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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He just disappears! Is this worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im writing this the night before my finals start.I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. Every once in a while my boyfriend will go out on mad night (staying out all night and next day doing drugs)and not call. Late the next day he will say his phone died and he ... (134 words)

I'm worried I may be pregnant even though we take precautions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - Hi aunts, Normally a few days before my period is due my chest gets very sensitive and tender to touch but once I start my periods they are fine. But this time round they have been sore for well over 2 weeks and no sign of my periods starting when they are normally bang on... (103 words)

He won't come with me for regular STI checkups...why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 23 year-old female and have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. The thing is I like to go for a health (STI) check every once a while but the problem is he has always refused to come along with me. At first I thought maybe he was scared of needles but he s... (142 words)

I left Uni for this guy and he's treating me like I'm an idiot!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, where do I start? I need some advice. i've been with my boyfriend nearly a year and I love him so much and I know he loves me for he tells me every day, several times a day but lately that flair has disappeared. We're supposed to be moving in with each other, he's doing ... (306 words)

Best sex positions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi this question is mainly for women but any male posts would be great well im just wondrin which sex position is best for both partners wanna give my gf a night to remember thanks ... (35 words)

A survey about Birth Control pills.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so this will be a survey concerning birth control pills and its effectiveness.This survey is for my own purpose only, not for any scientific purposes. The subjects will be those of you who had or taking birth control pills, and have one partner only. If you are one, ... (147 words)

I want to express appreciation for my Teacher...any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my teacher has had a huge impact on my life, I look up to him and he is such a big influence to me. I think i'm using him as a father type figure. I know that I am one of his favorite students and i'm one of the best at his subject in my school, although i've never really ... (158 words)

Is this a case of practice makes perfect or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I am female and 18 years old. So last night, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other. Yes I am on the contraceptive pill and he used a condom, which as far as we are aware, did not break. Anyway, even though we both orgasm-ed, he didn't go all the way in m... (143 words)

Why do guys like to play games with your heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys like to play games with your heart? Its obvious sometimes how this guy feels about me but then it seems like he doesn't like me. It makes me sad when I don't talk to him and he doesn't care until later on. I don't like him playing games! Guys never share there ... (142 words)

I find it difficult to orgasm through penetration alone. Does anyone else find this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have a problem that's really bothering me and it's making me really paranoid. Everytime I have sex I just can't orgasm through penetration at all... Like not even close and this is like this regardless of the guy I'm with. So much so that some of the guys I've been ... (95 words)

Married and need good tips for giving head.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi to all I'd like a few tips please, im a happily married 28 year old with a great sex life but im rubbish at giving head and really want him to like it and ask for more. Any tips or hints please? thanks... (45 words)

How do I forget about someone I like?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I forget about someone I like because he has too many friends, he's too independent and he's too clever. And he's 2 years younger then me, good looking and too popular and sneaky and I am far too inferior for him so I want to forget about him. ... (51 words)

I care about her so much and just wish I knew what she thought about me.

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I have been seeing this girl for about four months and I really care about her a lot. Things have been sort of rocky. Sometimes she just doesnt seem interested in me and other times it seems like she is really interested in me. She tells me she likes me a l... (122 words)

Does having your nose pierced hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but I'm hoping to get advice anyway. I've been wanting to get my nose pierced for quite some time now and I'm allowed to get it done but I'm scared that it's gonna hurt. Does getting your nose pierced hurt? Anyone that has theirs done, advice ... (53 words)

Ways to win my ex back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want my ex back. He broke up with me I dunno why. I have tried asking but he's shy and shit. I want the most effective way to win him over and be in love again.... (37 words)

Should I buy his mom something for mothers day?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just curious.. Going on a 4 month relationship with this guy. His mom and I do small talk but that's it. The relationship is not a bad one. Anyways, I was thinking... Mother's Day is just around the corner. But she's not my Mother. So, am I obligated to get her something... (72 words)

My friend, dating my personal girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I have a little problem, one of my friends wants to date my personal girlfriend! Please, I need advice on what to do. Please reply as soon as you can. Do I let him?... (39 words)

What sexuality am I? Confused - lesbian or straight???

