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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He prefers bigger breasts and mine are small...how do I deal with his remarks about that?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to stop being insecure, but I don't know how. Granted, never been the most self confident chick in the block, since I'm not the prettiest. But when we started dating, he used to compliment me a lot which gave me a huge confidence boost. Huge, I was really ... (878 words)

Trying to break up with him but he threatens he'll do something drastic! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 very young and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He started living with me at my dad's house before we were even together because he had no where to go and I cared for him. So our relationship started off really fast at first I was head over heels for him ... (189 words)

Been engaged for 7 months and she stopped wearing her ring!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice here... I've been with my lady nearly 3 years. We've been engaged for 7 months. We both work in the night club industry and she stopped wearing her ring about a month ago. Ladies!! do you think it is ok to take your ring off for the hustle? LOL... What is the ... (71 words)

Help me get the love of my life back after I broke his heart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I was with my fiance since the age of 18,We hadn't gotten married yet on my account because i wasn't ready.But as far as everyone including us were concerned, we were. He was my first and the love of my life. We were together for 15 years and I started seeing s... (442 words)

Am I too short to be loved...???

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9 May 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hi Will women notice a good looking but only 5'8" guy? Will they find him handsome? Or is it too short for them?... I cant stop thinking about my height for months. I'm almost 20 so i wont grow up anymore, and ive never had a gf before, never even got any attention of ... (101 words)

I am scared of breaking up with this guy when I know there is no future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just writing in for some advice, i have been involved in a relationship for the last almost 3 yrs now.i am crazily in love with this guy.infact the story goes like this.before i started dating this guy i had asked him if caste or religion wud bea problem with his family as ... (719 words)

I honestly do not love this girl anymore, but I am afraid to break up with her, and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Thursday I was on the phone with my girlfriend, I had to address some issues. For example; It bothered me that she never came up with ideas for dates. I always came up with stuff to do, I always ask her; hey do you want to hang out? She never asks me. Anyway I... (313 words)

How can I tell my family I'm in a relationship and happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i have a slight problem... i have been in a relationship for the last year in which i have kept a secret from my mum and dad... i want to tell them but they wont approve and i know they will be so disappointed that i am with him as he is not in my cast and that has ... (158 words)

Masturbation help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite when they marry. i want to ... (140 words)

Wife that cannot do without her parents...

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9 May 2009 (M)

age - My wife can not leave without her parents they must be on the same roof and be together always,becuase that is the way they raised her up.We have two kids 7yrs and 4yrs old,they are been leaving with us for 7+yrs now anytime I ask her about when they are going to moved that is ... (111 words)

I want him to want to be with me properly and not just his conselation prize.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex got dumped yesterday and I felt really good about this becuase he had left me for her and because he was wanting to see me. I stuck to my guns though and said no and made him feel he had 2 work for it. Now though I am worried that all the old feelings I put myself through ... (117 words)

Now what do I do he is still emphatically denying it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there i hope somebody can help. I have been married for 4 years. We have 2 children, 3 and 9 months with our 3rd due in october. It all started the day before our first wedding anniversary we were away when my phone received a picture message when i looked it was from my ... (300 words)

I just don't see what would be so hard about spending one weekend sober with his pregnant fiance??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23... I'm 5 months pregnant and were engaged, before i got pregnant we had a very active social life but only at weekends... occasionaly he would go to the pub without me as i work shifts but since ive became pregnant he always wants to drink ... (117 words)

He broke up with me but he keeps calling me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me but he cant tell me why and every excuse he give me dont add up to what the problem was between us... what could the reason be why he still calls me all the time telling me how happy he is with his new girl and now i am dating someone else and i ... (83 words)

Period late..not had sex..so why is it late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (this question is mainly for girls). I am a few days late for my period and I got my first ever period 2 months ago. So far I have been regular. I havn't had sex=not pregnant so I don't now why i am late. Is this normal? and what should I do? please help.... (59 words)

We're becoming closer friends... I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Ii like this guy who just moved to my school this year. We always text each other, but don't talk much face to face because I'm to shy. When i first met him, I helped him hook up with this girl he liked at his old school. Now i really like him and i dont know ... (86 words)

