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He is withdrawing from me and I am worried it is because of my weight

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Question - (27 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *axmi writes:

So, I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. However, lately he has not been talking much with my. I feel like he is withdrawimg from me. He is going through a lot of stress, due to his mom being sick. SO i dont press the fact that he isnt talking. BUT, I dont feel sexy to him. We dont go out anymore, we stay home. Sometimes I feel he doesnt make an effort to do anything. I am not slim, I am a heavy girl, and He did tell me one time when we first started dating that he wants me to lose some weight it will be good for my health. But I feel that now hee isnt happy with the way I look. M

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Sorry, bad news effects everyone differently, the news of his mum has probably knocked him into the middle of last summer but because he's a male he might feel he shouldn't talk to anyone about how he feels:)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

My ex girlfriend was the same, when her dad got sick and later died, and she used that as the excuse why she wasn't showing me any affection, but it turned out she just wasn't interest in me. I think you should talk to him about it tho. Hope i've not mad you feel worse.

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