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically ive just started to question my sexuality... ive always been straight and when i was younger had boyfriends but for the last 4 years ive just been having the odd snog on the weekend and foreplay with men as im 16 and just want to have fun. ive been feeling a little ... (653 words)

He wants to do "cam to cam..."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hi i'm going out with this amazing guy and i would like to go the full way with him, of course not now but maybe in six months time or so, but he wants to do cam to cam and i'm willing to do it but i'm extremly worried about my pubes. What should i do, do most guys prefer them ... (100 words)

Am I sane and is it possible to change our relationship now to an open status?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am re-asking this question only because the first time, I failed to mention some important details that were covered in some answers I received. Then after I added the details, I stopped getting answers. So here's the question with all the details: I have been married to ... (1194 words)

I am in a new relationship. Please Helppppp!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a new relationship, I've known this guy since high school and he's changed so much. When we were together in high school he was so touchy feely and always happy but now six years later he's gotten a whole lot quieter and distant and I don't know what to do. I asked ... (103 words)

I can be extremely jealous and controlling...

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I am extremely jealous and controlling. I was hurt in the past and he used to cheat on girls and has a really bad past but he told all of them about it when it happened and has told me that he hasn't cheated on me.. ... (176 words)

Is it true that some girls cry after having sex for the first time?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that some girls cry after having sex for the first time? Why? I overheard some girls in the restroom in school saying this and it just has me curious?... (32 words)

He doesn't seem bothered... am I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story but im giving my ex another chance and we are taking it slowly. We spilt up cos he aint ready 4 commitment and hes had time to himself to work through his issues! But sometimes I feel that after weve had a nice day or evening together he backs off! And then i think ... (172 words)

Should I stay, go, or simply give her space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last year I met someone, me and we instantly connected and became friends. At the time she was engaged, but there was trouble in that relationship. She would come to me for advice and we would just talk about anything. I helped her through the relationship, and admitted I liked ... (593 words)

Should I get in contact with him or let him come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys :) Have a really bad situation going on at the moment and I need all the help I can get... :( Recently I began working with this guy who I really got on with and we had this whole flirting thing going on but to be honest I didn't pay much attention to it because... (506 words)

Opinions needed. Why do I feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have some insecurities as we all do i guess. However the girl im seeing seems to be hiding things from me. for example we went out last week with her friend and i happend to see a picture on her friends camera of a guy kissing her on the cheek. Not really a big deal in my ... (235 words)

Any anal sex experts here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well. me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex, and i dont really know much about it, and i have read about it on this website, and it says use lots of lube. does that mean acual lube or could it be lotion or baby oil or things like that? and what if we dont use a comdon? ... (79 words)

How can I prepair myself to leave it and start again?

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4 May 2009 (F) age - I know, I will have to leave my long term marriage. I have grown kids, and it is not really about parenting any more. But I wonder how can you deal with the regret, you have after you leave. One of my biggest fears, what is actually holding me back the most is that he will ... (183 words)

He likes to call me names like whore, bitch and slut. Is this normal for a person in love to call his girlfriend these names in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend likes to either be dominanted or be dominant in bed. I have figured out what turns him on. I on the other hand like it without the role playing every time. He either wants to pretend that I'm raping him or that I'm this naughty girl who is a stranger to him. ... (93 words)

Husband won't see a doctor or a counseller and doesn't want me to go - but we NEED HELP!

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4 May 2009 (F) - I have been married nearly ten years and we have three children one of which has special needs and as times goes on is having more and more problems. As a family we are stretched to the limit and I have now told my husband twice that I cannot carry on with things anymore. I ... (499 words)

I told her the cold truth - and she hates me for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, My friend (not me at all) just told me she is pregnant, with this guy that left her right after she told him. He was never a real relationship, which all her friends kept telling her, but she didnt listen. He had her just for the weekend fun, which was really sad. she ... (459 words)

Why have I no energy to masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to know why I am 30 years old and I no longer have energy to masturbate? I still have sex but not to often due to circumstances in my life. ... (33 words)

Why do I let him hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years pretty sure I'm in an abusive relationship. I sound so unsure because its not all the time. I knew it could be this way from not to far along he would do something to hurt my feelings sware he was sorry buy me ... (137 words)

He has pictures of his ex girlfriend hidden on his computer (but I found them).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 10 months now, and he broke it off with his ex approximately 2 years ago. One day, when left alone at his house with his computer, curiousity took the best of me and I ventured on to see what he looks at when I am not around. I came a... (208 words)

My g/f doesn't seem to love me even though she says so

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - with my girlfriend, I love her alot but sometimes I dont know if she does. she says she loves me and seems like she cares about me and everything but sometimes she doesnt seem to act the way I think she is supposed to. she would sometimes say that she's busy and her parents ... (230 words)

