Oral for the first time this weekend, but, as its my and her first time, im a bit short of what to do, so basically? im asking for help and advise? do i just....lick? :S or what?! ... (51 words)

I want to have lots of sex and willing to cheat for it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm tempted to cheat on my husband, we've been married for less than a year. While dating we had great sex but now he's not into sex like before and I'm horny all the time. I met a guy and we've talking about sex a lot, he wants me to meet him at a hotel. I love my husband, but ... (70 words)

I'm horny but scared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have only slept with one guy (many times) who used me for sex and I think thats why I view sex the way I do now. I have plenty of opportunities but I know I will end up getting attached and I also don't want guys calling me a hoe or liking me any less. I really want to have ... (116 words)

I don't know how to move past the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I met in college. A few months into our relationship I graduated and moved. Things were going well in spite of the distance and we'd spend a lot of time on the phone and see each other when we could. Then he started to get jealous of my friends and mad any time I ... (411 words)

Porn as the aphrodiasc, then sex with me later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Found out my boyfriend doesn't have sex with me without having looked at porn first. How on earth am I supposed to react to that?... (25 words)

Did this happen to anyone and they were pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to think anymore I have all of the pregnancy symptoms Wierd fluttering feelings a few pains like my uterus is strechting an increase and decrease in my appetite sleepy during the day hard to sleep at night I felt this way since February but I bled in feb and ... (78 words)

After 2 years why do I still feel heartbroken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. A lot of you will know about me and my first relationship. It was long distance and it lasted for 2 years (read more about it on my profile). I've recently signed into MSN messenger for the first time since I last spoke to my ex back in February 2008. The first ... (231 words)

My husband tod me that he has been lying to me and I can't trust him anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband told me that he has been lying to me...he has been talking to other girls behind my back...ive told him that he can have girl that are friends that he talks to but nothing more...girls that has feelings for him are not okay...which he tells me the same but it seems ... (105 words)

Who should I invite to his birthday celebration? My family or his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm planning my bf birthday celebration. I want it to be a surprise! The trip allows 12 guests.. At first I wanted us alone but hey I'm paying for a group so might as well take advantage of it. A 2 hr. trip. Dinner and cruise. His family and mine have only met once, we ... (133 words)

Volatile, stubborn, disrespectful, blown out of proportions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi.......how can a person who you loved so dearly one day and something ticked him off, he made up these things in his head he became overly jealous, he is going through a terrible loss and not in his right mind. BUt that gave him no excuse to disrespect me. I miss him ... (91 words)

What should I do about my two BFF's who are ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my two best friends at school are ignoring me. Because recently i've been going though some really hard stuff with my mum and everything and they are just a bit fed up with it. should i just face the fact that they don't wanna hang out with me or should i do something about it... (79 words)

What's going on with this lower abdominal pain I'm getting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a teenager and I've been having this lower abdominal pain for about 1-2 weeks. Its like a dull ache all around my hip and the top of my thigh, round to my groin area, on both sides. Sometimes when i run, or just walk, i get sharp stabbing pains. It seems to be accompanied ... (101 words)

I'm uncomfortable with him going to a speed dating party. Am I overthinking or...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I dunno if I'm just being a typical woman here and giving this too much thought but would like some second opinions. I've been seeing a wonderful guy for two months now - it's our 2 month anniversary on Friday and everything's going REALLY well. We're very happy... (443 words)

Do I just need to move on from this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone I need some help here. OK. I was dating my girlfriend, i met her and she was a stripper and a model. I was into it for the looks at first then it got more serious and i told her to quit stripping and she would give me the excuse of "thats all i can do to pay my ... (617 words)

Why does his daughter talk to him in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age - I am dating a older man who has a very nice 21 year old daughter, I have four kids from my previous marriage. And this is my first serious relationship. I have noticed over the 6 months we have been together that he is very hard with my daughter she is 6, and what I mean is ... (204 words)

If he wants anal then go gay!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What is up with guys wanting to try Anal!! I am tired of every single guy i have dated wanting to try it. I am a girl I have a vag... If he wants anal go gay!!... Please explain how a guy sticking his dick in a butt hole with poop coming out of be attractive.. ... (56 words)

Cheating girlfriend knows karate..want to break up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright,my g-friend is cheating on me.i do not see her often so i dont know how to break up with her. (i think she knows karate so i cant break it to her to hard)How do i get out of this?... (42 words)

How do I get him to open the door and let me in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HI. i met someone online hes about my age really cute and a lovely guy all around. we talked almost everyday about this or that and it seemed we got on well, he then sent me a naked pic of himself and told me that he only did that for me and he asked for nothing in retur... (383 words)