Is the tech interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age - Ok so this is what happened. i was having a phone line installed and this really hot tech shows up to do it. he's about 10 yrs younger then me but i don't look my age, anyway. i wasn't paying that much attention to him at first but he had to go out side to his truck for ... (334 words)

Does he not want to see my face?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Last night me and my boyfriend were having sex. We hadn't been able to have sex the whole week, so we were both very turned on. We were on the couch, he was sitting and I was on top of him. We were face to face. Suddenly I noticed it was taking him longer than usual to cum and ... (193 words)

Like my boyfriend and this other guy but don't want to risk losing both of them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have a boyfriend that i really like and he really likes me butt lately i have been starting to like this other boy but he is taken and if i dump my boyfriend for him and he says no then im screwed becuz i dont want to hurt my boyfriend becuz i really like him just this ... (74 words)

Date with a mate and I'm scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've got a date next week with a mate. A double date. Well, he's bringing his girlfriend and someone for me. Thing is, I'm 20, never had a girlfriend, I'm a virgin with no experience in any sexual act, not even kissing, and I've been on one date in my life. I don't have a ... (129 words)

I don't see the point in anything at the moment. Any words of advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I can't handle it any longer. Life is just way way too hard. My parents make me split up with the guy I love, my bestfriends don't want anything to do with me. Rumors are going round about me. My family hate me for many reasons. People say don't change just beca... (127 words)

Am I allergic to my boyfriends sperm? What's going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im 16 and a friend of mine told me this was the place to go for questions about sex. well, my boyfriend and i were having sex. (not our first time) and when we got done, my vagina began to swell. is it possible that im allergic to his sperm or something? or did we do som... (72 words)

Any advice I can give my sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well where to start, I've just turned 18 and I live with my dad, I've got a sister who is 19 and lives with my mum. My mum got a new partner a few months ago and all is going well until this week. My sister's boyfriend and my mums partner had a big argument, because my m... (376 words)

I caught him red-handed but I still love him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - here goes: My boyfreind of 5 years has been dealing with some depression and anxiety. he has been going to doctors for this and we have been on and off the whole time. He has lied about his where abouts and who he has been with. And he even joined a sex website to meet women in... (168 words)

I'm being beaten down by rumors. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help!!! Basically, I go to an all girl school and it is a very bitchy school. A few months ago my boyfriend came to my school and broke up with me. I was so upset and I didn't want to talk to anyone. Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had sex about 2 months before he... (161 words)

I think I'm too much for my wife to handle and I'm not satisfied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I was never satified in sex.My wife always surrendered after 20 mins and pleaded to me to stop as she cannot stand anymore as she already had multiple orgasm.I can stay erected and not ejaculate for long period.The fastest so far was about half an hour.Any sugestion?... (47 words)

Do "true" friends really exist!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm feeling really angry with my so called 'friends'. ive been betrayed and burned by so many friends and i feel it almost pointless to even try and make any more new friendships. one has gone out with my longtime ex and i had only found out when i had stumbled across a random ... (160 words)

Birth control seems to have stolen my girlfriends desire!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend started birth control about a month ago. However, ever since she's been on it, she's been feeling ill pretty much every evening, and on the occasional days she actually feels fine, she's not interested in sex! She tells me she "wants to want to have sex", wh... (192 words)

Coming off the injection and trying to have a baby..I'm a little confused.

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and i are trying for a baby. I have only just come off depo injection but had no sign off my period coming back. My boobs are sore. How long could it be before I know?... (38 words)

My boyfriend has many girlfriends...am I wrong to ask about them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I m in a relationship with a boy for about 1 n half year.He is 5 years older than me . He is simultaneously going around with 2-3 girls n about all he has told me.I have feelings for him.He has said to all his gf that he wnt marry them. He l marry his 1st gf who is abroad.I ... (144 words)

I'm looking for a nice job for my mother who doesn't have a GRE, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, my mom is 48 years old, and works as a home attendant. She hates her job with a passion, and wants to leave but does not know where to go. My father and I are of no help. The problem is she does not have a high school diploma, she understands english, but has ... (198 words)

