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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can someone give me a big push?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age - This question does not really have anything to do with relationships but I just need some encouragement. I have always wanted to work as a cabin crew member. For years I was constantly rejected. Last year I was offered a job at the age of 43 with BA. I turned it down a... (137 words)

Infertility/pregnancy problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby for over a year. I hadnt had my period in over 8 months. I went to the Dr's and apparently I have HPV. No cancer. Everything is good. They did the vaginal ultrasound and everything was good. They put me on promethium 200 mg to ... (187 words)

She's younger and I'm wondering..if it would be right to date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in year 11 and theres a girl in year 9 who I Fancy. I know she likes me as well but the thing is I've had relationships in the past, which have involved foreplay. I'm wondering whether it would be right dating her?... (45 words)

I like them both.. Who do I choose?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am caught between guys there's this guy I really like but he lives five hours away from me and we were involved but then there's a guy who lives five minutes away and we go to school together and we are both interested in each other. I don't know who to choose because ... (68 words)

I'm the other woman..who got her married man. But now it's all going wrong! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age - I fell in love with a married man 5 years ago who was funny, attentive and loving all the time and spent most of his time with me including weekends and holidays. He did finally leave his wife who has move on and got remarried with a new child 2 years ago. We moved properly ... (438 words)

Is he lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend came home the other night so drunk he couldn't stand on his own. he was spitting on the floor thinking he was outside. he told me he was out with another woman, wouldn't let me near him because he said he didn't shower and still had her smell on him. the next ... (119 words)

He had sex with me and I haven't heard anything from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been seeing a guy for three months. He is 38, divorced with four children (they don't live with him)I am 35 no kids. I like him a lot, he told me that he really liked me and said he wanted to take things slow (despite the fact that he tried to sleep with me the ... (217 words)

I can't move on as I still love my ex gf! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm going to be honest with myself by saying this, I still love my ex and I want her back. She broke up with me saying she didn't have time for a relationship what with work, having 2 horses to look after and train plus being a scout leader. I feel empty and lost without ... (130 words)

He's too old and my Mom says 'don't date him'...how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at all but i feel so strongly ... (190 words)

It's driving me crazy..all these worries, no that I am not dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! So fed up of everything atm. As i said previously, i broke up with my boyf of almost 6 years five months ago and just felt really crappy for about 4 months. I miss the relationship but wouldn't want to go back to my ex boyf, who's moved on anyway. I thought i genuinely ... (148 words)

Scared to have sex with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really love my boyfriend.. he wants to have sex.. but i' m scared... even with protection... but i dont want to say that i am scared or that i dont want to do it .. because i am ready to do anything for him.. I dont know what to do right now.... (53 words)

Could an erotic masasge awaken the inner bi-sexuality of my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age - I have been married to my wonderful wife for 24 years. Her sexual orientation is definitely straight and conservative. I on the other hand am still inclined to some adventures, hopefully with my wife, for our middle age. I have this feeling that my wife would enjoy the ... (177 words)

I do whatever he wants me too but it makes me feel cheap and easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I meet this guy about 6 months back and after 3 or so weeks he got me invited to a party and we hooked up. Since then we have been seeing each other in secret 1 or 2 times a week at various places in a friends with benefits agreement, but now I feel more strongly ... (324 words)

My wife touched his privates to check out his problem..did she go too far?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need a little advice, or maybe just reassurance, or maybe someone to tell me i'm being dumb. Or maybe I am right and this is nothing. My wife has her 2 year degree, and about 2 years ago we decided that she should pursue a full degree to get certified as a primary teacher ... (516 words)

I was raped 9 years ago and feel guilt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - help me please, i was raped 9 years ago....i kind of forgot everything that happened but now i'm about to get married and i'm planing to tell the guy because i feel so guilt,.... i tried before couldn't tell him... but i feel i should tell him... please help me ... (50 words)