Too many times for oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - oral sex question i gave head for the first time the other day and im 15 i did it five times is that too much for first time or in general too much anytime? and should i have swallowed please help x... (52 words)

Trying to have a baby! What are the odds?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend are trying to have a child. While I was on my period we had sex and he came in me. The day after I got off he came in me, and yesterday he came in me and the day b4 that he came in me.. I just wanted to see if you guys that the chances of me having a baby ... (123 words)

Do most marriages become sexless after 20 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age - Do you think most marriages becomes sexless,after 20 years,and people just decide to stay together? Or it is just my therapist who says that? She says , just read any statistics, on this, people can't be sexual for 40 years..' She said it's no longer stimulating, and many tim... (65 words)

Drunken boyfriend is a jerk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 22 and ive being going out with my curent boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together and hes 1 .i already knew him before so ive known him for about 8 years.ive never been in a relationship like this before he drinks all the time swear constant and always gets angry ... (175 words)

Fat joke that wasnt funny!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend I have been dating for 3 months told me he doesnt want me to lose weight as other men might fancy me, after seeing my hurt reaction he laughed it off saying he was joking but at the time did not seem that way... (46 words)

Should be upset that after 2 years, my relationship was taken away just so that he could get his child back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me only because his child's mother came back around and now the only way he can have custody of his son is to be with this woman. Let me remind you that she took him away from him by getting him arrested for domestic violence, and ... (248 words)

Can a man forget the woman they loved so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age - Can a man one dated for 3 years we shared good and bad times. He is grieving over the loss of 2 family members (brother and dad)who died 2 days from one another. He said horrble things and accused me of things that were not true. During this tragedy I was there and with him ... (234 words)

My friends have warned me about him but I see a different side to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and the boy im seeing is 16 we're in the same year though . i need some advice because im being told by friends lots of different things and im not sure who to listen too or who is right. i dont wish to offend anyone in this because im not racist in anyway as you wi... (438 words)

He loves me, but wants to be single....need advice to tame my alpha male

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We have 4 kids and my husband wants to leave me :'( I am not looking for people to tell me he is not worth it so please just don't. I have heard it enough times and maybe it is true but I think he is. He sais he still loves me , but he wants to be single. He wants the... (838 words)

Oral sex problems....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband wants me to swallow but the taste is horrible...ive tried to get him to eat fruit but he doesnt like any kind of fruit...well here's the thing when he goes down on me he only licks my clit and never puts his tounge in me...if hes not tasting my cum i shouldnt have to ... (91 words)

He had permission to get oral from somone else because I don't like doing it but now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Plz help. Ok this is my first time doing this,I really need some advice.So my bf of a lil over a year wants oral sex..I really don't like doing it,so I just tell him no bt we do have sex. Ok so a while back he had asked me to do it prior to us having any type of sexual con... (173 words)

How to get over these nerves of sleeping with someone different?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im gunna sound so so so stupid now, iv had sex numerous times with two previous boys, first one i was in a relationship with and the 2nd one was just a friend with 'benefits'. Now i am sort of seeing this boy, i like him but i dont want to get involved with relationships ... (139 words)

I jumped to the conclusion that he had female company over at our house....did I over-react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i live together,yesterday i had the day off from work,i worked overtime yesterday so i got home around 8pm. I usually leave pajamas in the bathroom so when im ready for them i know exactly where they are. To my surprise when i came home my things were not where ... (129 words)

How do I tell b/f I'm through making mistakes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i let my boyfriend know that im done with making my mistakes and want to take the relationship furthur?... (21 words)

Am I really in love with him? What if I am....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my friend at the carnival one day and well we went on rides and her mom talked to my dad saying i was coming over the next day.so the next day came and she brought her boyfriend.when i saw him i couldn't stop staring at him he was absolutely gorgeous.but what if he likes ... (78 words)

Tips for anal masturbation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyone have any good tips for anal masturbation pls? Thanks... (10 words)

I need a boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help.i know im kid but i know what im talking about.i need a boyfriend.my boyfriend that i absolutely loved dumped me when i moved cn anyone help.can you tell me if i need to go to the skating rink and meet one there please help.... (48 words)

Why is she being like this and doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i was with a girl for over 1 year, and the othere day she broke up with ma. we was on the phone and we had a little bicker because she had to go home from work to get her stuf, so i asked her did she want to come down n see me, and she said she can't be bothered like. so i ... (256 words)

Only married 5 months but there are all these girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, my husband and i got married this year jan 2009...so we have been married for almost 5 months now...and things are starting to go bad...he is in the military and i know now that military life is hard but thats not our problem....there's this girl that is sta... (325 words)