Am I normal or do I need professional help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I normal or do I need to speak to someone, I am 24 (virgin) I have never had a proper boyfriend, on work night outs, guys are always hitting on me, saying what they would like us to do together and hitting on me big time, I think most people at work know that I have never ... (163 words)

How should I take his comment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I ask for your opinions; I have never really felt attracted to anyone like ever until about last year when I met this guy, we get on well, but he doesn't want a girlfriend and I don't do one-offs, we had a conversation where he asked when we were going to get together for ... (95 words)

I am so miserable and I have no idea what to do! Advice please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi I need your advice really bad. I lost someone I really love because I decided to date someone else because he didn't take care of his business as far as getting his divorce. I didn't date the other but a few months. He treated me real bad and talked about me with other ... (500 words)

I am troubled and need advice from someone wiser than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need an outsider's insight, and advice concerning what I should be doing, saying, thinking right now. What should I, a generally self-confident yet sexually frustrated young man, be focusing on? I do not understand my paradoxical emotions: sometimes I feel lonely, desperat... (1184 words)

I am in such a mess ! I just need someone to point me in the right direction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help. i am in a relationship which is so wrong. my partner is really hurting me mentally, physically and financially. we live together with our son who is 4 and im so scared he will turn out to be just like his dad. i know i have to leave, i really do, but i dont kno... (164 words)

What do the city girls think of a cute, friendly farmer's son?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - what do the city girls think of cute,freindly ,tall,freindly,charming country guy who works on a farm... (16 words)

My wife just doesn't love me anymore..? What more can I do?

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when me and my wife got married two years ago everything was fine until our wedding night. on our wedding night my wife denied me. we had already had a kid together and we had been waiting 8 weeks to have sex on our wedding night. that night she told me no. because of my ... (200 words)

Could it be pregnancy? Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and by boyfriend are trying to conceive before he goes to the air force. we used to have sex a lot but now its only a once a week thing. I have a regular period. but I vomit, tender breast, and I also have a wetness that I think may be an yeast infection... its not ... (87 words)

I have become his booty call. Is it possible that he feels as vulnerable as I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am new again to the dating world (recently divorced). I met a man 4 months ago at a bar late at night. He was clearly into me. We did not exchange #s. A few weeks later I met up with his friend at the same bar. Got his # and began texting him occassionally. We finally ... (497 words)

A guy I have a crush on but my friend does to, is he really into her or do I have a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a crush on this guy and my friend does as well for a while now the guy ( lets call him adam) knew that my friend ( lets call her emily) liked him. but he did not like her at all he also does not know that i like him but a few days ago he asked to a dance which r... (122 words)

Have you also been rejected by girls when you approached them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been rejected many times and I'm sick of it !!!!!! I was rejected at the school, bars,shopping mall , streets etc. I don't know how to fix it ? When I'm with my friends I'm very outgoing boy but when I approach someone I'm a different person. I'm now not very confident t... (100 words)

What to do to tighten up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well I haven't had sex in a year because I'm scared to w/my husband b/c we've had 2 kids my last 1 3mos ago. But the reason I haven't is b/c after my 1st child my vagina was very. Loose to him. Now to me nothing changed it was still great but he says it just too loose. Now ... (132 words)

I'm so insecure how can I stop being so jealous?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, i need some advice on how to be more secure with myself. I get jealous very quickly when pretty girls are around. I'll give you 1 example...recently a new girl joined our team at work and she is absoultly stunning and all the men flock around her. Before she came ... (180 words)

How to be around ex and his new girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

- Hope everyone is having a good day and would appreciate some feedback here. I broke up with my ex six months ago and now I am happy to say I have moved on. For the longest time I avoided the places where I thought he might be but now I am fine with seeing him and his new ... (181 words)

I don't love my husband, but I like him very much. Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age - I don't love my husband, I like him, but something has died. He's still my best friend but we've grown apart. We've been married 29 years and have no children of our own, but two sons from his first marriage - he was widowed. He's 19 years older than me. I trusted him totally ... (269 words)

Why does this guy act this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy that I've known since last September has been weird. Last monday through wednesday he was ignoring me and not talking to me. Then Thursday he was smiling at me and talking to me on the bus. Friday during shop he was staring at me from across the room and talking about ... (165 words)

