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writes:im 16. my boyfriend is 18. he knows how i feel about sex and he is able to wait until im ready. im still a virgin. we've been together 3months. just recently him and my mom got into a huge arguement.. about how she is overprotective. she got pissed and told him to get the f**k out of the house and to stay away from me or she would call the police. he is really serious about wanting to be with me and he truly does love me.. and i feel the same. but i want to still make it work, but how? she doesnt want me with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): You don't know this guy very well after only three months, and he showed a lot of disrespect for your mom who had a lot to do with how you turned out as a young woman and is still in charge of the household and of you.
You would be best to kick this loser to the curb, listen to your mom....I agree with the other aunts on this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Your mother was deeply disrespected by your bf. I guess speaking as a Mom, myself, who has raised adolescents-I'm wondering why your bf would even get into an argument with your Mom about something that was really...none of his business. This is your Mother, girl--her rules stand, whether he likes it or not. Your Mother chooses to conduct her raising of you, setting boundaries, making hard and fast rules and expecting you to listen to her-- as something very important to keeping you safe. Your bf really had no right to criticize her for that. I would question the character of any guy who treated my family in such a way. You need to take a hard look at 'why' he did that. Your bf displayed no respect for your Mother and he needs to apologize to her, if you want this to be fixed. And you need to tell him that. I don't know if that will work..but it's a start for him to learn about honoring and respecting the lady who raised the lovely girl, that he's dating. Your bf was out of line.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (27 May 2009):
 personally if daughters boyfriend had the nerve to argue with me he would be out to. i dont blame her for being upset. that argument took place in her home right? your still young your mom reallly knows what to do and what is good for you. listen to her,
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): I think it's a pretty bad sign, very disrespectful, that this young man got into an argument with your mother in her house. He was totally out of line telling her how to parent her own daughter and if this is how he treats women and authority figures, you are going to have some problems on your hands. You probably won't listen to your mom or anyone on here about him and you may have to learn the hard way but just know you were warned. When he starts treating you poorly, you won't be able to act like the victim and claim "I don't understand why he treats me like this, he was so nice to me in the beginning".
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