I hate cheating but I'm doing it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a little complicated. i split up with my girlfriend of 3 years for about 3 weeks and then got back with her. in those 3 weeks i got with another girl who i really liked. now im back with my girlfriend i dont know which 1 i want to be with. i hate cheating but i am doing ... (66 words)

I wake him up because I'm masturbating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - during the middle if the night in my sleep without been consious my partner has just told me that i wake him up master bating. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active and Im not sure why Im doing this and have no idea how long it has been going on for. PLEASE HELP or any ... (62 words)

I think I've had an orgasm but not sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 17 and well ive had my fair share of boys... imature ones lol buti just need help with wat and orgasum actually feels like ? because i think i have but im not sure .. i got all shakey. also can anyone give me some advice ... im still inlove with my ex but hs got a ... (109 words)

I'm 16 but lied to b/f telling him I am 19

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 :] we've been together for 6monthsi met his family and we're very close to each other now. but i have a problem. i lied to him he know that I'm 19 too.. his family trusted me so well but im afraid to tell him the truth because i dont want to ... (197 words)

Stopped injection in March, no period..pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started having the contraceptive injection in jan 08. I decided to stop it as i felt it was making me put on weight and stopped my periods. My last injection was due on the 6th of march 09 which i did nt hav and 2 mnths later have stil not had a period. I had unprotected sex ... (90 words)

I think he's cheating again..what now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone Well I will try and keep things short. I have been with my husband for 9 years married for 7. About 4 years ago he had an affair with a woman he worked with. It went on for about 2 years and we were apart. We got back together after alot of talking and me agreeing... (311 words)

Involved but I think I am in love with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long term relationship for over 8 years (not married but feel like it). I love my partner dearly and sex is alright but I still have feelings (not sure what they are) for someone else. The thought of this person gives me butterflies and when he is actually p... (214 words)

She can't live with me, but can't live without me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. First time writing here.. I've been in a relationship with a woman for nearly three years now (Long distance)..We see each other every month or so for about a week, but will soon close this gap shorter so it's more regular. Only that right now at the moment it ... (464 words)

I don't know whether to pursue this friendship further

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the last few weeks I've grown closer to a female friend I've known for a few months. We're the same age and I like to think that we've grown quite close of late which is wonderful, of course. We've shared a couple of affectionate moments before—a drunken cuddle in bed, t... (251 words)

Break up with Micheal and wait for Brandon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have a boy friend named micheal and me and him were and still are best friend's.. but im still in love with my ex who's named is brandon , me and brandon were together for a month .. right now brandon is datting my best friend alliyah.. brandon know's i still have ... (119 words)

Married, haven't cheated but close to it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been married for 14 years now, and have not truly been unfaithful. our sex life has now dried up for the last couple of years. i have met another girl a lot younger than me, also with a boy friend. the two of us share each others secrets and feelings. she is in my ... (115 words)

I'm really confused as to who he had an affair with..it just really surprises me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age - Dear cupid, I have asked for advice before but need your help once again. My husband was caught cheating and he confessed he had cheated 3 times altogether(married for 21 years),he said how wrong he had been and it will never happen again,we stayed together and even though ... (360 words)

Why did he talk about "us" if he had no intention of their being "us"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i hope someone can help. nearly 2 years ago i met a guy on the net and we developed what i thought was a close friendship and relationship even though we are long distance. we have met up a few times and been intimate etc. just over a week ago he said he was going away with ... (253 words)

I started dancing but don't know how to get out of it or how to tell my family/friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started being a dancer like 2 months ago at first it was so much fun, i loved attention and the pay was worth it, now im getting tired of it already and it really messes with my mind with the fact that it affected my dating life and it totally changed me for bad. ive been ... (146 words)

He gave me a company email rather than his personal one! What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm leaving my company in half a week, so I gave a thank you gift for this coworker that I fancy and told him to keep in contact through an email to see how it goes. However, he got a gift for me a couple days later and wrote the exact same note that I wrote on his gift which I ... (107 words)

She's having my baby and says she loves me but then says we are just friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months, about a month into the relationship she got pregnant, no biggy we decided to keep it I'm excited about it she thinks thats wierd. thats not the problem though. the problem is she does'nt want to commit to a steady relation... (313 words)

20 year old girl in love with my same sex best friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am split in 2 different directions at the moment. im in love with my bestfriend. she is the most wonderful caring loving women i have ever met. has been by my side through everything. would drop everything if i call. im constantly doing my best to give her as much as she has ... (206 words)