Can't figure out if he likes me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this crush on this boy in my grade We share 6 out of 7 classes together. Well, in Spanish the other day, my friend and I finished our project, followed by our other friends, quickly. I went over to him and his friend, ignoring his friend to a certain extent. Now, I'... (242 words)

How can I show him that I'm serious this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've started seeing a new guy this week after I broke up with my ex of 3 years. I met up with him on Monday night and we just chilled at his house. I got home and he text me saying he nearly went in for a cheeky kiss as i was leaving. So we met up wednesday night and we ... (197 words)

Feelings for me? Or am I seeing things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i really like this lad, i dont c him very often we coach gymnastics together once a week n he does little things like puts his hat on me n does little nudges n the tipical pick on me like jokingly im not too sure how to take it like whether he likes me or not and im a bit ... (101 words)

I have feelings for her; but she's engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. about 6 months back I met a girl in uni that was doing some of the same courses as me, I got chatting to her and walked her to her bus stop before going home. I never saw her again for a few months. The next semester it turned out that we were doing the same courses, so... (267 words)

Was in a really bad relationship but I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone,# Please help. I've been in a really bad relationship the last 3 and a half years. It ended after I found out my fiance had joined an escort agency behind my back. I've lost everything because of him and he's bled me dry with everything i have, money, car, f... (121 words)

He says we're nothing to each other so why does he act jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, well this guy and i have been casual sex buddies for about 7 months now, we talk everyday and meet up as and when we can. He gets jealous if he thinks im seeing other ppl, and even makes up stories about other girls to make me jealous! But when i approach him and ask him if ... (112 words)

Why does he act so strangely if he doesn't want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kinda confusing. I once liked this guy. A lot. I mean I was crushing on him super bad. But he didnt feel back, so he told me to get over him. I did (as much as possible), and I thought we could be friends. We cant really. He has a few issues, and I think finds it... (196 words)

She's been through alot, I know she doesn't trust me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife has had alot of problems in her life. She's been raped, sexually/emotionally/physically abused, was kidnapped by her father and put up for adoption, been in really bad relationships, and now has a lot of trouble trusting me. She loves me more than anything, I know, and ... (108 words)

I want to make a move..gain back what we had

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am an average kid (junior in high school), not too popular but not a loser.. i am just friendly with everyone in my school weather they are popular or losers. this year i met this girl who kinda seemed like one of those stereotypical popular girls, and was a bitch to me the ... (248 words)

Is my teacher flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya guys. I understand that there are many of these questions regarding teacher 'crushes' and many people saying they're 'in love' with them but I know what I feel about the guy, and it's kinda like a love him as a friend and I know at least whilst i'm in school nothing ... (421 words)

How do I help him get over his guilt with the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy is very caring but he used to keep kissing and having foreplay with his x girl before they broke up. now he feels guily about fooling around with his x girl and this keeps him from getting too close to me. how can i help him get over his guilt complex?... (53 words)

Relationship not what it used to be--please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for just over 18 months now. I just wanted to ask people's advice. For the first 9 months or so, things couldn't have been better- to put it simply, we were so in love! We did everything together. She always wanted to be with me and always ... (598 words)

Is your first friend on facebook your most important one? (ie boyfriend or girlfriend)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you date someone from face book by just meeting them on face book? It's a general question. If you make someone your first friend on face book list does that mean they are girlfriend or boyfriend or is that rubbish, I thought it went alfabethal order like A,B,C,D,E... (51 words)

Take your shoes off! Thanks!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Call me PETTY, but i am a woman of PRINCIPLE. I recently put a sign on my front door saying, take your shoes off, thanks!! I was getting so angry with everyone bringing mud and grass in to the house and getting it all over my laminate floors that i felt the sign was necessa... (314 words)

I'm falling in love with her best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old male, who just got out of a 4 year relationship last week. The girl who I left, I have a 2 year old son with. I left her because even after a year of trying to work it out, the fighting, drama, and unecessary stress was getting the best of me. I was a broke, ... (465 words)

