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*quishysammiie
writes:im with this guy and ive been with him for 8 months and i have alot of feelings for him but i just dont see the relationship going to far or i dont see a future with him in it...what does it mean? and what am i suppose to do Reply to this Question
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reader, niki20  +, writes (27 May 2009):
 if you dont see you two building on a future theres ho reason to be together. you guys still like eachother be buds. i hope this helped good luck
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reader, squishysammiie +, writes (27 May 2009):
squishysammiie is verified as being by the original poster of the question well, thanks for the advice, to the both of you, but this is where i am stubborn, i tend to stay with the person im with for a very long time taking everything they have to dish out, good or bad, i let guys walk all over me and i just cant stop myself from Not leaving the guys i go out with,:S so im not to sure what to do from there?
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reader, brokenforgood +, writes (27 May 2009):
You see no future with him so why tag him along and develop his feelings for you further?? That's just not fair to him or to you. Talk to him privately and ultimately end it or at least take a break.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): you have only been with him for a short time, sometimes people need to be together for a while to find out if things are really gonna work out, BUT in saying that if you feel this way now you could still feel this way in a years time when you decide that you know it isn't gonna work, and then you have wasted a year of your heart on the wrong person when you could have been out finding the right person.
maybe try telling him you need some space for a while and don't try to contact him at all until you feel ready, if you miss him quite a lot and think you just aren't you with out him then it can have the potential to last. if you don't miss him at all then it wont work out!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): It means just simply that: You don't see it long term working out. You are young so if you enjoy the relationship and it's healthy, why end it. At your age, you probably are looking at what career you want (college) and other things and aren't at that age to get married and settle down. You'll be doing a lot of changing in the next few years so no need to put pressure on yourself.
Do nothing, focus on your goals and hobbies. If you want to date around, break up with him.
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