He won't speak to me! How do I get closure and move on?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating this guy for 5 months and then suddenly he stopped talking to me. I had asked him if we were in a relationship and he said he didn't want to be pushed into one, i said that was ok we could carry on getting to know each other. We went on one more date and i haven't ... (127 words)

I am reminded of my Ex, when my husband is being romantic, and I feel guilty :(

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a serious relationship with a guy a year back, for four months, and it was the sweetest days of my life! I really loved him sooo much, but unfortunately it had to end there, casue i was forced to split due to various reasons. We split while we were both very much in love, ... (330 words)

Living with boyfriend but having doubts. What do I do?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... I am feeling a little down in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half and have lived together for awhile, and just recently parted with our roommates and moved into our own apartment together. One thing that worries ... (533 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend... what do I do?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been really very serious with my current bf for the last one year.. before that i had a long crush of 3 yrs on my best friend and now we still just remain the best of friends and my bf is very open minded and doesn't have any problem with it. i have lost my virginity to my ... (118 words)

Best friend troubles after I lied to her, and crush troubles after I told him the truth.

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - pleasee helpp me out i'm in tearss.few months ago i told my friend this guy liked her while she had a bf and i was joking around.then yesterday i tell her that i was joking and that i like him.and she just treats me diffrently now.shes acting mean and gives me weird looks and ... (297 words)

How do I ask him to define the relationship?

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14 May 2009 (F)

- I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have been dating. However, he has now moved to a different town for work. This was planned way before I met him. Unfortunately, I only met him not long before he had to move. He moved there last week and he just came back to visit me ... (434 words)

Just realised that my ex is an arse. How do I move on?

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14 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Im starting to resent my ex for letting me go. He was married when I met him and was suppose to be getting a divorce. I didn't feel right seeing him why he was married so I told him lets slow things down until he takes care of the situation. I thought he would move alittle ... (471 words)

What's going on with this relationship?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - why is the guy I am interested in seem so distant? I cant get him to open up, we talk almost everyday on the phone just about everything under the sun except about what it is we are looking for. We have had very passionate sex only twice. he doesn't seem like he just wants sex ... (119 words)

Husband's rubbish in bed... I've talked to him, how can I make him change?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so how do I put this. How do I get my husband to help me get turned on during sex? Usually when we have sex he just does what he needs to and we are done 10 mins at the most. I have talked to him about it but it still has not changed anything. I have tried asking him to ... (103 words)

Boyfriend didn't recipricate the "I love you"

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Would love some advice- last night I told my boyfriend of almost a year (I am 32, he is 35) that I did in fact love him. I have been in previous serious relationships and he has not. I do love him. And he said he needs to get there in his own time. I am hurt, and now so ... (218 words)

Need sex education about the difference between a clitoris and a vagina.

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. I just learned that there is a difference between vaginal and clitoral contact (during sex). could you please enlighten me as to what this difference entails? Thanks!... (28 words)

He cheated, I'm telling him it's over but still have feelings. What do I do?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my ex boyfriend in 7th Grade and we dated and broke up for his cheating ways...which last for 5 to 6 years..He tells me he loves me all the time and i feel he do but it hurts to know he will cheat again and again. Now at this moment he apologized about him breaking my ... (140 words)

Confused about feelings for my best friend. Do I tell him?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my best friend (a guy) since fourth grade. That's eleven years now (we're both 19). We both know what love feels like; we've been through our fair-share of relationships (long-term and short), break-ups, and heart-breaks. Somehow always managing to stay close and ... (449 words)

Unhappily married man in love with a married woman

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my wife for 14 years (married for 12 years). Our marriage started out like every other marriage......we had fun, sex, etc. As the years passed my feelings towards her have changed. We don't have sex anymore (for reasons we won't discuss here) and I feel that ... (332 words)

He's soo nervous around me

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and he was like a really close friend before and now things are just akward and he's not a shy guy but when he's around me he gets nervous. Around my best friend he's great u know talkative and simple and sometimes ... (134 words)

Are we platonic friends? Or more than a friendship?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Thank you for reading this - I am SUPER confused / hopeful about this situation. . . I became friendly with the man who lives next door. We are the same age (30), both are single, and have similar opinions and background. (I also find him to be extremely cu... (307 words)

I just want him to know that our relationship was very special to me

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i moved from england to the united states around 2 years ago. i fell in love with an amazing guy around 1 year ago. we were togeter for around 10 months and for the first 7 it was incredible. for the last three we've been consantly on and off as he couldn't seem to decide ... (509 words)

How do you know if the hymen is nonexistent?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - simple question okay so how do you know if your hymen is nonexistent? i mean i haven't had sex before but i've experimented with my vibrator and i can go up to 6in without any pain or anything. does this mean im not a virgin anymore? i don't ever remeber breaking it or anyt... (61 words)

We messed around and he has a g/f..now what?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! ok heres the thing...i like this guy and im 16 and the guy i like is a senior and he has a gf, but the thing is we hung out one night and we went to his place and this was at like 11pm and we just talked and watched tv but then he put his arm around me and we cuddled,... (228 words)

15th birthday present for guy

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So, yeah, My boyfriend's 15th birthday is in a month and I have no idea what to get him for his birthday! I had the perfect gift for him but what I wanted to get him, was expensive and I'm on a tight budget right now so could anyone help me with some ideas on what to get him? ... (92 words)

I don't want him to kiss me! I just want to be alone!