I broke up with him because I thought he was gay... but he wasn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend cuz I thought he was gay but then i found out that he wasent what should i do cuz as soon as i dumped him i got a NEW boyfriend and now he doesnt really talk to me, in fact i think he hates me, what should i do to help this...... (62 words)

How can I forgive and forget with these images in my head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She told me she was a virgin and wanted to stay a virgin till she gets married. I agreed, because I am a virgin too. Everything was going okay. Until last month, she said that she can't lie to me any more. She said she's not ... (190 words)

I told my parents that my little sister has been watching porn on the net. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I checked the history and saw that my little sister was checking out porn, but I didn't say anything and didn't tell my parents. I just gave her a blinded/empty warning.. I wanted to see it with my own eyes before I tell..... So yesterday I caught her red handed and told my ... (92 words)

Late period... Advice needed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This month I'm late with my period by about 10 days [or 4] somtimes it depends when I get it. Some months i've gotten it the 22nd or so, while others when the month is about to end but this time it hasnt come yet. Pregnancy is somewhat out of the question since i havent had ... (182 words)

I was told he likes me but he's with someone and can't see them breaking up any time soon...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My crushes best friend told me that my crush likes me but he likes his girlfriend more. Recently he has been acting more interested in me but he doesn't act like he's gonna break up with his girlfriend any time soon. What can i do?... (49 words)

Why does my ex keep staring at me when he sees me now? Is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all at cupid, One question is and its based at both men and ladies, My ex and i have stayed freinds since we split last year he has since got a girlfriend, anyway my question is Why does he keep staring at me when we see each other, example, when i was down the pub... (167 words)

Why is my ex so sarcastic to me? He was the one that wanted to break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

- Hoping people can help a bit here and thank in advance all who respond. I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago. It was his decision and he asked for no contact so I did as he asked. We have mutual friends. A lot of the guys in our mutual group of friends thought he handled ... (181 words)

I understand his frustration but it's making me feel so down that I cannot function properly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunt's and Uncles, I have posted on this wonderful site before and hope I can call on people's advice and opinions again to help me with something that has been bothering me. Well, I will try to make this short. Earlier this year I lost my contract position because... (440 words)

Is she going through some kind of phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. She has the top average in my grade. In recent years, she wants to be "popular" and acts stupid and bubbly when I know she's not really like that. We like each other, but her style butts heads with mine (I'm usually quiet). ... (119 words)

Am I being lead on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl I've really liked for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. However, she does this weird thing where she gets all flirtatious when I don't show that much interest in her, but when I try to show interest, she becomes a lot less flirty, but she still ... (65 words)

Addicted to masturbating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have become addicted to masturbating. I would masturbate 3-4 times a day. Is this normal or should I try not to do it as much.? ... (29 words)

Do I truly miss him and only wish that I had him to lean on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - June of 2008 I married what I thought was the man for me. We have been together for 4 years before getting married. He came into the relationship with no children. About a year later come to find out he has 4 boys. The youngest being 8. At first I was afraid to be with someone ... (542 words)

These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. I found a receipt and on ... (287 words)

How can I tell my dad I've slept with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So i live with my dad and step mom. My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and we have had sex. (both our 1st times). I want to tell my dad because i tell him everything, but im the only child so he's sometimes overbearing. But my dad and i have a trust ... (85 words)

I can't live with him... but I can't live without him either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for about six months now and at the current moment it's a constant struggle. It's long distance and i only see him at weekends yet that at the beginning was totally fine as i am at Uni during the week and he works etc but recently the weekends have ... (281 words)

How should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to break up with my bf of 2 years as he has no time for me any more and talking to him about it hasn't gotten through, its been 2 days since he's called. What way is harsher and make him think oh my god I miss her... completely ignoring him by not answering fone cal... (76 words)

Opinions on age difference please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I met a boy... and we had fun and he was so nice! At some point he squeezed my knee tenderly and i got tinkles in my stomach! But there's one 'problem', or I think it's a problem! He's 16 almost 17 and i just turned 18... and i can't decide whether i think it's a p... (89 words)

