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He says he loves me but I'm not sure if he is just trying to get me into bed

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Question - (27 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *xXDaniXxX writes:

My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me, he's gone all the way with girls before, but i havent gone that far yet, he keeps tryin to push me into having sex and i dont know what to do. should i have sex with him? or keep sayin no? but what if i keep sayin no and he finish's with me. he says he loves me but i dont know if thats just a way of getting me into bed...,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

i think you have the answer to your own question.

if he loves you then there is no reason why he should end it with you just simply because you dont want to sleep with him. also he should respect your choice and not try and force you into anything you dont want , so unless its your decision and you truly believe he loves dont get into his bed.

gd luck, hope it helped

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A female reader, Loopy14 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

Loopy14 agony auntNo offence but this guy sounds like a loser. U should not be made to feel pressured in any way when it comes to sex. I reckon u should stick to your guns until he proves to you hes worth giving yourself to. If he doesnt stick around,forget him.

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