Sex just isn't happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! I lost my virginity a few years back with a randomer, didnt use a condom and it just kinda slipped in and worked the way it was supposed to! Since then my experience has been pretty much non-existant. Ive been with my gf now for a few months and have tried to have se... (399 words)

I saw her with a guy uglier than me and I don't feel bad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - OK I'll make it quick. I dated this girl for about 5 months, very pretty and cute. About three months into our relationship, things went a little sour when she told me she was missing her ex boyfrienda lot so we took a 2 week break from each other. She calls me to talk things ... (366 words)

Go for love? Or duty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i m a troubled girl. i m 24 and a lwayer by proffesion. aunt i have relation with my class fellow but then my parents refused his perposal and he got enganged soon after his refusal. then after some time another boy come to my life and we were happy together but few months ... (103 words)

I'm confused about this guy he's a player

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have known this guy for 4 months nw and recently we have started dating. the problem is that he is too much of a playa but im so into this guy. im so confused bcoz people have been warning me about him and i do not want to listen to them, all i want to do is date this guy and ... (105 words)

I feel so stupid and used

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey.. my ex broke up with me 7 months ago since then weve slept togther on a few occasions the last one he made me thinkl he was in love with me because of the way he was acting .. im still madly in love with him and cant sem to get over him at all no matter what i do ... (745 words)

Insecure broke up,now are friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The following may seem wierd and overhyped but it's just a small part of my life which I need help in, and I have given everything you need to know in detail (thats why so long) so that no wrong opinions and conculsions are there...it's long but if you have time please read ... (1549 words)

Sister in abusive relationship and we can't seem to get help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and my sister's 23, been with her girlfriend since November 2008. She moved in with her in February 2009 and things were good up until end of March - beginning of April, she said. Last week she told me she'd broken up with her because of domestic violence from he... (241 words)

Why is she going around kissing all men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I really need someones advice, my so called "best mate" used to come round my house after school occasionally, then she told me that she fancied both my brothers, one being 17 and one being 19 nearly 20, after she told me this she started to come round my house everyday ... (357 words)

I don't know whether to believe him or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy and he lives about 300 miles away. I've been talking to him for about 6 months now and he claims that he really likes me. what i cant figure out is if he is just saying that cos he knows that we will never really meet or go anywhere or if he means ... (79 words)

Sex with a random girl felt better than sex with my b/f, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! i have a boyfriend and he went out of town for the week on a business trip and i went out by my self last night and saw this supper hot girl. so i we talk and had a few drinks next thing i new we were on our way back to her apartment. were we then had sex! truth is it was ... (83 words)

Last night I had sex and we forgot to use protection, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i had sex with my boy friend. and well let's just say it wasn't that great and the worst part about it was we forgot to use protection of any kind what do i do if i get pregnant i will be in so much trouble i am only a freshman i know i shouldn't be having sex but i ... (75 words)

Broken up but want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question that might seem stupid and the answers are quite obvious but I want others opinions. Well i started to go out with this amazing guy I've known for a while and I fell for him completely. We seemed like the perfect couple at first but a couple weeks lat... (345 words)

My natural curly hair becomes floppy when I shampoo. Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) age 36-40 - ok first things first... this is NOT a relationship/sex question, but i hope that i can get some advice up in this joint, lol. ok it's simple: i have naturally curly wavy hair and everytime i shampoo, the curls and waviness go away and the result is a big puff of hair on my ... (122 words)

Married..travel 900 miles for a hook up with online woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I'm a 26 year old man, who has been married 6 years. I have within the last 6 months fallen into a strange situation with a girl I started talking to online. It started off with me just being horny, looking for a girl to talk dirty with, but things progressed as this one ... (289 words)

He took a purity vow, and now no sex

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf took a purity pledge when he was 17 and in a youth group.But he hasnt gone to church since then. We are now 24 and he still wont have sex. We do oral with each other, and he uses toys on me but wont have sex, even though we talk about getting married all the time. ... (59 words)

I'm so curious about the "other" woman, it worries me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I few days ago i posted a question and i got really good advices, so im here again to see if i have the same luck. I left my boyfriend of 4 years about 2 weeks ago because i found out about a relationship that he had with someone form Seattle a while back(which i met from som... (345 words)