Back out on the dating scene after years... so how can I tell if we are more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am single for the 1st time in 9 years and am not sure how to tell how a guy feels about me. I have been hanging out with a guy from work, going to the cinema, meeting up for drinks, watching DVDs at his house, and from my perspective, we're just hanging out as friends. ... (160 words)

My best friend said these awful things and now hates me. Should I forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I don't know what to do. My "best friend" and i hate each other and it wasnt my fault! Last year my auntie died and i was really cut up about it as we were really close and it was a shock. so when i needed my friends around my so called best friend pointed out a cou... (125 words)

Being bullied about my dead brother. Why does this happen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my brother died last year because of meth and metamies and pot an more but people say your gunna be like your brother DEAD i need help figuring things out and im not crazy i just really need someone i could trust to tell me everythings going to be okay but everything isnt ... (80 words)

My cheating ex has said all these things and now I'm back to square one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

- ok well my ex has came back into my life after 4 years apart. He cheated on me twice with the same girl, now they have a 2 year old son. BUt i met him 2 weeks ago while i was out at a local bar. He couldnt take his eyes off me the whole night and then he came over to talk to me ... (397 words)

He says I'm perfect and wants to go one holiday... but then says we are not going out!!

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4 May 2009 (F) - hi all, I have been seeing a man for 6 weeks now, I have known him for years and together we have had the best times recently and spending oodles of time together, laughing, dating and we just gell together so well. He is going through a divorce and is free to date. He calls... (287 words)

I can't afford to chuck him out but I'm getting sick of him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a currently looking for part time work however its hard right now (dont know if its the recession or not) me and my boyfriend goes half on the bills in the house(my only income is my daughter child support which is 316.00). he pays the light and gas bill and I pay the ... (424 words)

It's a love/hate thing we have going on! Any advice would be appreciated.

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4 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary greatly between obsessive, ... (1513 words)

She's doing my head in! What's going on with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i am not sure if am doing this for advice or just to get it off my chest. i met this girl a while back. we dated for a short time before she said it wasnt going to work. she never gave me a reason why. i was crushed when she said it cos it was her who asked me for my numbe... (692 words)

I'm unsure...does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, there is this boy who is in a lot of my classes at school. I think he is really hot but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. I kind of get the impression that he does for example, I catch him looking at me a lot of the time, and when I see him looking he will either keep ... (105 words)

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I don't tell my mom, then he will. ... (213 words)

Help...I had unprotected sex and missed a period!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey every1 i need sum advice urgently...so im only 13 and im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me. my boyfrend started pressuring me into sex but i told him no and i kept saying no and now he has finally understood my answer. But anyway recently my ex has just asked ... (145 words)

My g/f is 26 and still sleeps with her grandmother! Weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Would love some advice as am confused about the below situation with my girlfriend: She has a large family and when younger use to share her bed with her grandmother. As she grew older and family member left the house (therefore more space) she still stayed sleeping with gr... (216 words)

I'm attracted to my friend who is straight, what would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i think im attracted to my good freind who is 100% straight. I value her as a friend way too much to ever act on my feelings or tell her and I know it will never happen, I dont really want it to happen as it will totally ruin our frienship and shes never speak to me ... (159 words)

Could you give me any tips to lose weight ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - HI. I read the question about fat decreasing penis size, i really calmed me down because i understood why mine is quite small. so I'm trying to loose some weight so i look better, feel better and have a bigger penis. I need some help on how to do it, whats the best exersize... (73 words)

How do I convince her that I won't hurt her as bad as her ex bf did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me, i'm in love with this very special girl. Only problem is she got out of a long term relationship about 6 months back that destroyed her, she is so scared of being hurt like she was again. This has caused her to be very scared of getting into a relationship of ... (166 words)

Why don't I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. every time after i have sex wit my bf i always feel the sperm sliding 0ut after 20 minutes or so. could this be why i dont fall prego? is somethng the matter with me... (37 words)

I see him at weekends, I'm not sure if I'm being lied to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ok i have been seeing this guy for about 12 weeks now, he calls and texts me everyday, i know he lives alone as i have visited his house. i only see him at weekends as he lives so far away and works a long week day. this weekend he asked to come for weekend i thought he ... (227 words)

