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*emort
writes:I am the younger sister (19) and I am finding it really hard to live/get alone with my sister at the moment. There seems to be a tense horrible rivalry and jealousy between us. She has admitted that she has always between jealous of me, ever since I was born she has felt I have had all the attention. Now we are older our dofference have not been forgotten and still now there is a constant comparison between us. We seem to fight about everything from food, music taste, and you si right about the smallest of things. We also find it impossible to share anything! This is making family life unbearable. I am going to uni in September but want to enjoy summer with her!Pleaseee help with what to do with our relationship!!!
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reader, gemort +, writes (27 May 2009):
gemort is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHI Ladies,
Just wanted to say thank you to all yours anaswer, they have really helped and made me think.
I am going to do my best to show my sister all that you said, and enjoy each day we have together!
If anyone has advise please do share as I will do on this alot!
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reader, audie  +, writes (27 May 2009):
 sibling rivalry is the longest most widespread war in history. its really hard to get along but deep down u love each other. if u wana spend some fight free time look for something you both enjoy doing. if there isnt which is highly unlikely suggest doing something she enjoys even if u dont. if u show some interest in her life in a positive way chances are she'll reciprocate. xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (27 May 2009):
 hun i know exactly what you are going through my sister and i are exactly like that!
though i am 20 but still the youngest.
just enjoy it!
don't let her get to you if she does ignore her.
when you go to uni TRUST me things will change!!
she'll miss you and become closer to you and you'll be able to share things without always comparing and being jealous.
you need to talk pop me a message i'm going through the same thing as you hun :)
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reader, ashababe  +, writes (27 May 2009):
Take it easy everyone has sibling rivalry its a part of nature urs may be bad but think at least uve got a sister right
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Are you two sporty? I wonder whether doing a team game together would help you get along? x
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