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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys, i need a bit of advice.When i fall for guys (there's only ever been 3) I fall really hard, and it is so frustrating because i'm not going out with them. One of them was shy and at the time, so was I; we barely knew each other yet sat next to each other in lessons but nothing ever came of us. The second one was a teacher, need I say more.The third one (current); well i told him how i felt last year, he didnt feel the same. In past months he's started to act all nervous around me, so i'm constantly wondering if he does like me after all.Its actually unbearable having such strong feelings for a person and nothing becoming of it. And because nothing happens between me and them, i become quite obsessed and think about the person constantly. I know its not a positive quality to have but it just takes over me and i find it difficult to control my urges when i'm near to them and my jealously really kicks in when they're talking to another girl. It kills me inside, especially with the current guy who i've had overwhelming feelings for since last year in September, he's friends with so many girls and he's always hanging around with me and my friends which makes things really tense and when we're alone we can hardly say a word to each other, there's been a countless number of times when i've wanted to lean in and kiss him.I love this guy, i really do. I'm not ugly, he's even called me cute before :) and in my opinion i have a really nice personality, i aren't bitchy or anything like that. I'm just me. I keep thinking of ways to improve myself, but at the end of the day there's nothing more attractive than being yourself and i refuse to change for anyone.Can you offer me any advice either on the situation i've mentioned or on how to deal with these overwhelming feelings.Thank you :)x
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