I'm shy--how can I ask him to take our relationship to the next step?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello there i want to ask am in a relationship with this man and i am very shy becouse i am in love with him and and i dont know how to tell him and i want to move to the next step with him too and he never have the time for me at all but in the relationship we communicated ... (130 words)

Do you think he is still unsure of his feelings towards me?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - in love when both are married we are both on our mid 40's, he is married and i am, both of us have three teenagers.our affair started 12 years ago when we both met unexpectedly in a party and as old friends , we talked a lot of personal things in our lives. it became freq... (304 words)

Although he used me, I love the father of my child! How can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex left me, he strung me along thoUGH. He wOuld tell me that he wantd me back and then he would get with someone else. Yes i fell for it. I loved him, we had a child together. I didnt want to let go. I kept hoping he would wake up and realise what he threw away. He has hurt ... (156 words)

I feel like I love my boyfriend more than he loves me!

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4 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey! I was just wondering what people suggest doing in a relationship in which they don't feel the feelings are even between the parties. I feel like I love my bf more than he loves me and I try harder than he does. I'm not really that bothered, but any suggestions on h... (66 words)

I get severely depressed at random times and guys run away when they realise they can't help me! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Guys always run away from me. It hurts. I'm 21 and I suffer from Uni-Polar (Major Depressive Disorder) and I have been on meds for years but they don't "cure" anything, they just help a little and I can't keep a relationship. I'm not weird or anything, I'll just get... (251 words)

I had sex while menstuating 2 weeks ago. Could I be pregnant now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me out.. I am in need of a pregnancy test which I can only buy tomorrow (everything close today). I am panicking because today it struck me I might be pregnant because: I am 2 weeks after my period, in which I had full intercourse ( no protection) with my fiance. I ... (171 words)

How can I start a conversation without turning all red?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got a problem. I really love this boy let's call him 'wb' I saw him staring at me many times and even my friends did, he tried to talk 2 me because he knows 1 of my friends but every time he comes my way I walk away! I jus... (407 words)

How can I get my wife to reconcile?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently my wife rang me on my way home from work to tell me that it was over and that she didnt love me any more and that she means it for good. 2 months have past by and i have had to get legal advice to get contact with our two kids. Once I had got her attention i have bee... (206 words)

I like my bestie's brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in love with my best friend's brother and me and my best guy friend recently told my bestie that i had a had a major crush on her bro, right after we told her she said that she didn't mind and since i told her i feel better but now more than ever i want to know if he likes ... (170 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend to give me details of when he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd appreciate some advice from girls and especially guys out there about whether I should ask my bf about the time he cheated. We were together for 8 years, living together, and then I found out he was seeing a woman from work for some time, posting on adult dating sites ... (318 words)

Advice needed! I'm in love With My Teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so.. I'm in Love with My Teacher! I've liked him since last summer. But when i first started high school.. I hated him and i dont know how i began to like him!.. I cant stop thinking about him!.. I see him nearly every day but still thats not enough!.. i find it real... (297 words)

Computer problems! Help appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The hard disk of my computer was taken out to place an external hard disk by my husband ones then he put back the original hard disk. In the process of doing, the pin of the hard disk got bent. Since then sometimes the computer does not start and sometimes it starts working ... (131 words)

Why all the stupid games? Why the stringing along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What the hell is going on? I met a girl and we were instantly attracted to each other. We gradually got to know each other going out once a week. After about 4 weeks we started spending more and more time together and really opened up to each other. We were like boyfriend a... (1335 words)

Does he need time? Or is he fooling himself?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry this is long but I needed to say it all.. please help and answer only if you read it all. Thanks so much :) After 2 years of a wonderful relationship my boyfriend broke up with me because he felt we needed space and time to figure out what we want in our lives. I ... (641 words)

He can't get close to anyone... Does he do this because he is insecure about holding down a decent relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend well lets just say has a very womanising past! He has slept wiv nearly 100 people. He was single for a long time and has only had one serious relationship of 5 years! He quite honestly says hes fucked up cos of something that happen in his past. The girl he was ... (322 words)

Passing bloody after sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (F)

age - Why do I pass a drop of blood a day after sex on my pants like a watery consistency? I am female, 49 and in the menopause... (28 words)

We don't make love any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice here. My girlfriend and I don't have sex any more. Well, maybe once a month or so. I've been with her for over a year and a half now. For the first 10 months or so, we had sex frequently, and both put a lot of effort in to please the other one. Even when ... (745 words)

I can't forget him...