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and at a hard time in life. Iv been dating this guy for 9months. He's 21 and lives with me, my mom, my little sister and my moms boyfriend. When the relationship started I fell in love with him so fast! He was my world but over time I don't love him as much. I fell like ... (173 words)

Why did he look but then freak when I made eye contact?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today as we were walking out of class this guy (who I noticed stares at me a lot) kept looking back at me. He stared at me for a while and when I made eye contact with him he turned around and started to walk really fast. Then when school was over I was going to my car and this ... (158 words)

How much before it becomes suffocating?

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it. I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she loves me. and one time she said th... (434 words)

I feel like I have been archived like a business card..

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy, Australian, a couple of months ago, we had a great talk, exchanged business cards, and mailed each other on a friendly way a couple of times in the next days. It was before a long holiday where we were both had plans to leave the country and I did not want to ... (296 words)

Does he really have an impossible schedule?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 20 and i starting to talk to this guy who is a few years older that i knew about 5 years ago. we started talking online and decided to hang out well we did once it was such a blast he was a real gentalmen and very very upfront about his feelings and what hes looking for ... (154 words)

It is normal for me to fantasize about porn while I'm having sex with my lady?

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - okay so i have a question, and need to know if anyone else goes through this... is it normal for me to fantasize about pornography when im having sex with my girlfriend? can she sense it somehow?... (41 words)

I want her dad to accept me

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive got a question to anyone that can help me out. My girlfriend and I are meeting this summer for the first time and her dad rejects any guy that tries to be with her and i really want him to accept me for her but i havent got a clue on how to do this or why he does it. Im 1... (94 words)

FWB: should I pick a guy who I don't really like or who I do?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy I like. But I don't like him enough right now to date him. I'm kind of more looking for a FWB. What should I do ?? If I tell this guy I like him but just want to be FWB maybe he will just see me as that and then later on not want to be anymore with me and ... (94 words)

No luck with relationships

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I was wondering if maybe you could give me some advice. I never seem to have any luck with relationships. I have many large groups of friends and enjoy socialising. I like to think that I'm a friendly, caring and outgoing person who is always there if anyone e... (208 words)

Hurt my ankle bone wondering if anyone has any advice?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. now i know this site is for relationship advice but i need some advice about heath. i was hit on my lateral maleolus (ankle bone) from the front with a hockey ball 2 weeks ago. when i did it my ankle blew up dramatically more then other times ive done it and the ... (231 words)

Should I tell him I think I'm pregnant or wait until I'm sure?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I am pregnant but not sure. Should I tell my boyfriend what I think, or wait to find out for sure? He knows me so well, he always knows when something's on my mind that it would be hard to keep it from him.... (46 words)

I want a serious relationship with my cousin

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - three years ago i start flirting with my cousin and as the time pass by we both start falling in love.. i want ot have a serious reletionship with her but a dont know how to convence her to kiss me i want some advice to convence her ... (49 words)

I want to break it up before I continue to cheat but I don't know how...

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a year and a half on and off and I think im in love. The problem is that this time around that we have been going out he has been acting different from all the other times we've been together. He's more jealous and he has ... (196 words)

Low Libido, Can't Talk About It

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14 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - An interesting thing has happened in my relationship with my wife. I suppose the proper thing to do would be to ask her, but she really gets uncomfortable when talking about sex. This is not new but a condition that has increased over the years. When we were newlyweds, she ... (324 words)

What do you think the chances of me being pregnant are?

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think the chances of me being pregnant are? I'm kind of worried and would really appreciate any input. I don't always take my birth control at EXACTLY the same time every day but always before bed and I would rate my forgetfulness at maybe once or twice (at the mo... (190 words)

My boyfriend's soon to be ex wife is causing us problems.

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14 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi please can you help me with my dilemma. Me and my partner of 13 years seperated last september and we have 2 children. I have been dating a guy for the last few months who is currently finalising his divorce and he also has three children the youngest being 5 yrs old. I ... (262 words)