Unwanted sex with him, now I think he gave me an std

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for about a year and a half. for the last few months we have been feeling like we are not in a relationship togeher because we live an hour away. I have a co-worker who I had a crush on. I got very drunk one night at work (hes the bartender there) and he ... (156 words)

Every day I pray that his girlfriend has broken up with him

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am like in love with this guy but he has a girlfriend. he lives in a different town but we are pretty good friends. every time i talk to him on msn and ask him what he is up to it is always oh i just got back from hanging with my girlfriend or my girlfriend is coming ... (136 words)

Shy guy, I can't talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, who knows I like him. But I've been kind of ignoring him lately (playing hard-to-get -_-) but he doesn't like me back. (If a guy knows you like him, why not ask you out right? And he hasn't done that.) We were acquaintances before that. We talked and stuff... (236 words)

I need some pointers, on how to get over an inferiority complex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy in my class, and I'm not ready to confess to him or anything, but the thing is... I think he is REALLY high above me. As in, he's way smarter than me, can do everything better than me, etc. and it makes me feel like I don't deserve him. Any... (71 words)

When your boyfriend says "he loves you with every fiber of his being". What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when your boyfriend tell you "i love you with every fiber of my being"?... (18 words)

She always treats me like a shoulder to lean on, I don't want to do that, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok what did I do to myself? this is pretty much a continuation of my last story. so I tried to leave her behind realizing that all she seemed to get out of me was using me. now I just don't know. so I tried to distance myself from her. I stopped talkin to her and stopped ... (361 words)

This co-worker seems to be obsessed with me, how do I deal with her?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: There is this woman at work who is overly involved with my affairs in the work place. This job is her life and she has to know about everybody and everything. She didn't like the fact that I was closer to our dept manager than she was and she begulied me on that ... (568 words)

Is a man's erection based on his emotions, or something else?

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay i tried to research this and i can't find exactly what i'm looking for so please someone who knows just answer my question. Is it true that a man's erection is based on his emotions? I believe they are because i'm only turned on my wife and only because i love her. I wa... (121 words)

Four years of having a crush on this guy, how do I tell him?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for four years. I can't believe the way I feel about this boy. I've tried getting over him, I really have. We are about to graduate should I tell him how I really feel, even though I'm really shy to talk to him.... (47 words)

My boyfriend loves me, but wants me to be more independent, my family is a long way away, what can I do to be less dependent on him?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys,I moved to USA about 3 years ago. All my famile and close firneds are back in my home country. I've been with my boyfriend in USA for almost 2 and a half years now. We've been living together for alittle bit more than 1 year. About six months ago, during winter, I... (283 words)

She waited for me to get a divorce for 4 years, got tired and dated, now wants me back, should I give in?

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9 May 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I met this young lady a fews years back. I thought she was a real sweetie.We hit things off very well. The problem was that I was still married and living with my wife. I decied that I was going to divorce my wife before I met this young lady but i had to wait util I got my ... (356 words)

We have been best friends for a good while, he has gotten a girlfriend pregnant, he did not tell me, should I approach him about it?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Aunts and Uncles. I am fifteen years old, and I also have a best GUY friend that is fifteen years old. I am a girl by the way. My best friend and I have been pretty great friends since the months have gone on, we have been through our up's and down's but, hey, what fri... (270 words)

I was raped, had a miscarriage, now married, very happy but still dealing with the rape, how do I get over it?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice.I was raped on 5/6/99; ten years and two days ago.It took me a very long time to get past all of it and I really thought I was over it.This guy not only raped me, but he got me pregnant;I lost the baby at 5 months due to cessation of developement, and had to ... (153 words)

She wants to do sexual things, I think we are too young, what do I do?

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 in a couple of months. I am not sure if it is weird to love someone. I know I am only 14 and have been in this relationship for 5 months so... is that too early to love someone? I do love her and will do a lot of things just to be with her. Also it seems like she wants ... (138 words)

There is a guy in my class who acts very nervous around me and acts like he doesn't want to talk to me, what do you think is the problem?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes that I think might like me. He always stares at me and when I look at him he looks away really fast or pretends to be working. If he is with his friends they are always staring at me and when I look at them they tell him and he looks at me ... (319 words)

Is it normal to want to masturbate all the time?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 Turning 16 in 1 Month I am continually horny and wanting to masterbate, is this normal?... (19 words)

Did she just use me for sex?