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - GUYS... please i need help...im 15 years old ..and i was in an open relationship.. a guy with me at school .. i liked him so much and after that i loved him but he leaves me and he return to me again ..and he was saying that he loves me and everythn but he cant forget his ... (174 words)

My life is dysfunctional, help me get over him please!

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant seem to get over this relationship, its been 8 years since i know him and he has been the only man in my life. I love him but he doesnt we dated for a year and then he got engaged to a girl who after a year of engagement got married to some1 else. He didn't come back ... (1189 words)

Does my old crush still like me?

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4 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - well when i used to have a crush on him i told him and at the beginning we got on fine and i don't know if he liked me back or not but then it sort of changed and i went off him and now he is being so annoying and whenever he sees me he always tries to pick a fight and whenever ... (138 words)

He's a year younger..should I date him?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone,i am 18 years old.. i met this guy through a common friend.. he actually goes to the same school as me,but he is 1 year younger than me.. i like him,but i think he's too young.. should i go for it?? thanks in advance..... (47 words)

I want this marriage to work! How do I let him know how sorry I am?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I really need some serious advice here. So I'm legally married but my husband has been incarcerated for almost seven months now. Our relationship was a little rocky before the incarceration because we weren't living together and I was actually staying in a homeless ... (212 words)

My bf left me, and I have 6 kids! What should I do?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i woke up this morning and my boyfriend has left me.we had a big argument last night and i said things i didnt mean. He wanted to sort things out and said he didnt mean the things he said but i just went to bed. I've just got up and hes gone. He's even left his mobile phone so ... (155 words)

Can't stop thinking about my bf's friend! Is this fair to my bf-should we break up??

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old. I have been with my partner for 4 years and have two children with him. and i do love him. but since i was at school i have liked one of his friends. and all of a sudden this friend is spending a lot of time with our family and i think about him more and more. ... (129 words)

I ended the friendship because of his dishonesty..so why do I feel so low about it all?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do when the EX-boyfriend still lies to you? Why is it so difficult to be just be honest and upfront? I'd told him last year he needn't get back in touch till he was ready to be honest. Well, he did- but the lying still continues. WTH-- we haven't been together for a ... (166 words)

I guess our dating is a secret..when do people go public?

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4 May 2009 (F) - Hello I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 weeks and have spent loads of really good times together - lots of dates and fun times. He split up with his wife last July after she cheated many times and they have 2 children together, I know he wont get back with her. I really... (173 words)

Married your 1st love or were dating at 18?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Im just wondering, how many of the uncles and aunts on this site married their first love, or the person they were dating at 18? I hear of stories about people who married the person they dated at 18, but how often does this actual happen.... So yeah, tell me you... (65 words)

He just did a 360 and I"m so hurt!

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, me and my ex seperated 2 years ago. In that time he has been with two other women but he comes back to me in between. Me and my ex hav always had a close bond even after the seperation. (we hav a child together to) anyway after he broke up with the first girl that he ... (313 words)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I talk to them for selling ... (169 words)

I'm regretting leaving my controlling abusive husband. Please help!

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4 May 2009 (F)

age - no longer with my ex husband. been with him 11 years, 4 of which married. we divorced and we stayed together one more year. I left due to serious control issues. the was also abuse in the marriage. i new i should leave due to him telling me what to do in the house, living by ... (182 words)

LONG Love story... need perspective, please help.

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. I've posted on here before and its most likely my falt but I don't believe that the entirety to my problem is coming off correctly. all names are fake. I fell in love. doesn't sound like a problem now but just wait. I've been in love before and I've been loved. unfortun... (1315 words)

Am I just overly jealous, or is this a legitimate issue that I should strongly pursue?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I'm a jealous guy, or if I'm just too insecure with myself ... My problem is, my wife's sister got herself in a rough spot, so we took her into our home and have taken care of her for the past year. Before this, my wife and I would always talk about how great ... (480 words)

How can I stand up for myself to my friends?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a few arguements with my friends before (we're over them now though) which they have always started. They do things that they no will end up making me really upset, or be hypercritical - which is one of the things I don't like. However I always end up apoligizing (when ... (149 words)

What does it take for someone to be a true friend?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i always wanted 1 thing in life and its a true friend, but what does it take for someone to be a true friend? because i dont know if i have 1 or not... plus is it usually the same sex or opposite?... (43 words)