Dream for math teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is weird. I know you guys may think this is another question about liking my teacher, but its def not. I used to have feelings for my teachers because i made them up to be these great people with amazing lives. But as i have gotten to know them i have lost that interest ... (406 words)

Am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me had unprotected sex. About three days after i thought i had gotten my period(but it was too early for that to start) My periods usually last around a week, this one lasted about four days... emplantation bleeding or period? Im not stressing at all so lol ... (58 words)

Not sure what to expect

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been one week since my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex. I cant take a test now because of it being too early. I'd like to know what symptoms could start happening in the first week or two, if any, for pregnancy. Every woman is different...have you heard of anything... (59 words)

Why would he act so differently from real life and on msn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to ask about a guy's mind. Why would a guy behave so differently on msn from real life? For example, on msn, when you tell him that you are struggling on something or tell him you are sad..., he would somewhat comfort you. But in real life, he would say things... (277 words)

Why did he do this if he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello About the boy I told you that I thought he fancied me the signs he gave me my brothers friend Well my brother and his girlfriend told him and I came outside and he told me in my face sorry but nah he don’t fancy me I said to him that’s cool with a smile and wal... (340 words)

Understanding a dream?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - In simple terms, I want to know what my dream means. The people in the dream were me and the 4 guys that I have fancied since I have been going to secondary school. I have been out with 2 of these 4 guys, 1 of them I am going out with now, but our relationship see... (202 words)

How to stop being jealous of my ex best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really jealous of my ex best friend. She's prettier than me, more successful than me in all areas of life (eg: academically) she's popular and has more friends than me, has a really hot boyfriend in her life (the guy I had a secret crush on for years!). We were best friends ... (137 words)

Should I tell the new girl that I'm not quite over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a new relationship with a female at college. not too long ago i broke up with someone. i'm not completely 100% over my ex however i havent said anything to this new girl. should i mention her? or is that a bad idea? or is the fact that im seeking another relationship ... (82 words)

Is it normal to fall for a guy whom you have been chatting to for several months online with, only after one meeting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this normal for me to feel this way about him? Is it normal to fall for a guy whom you have been chatting to for several months online with, only after one meeting, we have had a few disagreements and have been through a bit together, even though we haven't got together... (242 words)

What should I do? I really like him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently i'm 20 and i have been having feelings both emotional and sexual towards my mum's cousin's husband's brothers son. We have always said we r cousins even tho we are not related through blood. We have been close for about seven years. i Broke up with my ex last sept and ... (109 words)

How can I get my relationship back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, me and my boyfriend of seven months have been arguing a hell of a lot. He's usually very sweet and caring, and considerate of my feelings. As of recently, however, he's been thinking of himself more than me. He'll do something even if he knows it upsets me a lot. ... (254 words)

Now that we're broken up I miss her love and care a lot...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I didnt love my girlfriend and i broke up.... I am sick of missing her now... after we broke up we decided to stay as friends but she seeked closure in that too so i decided to break all contacts and just ignored her. She used to be so concerned about me and nothing changed ... (201 words)

How can I convince him that he should call his parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have a problem. He isn't in touch with his parents, doesnt even want to call them. This all started when we moved in together, and escalated when he didnt call them to say that we got married (it was a small, impromptu wedding). It's slowly driving m... (217 words)

My football coach is getting too cosy for my liking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I posted a question a few months back concerning this. Now i have more to think about. I like my football coach and i think he might know. He is the number one person i trust in my life - he knows everything about me and vice versa. That's not the thing i am writing about th... (210 words)

Can men just use people to write to for company?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys who have been away from loved ones - either in prison or the forces:- When men write letters to their loved ones (for example girlfriends or female friends) - do they show their true feelings or are they just wanting company from pen friends? - Can men just use people t... (58 words)

