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writes:I was with a guy for a few months but we were never official because he had issues with labels and just wanted to "be with each other" I said that was fine unless he asked me for sex, which he did, he kept asking when we were going to do it and wanted a blowjob. He knows that I only do that with my boyfriends but he couldn't make the slightest bit of commitment. I told him to get a whore if he wanted easy sex, and he said that he only wants me. I dumped him, saying I'm not his toy and we obviously want different things and he said he doesn't even know what he wants but he does care about me and he is sad that its over. I know he doesn't sleep around and we acted like a real couple so I don't know what the problem was. I heard that he has not hooked up with anyone for a long time, which is what I dont understand. He can easily get girls to sleep with him so why isnt he doing that if thats what he wanted with me? He goes to parties and bars so it would be super easy for him, yet he doesnt do it (he is 23)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): hook back up with him he probally just had a bad experience with a old girl friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Firstly, he could be sleeping around and you'd never know it. Second, he said he didn't know what he wanted so take that to mean he isn't sure enough about wanting you so he can't be that into you. I'd forget about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): it sounds like he did care about you, maybe he just wanted to try and show his feelings, lots of boys/men do like intimacy, because its their way of showing affection, maybe the fact he isn't having sex is becuase he only wanted it with you, and he doesn't want to make the same mistake twice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Good for you for dumping him! Seriously though, you really don't know if he's hooked up with anyone or if he sleeps around, I wouldn't always believe what you hear second hand. If he was that aggressive with you, I doubt he goes without sex!
You did the right thing, he wasn't wanting to be in a relationship with you so you two wanted different things. He really just wanted an FWB with you which isn't good enough and it doesn't look like he's changed that opinion.
He knows what you want and if he missed you bad enough and liked you enough, he'll let you know.
His words don't match his actions, if he wanted only you, he'd be your boyfriend.
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