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok This is really bugging me now so I despratley need some help please. I'll try cut a long story short. Basically I have been mates with this girl for 9 years and we met up back in March and she was engadged to get married but then she said she wanted to be wiv me so she le... (337 words)

I'm afraid the result will be exactly what I don't want it to be

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The first and last time I had unprotected sex was in December 2008. Actually, that's the last time I had sex, period. Since then, I've had all my periods (though each is seems to come one week earlier than the last) and they've been getting slightly lighter but a little longer. ... (126 words)

I'm considering becoming sterile just soI don't screw up here life

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating just short of a year now. We're both 16 and just starting having sex about a month ago. We've only done it a few times. Both with and without condoms. For some reason she hates condoms and doesn't want to take the time to put them on. I ... (226 words)

How to reconnect with this guy I met

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me...I really need advice on how to re-connect with this guy I met. All advice is accepted and appreciated! Ok here goes, I met this guy on a social networking site. He gave me his messenger screename and I we had two conversations. It seemed to me like we were ... (290 words)

How can I tell if I've fallen out of love?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I used to cry, suffer, begg and fight for the love of a man I once knew. He did many things against me. Although, he was emotionally abusive, rejections, humilliation, etc. Still I urged to be with him. I cried a river of tears over this man. NOW, I just can't stand ... (310 words)

I need serious advice..is my husband gay?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help desperately. I think my husband is gay. We have been married for a little over a year but have been together for almost three. Our relationship was wonderful but within the last few months it has changed. Awhile back I found out he was watching gay porn. I ... (376 words)

Jealousy? Or love?

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just recently broken up with my girlfriend of 5 months, i can see the change in her personality. Its been 2 weeks now and she still texts me every other day. i told her that i was talking to another girl. She asks; who is she, do i know her, are you gonna make her your ... (94 words)

Happily married but I still enjoy seeing my ex

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9 May 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I am very much in love with my husband of seven and a half years. For some reason, I still seem to look forward to seeing my ex-husband whenever i occassionally visit my daughter and grand-daughter. We were friends for years and when we divorced, we never really got any ... (84 words)

I wonder if there is more to this "Friend" of her than what she is saying?

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9 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help me help myself. I've been going out with this girl for quite some time (2 years). We are bf and gf. Just recently she asked me to look for something in her phone and I came across a text message I wasn't too happy about. It was apparently from a "male friend" of ... (376 words)

It seems we're doing everything that he wants not me

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all.. we have been in a long distance relationship for 4yrs.. both of us are from india and work in US in different cities. we are thinking of getting married soon. i have always wanted to go back to india after 2-3yrs but my boyfrend wants to stay here for probably ... (174 words)

Within a few days I lost my pregnancy and my Mom booted me from her life. How do I cope with this?!?!

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well three months ago i found out i was pregnant for the first time, i have always wanted kids as i have been raised looking after my twin 10 year younger brothers and helping out looking after my two nieces. well as u can expect i was over the moon about it i am only 18 but ... (494 words)

Is it love or is he after me just to get a mortgage?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age - i want to know if my current boyfriend really loves me, or is just using me to get a mortgage ... (20 words)

How do I know if he is experimenting or really interested?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy and we have alot of steamy attraction between us...however we have 2 different cultural backrounds.and i think he shows me alot of attention but i dont think he wants to risk his friends and family knowing he is stepping out his race...how do i find out if he is ... (91 words)

I have a crush on a classmate. Should I tell him at the end of class party?

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9 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I may be a bit long, but I want to describe my situation as well it's possible. I've known my classmate for 3 years now, we're both 19 and i recently found out that I have crush on him! It's not like it would have hitted me like love on first sign usually hit us. It's just.. I... (594 words)

Do all guys show attraction the same way?

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9 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wodnering. do all lads, when they like you, show it in a way that they wanna spend time with you, always talking to you and alwyas around you? or do some show it differently and do the exact opposite to that? espeically if they aren't sure what to do about it and just seem ... (58 words)