I feel really self conscious when I'm on top as everything jiggles about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really self conscious when me and my bf have sex when I'm on top. I'm 5 feet even and about 130 pounds. I'm not fat, just curvy. I feel like when I'm on top he's sees everything moving, and finds it unattractive so I try not to make eye contact. ... (52 words)

What to do when you can't do no more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfreind have been together for almost 4 years, she was 5 months pregnant with our daughter when we met, she's 3 and we have a son, he is legally mines. Me and my gf fight a lot, I usually end up the only one trying to talk it out but all she does is blame me. She ... (173 words)

Choosing between 2 colleges

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need help. I want to be a photographer, and I have to choose between two different colleges. I can go to college "one", which will cost $30, 000 and take me 3 years to save for. this course goes for two years and when I finish I will have a diploma in photography. ... (187 words)

Is there a chance he might actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy in my class we allways joke around but his always mean to me..he calls me ugly then i call him ugly back and then he says i should shave my face cuz its hairy and i get mad and stop talking to him then he says he's sorry..i call him ugly too but i told me friend ... (81 words)

Our friendship is falling apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend is getting annoying i think she is bipolar please help me..i have a best friend and i text her all the time 24/7 we're soo opposite of each other but we are the biggest dorks around each other..sometimes over texts we get into a fight and argument and we starting ... (140 words)

Is he completely over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please read the whole thing and help me outttt a few months ago i liked this guy he said we should hang out i asked him if he meant by asking me out he never wrote back.then on new years i sent him happy new years and he asked me to sent him my picture and i did..like a desper... (146 words)

Is my boyfriend too flirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a naturally flirtacious person who likes to make people laugh.he has quite a few friends as girls. Some r ex girlfriends! He isnt trying to hid anything and is always honest that when he goes out he does get girls come upto him because of this! He tells me he ... (144 words)

I'm 19 and pregnant. The father is addicted to pot and drinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ~I'm 19 and pregnant and the farther is addicted to weed and drinking. My first problem was started a year ago last January when I started to date a guy that was defiantly not the kind I use to date. He was wild almost right out of person. He didn't scare me. Little did I... (1287 words)

I have to lie to my parents to be able to go to a bizarre party, I'm nervous, what do you think?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay tomorow well pretty much today im qoinq to this party at some popular girls house with my friends. theres going to be alchohol and lots of high schoolers and smoking and i dont know what to do. ive really never been to a party. and i have to lie to my parents saying im ... (97 words)

First time sex for gay and 34

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Thinking about it, I guess I was waiting for the right person to do it and the right time. Being me now, at this time, I'm realizing that you just have to go for it if you find someone who wants to be with you.... A little history, I knew I was gay since my puberty, but ... (128 words)

What can I do to teach him to be more affectionate and intimate with me?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been seeing each other for 3 years. We have been living together for 2.5 years. I have a son and he has two daughters from previous marriage. I cant help but feeling that there is something big missing in our relationship. I love him and I know that he loves me but ... (120 words)

He can't keep an erection and I am too young to forgo this part of my life! Help?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year we are both in our late forties and married for 20 years and divorced. He shared withme while we had been dating for 2 or 3 weeks that he had diabetes and therefore can not get an erection. I do love him and he has recently moved ... (292 words)

I skipped the depo shot that was due in April, how long before I can start ovulating again?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I took my first depo shot in jan. My next one was due in april ,but I didn't get it, because me and my boyfriend want to start having kids. Well, how long untill my body goes back to normal and I can start ovulating again?... (46 words)

How can you tell the difference between comfort and love?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very happy in my relationship, but not passionate about it. I don't want to leave it, but don't know that this is it. It would be hard not to be with him, but I don't see myself with him forever either. How can you tell the difference between comfort and love? ... (56 words)

I like my new job but it's very challenging and coworkers are not supportive, any advice?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, This is not a "love" question per say, but I am struggling right now and would like to hear from others who may be. I have a job that I really like, and I feel like I am failing miserably at it. Its very demanding and challenging. The problem is that I keep making mi... (280 words)

