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What did he mean? Did he want to hold hands with me? What do I do here?

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Question - (27 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hiya everyone, a bit of a dilemma, im still mates with my ex bf and talk to him all the time, anyway monday i spent most of the evening with him, his mate and mine, anyway when i bought him a drink he came over and said to me im going to mount you and he said better believe it, anyway that nite he drove my car and took me and my mate for a drive, next thing i know, he was taking my mate home then going back to his house but the truth is he touched my boobs and got his dick out, next thing i know im there giving him a blowjob, and i didnt feel quilty, about it, as i still like him, but he has a gf and she's 5 weeks pregnant and have been together for 4 months,

Then tuesday i saw him again and he came and sat next to me bum facing my body and he put his hands behind his back, me thinking that he wanted the money i owed him gave him the money but when i gave it to him he said to me i didnt mean that

what does he mean, did he want to hold hands with me

Please help me im confused. People often say that there must still be some feelings for me to want me to give him a blowjob when he has a gf.

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A female reader, krazykira22 United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2009):

krazykira22 agony auntbabe i need more info to make a judgement, message me and ill get back to you x

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A female reader, krazykira22 United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2009):

krazykira22 agony auntbabe thats tricky, i think id need more information about it to make a judgement, if you want me to help message me and we will see what i can do, if not good luck with it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

No, just because a guy accepts a no strings attached blow job doesn't mean he has any romantic feelings! I'd say the opposite, almost degrading. There's nothing romantic about it. Your feelings weren't taken in consideration at all! Then, to top it off, you don't owe him the money anymore like you paid him back by giving him head like some prostitute. Sorry to be harsh but you really need to look at how bad this is.

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