He left and no goodbyes

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy you been dating for 2 years and couple of weeks left without saying goodbye? Should i let him go or find out?... (29 words)

Was I being disloyal to my boyfriend

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I were invited over to his brother's house for a bbq. His bro likes my potato salad so much, he asked me to make a lot of it so he could have some leftovers. Ok, no problem, I did. When we were over there, towards the end of the evening, we started playing the game ... (884 words)

Two and 1/2 years and I want more than kissing

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i have been with my boy friend for 2 and a half yrs now. and i keep giving clues for over a month that i want more then just kissing. i want to go futher as i want to have sex with him. but he isnt getting the message and i dnt want to ask him straight out, i want it ... (82 words)

He already has a kid

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So Im 17 years old. I met this guy. He's really sweet. Kinda seems like the player type though. So he tells me he has a gf. But she lives in l.a and I guess its not working out between them. So I kind of try to hold my distance until they're done. But he wants to keep talking ... (254 words)

Husband getting "I love you" Messages from a guy

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married. 9 years ago I've found out that a gay has been messaging my husband with i love u's.. I thought it had stopped. and recently I found a message with a greeting of "more boys for you".. Is my husband a gay? What should I do?... (54 words)

2 months and no period..pregnant? OR just messed up cycle?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really worried that i may be pregnant. my cycle is quite long, 42 days. i have taken the morning after pill three times before on three different occasions. the last time i took the pill my period came two weeks earlier, 28 days. it has now been 2 months since then and i ... (185 words)

I know it was to break up with him but I feel so sad

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my name is Reyna, i need you to help me. Today I ended things with a guy who obviously didn't care about me. We dated for 4 years and i truly can't remember the last time i felt like i was worth something. I want to give you some quick inside in our relationshp: We starte... (544 words)

Relationship ended but we are still involved

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am hoping that there are people out there that can help me, I am really confused over this situation. I recently broke up with my ex nearly two months ago whilst we have remained good friends, I have still got feeling for him, and I was convinced that he felt the same. S... (238 words)

Height rating

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you people rate a person of height 6 5"? i am 6 4" and i feel good to be this tall but girls are too short to stand up with a boy of this height. what do girls say here?And Do rate my height.... (47 words)

What to do about the old crush?

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My 13 year old friend is dating a 19 year old guy is this going to end well?

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4 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My friend(Girl 13) is dating a 19 year old boy and they have already like planned getting married and she wants to move in with him because she hates life at home. I don't think it seems like a good idea but they said it was love at first sight.They have planned to get married ... (79 words)

Is it normal that two people in a relationship do not talk to each other everyday?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need help. my current bf has been a weird individual since the beginning. By beginning I meant to say 3 months ago. We've been together for 1 month. He never gives me good morning/night calls; never texts me during the day, he only replies my texts when I had... (278 words)

Broke up with girlfriend and I'm scared she's going to hurt herself

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! I am in a mess! I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago .....she still used to string in my life and i felt the need to get some space ... so i broke all contacts with her thinking maybe this would help us move on and we can think about becoming friends later on .. ... (238 words)

I am a virgin, my girlfriend is not, any tips on performance?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. My gf is not a virgin, but i am. I want to be a good sexual partner, but I'm not really sure how to be one. First of all, is there any way to make sex more pleasurable the first time? How can I go for longer? Anything else would help. Thanks.... (53 words)

Dating over two years, left without a word, should I let him go or find out why?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy you been dating for 2 years and couple of weeks left without saying goodbye? Should i let him go or find out?... (29 words)

Will he make an effort to see me again?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy were texting back and forth all week last week. On Friday he asked me if I wanted to hang out sometime and on Saturday I told him that that would be okay. He asked me what I was doing today (Sunday), and I told him that I was working (I really was). Haven't ... (82 words)

I am having a worsening pain in my vagina, what could it be and what should I do?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been havin pain an sting like feeling in my vag area i kinda of always had on an off pain every now an then but it wasnt til today an yesterday i think its geting worse not only that but its swollen and it still hasnt went down since yesterday what do i do what can it be... (61 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed with the "World of Warcraft", it is afecting our relationship, any advice that can help me deal with this?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 6 months now. He's sweet, intelligent, funny, and all around, a terrific guy. But like everyone else, he has his problems. Recently, he is becoming more and more involved in World of Warcraft. While I'm not opposed to him p... (697 words)