Pregnancy and due dates?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so my problem is based on due dates in pregnancy. Anyway, i am 23 weeks pregnant and my LMP was November 9 2008 which would make me 24 weeks 6 days. I had an ultrasound on the 30th December 2008 and the guy said that i am due 25-08-2009 and was 5 weeks and 6 days. Accordin... (210 words)

How do I know or find out if my friend still likes me like he did a year ago?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Soo heres the thing. At least a year and a hald ago, my best friend asked me out. At the time i couldnt date, so i had to say no, and he understands that. Now that i can date, i would reallly really really! love to be his girlfriend...but i dont want to make him love me though. ... (143 words)

He was flirting with another girl, what should I do next?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I don't understand my crush at school, i'm pretty sure he likes me, but then today while he knows that he was in my sight he was flirting with the girl that he was sitting with..they were kind of play fighting, I can only think he was trying to make me jealous, but why? Is ... (168 words)

I'm scared, I don't want to have feelings for my ex, I love my b/f!

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2 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello all! My two best friends are my whole world, but here's my problem. One is my bf, and the other is my exbf. Tonight, my bf (whom I love very much) was out of town, and I had tickets to a play. I invited my girl-friends first, but I ended up bringing my ex with me. I ne... (150 words)

Does he not want me at his place?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy that I was seeing a few months back recently contacted me...we kind of just stopped talking. Out of the blue he gets in touch with me last week, and he's asking if I want to meet up with him sometime to hang out. Before when we were seeing each other, he would always ... (101 words)

I want to know, will I be a bad person if I have sex?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help....I am 14 and i have been dating this 17 year old for almost 9 months and we have did oral....And I think im ready for PROtected sex. I want to know will i be a bad person if i do this? ... (44 words)

I easily obsess over a girl when I have feelings for her

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - everytime i like a girl, i obsess... big time! i'm 20 years of age + i cant get this 14 year old girl outta my head! it's crazy!! i've never met her + probably never will because we live in different countries but i do know what she looks like. it's an online thing between us. ... (124 words)

My best friend introduced me to an abuser, and still wants to hang with him

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been best friends with 'Jill' for well over ten years. In August of 2007 she met up with me downtown and brought one of her co-workers with named 'Jack'. We ended up hitting it off and he asked me out shortly after. We ended up dating for over a year, and during the l... (356 words)

He dumped me for another girl -- what can I do?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - k well it all started when my ex-boyfriend...let's call him "Tom"....well anyway I loved Tom but I could see he was losing interest in me. He started hanging out with this other girl let's call her "Kelly". Kelly and Tom started hanging out more than me and Tom. About two ... (297 words)

How can I get past the hurt... how can I trust him again?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I broke up with my partner. In that time he had two other women. (seperately) anyway recently we have been talking a lot and the other nite he rang and asked if he could come over. We had a good talk and he told me that he wants to be with me. The feelings between us are ... (125 words)

Should I be worried or grateful that my wife wants to have a threesome with me and another woman?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A month into our relationship, my wife confessed to me that she is bi-sexual and had had a few girl-on-girl experiences back in college. It's now been five years since we got together and two years since we've been married. No children yet, but the other day, she mentioned ... (121 words)

I want to have a wife with whom I can discuss things that are heavily scientific and who can understand reality at my level of thought.

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve been friends with this woman since 1st grade, although between grades 5 and 6 I moved to another area and we didn’t see much of each other. We’ve kept in touch by every now and then emailing back and forth or talking on the phone, and sometimes we’ve lived in the same city ... (381 words)

Why is she seeming so distant with me?

