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writes: Well I know that I am going to get alot of slack for this one, but here it is. I am a married woman and having an affair with a married man. We both never talk about leaving our spouses. I know its wrong, and so does he. Obviously we stuck I guess. Lately he's been asking me if I love him. Can it really be love, if it started out as purely sexual?
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reader, newphone  +, writes (7 June 2009):
Hello married,You will not getting any slack from me, im in the same situation, married and my lover is married as well, i asked her if she loved me and she said yes always and forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Hmm life must be "really great". Anyway from everything you said I don't think it is love. It's just sex. Prolly good sex I'd hope but not much more than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Does it really matter if it's love? If neither one of you are going to leave your spouses, you'll never find out if it could be love because right now, you only get to see glimpses of the best parts of each other: the excitement, etc. You never get to see the daily routine of the person and all their different sides- that's love when you know all that and still love them for it. It's easy to be charming and exciting when you only have to do it in increments, like an actor/actress. All you can offer each other is empty words and sex.
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