I don't know what to do with my relationship

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years ago, i met this guy and we became really good friends and after a while we started to date. we broke up, but still kept in touch and i fell in love with him. we had a on and off thing for around a year. well a year ago, he found another girl and he left me for her, ... (325 words)

My long distance girlfriend is having problems at work and I can't seem to give her good advice, should I call her less often?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have moved to another country which is very far from my gf. It isn't permanent but will for a long time due to work. We keep in touch by chatting and phone. Recently, she is having problem with her work. There are people keep giving her hard time. Sort... (173 words)

Has anyone heard of the "Lucille Sorella'" breast enlargement program?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - has anyone herd of Lucille Sorella and her book flat to fab breast enlargment program? i am looking to increase my bust size. i wanted to know if anyone has herd or tried it out that can give me some advice on it before i buy it... (49 words)

He swept me off my feet, then revealed a temper that was scary, should I even consider being with him, he said it was over?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Two months ago I met a man and we have spent almost every day together. He swept me off my feet and was so amazing to me. He wanted me to move away with him within four weeks but i told him we were moving too fast. One month after this we went away and he was a completely ... (190 words)

We have a child together, he has been in prison, should I be concerned about what people think if we date?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 16 I started dating the most popular guy in my school, He was captain of the rugby and soccer team, one of the top 5 students in our graduation class. We thought we would be the power couple, in 2006 we were 22 and in college. One nigth we went out to a party and him ... (248 words)

We dated, made out to a point, he now seems disinterested, what do you think?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted about this situation before but now more things have happened and I’m trying to get over it but I’m doubting myself big time. I started seeing a guy who was two weeks earlier dumped by his girlfriend (she’d found someone else and was cheating on him). We got alo... (475 words)

I like my someday stepbrother

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like someone I really shouldn't like: my dad's fiance's 16 yr. old son: in other words my someday-will-be stepbrother. I know I need to get over it, let me say that again, I don't have to but I suppose it would be better to. I can't really tell him how I feel b/c that ... (63 words)

Friends with benefits or couldthere be more?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My long time best friend is a male, we have been friends since we were both 4 years old, and never once have we ever felt anything between us other then just friends. We both have have ended our last relationships about 8 months ago and started hanging around even more. Last ... (219 words)

After affairs on both sides, can our marriage problems be solved by having an open relationship within the marriage?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 7 years. We have been through a LOT together and have kids together and all. The problems started about 3 years into our marriage when I revealed to my wife that I was addicted to pornography. Then later, I met someone and had an affair for ... (818 words)

How do I handle heat induced anxiety?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey I have a tendency to get anxious in certain situations and break out sweating. I used to have a lot of built up anxiety and would freak out during the day but I have gotten that under control by focusing on the now. However, there are certain situations where I was with my ... (227 words)

I know he likes me as much as her!

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help. This guy has a girlfriend. he talks to me more than he talks to his girlfriend. and we have great conversations(usually on the phone or through text), lots of fun together (only by ourselves though). Nobody has any idea that we even talk. Its never been said but ... (291 words)

What do YOU guys do???

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Exams are coming up soon and i study at uni from mornin til late night. currently i dont have a girlfriend and i see quite a few really nice girls in the library. i get nervous jus to go up to talk to a girl. once when i was walkin up a flight of stairs, a girl was walkin ... (201 words)

My girl friend and I broke up... I miss her but I don't know how to cope

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I just broke up and we were going out for over a year. It started out great and we had many rough spots. She would get depressed a lot because of school issues and friends etc... and I would be her main support force. My friends kept an eye on her after she ... (300 words)

30 year old guy has never dated.. how do I get started?

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4 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and have very rarely dated. I am a brain tumor survivor and had to have all my hormones replaced artificially so I went through puberty late. Of course, I have never had sex, never even been in a romantic situation yet. How do I get started at my late age? ... (94 words)

I think about leaving my husband every day.

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4 May 2009 (F) age - I think about leaving my husband every day. I think, I'm so confused. I don't know if I'm right to feel how I feel. He stopped being affectionate with me sexually years ago. Yet he is not sick, but does not want sex. He also does not make me feel sexy,or loved. Now I'm n... (203 words)

I've only ever heard of LDRs ending badly. Can it work or is it best to end things on a good note?

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4 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I've been seeing a guy for about 8 months or so and it's been sort of on/off but at the moment it's great. However I've been offered some work overseas and I'm worrying about what will happen to our relationship if I go, especially since I don't know for definate how long ... (176 words)