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and have been out of the dating game for several years after an extremely hard breakup just before college. Now I've started dating this wonderful young woman and it seemed like everything was going great... But something started eating away at me, and now I am ver... (1348 words)

How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?... (13 words)

Crisis: My hatred for writing is making me miserable

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2 May 2009 (M)

- I’m 25 and I’m really embarrassed to say that I’m having a crisis tonight because I hate writing reports. This problem has really grown out of proportion and I’m so miserable right now. It’s been a problem in the past but now my head feels like it’s spinning. I wish it were ... (477 words)

How do I handle this relationship?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best guy friend of over a decade and I decided to have sex last night just to see what it'd be like with each other. Well, while he was inside me, he confessed to me that he loves me. The sex was so utterly great and the fact that he told me he loves me made all coherent ... (229 words)

Was I used for sex?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - was i used for sex? I saw this guy in the evenings and usually had sex. It was a bit of a FWB situation. It went on for a few months. I never really went out much with him or hung out with each others friends. Also, as a girl, you can tell when a guy is into you and i di... (163 words)

I screwed up with my g/f and wnat her back badly!

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story short, she is the first girl I have ever had deep feelings for and I didn't know how to handle that so after couple of months I became clingy. Every time I look back on how I acted I feel like kicking myself because, rather than just being myself (which was working ... (227 words)

I'm becoming less and less my true self

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, Okay, here's the deal. I have this friend, let's just call her "Alice". So Alice has epilepsy because of a cyst on her spine she had as a child which has given her permanent nerve damage and a bad back. People often think she's retarded because of her poor motor skills a... (502 words)

Is he? Or is he not?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question. I have always doubted my ex husband's sexuality. Let me tell you why I always doubted. When I was dating him, he told me about this gay guy who wrote and send him love letters. He would say it in a surprised way and stated he even stoped reading them. He had ... (390 words)

Does it sound like I'm prego, or what?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15, i've been on Birth Control for 3 months now, my mom forced me but im pretty bad at remembering to take them so id say i miss 12-15 pills per month. I always get my usual week long period, normal nothing strange. On 4/25/09 tho my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, we ... (146 words)

My ex came back and said he wants to work things through..but runs hold and cold

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex recently got in touch with me after he broke up with me several months ago, said he missed me and wanted to work through things. It would be a long road but he is not going anywhere. I so want things to work out so thought great. We started to spend some quality ti... (255 words)

He loves me...he loves me not

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2 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why would my ex come back after break, then say he wants to be single, as seeing me confuses him? He came back to me saying we wants to be with me, then two weeks later says seeing me confuses him and that he wants to be single at the minute.. i know he really loves me.... (72 words)

I don't think she has my best interests at heart...

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2 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I have this friend of mine, I say she's my friend, I wasnt working for a year and a half, she is working, we chat and laugh on the phone about her business. during that year she never called me then one day she called and asks me if I'd found a job, or that she heard about ... (126 words)

Friendly neighbours?

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2 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I am living on my own, I am new to the environment, I don't talk to my neighbours and they don't talk to me. I don't rush to say good morning, they don't either, only the guys talk to me, and have been friendly only 2 guys, what do you think about this?... (53 words)

Is flirting one step away from cheating???

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on my boyfriends computer and i was going to check my Myspace. But he was already logged on and it said he had 9 Messeges. I was curious so i clicked. (I didnt find 9 new messeges) But i did find a conversation he was having with some girl This is the actual conversa... (410 words)

Is friendship unconditional?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Really need some advice about a friendship please. Friendship works both ways doesnt it? - Both ppl giving and taking? What if the taking is mainly done by one person? they dont even know that they do it, they have their own problems at the moment, and they are goi... (420 words)

How to make a somewhat long-distance relationship work out?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now, and we live 2 1/2 hours apart so it has been kind of hard. We usually get to see each other on the weekends, but occasionally have to skip one or two. It has been kind of hard on our relationship, so I was just ... (91 words)

My boyfriend's friend doesn't like me... how do I deal with this?

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2 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we've been 7 months with my boyfriend.. and it's the first time i can feel that one of his church mates was not just into me. I mean, doesn't like me for him. there's this one time when i checked on my boyfriend's friendster account and read one of his friend's comment..and ... (270 words)